Comments by "Leanne Hartford" (@leanne123) on "Dr. Scott Eilers" channel.

@mariamae1196 I think you are suffering from clinical depression. I've had it and you just described all the signs. I couldn't even figure out what to have for breakfast so I'd just go back to bed. Talk to your doctor and try some antidepressants. They will work if you have clinical depression. If you don't then they won't harm you. Also when you talk to your doctor, ask them about group therapy or just a place where you can be part of a group instead of being alone. We all need each other. 💖🙋🏼‍♀️
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 @Wolfgoddess56 I feel the same way. I'm lying in bed crying too. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm lost.
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 @POCKBA I'm so sorry you are suffering. 😢💖🫂
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I just found out my brother stole my retirement money and for no reason I know of, told me he hates me. I lost my only family and the future I had planned. Evil does exist. 😢🌨️
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@eugenie8915 Well that's appreciation for you. You spend 20 years looking after people to find they felt entitled to it and did not appreciate it for what it was. I'm sorry. Those people were selfish and uncaring. Very immature. You can be proud of yourself for doing what you knew was right even if they didn't understand. You are good person for making that sacrifice for the people you care about. You were the honourable one. Above all the rest of your family. I guess I'll wind it up now. I better head for bed. G'night ! 🫂🙋🏼‍♀️💖
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@rhonmc2782 It's funny how when we are depressed it's is hard, if not impossible, to force yourself into the shower. It's definately a thing because I belong to a FB group of people who have a hard time getting in the shower. I can't even explain why I have this strange aversion to showers when I am depressed. I just don't seem to want to go through the whole process of showering even though it would only take 5 minutes and I feel so much better afterward. It doesn't make sense. What do you think it is ? Just the mental and emotional energy required to do it seems overwhelming. Sometimes I can't FORCE myself so I give up trying and just carry on with my day. 🤷
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 @annehedonia156 You need a new purpose in life. We all need a purpose through out our lives. Find one and you will start to feel better. 💖
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 @jenniferrider7084 You are not a failure. You are just human.
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@lisasternenkind6467 You have had several traumatic experiences in a short time. It sounds like you are having a normal reaction. It is frustrating because you cannot keep up your normal life. It's time to give yourself a rest. It's like you have the flu. You need time to process all the stressful events that have unfolded in your life. Give yourself some compassion and let go of all your concerns for as long as you have to. Forget about other peoples problems. They will take care of themselves. You have to focus only on yourself for now. Have patience. Things will change. Now when you are well rested you can start doing the smallest of things and really appreciate the fact that you are alive and able to do it. Make a cup of tea and really take the time to enjoy it. Don't push yourself. You will be back to normal soon enough. Your pace has been too fast and you must learn to find enjoyment in life again. Make a good meal and enjoy it. Don't think about the things that have made you anxious. They will wait. If you don't get the dog there will be another one. You are not alone. We are here to care. 🙋💖 Maybe a warm bath would feel good. If not just go for a nap. You will be ok. Everything will work out just fine. 🌻👍🎃🫂🫂🫂
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I'm sorry you went through that kind of pain all alone. 😢 I know how being so alone feels when you need somebody to be there for you.
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 @kungfumcgee7992 Why do you say that ? Are there men looking for women on Reddit ?
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@laxale Something has to change. Take some time out to think about what might help you to find a better way to achieve your ambitions. Only one class at a time ? Night school or online ? Need a new interest to inspire you ? Need more friends ? Need a holiday ? Need help figuring it all out ? Find a life coach. You are worth the investment to live a better life. 🫂🙋
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Thank you for your warm and compassionate words. You are a giver. I too feel disconnected from the outside world. I have recently retired but my job left me too exhausted to have a social life so I am lacking a "best friend". I find it's hard to function with no one to bounce things off of. The thoughts just keep circling inside my head with no outlet. I have no idea where I am going to live in the future. This building has been sold and my rent is doubling. I have recently run into problems with my family which have really floored me. I'm 66. My brother is 64. He has convinced my 93 year old mother that I am trying to steal her money. Together they have backstabbed me and have revealed their true characters to me. They are not nice people. They just wear a mask. This was quite a revelation and after lots of tears and grieving I have come to the realization that they don't love me. They certainly don't trust me but it is actually they who are not trustworthy. All this garbage and abuse from my brother happening out of the blue. It's shocking and disgusting that they would turn on someone who was always very good to them. It doesn't even make sense. It's VERY narcissistic of both of them. So I am trying to focus on the move and just myself. I have a few acquaintances that I am in touch with that I hope will get me through this chapter of my life. After I move, I hope to get settled and get a pt job at a bank. They are always desperate for tellers. The work hours would be much better for my personal life and I will have time for friends again. I know it will be a process for me to get into a life style that I will be happy with. I don't want to feel isolated anymore. It's not good for me. I lose my confidence and drive. I just want to sleep all the time to escape my life. It's just been too hard to cope. I've never been in this isolated from people before. And all of a sudden I don't have a family. I just hope my cousin's won't believe the lies too and turn their back on me. My mother's brother has already turned on me. He believes my brothers lies. Anyway, that's what is happening to me. I loved my mother and brother. 🤷 I was always honest with them. So what's going on with you ?
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@joannenascimento9213 I was recently betrayed too. My brother and mother have turned against me and have come abusive. I loved them so it's been hard to accept the truth. They lied and betrayed me. The two people who pretended to care about me when they were just pretending in order to use my services. Quite a shock to find out these people don't know me. If they did they would know I am honest and trustworthy. It was they who were not. I can't wait until it's over.😢
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@terrymurray6184 I know how that feels because I'm alone too and it sucks. Go to a doctor and tell them what is going on with your mood. You may need medical treatment or antidepressants. Ask your doctor for suggestions about how to feel better. You don't have to live this way. 🫂🙋🏼‍♀️💖
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@windwhisprz Please talk to your doctor about how you are feeling. There may be help for you. You may be emotionally burned out. It has happened to me and I didn't have it in me to continue my job. I left my job and I'm just resting these days. I am attempting to heal by being good to my body and good to my soul. I take more time to enjoy life instead of rushing rushing rushing. I am trying to do things I used to enjoy even if I don't feel much enjoyment right now. I know I will eventually get my old self back. It will take time for me to heal but in time I will find some people that are worth caring about and want to share some experiences with me. I thank God I'm not working at my old job anymore. I now have the time to heal my mind and soul before I have to cope with more mean and abusive people out in the world. I am kind of rambling on now but I want you to know that I understand your feelings and I believe you will see brighter days ahead. Improving one day at a time. 💖🙋🏼‍♀️🫂
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@rhonmc2782 If you need a mate/companion you will have to meet lots of guys to find a suitable one. I think you should look into online dating. My girlfriend has lots of fun meeting different guys in public places. Many, many people have found love online. One coffee date a week won't kill you and you never know who you'll meet. Could you manage going for a coffee with a guy who is on his best behaviour because he wants to impress you ? You have to get out there to find someone who can meet your needs emotionally, spiritually and physically. You are responsible for getting your needs met so you can live happily. This is a way to do that. 💖🙋🏼‍♀️
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