Youtube comments of ghound (@ghound-md5ey).

  1. I'm sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter, but everyone deserves some happiness and presumably her husband is still quite young. Personally, I don't see the point in putting flowers on graves, I prefer to have a bunch of flowers in the house in remembrance. Many people prefer to feel the spirit of their loved one is in their heart, and not in a cold grave. Your daughters husband can have a new wife but still love your daughters memory.
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  2. I was a nurse in care homes in the UK. I never met a resident who chose to live there when they were independent. Why would they ? Everyone in the home NEEDED to be there ! Sadly for some people, their care requirements are such, that care in their own home isnt possible. If you get to this stage, unfortunately you don't really have a choice. Keep as fit and healthy as you can, have your affairs in order, and ensure your home is as safe, and easy to manage as possible. Consider what modifications you may have to carry out, to enable you to remain at home if you become more ill or infirm.
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  3. ​@tabithan2978 But the Royal Family only enjoy certain privileges if they are working. Harry is not working for the Royal Family, so he is not entitled.
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  4. Absolute nonsense !
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  5. ​@Marcie-w1u Well said, thanks. I'm a retired nurse and daughter of parents who have dementia. I know how hard it is to care for the elderly and I'd never condemn anyone for not wanting to take it on. In fact I'm getting very irritated by some people who have martyr/saviour complexes and expect everyone else to be the same. There's no merit in destroying your own health and life to be a carer. Yes you can walk away, because if you become ill yourself, you'd have no choice but to do that anyway. I have a chronic health condition, and I realised early on that I wouldn't have the strength to care for either one or both of my parents. They went to stay in a care home and are very well looked after. My parents had a fantastic life with no caring responsibilities for elderly relatives .
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  6. So, what do you think the words " faux " and " quasi " mean ??
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  7. ​ @bobbibartley549  The fact is, there are some people who do very well on a vegan diet, just as it's not suitable for others. Everyone's metabolism is different. I would love to be vegan for ethical reasons, but having B12 deficiency due to Pernicious Anaemia, I feel better on fish, eggs, etc.
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  8. ​@YourHealthyLifePath Hi, I have to have B12 injections every week to keep healthy. The good news is that large doses do NOT cause problems ! On the contrary, if someone experiences health issues, they probably need MORE B12 ! The B12 level is SUPPOSED to be up in the thousands when receiving injections ! Many doctors are unfortunately ignorant of this.
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  9. ​@robertroberts3rd265 But what's the definition of " racist " ? People have been accused of being racist just for calling out the behaviour of someone of an ethnic minority.
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  10. @leticialaoagan9286  It's wonderful if you can do that, but what happens if you yourself are not well enough to care for parents ? I am the only family member living near my mother, and I am not able to look after her. People may also be working. You cannot care for someone with complex health needs if you're out at work.
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  11. @Clodhopping  I'm not talking about body language and facial expression, which I agree can be very revealing. I'm talking about "Character being written on faces " If that was the case, it would be easy for us all to avoid evil people and for the police to catch murderers. Some of the most sweet, innocent looking people are psychopaths. I have met them in the course of my work. Again, if character was written on our faces, it would make psychiatrists jobs a lot easier too !
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  12. Only those who had to isolated ! Life went on, unlike the hysteria a few years ago
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  13. It was the first time it had happened. Why don't you listen to the piece
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  14. ​@eyesodd If she genuinely had a medical incident, why should she not be treated leniently ? She'll have to live with what she's done, that's punishment enough !
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  15. Im surprised, considering there are so many places called Aberdeen in the world. Some of them in the USA, I've been to one of them !
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  16. ​@whygodisscience That's not what was meant. It was the fact that stabbings are a regular, almost everyday occurrence. They have unfortunately become nearly commonplace, and what is being done about it ??
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  17. @anjou6497  I know what the definition is, but as I said, people have been unfairly accused of racism, eg, for disagreeing with someone's point of view on any subject when that person is of an ethnic minority. I am not racist, I treat everyone equally, but unfortunately, "pulling the race card " has become a real thing.
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  18. @vurttv6415  Well, of course, lumping everyone together and suggesting certain behaviours are an ethnic trait is totally wrong. If someone has behaved badly, I call out the behaviour, not the ethnicity.
