Comments by "Ian Arn" (@ianarn) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. It all just rests on her feelings which can rest on a whole variety of factors including diet which i recently found out when my girlfriend stopped with her silly vegetarian diet and ate meat again!
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  2. Yes the house is a place of work for her in how she views it! Many men come in for additional overtime rather than be stuck around her and her mother and other female relatives particularly Indian men of a certain age.
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  3. I would have lived with and have children with my last girlfriend but the relationship had several large arguments that were very hard to resolve with her and she triangulated me with several different men every month which I found disrespectful and narcissistic in nature.
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  4. If her close friends have been through a lot of men with heavy drinking and one nighters then it’s likely she would have entered into that culture herself! At least enough for it to be a significant risk to you!
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  5.  @yeahnahsweetas  yes she explicitly wanted us to be exclusive! Heavily criticising me if I like Instagram photos of female influencers but she would often slow dance cheek to cheek with other men in front of me for song after song. She messaged another man during a previous breakup to meet up at his place for private dance practice. Instead of trying to reconcile with me! She always right in every argument and had a very fragile yet grandiose ego. She’d walk ahead of me and look round for my reaction and try to get a strange man to hold her hand with the expectation he was going to get something. I was constantly pitted against other strange men as if there was a competition for her in a very obvious embarrassing and disrespectful way. I don’t know for sure whether some of those men got something but they were pretty confident that they would and I’ve not had other girlfriends behave anywhere like that. I think she may have a personality disorder!
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  6. No it’s just a transactional relationship and you will be abused! Max out your looks gym/ hair/ skincare/ teeth! Be very social and go to many interactive events!
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  7.  @dauphinviennois  probably comfort eating as I suppose she wanted me to totally grovel to her but she was soo disrespectful flirting with other men in front of me and silent treatment that I just can’t!
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  8.  @qua7771  the original comment Allen!
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  9.  @dauphinviennois  oh she broke up with me! I believe she had abandonment issues and I went home after i refused to give her a baby after only 10 months and she gave me a silent treatment over a man she’d been texting and who tried to hold her hand in front of me when I questioned her about it. She’s been abusive for 5 months since! I believe she may have Narcissistic personality disorder as she sees close contacts in very black and white terms. Eating meat again now but she put on weight so not a good thing!
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  10. @@hansk6166 she’ll be easy to reconcile with over minor disagreements and won’t seek to further punish you. She’ll have empathy for your position. She’ll even chase after you if she knows she did something quite severely wrong such as flirt with another man in front of you when you spot her obvious disrespect and walk off. Better still she doesn’t display this behaviour at all.
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  11. They pick these men because they enjoy moaning about them afterwards!
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  12. @2:00 not really she might just have the baby rabies for him especially if she’s pressuring him early on to get her pregnant. Afterwards she might have very different plans for him!
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  13. Some hunter gatherer groups don’t even know that sex causes pregnancy. Shoots this whole argument to pieces!
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  14. What’s the point in being loved for your money! It can only buy fake love and she will eventually ration sex off to you! It has to come from genuine desire not for what you do!
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  15. What about the baby ultimatum! Less than a year’s dating with manufactured drama breakups!
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  16. What if she’s a narcissist. She’ll quickly end the relationship with you!
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  17.  @rocketman475  That’s just controlling behaviour and a sign of a narcissist! Posting tonnes of provocative photos of herself online supposedly for other women. Then coming down on you and threatening to end the relationship if you like a female instagram influencer’s photos. If you walk away she should follow you otherwise she has no desire for you and if all she wants is to be pregnant within the first year of dating then she has no serious desire for you particularly if she’s in her 30s. You’ll just have a baby mamma on your hands that will make unreasonable demands on you and use parental alienation as leverage against you.
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  18. I’d say that money is a man’s weakest hand in dating. The rich men get cheated on way more! The wife may shy away from divorce though! Didn’t stop Melinda Gates though!  @jjkinsley9097 
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  19. Well does that mean we have to accept it then!
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