Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Why Men Chase The WRONG Women And End Up With MORE Problems" video.

  1. The wrong ones... ROFL. They are ALL the 'wrong' ones. Doesn't matter how hot they are either, they cannot be trusted. I've had the hot ones, like super hot Russians, others that could be on magazine covers, and homely ones, small to large, young to old. All over Europe, the USA, and Asia, a handful from Africa too. To be fair, I went for the ones who showed interest in me. So it could be the ones who are attracted to me are the horrible ones. I learned early in life, around age 14, that its a waste of time talking to the ones who aren't showing interest. Yes I learned that early to tell what interest and attraction look like, what they do and how they act. I do not pick them up in bars, only pulled two in bars, its not my thing. I stopped going to bars 30 years ago because its just a waste of time and money. About guys being able to pull hotties, yeah you can do it if you really want to.. I am inclined to avoid them, but if you want to find out for yourself, you can. I am 5'8" and have never had money. I have blue eyes, a deep voice, lots of muscle (I make Bo look tiny) and a dominant mentality/demeanor going for me, but I still had to learn to talk to and read interest on them. I got over the butterflies and nervousness before I turned 16 by asking every one of them in high school to marry me.. and they all said no, I got used to hearing them say 'no' and saying completely outrageous things to them. Rejection doesn't affect me as a result, it saves me time when I want some tuna. After two divorces, I don't want them for anything more than an 0 face now.
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  2.  @the-eq5vh  yeah. I have always been someone who does things that are silly, nonsensical, and I try to make people laugh. When you have a rough life growing up, you tend to do that. The added benefit to me asking them to marry me was the complete removal of any negative aspect of rejection. I've done lots of things like that, learning about people, how they interact with others, the reactions they have to things, I wanted to know how people function and think. I wanted to know because I was getting beaten nearly every day for over ten years, and I had a VERY high drive so getting some was a means to an end. Its difficult to think about things when your brain gets a fog from having a drive like that, and no way to get rid of the fog. Took me a long time to realize that women are pretty much all not trustworthy. I was 35 or so when it dawned on me that all of them are running the same basic program. I still like and appreciate them, but there is no way I can ever trust them. Its not like I trust males without years of earning it either.
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