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  19. @tabithan2978  Duh ! - Do your research ! Beatrice, Eugenie, and Zara HAVE been carrying out Royal engagements on behalf of the King and Queen. Princess Anne, the Princess Royal, usually carries out more work than any other Royal, but she has security protection ONLY during those working engagements, not at any other time ! Security is Harry's main bone of contention ...
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  20. It's almost impossible to have dangerously high B12 levels. Excess is excreted in the urine. Your levels need to be high to gain any benefit if you don't absorb it well. B12 injections are given as an antidote to cyanide poisoning. The dose for this is a whopping 2.5 GRAMS !!! Our injections for B12 deficiency, as you know, are miniscule in comparison at 1,000 MICROgrams ! You should take as much B12 as you need to treat your symptoms. Wishing you better health !
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  21. ​@bevvyjune4753 That's exactly what's happening ! The senior doctor at our practice wrote an apology on the website, explaining that the reason registered patients couldn't get appointments, was because the doctors were having to examine and treat the several hundred " visitors " who have been foisted on our town.
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  22. @bevvyjune4753  Are you doubting me ? Or just curious ? These people have been housed in a newly built hotel and can be seen all over the town. Ive forgotten the exact number, but there are over 200. Local churches and charities have been involved with their care. As I said, the medical practice actually apologised on their website to the registered patients for the shortage of appointments and long waits. I must admit, I was very surprised that the doctor was bold enough to write this ! I don't think its wise to give too much information that can reveal your identity on social media , I've probably already said too much. However, this is in NE Scotland. If you're prepared to do the research, I'm sure you'll find out. By the way, I only ever comment on topics of which I have knowledge or am in possession of the full facts. If I ever give a personal opinion or supposition, I state it as such.
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  23. @bevvyjune4753  Thank you. Yes, I'm a former NHS worker, too. We've never heard of it before because this situation is unprecedented. I think we'll find this is duplicated across the country. Everywhere that has taken migrants will have a duty of care, and they'll require medical checks. It just won't be reported in the media. I personally think that the only reason our doctor shared this publicly was because he was retiring literally weeks later ! I can't see any doctor who wishes to remain employed doing this otherwise. I just checked the medical practice website, and unsurprisingly, that post has been removed !
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  24. @adrianparker-e9f  You're correct. However, if there's a fatality investigation, I would think all records would have to be made available.
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  25. @adrianparker-e9f  I would have to research the current law too on providing medical evidence, as I'm not certain. I know there have been difficulties in the past. When I first started nursing ( quite some time ago ! ) data protection laws hadn't been tightened up. Regarding 'confidentiality ' , it's hard to believe, but we were permitted to use our own discretion and conscience as to what we would divulge to a police officer directly asking us for information. If we refused, the police would have to apply for access through official, legal routes .
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  26. You do know how long ago this happened, don't you ?
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  27. Did you not pick up on the fact that this was a first time seizure ? If she'd had them before, it would be on her medical records
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  28. What on earth is / are " chanclas " ??
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  29. The writings are controversial because they are not true ! If you are B12 deficient, you need high doses of B12 to PREVENT gastric cancers !
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  30. I agree up to a point. Problems can arise when patients assume their condition is minor, but the symptoms actually point to something more serious.
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  31.  @mel2000  This is the truth ! Well said, thanks !
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  32. Up until recently, Aberdeen used to be a beautiful, clean, well run city, daffodils everywhere in Spring, and roses in Summer. Lots going for it, and it was popular with tourists. You don't know much about it obviously.
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  33. @rgmusicom  I do, but as others may not, I'm setting the record straight on my home city. Pity it's not the same anymore !
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  34. Face to face consultation is logically the only safe way to examine a patient. Use of technology, unfortunately, has proven to be unreliable and cost lives. Most people could see this coming ...
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  35. @adrianparker-e9f  That must have been a horrible experience for you ! I hope you're keeping well now. If you say that even you might not have realised, if that happened before to this woman, then she would be being truthful when she said it was the first time she'd had a seizure.
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  36. People go into nursing homes because they are very frail or ill with chronic health conditions. Its very sad, but unfortunately, chronic diseases progress, that's just what happens. The home was not necessarily to blame for his deterioration. Your friend most likely didn't have an option if he needed care. I'm sorry for your loss xx
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  37. I obviously dont know whether she is innocent or guilty. As a nurse, though, one fact concerns me. And this is fact. When Lucy was recently qualified, she made a serious drug administration error. She was treated very leniently, compared to similar incidences I know of. The only sanction she had to comply with was to attend a short refresher on drug administration. Ludy queried this decision and felt it was unnecessary for her to take the refresher course. I was astounded at this arrogant stance ! Especially as she got off so lightly from a serious mistake. In a long career, I have never encountered such an attitude towards a totally reasonable directive from a senior nurse manager.
