Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Is The Red Pill WRONG About MARRIAGE?" video.

  1. Why should young men get married? Why should they risk EVERYTHING for the rest of their lives, when women have massive incentives to divorce them for cash and prizes? They have seen what happened to men like me, and they don't want to go through it. Its not fear, its not that they are intimidated by women, or want to control them, its a simple cost benefit analysis. The risks are far greater than any benefit for them, and men being logical beings are not going to take a risk with zero pay off. The ONLY thing they get out of it is spicy time with her, and the problem is there is NOTHING keeping her from giving that to anyone else she wants. In fact she will be rewarded for doing that by the state. She is rewarded for doing everything wrong while he is punished regardless of what he does. Change the laws, remove the incentives for women to divorce, and stop punishing men for being fathers and husbands. Metaphor: Lets say there is a busy street with a delicious ice cream stand on the other side. Would you cross the street if two of every ten men who cross are hit by a bus? Would you cross if it were 4 of ten? Well its 8 out of ten get hit by the bus, and the ice cream isn't all that great over there. I crossed the street twice, and it cost me everything except for some rusty old cars. The religious couples are divorcing too now, so you can forget that. I am 54 and my final divorce was ten years ago, my life is vastly better now than it ever was with a woman in it. Its all take on their end, and no giving back. So I am done, and no matter how many times they hit on me, I know they are not worth the effort and risk. Stop. Punishing. Men. and stop rewarding women for anything and everything they do. Otherwise, yeah men are not going to play that game where its all massive risk.
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  2. Heartbreak? That is meaningless to be honest, but living in your car or under a bridge while you work a full time job, because the state is taking nearly all the money you make and giving it to the cheating ex wife... yeah, that is a lot worse than heartbreak. My first wife took off with my kids, moved them 1500 miles away, exposed them to less than honorable males who did things to them, then prevented me from seeing them for years all with the assistance of the state. The state also took 71% of my gross pay as child support, leaving me sleeping in my car and on friend's couches while I was active duty in the USAF from 2001 to 2004. When I was injured on my 04 deployment, and medically discharged in 2005 being unable to work anymore, the state so zero difference between disabled and deadbeat. I still had to pay despite having no income until 2007, no way to work, and then when the VA decided I was 100% disabled it was barely enough for me to survive. My home state broke several laws, both state and federal, and I have zero recourse. Now WHY should young men sign up for that? Because my story is ubiquitous, it is not an outlier. Both of my ex wives cheated, I never did. The first mistreated me and my kids, and the cops always wanted to arrest me because I am twice her size and VERY capable of defending myself, and yet I never harmed her in any way.. I still have scars from what she did, with impunity and the state behind her. Stop incentivizing women to act poorly, and stop punishing men for what women do. Its not fear, its a very bad choice to make, because there is zero benefit for men.
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