Comments by "Ian Arn" (@ianarn) on "Why Forgiving a Narcissist Will Backfire On You" video.

@zandig666 I refused to give her a baby after 10 months of on/off dating! During one split after a devaluation by her she contacted another man to meet up with rather than try to make up with me. Needless to say she went absolutely nuts when i refused and is not typical of couples who do not live together when this subject is broached!
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@cambell9 My ex GF was messaging a guy the following week and even when i got back together with her in order to triangulate me with him so that i would “save” her from him taking her home with him which could well have happened given his eagerness and confidence on a previous occasion.
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If it’s a romantic female partner you forgive then she will immediately triangulate you with the new supply they’ve been grooming as happened to me! She then proceeded to tell me that he is a “Real Man”.
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