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  38. Please be assured, that nobody who is able to look after themselves can be "put " into a care home ! Would you allow it to happen to you as you are now, fit and healthy ? Of course not ! People end up in nursing homes due to their frailty and inability to care for themselves. They deteriorate because they are ill in the first place, that is the normal course of chronic diseases . Please don't blame a person's relatives, nobody who is independent and well can be 'forced ' into a home !
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  39. Afternoon tea ! High teas are something completely different, more substantial, and incude a main course, tea and toast etc. served around 5.30 / 6pm
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  40. For a start, the A96 doesn't go west . I'll ignore the rest of your comment
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  41. ​ @tallthinkev  Exactly ! There needs to be more understanding of medical issues and some human compassion !
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  42. It was the first time she'd ever had a seizure !
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  43. It was her first seizure !
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  44. @1949Matilda  Thanks for that. I can only comment on the information available to me 🤷‍♀️ I don't pretend to have researched in detail
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  45. That's because nobody takes an interest in local history anymore, unless of course it appears on the Internet under the more titillating guise of "Horror "
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  46. Nonsense. Of course there has to be a first time to have a seizure, and they can also be a one-off, caused by other factors. Unless you have medical knowledge and inside knowledge of this case, you can't actually 'know' anything !
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  47. Anyone can have a first or one-off seizure. I know several people who this has happened to. Whether or not it causes a tragedy like this is all down to when and where it happens and luck. Let's hope if it happens to you, you are treated with more understanding and compassion !
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  48. ​ @starkicker5623  Not if they don't know who you are !
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  49. ​ @SC-tl3px  She had an epileptic seizure. The police would have found evidence of alcohol and texting if that had happened.
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  50. @SC-tl3px  I'm not commenting on the ineptitude of the police. If medical reports indicate she had a first ever seizure, she should be treated leniently. Toxicology and phone records would have ruled out dru k or texting etc
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  51. ​ @BetterHealthWhileAging  I have Pernicious Anaemia, and unfortunately oral B12 treatment does NOT work for me. I'm a former nurse aged 56, so of course I followed the oral treatment regime to the letter ! I had severe neurological symptoms. Why would someone my age necessarily have the same metabolic requirement for B12 as an 80 / 90 year old ? It's time doctors realised that one size doesn't fit all. The only way I can lead a productive life is to self inject B12 weekly, of course my doctor doesn't know about this ! We don't insist that diabetics all take the same dose of insulin, so why for B12 ? By the way, when I was diagnosed, I not only didn't have macrocytic anaemia, but my serum B12 was within normal range. Therefore I probably have absorption issues at a cellular level ( functional deficiency) rather than straightforward Pernicious Anaemia. Thank you for highlighting this very important issue !
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  52. How did she she know it was epilepsy ? Because she was diagnosed with it after the accident !
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  53. ​ @WePlayKaylaPlay  But not when you are trying to be assertive ! There's a time and place for tears ...
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  54. ​ @Gomorragh  You can't 'catch' ie. diagnose seizures earlier in life. They have to actually occur.
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  55. So true. This woman has chopped and changed methods too often, and not persevered.
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  56. I love hearing Gaelic and it's related culture, but it was never widely spoken in Aberdeen if at all, so please don't give it a gaelic name. We don't need gaelic written on our police cars or ambulances here either !
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  57. ​@99vicster Glasgow was infamous for razor gangs from the 1930s. These too were eradicated, and I'm sure in those days the police had far fewer resources at their disposal.
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  58. We dont need to get vaccinated for typhoid.
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  59. Why do you think it's impossible for her to have a first time seizure at that moment and in that place ?
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  60. ​@alisonwilson9749 Do some research on Enoch Powell, he was an amazing man and highly intelligent !
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  61. You obviously know nothing about him ..
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  62. Not sure what you mean, Spam as the name suggests - is ham, beef is beef ?
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  63. And that's why this woman should be blameless !
