Youtube comments of Jennifer Washburn (@thehappysheep2023).
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@Ayoosi Yes, I'm curious as well. I do have a question that I have harbored for yrs, your background makes me feel safe enough to even. I have never understood why the lgbt+ movement lumps all together. I don't understand why that is. Or by what means the lumping together of all situations are because it's dealing w gender and or sexuality. Back in the day I knew there were people who were born w both sexual organs vs the supposed male/female w quote normal physical genitalia. ie I always considered 1 group to be gay/lesbian and 2 group being individuals w both physical genitalia. (I have heard that some have varying types of genitalia as full male & partial female or visa versa or the various syndromes, chromosomes etc. I'm a medical assist (disabled now) but still big interest in all things medical. I was also born w Goldenhar Syndrome, so I have an interest congenital abnormalties. I've never heard of this study until today. Finding answers to this ladies research will make a huge difference in how/why these issues are handled and viewed in the future. Back in the 60/70's I lived on a farm & as a child I would play in the dirt making mud pies, building dirt castles, playing w Tonka toys. I'm 63 now and suffer from auto-immune issues. (Go figure, huh?) I don't blame my parents, they had no way of knowing back then. Monsanto, glyphosates etc were touted as safe. To refresh, my question is: How, Who or Why are all the genders aside from Male/Female or lumped together? I sincerely would like to know. Thank you in advance should you opt to respond.
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@paulespinoza974 You sound like my kind of people Paul. I know there is a huge debate between Pre-trib, Mid-Trib and Post-trib. I was raised pre-trib and now that I am 64 and since 2020, I have gone back to restudy what I thought I knew about Revelation and prophecy or what have you. I heard some plausible teaching on Mid trib but I still lean toward Pre-Trib. That being said, regardless of how this all fleshes out in real-time, all I know for certain is that I want to live with Jesus for eternity. So, whatever shtf before I leave this life, since my body is not what it used to be I figure I will do like they do in the movies. Remain behind and give interference for the young-uns so they can escape whatever foe may exist at the time. All said and done, my hope is in Christ alone. No president, no government or no man/woman. (huge smile) I have tasted of the Lord and have found Him to be extremely awesome, an ever-present help in times of trouble mighty, loving, long-suffering to me over the years.
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This was excruciating to watch but I had to watch it none the less. This was very educational for me. What I find to be even worse is, they kept saying that AL is not regulated as heavy as skilled nursing. That is awful. What is even worse is that what experience I have had dealing w my Mother in Law and later my own husband, skilled nursing is still a nightmare even though they are regulated. I can't tell you how many times I witnessed, lack of staff on all levels at any given time. Lack of training. Staff that made me wonder if they barely passed their certifications or not. I hope that when the time comes that the Lord will just go ahead and take me home as opposed to having to live in AL or SN either one. My recommendations for family members w loved ones that have dementia/Alzheimers or other severe issues. I highly recommend keeping them at home if at all possible. But with this previso, that the entire family contribute to caring for that loved one and extend the help to friends and fellow church members to help in various capacities. It is very true that most times, one family member ends up doing it all and are expected to still do it all for their own household. Caregiving is hard and no one person or family can care for a loved one alone. Remember also, that there are situations where there are no other choices but put someone you love in a facility. But if you do, I highly recommend installing a camera in their room, check on them often or have family alternate different days and times to check up on them, inspect them for sores, bruises, pressure sores etc. Check w the medication staff, see if they are taking thier meds or not. Notice how much staff they have. And yes, from the get go, check out the facitilites aides to patients ratio and if they are meeting it or not.
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Another hard reality about NH. There is a reason they call them NH "communities". The pr paints a picture of which to a point is true is that this is a place where the people living there are not considered patients but rather residents. And that's because it is their home. I'm sorry but home is never like that. Or at least shouldn't be. Another hard reality. I can't speak for all but for us. My husband was placed in an NH in an adjoining city to our own. So, when it came to our brick/mortar church system (not true Christians we knew) had zero contact with my husband. He lived 5 miles out of our home city limit. Our brick/mortar church had an on-going ministry @ the NH located within our small city. The volunteers would go to that NH weekly. Do you think they ever had anyone to go 5 miles down the way to see my husband? No, Zilch! And it was not for lack of knowledge, nor a lack of being inactive in the church nor being a new member, we had been attending that place for decades. Family started out w good intentions, but the hard realities soon kicked in and those visits I can count on both hands within the stretch of a five-year period until his death. As for myself, I would visit every other day or more when issues arose. And brother, let me tell you there were lots of issues. I must admit that I felt the pain of the aloneness that he experienced and the utter feeling of being forgotten and or cast aside feeling that were very hard to combat even though that was not necessarily always the case. Lord has mercy. Again, I state NH is not for the faint of heart. Certainly not for the one living there nor for those who love that person. As for the church, hey that deserves a YT channel all its own and there are plenty of them out there that deal with church system abuses of any and all levels. To which I say this, don't equate God with how your brick/mortar churches treat or not treat you. Read that Bible for yourself. Cultivate a real personal relationship with Almighty God. I kid you not, He indeed, is a rewarder of anyone who diligently seeks Him. It is THE one stabilizing person, who truly walked and literally carried us through that extremely difficult and dark 5 years stretch of our lives.
