Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Older Women Are Angry Men Don't Approach Or Give Them Attention" video.

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  5. I'm polite in public, If they speak to me I reply, and I am cordial. Looking like a silverback gorilla means I have to be polite... or the sheriff calls me later and tells me I can't go to that store anymore. They usually smile when they make eye contact, I do not smile back. If one of them is ahead of me in the check out line, looks back and appears afraid, I will say something to put her at ease and let her know I am not interested in doing anything harmful. Usually I make them laugh. Its really amusing when they see me walk out to my shiny 65 GTO or 70 Cuda, and put my stuff in and I don't acknowledge them. Its incongruent with how I dress, often I'm wearing the clothes I work in, building cars, welding, etc. Lots of my stuff comes from Tractor Supply and Menards. The tell is the $300 redwing work boots they seem to miss. Those are the only shoes that hold up more than a year. In summer '24 I will be driving more than just those two. They'd never suspect that I have more than just the one they see me drive. Its been years since I asked anyone out. I've offered to be friends, and being my friend is beneficial to them, but they think they are so much better than I am. Its most amusing... I have one female friend who is into cars, she has a 67 Mustang and she likes women. We help her out with it, and she is fun to hang out and talk to. She is like one of the guys, she is featured in one of my shorts no less. Female friends are ok with me, but I am done with romantic interests.
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  7.  @muhdiversity7409  I take VERY rusty old cars, and rebuild them into nice shiny daily drivers with lots of power, and its vastly less expensive and far more rewarding than any relationship I had with females. I cleared 3 acres of trees and used some of the larger maples to build my shop where I build the cars. Something I could never afford to do when I had a female living with me. They kept me broke and I had to be concerned with keeping enough cash around to cover emergencies. That means I had to take far fewer risks too. Its not that I don't like them, its not that I am angry with them, as I am quite fond of them as people and intimate partners. The problem is how they can take everything I have and invested in as a reward for doing everything wrong. Its that they cannot be trusted, so I don't even bother doing so. Enjoy the time with them, then let them see themselves out when they think they can do better, and they always think they can.. Yet they rarely have. My first ex cost me more money than I have invested in my 13 acres of land, 20 muscle cars, and the house and shop I built, with all the tools and equipment I have to rebuild cars. What do I have to show for it? One kid that hates me, and another that calls me when she needs money. Other than that... nothing. I lost from 1993 to 2015 and was kept from getting ahead at all the entire time. I barely made as much money as she had taken from me and handed to her in that time. There might be a 'hood one' out there somewhere, but I am not looking for her, because she is hidden by all the not good ones. Its like sifting through a stack of needles covered in Ebola, looking for a clean one. Not worth the risk and effort.
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