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  64. Phone records would have shown if that was the case. It'll have been one of the first things to be checked
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  65. @Brinkaaa23  What absolute nonsense. If there is a negative contributing factor to illness, it has been the stress caused by Harry and his wife
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  66. Of course they'll have checked her medical records, but this was the first time she'd ever had a seizure.
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  67. I don't know what the outcome of this will be, but I do know, as should you, that there is plenty evidence that women can be "so cruel" and worse. Beverley Allitt ? Rose West ? Myra Hindley ? The mothers of all the abused children who have died in the UK ? All I'm saying is, don't be naive about humans' capacity for evil.
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  68. ​ @rizzascollectibles3165  I can assure you it is true ! We didn't get a refrigerator until 1970, and for many older people like my granny, it was even later !
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  69. It would be impossible to lie about previous epileptic seizures, it would be in her medical notes
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  70. Nonsense. Did you actually listen to and comprehend the article ?
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  71. As a former nurse, I can't think of ANYONE who wouldn't seek help for something as serious and terrifying as a first time seizure. In which case, it would be on their medical record.
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  72. ​ @rab8198  There is a cultural shift, in that knife violence is no longer confined to areas of poverty and crime.
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  73. Really ? Are medically qualified ? Because I am and you're talking nonsense!
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  74. The authorities have had over a year to gather that sort of information
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  75.  @leahkeyworth  Yes, new evidence can certainly come to light well after the event.
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  76. Yes, but there has to be a first time to have a seizure, which is what was said to have happened in this case.
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  77. ​@adw6894 There's a big difference between a man 'feeling embarrassed ' about someone crying and 'shaming' someone for crying. As a woman, I'd say most men ( and many women ) especially older generations, are uncomfortable about dealing with crying ( context is important !) It doesn't make them toxic !
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  78. Did you actually listen to the article ??
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  79. ​ @kt5661  I agree with you. Toxicology and car on board computer data, etc would also rule out other factors
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  80. @abdelmansouf5560  I agree, but in the past, people didn't give as long, so dementia was not so much of an issue. I would never condemn anyone for being unable to take care of elderly relatives. I have nursed patients with dementia, and sometimes it takes a team to provide care. Nobody should have to sacrifice their own health, well-being, and family /marriage to nurse very ill relatives.
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  81.  @WiseAdvice93  Thank you for saying this ! You are indeed 'wise ' !
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  82. @Advicefortheelderly  You have no idea how demanding physically and mentally it is to care for someone with complex health needs like severe dementia ! I have seen people break down and lose their own health through attempting to do so. Families also have to work ! When the elderly reach the stage of requiring a nursing home, we are not just talking about making meals, helping them bathe, etc. Dementia can mean violence, turning night into day, double incontinence, smearing faeces, other complex health care needs. It is 24 hours non-stop, 365 days a year !
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  83.  @riverduck3  Well said, thank you !
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  84. @WiseAdvice93  I agree with much of what you say, but it's unfair to say that families don't care and abandon their elders. As a retired nurse, I understand the demands of caring, and with some sick elderly people, it would be impossible for relatives to cope.
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  85. @vintageprue8728  I know some families don't care. As a retired care of elderly nurse, I've seen it all too. However, not everyone is capable of caring for their parents for so many reasons. Whatever people's motives, the infirm elderly are in care for one reason - because their health conditions and frailty requires it. I would not have the strength to care 24 hours a day, 365 days for a parent with severe dementia, doubly incontinent, aggressive, and wandering about. Whether they are loved by their families, or seen as a burden, they are in care because they need to be.
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  86. Hurrah ! At last, some common sense ! Most people require a variety of styles to learn. Not repeating the same lecture several times in different styles, but incorporating as many in one lesson as possible. If a teacher has a traditional lecture using visuals, notes/ texbooks available, with a practical session afterwards, this covers nearly every style. Its the way I was taught in the 1970s. I always thought VARK was completely unworkable with large classes. Education has gone through many incarnations, so hopefully we're returning to common sense. Talk about having to reinvent the wheel ! Its just not feasible to
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  87. More accurate reading under the tongue
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  88. You're obviously young and don't read the local newspaper
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  89. @CaitlinMair  Why? Because It's called being interested in your local history. Papers always run articles on notable stories from the past. People who were only children at the time are now in their 60s/70s, so unfortunately, many of the adults at the time are no longer with us. If you dont actively take an interest in the history of your city, you're not going to know things.
