Comments by "Terror Management Solutions, LLC" (@thereisnosanctuary6184) on "Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps" video.

  1. You exist.
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  3. Reaching out to show interest requires a degree of courage, or at least confidence. Women require external validation in life. It is a test of her appeal to be approached first. Lots of approaches, she is confident and can be picky. Also, there is an inherent laziness. Like putting a Now Hiring sign in your window whether you're hiring or not. It puts her in an inferior position to approach. She can now actually be rejected, which is ego death to women. Debilitating, even. More than once, maybe deadly. Only the narcissists have enough "will" to survive rejection: He must be gay. He doesn't know what he lost. I'm too good for him. Meanwhile, some men know only rejection and are numb to the feelings. Even the successful and attractive men are used to being shot down sometimes. So, like lifting weights, the reps and sets of pursue/rejected made men strong enough to undertake the ordeal, deal with aftermath...or no results. He is either boosting his confidence playing the game or a slow realization of nothing to lose, might as well. But, the women have much to lose. Showing their hand, allowing one jerk out of hundreds to know he is special. He can set his price And the social rejection and ego crushing if he rejects her and her second choice or third rejects her: she has now eaten an entire cake in tears.
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