Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Women Divorce Their Husbands And Get BITTER AF When They Move On With Something Better" video.

Been divorced from one for 22 years, 10 years from the other. BOTH of them caused the pursued the divorce, and neither of them are doing well. I am doing very well, and no longer date. Men have to pay for the bad choices of women, we are held accountable, they are rewarded for bad behavior.
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@loganblackwood2922 yep, the first one (30 at the time) was beyond pissed when I hooked up with the second one (21 when I met her) and that she was thin. Here I am ten years intentionally and permanently single, own 13 acres of woodland, a bunch of old muscle cars (I build them) built my house and the shop where I build the cars... and the best part is I am debt free with a passive income just under $100k. Where they are. 1 is 49, over 300lbs at 5'4", in debt so deep she will never get out of it, has a problem with ox y cont in, and is married to a spineless unambitious guy ten years older than I am. He is almost done with life, and he has tried to leave her three times now because she is so bad to everyone. When he shucks his morrtal coil, she will be left with $1300 a month, which is less than her mortgage payment. The second one lives alone in a small shack her mom rents for her, has a part time job that pays $500 a month, she is 41 and can't get a date. The guy she left for took off and now she hates men. They both thought they could do better. In reality they were both holding me back.
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NEVER take them back. They will just do it again, they get one chance and if they louse it up, do not give them another.
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@@ConontheBinarian both of my ex's involved them. I had no choice, and the judges forced me to pay for their lawyers, when they were the ones who stepped out, did everything wrong, and lied about everything. Men are held responsible and punished for women's actions.
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They cause these problems with poor choices, then when they realize what they are missing, they blame all of us for what they did.
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@dixonbourne with enough effort and sacrifice, yeah... I am finally winning. Just in time to beat the clock of life, now I have all the toys, and am too broken to enjoy them ... heh...
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My first ex filed for divorce trying to get me to obey her and hand over my entire paycheck. I came home on leave she wanted to give it another chance. She stayed the night at my parents house, I slept well away from her. The next morning she started another irrational fight with me, and I told her there was no damn way she could ever come back to me. She made my life hell for 8 years living with her, and kept me impoverished for another 15 years. She was horrible to me and my kids, but was rewarded for it with 71% of my gross pay.
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@@ConontheBinarian yeah I am not disagreeing with you, but expounding further. I don't see marriage as any sort of benefit for men, its nothing but risk, and a massive risk at that. Its not the women, its not marriage itself, its not commitment that is the issue, its what happens to men when the marriage is dissolved.
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@Ninja-please yes they are, and they hooked up with males more aligned with their status in life. I noticed that with the second one because my life improved so much after she was gone. Its like everyone is a fish tank, and you connect a hose to the bottom of each tank with a relationship. If one is significantly higher than the other, it will drain water into the other to reach equilibrium. They got guys who were at the same level.
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@El_Hoy_BTC no worries, there are no plans to change it because its truth in advertising. Just like my name.
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@summer7603 physically broken, as in gimpy, hobbled, limping, etc. Chronic pain makes things oh so much more enjoyable..heh.. could be worse, I could be missing stuff.
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@GereldJohnson put in enough work and effort, and you eventually start winning. Thanks man.
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ApexSelva I've seen it countless times, going back 35 years to when I first enlisted. military females would hop around to different guys, I know some military people who were married 7+ times. Like my TI in basic, he was married 8 times and he admonished us not to marry the first piece of tail we got once we were at our first base. I was out almost two years before I married the first ex. Never dated any military females. They are the lowest quality you will ever find.
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@@ConontheBinarian you are the exception. What happened to be is ubiquitous. More often than not, she is vindictive, capricious, and spiteful. Usually it stems from her stepping out and the way they assuage their guilt is to blame the man for everything and be reprehensible towards him. Both of my ex's did exactly that, and several of them I dated did as well. It got to the point that when I was done dating someone because her attitude was terrible or she was acting poorly, I would get super nice, ask her for spicy time, and acquiesce to her on small matters. Within a week she is gone, at most two weeks, and she thinks its her idea so I don't have drama and fabricated assertions level at me with the police. 2018 was the last time I was seeing anyone regularly. Its too much of a risk to allow them into my life. I wish it were legal to pay them for spicyfuntime. Its all I want from them.
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@Darktrooper99 yeah.. I trusted them to be adults and do the right thing. Ya can't do that with women.... They have no accountability nor responsibility.
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@loganblackwood2922 thanks man, takes lots of work to rebuild. Imagine how much fun I would have missed out on if I took the easy way out...
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