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  90. @CaitlinMair  OK, yes I appreciate that papers are expensive and not the way most people access info nowadays. We're all here online after all, even me ! I apologise for being snarky, I'm just bemoaning the fact that no one seems to take an interest in their local history anymore. The information is out there on the Internet, but everyone's attention is taken up looking at other stuff. All the best with your studies!
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  91.  @CaitlinMair  You're very kind, much appreciated x
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  92. @cellbiologyshorts9105  The video you've just watched ?? Plus many other reported cases. The news is full of them, plus personal experience of losing two friends to cancer who were 'diagnosed' over the phone during covid lockdown. Mainly, though, from my knowledge and experience as a senior nurse. As a nurse seeing a patient face to face, you are observing EVERYTHING about that person to build up a picture of not only their physical health but also their mental health and social circumstances. You are looking at the way they walk into the surgery, the way they're dressed ( are their clothes clean and in good repair), skin colour and integrity, do they have a tremor etc etc, and yes - SMELL ! This can all be vital to form a diagnosis. Need I say more ?
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  93. @cellbiologyshorts9105  That's your opinion. Are you qualified to make it ?
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  94. @cellbiologyshorts9105  Fair enough. I think you'll wait a long time to find systematic peer reviewed evidence on here, though :) Therefore, we'll just have to voice our own opinions with the anecdotal and personal experiences available to us.
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  95. ​@CleverCatCooking76 Do you really think if someone had a medical emergency as serious as a seizure, that they, their relatives, or bystanders wouldn't seek medical help ? It's a terrifying thing. In which case it would be on her medical record.
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  96. @CleverCatCooking76  OK, you appear to have inside knowledge, I can only base my comments on what's being reported in the media
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  97. Don't know how you missed it ! It's mentioned regularly in the local press. Probably because people don't read newspapers these days ...
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  98. They would have checked phone records when it happened a year ago !
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  99. How mature of you ...
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  100. The man has been unfairly vilified. People should do some proper research into the brilliant man he actually was.
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  101. ​ @emillyyelen5169  I'm sure he can, but contact details are also for emergency services if you are unconscious !
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  102. Well she was obviously diagnosed with it !
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  103. Probably nobody ...
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  104. It was her first seizure ! Pay attention to the article !
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  105. Did you actually listen to the article? It was the first time she'd ever had a seizure!
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  106. @brijones  OK, I can only base my comments on what I've been able to read.
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  107. @brijones  Thanks. I am aware of these licensing regulations. I'm a former nurse, and unfortunately, I've had several friends and acquaintances who've had seizures. It's surprisingly common. Thankfully, they were ' first, one offs ' and they all regained their licenses with no further health issues.
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  108. Let's hope you never have a medical emergency which causes an accident. I know several people who have had one-off seizures, they're actually very common.
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  109.  @ThankGodimWhite  Oh well, you seem to know best 🙄
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  110. Because that's not how typhoid Vaccination works ! You vaccinate before you are exposed to typhoid. The victims caught it by eating the meat. It wasn't going to spread in the same way as covid, also it would have been logistically impossible to vaccinate the entire population of a city. The outbreak was dealt with very well as it it was !
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  111. ​@99Wombats There are ways of politely giving people advice, and yours isn't one of them.
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  112. @christinehall7116  Hi, I'm sorry, I didn't intend my reply to come across that way. As a retired nurse, but also a daughter, I was actually trying to reassure you it was only your friends poor health that put him in the home. Both my parents had to go into a home through dementia, and it was horrible for them to leave their home of over 60 years. My Dad died soon after. I totally sympathise with you.
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  113. @richardmullins44  Please read what I said. Yes, body language is a valid study, but I don't believe character is 'written on faces'
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  114. Speeding or on the phone should have been easy to prove a year ago. Cars computer would indicate speeding, phone records can be verified
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  115. While I agree that ideally, all pupils should have the same opportunities, not having the most up to date accommodation and environment shouldn't be an excuse for poor standards. The excellent generation that built post war Britain, had to contend during WW2, with disrupted, often part time education, in makeshift classrooms. Yet they had high levels of literacy, numeracy and general education.
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  116. No, it was typhUS, carried by fleas
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  117. ​@christianbuczko1481 Yes, and nowadays, we also have toxicology reports, medical reports, phone records, car on board computer data, which would, should have been checked a year ago when this happened.
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  118. No, you weren't paying attention properly !
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