Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Men Are Starting To Understand They Are The PRIZE And Women Are FREAKING OUT" video.

When you tell women they are better than men, stronger, faster, smarter, and show them that in movies and TV shows all the time, they start to believe it. Tell them they are op pressed by men, they believe it. Tell them that having a job and working full time is better than having a family, they believe it. Give them free stuff and opportunities that men do not get, and they will keep people in power that will continue to give them things and absolve them of responsibility. No its not organic.
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@napolim214 my first wife still complains to my kids about me buying a 1970 GTO in 1994. We have been divorced since 2001. I still have that car, and many others. She said "He just did whatever he wanted, no matter what I said." She tried to forbid me from buying it and doing the other car things I do. When I am seeing someone and she says, "Why don't you sell all these old cars and buy a new one?" she never hears from me again. Its not really my hobby, more of a lifestyle for me.
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@nikoryu-lungma getting lots of women doesn't prove a man's value, it can make him far more attractive to other women, but usually has a negative affect on him with men. How do I know that? I have a high number, somewhere between 150 and 200. However, I was not trying to get a high number, I was trying to find one I could trust that would build our lives together. As it turns out, they mostly just wanted something from me, not really me. The experience of having a man who is built like a gorilla moving her internal organs round, being seen with that man, or something of monetary value. A few tried to get cars and cash out of me, but I never really had money. My value doesn't have much to do with it, apparently my face was good looking to them, and they like muscle which I have in abundance. I have never been wealthy and never plan to be. I do fun things often, mostly with my old cars, and the vehicles are the main focus of my life.. and have been for 4 decades now. Everything else supports the vehicle thing... heh.. That is attractive to them. If you have value to them, they will want to be with you, and man without value needs something physical. Muscle, money, stature, etc. I could get women because I know how to talk to them, could tell which ones were interested and which were not, have infinite confidence (which comes from being tested and building myself to pass those tests), and I have muscle with a deep voice. I am 5'8" and have been over 240lbs since 1991. Got down to 215 in 2001 on a deployment, but mostly I have been 240 or heavier. Not exactly the pinnacle of the male physique. If you think getting lots of them means you have high value, you're doing it wrong and thinking about it wrong. They are not logical, they run on emotion and you can short or exploit those emotions so easy its like a hack in a game. What men value in each other and themselves is very different than what women value in us. Our value lies in what we know, can do, can solve, and have accomplished. Theirs is in youth and beauty, and most of them squander it.
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@r.dennison5042 thats cool, I've bene looking for a woman who wants to go drag racing and do other fun things with cars. Ten years since my divorce and I have only found one, who lives 7 hours away. We are still friends though. It was a huge change for me, because she would get tickets to concerts then tell me to drive down and go with her. Took me to a Cubs game, and it was the first pro sports event I have ever been to that was not drag racing. Women like her are exceptionally rare.
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@nikoryu-lungma fresh and fit and their ilk are pushing a different idea than what RP was and has been. They use it to get some, and RP knowledge can be used that way, because its simply about reality rather than narrative and wishful fantasy. The metaphor used in the matrix movies can be used to describe religion, ideology, cults, and society itself. Once you see it for what it actually is, you are no longer held by it, but you can go in and mess around all you want like Neo.. heh.. They use that knowledge to get spicy time. Masculinity is on a downward spiral because fathers are not allowed to be in their kids lives, unless they fit the narrative. Mothers throw dads out unless they obey ever without question, because thats what society tells her to demand and do if he doesn't obey. You have a few men who lead the family and the wife knows her job is to support him, while she also knows if she leaves him she will never get one better than she has now. My brother has that going on, his wife is one of very few women who has earned my respect. Men follow competence, capability, knowledge, and its all based on merit. You must earn your place among men, it is not given. Leadership is important, as is honor and loyalty, if a man has none of those three, he is an outcast and rightfully so. If a woman has none of those, she is simply female. Its not her job to be a leader while honor and loyalty are not useful for her. She is different than men. It is what it is. I learned about leadership in the USAF, who was a tyrant, who was capable and competent, and who was under the impression that they needed to micromanage everything and everyone. The weak ones became tyrants. The incapable and less than competent were not respected. The NCO above you having no loyalty to his subordinates was far less effective at motivating people. You have to fight for your guys when they deserve it, not jump on the bandwagon and bash them yourself. I was the type of NCO who treated them like adults, here is your job, go handle it without causing damage to anything. I would watch what was going on as I worked with them, and if someone was being unsafe I would address it with them. The only time I ever raised my voice was to be heard over jet or diesel engines. People liked working with and for me, because I knew what the hell I was doing, I fought for them when they needed me to, and I worked along side them in the weather rather than sitting in an office somewhere. I had military and civilian air crews asking for me personally, by name, to come work their planes, because everything went so smoothly and any issues with the cargo were addressed right there quickly and efficiently. I found that being really good at what you do means you get to do more of it. Before I got out on a medical in 2005, they had me supervising ten airmen in two different duty sections on two different shifts, I only worked with two of them. Also I had 12 extra duties, including safety NCO and vehicles NCO, which meant I was often staying well past my 12 hour shift's end to handle things, I usually got 4 to 6 hours of sleep 2003 to 2005 and went without sleep for 2 to 5 days several times while I was in. Leadership and masculinity go hand in hand. Decisiveness, being able to function under incredible stress, and making good decisions every time is what earns respect from subordinates. People will follow you if you are competent and can solve problems and get the job done. If everything you do fails, they will not follow you. If you have no idea what you are doing, nobody will follow you. If you demand they obey and demand they respect you, they will not. All of that is lost on young males today. They have no idea how it works or why. Females can't really grasp it either, they think being a Karen is being a good strong leader, they have no freakin clue how it works. The worst NCOs I had above me were weak males and females. Capricious, vindictive, petty, and they mistreated me because they were intimidated by me physically and mentally. They outranked me because they had been in longer. I could write a novel on what those poor 'leaders' did to me over the years, just because they could. Several of them ended up with bad conduct discharges for what they did to me. I vowed to NEVER mistreat anyone like they did to me and to defend other members from being mistreated like I was. You're right about fighting, in the respect you described it, and also in being capable of inflicting grievous harm on others. Every male knows that there is always the probability of a disagreement going physical. Standing your ground to someone who is obviously more dangerous than you are is either foolhardy or brave. Which that might be depends on your competence and capability. Men are both simple and complex, as is masculinity. Most people simply don't know what it is, but they will have an opinion on it based on people like Tate and Fresh and Fit... rather than on someone who actually deserves it.
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@bartonnink3896 he is inferring that you and the rest of us prefer to be dominated by females.. probably his kink. Like those skinny twig looking dudes who get sat on by enormous women.
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