Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "THIS Is What Men Need To Be Doing To Avoid The TRAPS Of Society" video.
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@prussiansocietyofamerica here's what I have found about them, I am mid 50s. In their 20s they want me for fun, riding in my muscle cars, bedroom fun, etc.
In their 30s they have wasted their 20s, probably have a kid, and they have to work so they want someone to rescue them and make it so they don't have to work anymore. They want someone to fund their shopping spree and party life that they wasted their 20s on.
In their 40s they are starting to get desperate, so when they find a man who gives them tingles, they will do anything for him.. every orifice is fair game, and if she has some money she will spend it on you trying to keep you around. They are entering boxed wine and cat land in their 40s.
In their 50s they are worn down, desperate, depressed, and they reek of bad choices and regret. Above that the ones who used to be 9s are the only ones who get any attention in their 60s and older. They are deep in boxed wine and cat land after 45.
In their 20s they are like candy. Enjoy it and don't pay for it with them.
However, most guys, probably including you, are not going to be able to attract the average college chick when you're 40 or 50, because you don't look good... A guy with a comb over desperately clinging to his youth as it slips away, dyeing the ring of hair around the back of his head, trying to dress like a young man, usually buying a Corvette or something... yeah, they didn't build themselves in their 20s and 30s so they are invisible other than the wallet.
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@Djhylowmusic your mom did well, doesn't happen often. I have a female friend who is really good to me, she is annoying with some things she does, but she is dependable. I can call her if I need a ride to the ER, nobody else I know around here will answer or show. I keep her in a running vehicle because of that. However she is over 300lbs, does not have a pleasant aroma, and after all these years I prefer to live alone. So no, she will not get to live with me. We help each other out, like friends should.
The last one I was seeing was a single mom, she just turned 50 last year, was seeing her from 2015 to 18. Wonderful person, but she decided to end it with me to try out a firefighter, who dumped her two weeks later. We are still friends, talk often, and we have talked about this sort of thing often. I was the longest she has seen anyone since her divorce.
I am not putting myself out there, because of the lack of decent women in this area. If they are remotely attractive they decide they can do better and flake when I set something up. One flake and I never contact them again.
For me its not worth the stress and effort. They can leave whenever they want and take most of what I have built with them, even if we aren't married.
Oh and both of my ex wives say I mistreated them, which I did not. The first was the one who liked to fight, hit, and throw things. I have no interest in that, and I will not tolerate it in my life. The first sign of a woman being irrational or wanting to hit me, she is removed from my sphere of influence. Buh bye, GTFO. They like to hide that stuff and hope I will be submissive to them and hand over my wallet.. it doesn't work.
I figured out that I need to go grocery shopping during the day in the middle of the week, because its all old people in there. Cuts down on chicks trying to get my attention.
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@prussiansocietyofamerica from about 12 or 13 until I was 38 I had a high drive, needed to get some at least three times a week. Now at 54 I don't care anymore, I can go a year and not even realize it. My T is where it has been since I was in my 20s, but what the cost has been for getting some makes me far less interested in them.
Spent 9 years with my second ex, 8 before we got married. We never fought, argued, and we got along great. Then I got sick helping her dad by painting some stuff, and she decided she needed someone else. That guy left after 3 years, now she is alone, unwanted, going to be 41 this summer.
Meanwhile I am living in the house I built, on the land she wanted to buy before she met me, have enough money to do as I please, and I drive cool old cars. I get attention from women half her age all the time, but its too much effort to deal with them, because its a short term thing.
Its like going to the bar and spending your paycheck on beer. You're just pissing it away. Its funny how they say they are so oppressed and perpetual victims, but they can be given money for showing bobs and vagene. I had to work my ass off for what I have.
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I am 54, saw lots of guys like all of you over the years, did nothing in your 20s, barely anything in your 30s, by the time they hit 40 life has mostly passed them by as they wasted years. Then in their 50s they try to make something of themselves and can't figure out why they are invisible. All the while they desperately try to look younger.
I am 5'8 and I got LOTS of women, and that was part of the problem. Everything I built in my 20s and 30s, other than the muscle which doesn't go away easily, was taken from me in divorces. At 45 I was looking at a nearly empty parcel of land, and started building my home to replace the two I had lost. What a waste of time females are, they can jump on another peg D any time and YOU have to pay her to do it.
I guess I am kinda lucky since I still have hair on the top of my head, at 21 my military job endowed me with 22" arms, and the plumbing works good, but I would be vastly better off if I hadn't been forced into poverty no matter how much money I earned. Yeah I have chronic pain from two wars, but I have no debt, own my land, and I build old muscle cars for fun out of rusty heaps that no sane person would consider rebuilding... for fun. I did all of that in the last ten years since my final divorce left me living in a 1996 Tahoe.
Don't chase females, chase things that matter. I've been chasing knowledge, skills, and cars for a long time, and I caught quite a few of the cars. Money just lets me do things a bit faster, its not what drives me. Not having any makes it far more difficult to do what I want to do, but having a big pile of money doesn't do me much good either, its only when I use it that it does me any good. Chase money if you want, it comes and goes easily and quickly, besides the way things are going now its not going to be worth anything rather soon.
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