Comments by "Ian Arn" (@ianarn) on "How to Support A Partner With BPD" video.

Very hard to do as you take on the role of being her saviour and trying to regulate her emotions. yet she’ll drop her pants at the drop of a hat with a guy only out for a one nighter! Meanwhile you’ve done something very trivial like go home and they just freak out on you block you and give you the silent treatment. She grooms you as a candidate for taking on the hero’s role from the beginning so you’re bound to be ultra upset when the relationship inevitably fails. If she’s got any narcissistic traits to her condition then she won’t apologise to you! It’s all your responsibility not hers and that’s a bad sign for any relationship. If you don’t care she’ll just tell her flying monkeys that you were only with her for sex and spin the narrative that you’re the irresponsible cheater not ‘man’ enough to commit to her.
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