Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "When Marrying A Hot Foreign Woman Goes WRONG" video.
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First marriage was 8 years of hell, she did everything wrong that she possibly could. Then it cost me another 15 years of paying her most of my income. The second one I vetted for 8 years, and she was very good for me, but we were only married for 16 months. She was a lot cheaper, but had me thrown in jail on baseless assertions. They believe all women in court, just so ya know.
The first cost me almost $300k in income, which she wasted and has nothing now. Its tough to be ambitious when the court is keeping you in poverty. I barely earned that much in those 15 years, they were taking 70% of my gross, you know before taxes. The time that cost me was worse than the money. More than 20 years chained to paying for someone who mistreated me and my kids. I was 24 going in, 44 coming out. It cost me several business opportunities, and soaked up so much of my income that I was unable to save anything. If I saved anything, Nebraska would seize it anyway, as a punitive measure.
I live alone in the woods for a reason. Been single and not dating since 2013, living frugally so I can build my old cars. Paid off my mortgage 2 years early in 2021, and the building loan in 21 as well. Debt free since then... but now I am 55 and can't build my life like I could have.
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