Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "THIS Is Raw Female Attraction | You Can't Negotiate What Women Want From Men" video.

  1.  @jonathanjacob5453  not always, sometimes they go with 'you're so confident' or they don't say anything verbally, but all their body language screams submission and attraction. I probably have had different experiences because I am 5'8 and muscular.
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  2.  @vishbinliftin2288  after a while females are too much effort, drama, and stress. I can get college age chicks easy, I'm not shredded, but they can tell its muscle on me, not pudge. I am 54 and have lost interest in them for the most part, divorce does that to you. They stop looking like a fun time, and start looking like the reason you sleep in your car and have no money. Its more fun to look at them, cheaper too. Yeah I have had 18 to 28 year olds often since my divorce ten years ago. I just don't care anymore, my cars are more fun and enjoyable. I am getting to be friends with a lesbian though, she is low drama and big into cars. She has a 67 Mustang and a Yota rock crawler, she's like a dude but with indoor plumbing.
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  3. You don't need to be as big as he is, or as big as I am to get female attention. You simply have to be bigger than most guys in your area. Definitely lift and put on mass, its HUGELY beneficial as far as your capabilities are concerned, shoot for 17" arms and bench pressing 300lbs or so, and you are right in the sweet spot. I'm 54, twice divorced, and I actively push women away. I was never a bodybuilder, but I was somewhat forced to be a power lifter by the USAF. I'm not as big as he is, my arms have shrunk to 20" from the 22" they were in 1991 after my first war. I get the same reactions he does when I am low BF%, and I still get plenty of interest from women where I am right now in BF%. I use this name because the USAF always marked me down and messed with me about my muscle mass, saying I was morbidly obese. By BMI I am beyond morbidly obese.. lol, so is that body builder. You probably will never get as big as I am, but thats not a problem. 15" to 17" arms is more than enough to get attention from women. I had 15" arms when I enlisted back in 1988 and it was easy to pick them up. The mind numbing amount of work I did to gain 7" of muscle mass in less than one year is far beyond what most people will ever do. What I did when I was 21 hurts a lot at 54, believe that. Having this much mass on a 5'8 frame causes issues with joints, connective tissue, blood pressure, and breathing. I am the same size and strength as a medium sized silverback gorilla. However, if I dropped 30-40lbs so you could see my six pack, there would be no shortage of women trying to get my attention. I used to drop 40lbs every November in high school for wrestling, I'd go from looking big to absolutely ripped and gaunt looking. I don't want to do that, I like not having to deal with females constantly. After two divorces and losing everything I owned other than some old rusty cars, I just don't have the interest in them I did 30 years ago. I wear baggy clothes I get at hardware stores, like Menards, Lowes, and Tractor Supply.. I kid you not. I do not want their attention and expense... ok once in a while some nookie is good, but its a lot of Bravo Sierra to get some, and the risks (legal). I forget how much larger I am than everyone else, then I see myself in a photo or a video next to normal people and I am always surprised. My community page has a big of me at a distance with my 65 GTO, lined up with my family and our vehicles if you want to see what I mean. I can lift some very heavy stuff.
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  4.  @HappyGoFunTimes  you can assume that, but if he has training the mass doesn't negatively impact him as much as you might think. It will limit his range of motion, I have the same problem, but not to the same extent. I wrestled in high school, at 167lbs and 5'8", benched 265lbs that year A year later after farm and construction work it was over 300. I overpowered all the state champs on my team, including the 185lb two time champ who went on to play nose guard in the NFL for Jacksonville, Carolina, and Denver. The smaller guys had zero chance against me, even the 155s, and I whupped on state champs from other schools, but not at my weight. 167 was the toughest weight, you had to be fast like the light guys, and strong like the big guys. All of that training still works despite the fact I am 54 now, and a hell of a lot stronger. I benched over 500 back in 2003, someone asked if I could, and I didn't know so we found out. Its probably higher than that, I never checked. For being 300lbs you would be very surprised at how fast I can move when I want to, and how quietly. Once you know how to move quick like a wrestler, that muscle memory stays with you the rest of your life. I figure it will go away if I make it to 70, but for now its still here. If he has BJJ training or something like it, small guys will get obliterated. Small to him is someone under 250lbs. Without training he will still be fast and explosive, so you have to avoid letting him grab something, like a wrist.. because he will dislocate your shoulder with a twitch.
