Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "45 years old, Never been MARRIED, no KIDS and no FRIENDS" video.

  1. Ya know, the range of people regarding every attribute of human existence, varies greatly. Some people are smarter than others, some are more adaptable or flexible to changing environments. To have friends, you have to be someone that people want to be around. If you need ethanol or weeds to achieve that, there is something lacking. To have money, you need to focus on getting it, put in the work and make it happen, some people aren't interested in lots of money (like me, I have enough to do what I want) others want money but have no idea how to get it, most people don't want to put in the work to get it. The guys who put in the work and focus on it, get what they work for. You won't get rich working for someone else, you have to find a niche you can utilize and make your money there if you want to get ahead of the crowd. That takes a hell of a lot more work and time than working for someone else. It takes discipline and motivation too. Most men, myself included, have friends because of a common interest. Most of my friends are car guys, we build, race, and drive cars. I'm not friends with many of the guys who have an old car that only leaves the garage for a car show, just one to be honest. He's old, pushing 80, and owns a numbers matching 69 Judge, and a 65 GTO kinda like mine as in not original but a nice driver, but his is nicer for sure. I don't have many friends who aren't into cars and trucks, but the ones I do have other similar interests like RC planes/boats/cars, or long distance hole makers. If you don't do anything, you won't make friends. You have to go somewhere, talk to people, and have a common interest beyond bottles and papers.
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