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  5. Heh... I have a problem with suits, that guy in the video probably has the same problem. They are designed to make you look wider than you actually are. I look like a cartoon in a suit. Tall thin guys like the Tates look good in suits. Men with thick muscle look better in T shirts and similar clothing. Getting a tailored dress uniform while stationed in Korea was the only way I could afford to get it done, and I never looked good in a uniform after my first war. Its doubtful that anyone watching this channel will have the same problem I do with how they look in a suit and having this much muscle mass.. But they should still go lift, heavier than they think they have to. Push yourself, and get serious about it.
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  6.  @paultoth7853  people also think that because you are tall you are dangerous or more capable. Not in my experience, and yeah I have been in so many fights I can't remember them all, around 200 wrestling matches in high school and the US military as well. Tall guys are at a disadvantage against a trained shorter guy. Its not like the movies.
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  7.  @Essetheartist  you can want to grow old with someone all you like... ITS NOT UP TO YOU. Ask any man in the comments section who has been divorced or had a breakup with a woman he would have married, if they caused it, filed for divorce, or wanted to end it. We even stay with the ones who mistreat us, if only to protect our kids, but also because she will be rewarded at our expense no matter how it ends. All I wanted was someone to be there for me as we made memories and built a life together. My requirements are be feminine, don't be combative or controlling, and be faithful/loyal. So far zero women have been able to achieve that.
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  8.  @unvaccinatedmensclub  those are not dominant men. A dominant man with muscle, even if he is short like I am (5'8") will moisten panties. Chicks can smell thirsty by looking at you. The manager at my gym is one of those guys. He drives a lite blue Honda Fit, and has almost zero masculine traits about him, but dude 6'2, ripped, in shape, and has some decent size to him. I am old, gray hair, short, not ripped, but I drive 50+ year old muscle cars and carry myself VERY differently, and I get lots of attention from women... from way too young to way too old and everything between. I try to look poor and pudgy, I don't want to lose another house to divorce.
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  9.  @az_3kgt714  been in lots of fights have you?
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  10.  @AndrewBrownK  30 is when everything starts slowing down. Healing times, metabolism, T production. I packed on my mass at 21, trust me you won't be putting in that kind of work outside the US military. Push two F150s across a large parking lot for a few months on end, and you get the idea of what I was doing. Eat healthy, heavy protein and moderate carbs, hold off on sugar but you still need a bit of it. Fruit is better than candy. Lift heavier than you want to if you want to put on muscle fast, and you are going to have to eat an insane amount of food too. I ate at least 3 MREs every night, I was always eating in 1990-91 doing the airlift thing. you only want to have 15" to 17" arms and bench around 300lbs, more than that and it starts causing issues with range of motion, breathing, blood pressure, etc. I'm around 20"-21" arms, and I have lots of issues because of it now that I am 54. I am still packing on muscle, but I am not like normal people at all.
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  11.  @jonathanjacob5453  yeah it happens, I had it happen to me when I was in Korea. One hell of an ego boost for a 5'8 muscle bound freak of nature who always assumed he wasn't very good looking. I had Russians and Koreas hitting on me, even when I told them I had no money because it was all going to the ex wife. Most of the time though, they are too timid and afraid of rejection, so they put themselves in your line of sight, and do something silly, like bend over or strike a pose that will accentuate her best asset. They like to do that in stores, looking intently at the bottled water trying to get my attention. Its hilarious. I am not attractive to all females, but I am to enough of them that I could have one a week relatively easily. The Russians accused me of being a 'playboy' all the time, which I found very amusing. So I figure I was right on the 19% or 20% for most of my life, and had no idea most of it. If I lost my belly and dress in something not from a hardware store, it would be very easy for me now with all the weak soybois around here. I'm just not interested, I've had lots of them and done everything except twins at the same time. When they are looking at a ripped guy, who has a strong jawline, and heavy brow, who is 6'2 or taller, he doesn't even have to be that muscular, just not skinny and weak looking, she would be screwing up if she came out and said that to him. Most of the tall guys have no idea what a chick acts and looks at them like when she is interested. Its obvious once you know what to look for. They all do exactly the same things. I used to go talk to the ones who looked at me like that. Its how I got so many of them. I ignored the ones who didn't look at me that way, they had to show interest for me to bother.
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