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@carification Yes there are activities and hobbies, and yes, they can be fun to participate in. The catch is, it is activities that the NH decides and the NH dictates when, where and for how long they take place. When I would visit my hubby in NH. There were times when the residents would get crosswise with each other over a game. One time I had to break up one nasty verbal argument going on because no one else was available @ that moment to intervene. Also, an issue of if you meet anyone that lives there that you really care to get that friendly with. There were 2 separate incidents where that one resident assaulted another resident, and the police came out to talk to the parties involved. Now, who called them? I'm not certain. I think it was one of the residents themselves that called them. Why? Because if you tell the administrator of the NH, they goanna do everything to keep whatever thing would be considered scandalous out of the public eye. (That is a fact, and usually the rule vs the exception) I don't know about all NH's but the one where my husband was at, you could not have scissors in one's possession due to risk of injury by the resident themselves or by other residents that might be in room partner or other residents that wander about.
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Everything in this video is true. Everything. There came a time when my hubby had no other choice but to go to a NH. His physical as well as his mental issues were more than I myself nor our children were able to address. We had no money outside of SSA, so the ability to choose a NH was highly limited as well. I can't emphasize enough, that if you still have a sharp mind and the ability to maintain the physical aspects of the bare minimums of caring for yourself, I highly stress that you and your family look into any and all possibilities of other ways rather than an NH to utilize. Such as in home care, assisted living or dependent upon the family that have positive strong relational structures already in place to consider considering having a granny flat installed in the back yard of one of your loved one's residences or a house that could afford you an area of their homes that would afford you a measure of privacy to yourself. If a person has issues with incontinence of urinary and or bowel issues. Just know that in a NH, the staffing is lousy and even in the best of situations the fact that you will always be subject to having to lay in or sit in "it" from anywhere to 15 minutes if you are fortunate to hours on end. And then of course by then will have to pretty much get a sponge bath or sometimes a full out bath and essentially be hosed down. And the reality is all true, there is no privacy. Also consider, there are residence there living with you that have all manner of diseases. Many who have lost their minds to the point that they wander. They go into your room thinking that it is their room when it is not, not to mention those who suffer from kleptomania issues. And you really cannot have anything that is nice nor of value because they are highly subject to being damaged or stolen. When I mean stolen, this could be due to again people who have kleptomania or flat out do not have their minds enough to know or it could be other people's visitors or even employees that will steal your stuff. When it comes to clothes. No more nice clothes. I can't tell you how off putting it is when you go see your husband and you walk past a resident who is wearing your husbands' clothes. Usually not due to their fault of the other resident but because the employees are working in understaffed and hectic and highly stressful and unrealistic expectations from those who are their bosses to do their jobs on an assembly line rather than actually have a moment to actually care that Mr. George or Mr. Smith gets their correct clothing back from the laundry room. I could write a book, but I digress. My heart goes out to anyone who have no other options other than going to an NH. And I have told my kids, should the time come that I really really do need that level of care? I have directed them that sometimes we have to do things even if we don't want to do. This is a situation where people need to do well to consider their spiritual lives and get that taken care of way before you end up losing your health and your mind. NH is not for the faint of heart. If you got half a mind left, please please please consider other alternatives first!!!!!!
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I do not understand the fascination that some people have to want to create robots that mimic a human in every way. It is so creepy how it seems so many want to think or already think of themselves as gods. There is only one God and that's the Lord God Almighty, The God of Abraham, Isaac & Jacob. And when I say some people already think of themselves as gods, I mean that there are certain religious believers that teach that they are little gods. That's apostasy to the bone or in this case to the circuit board. Here's a thought, Suppose, it would be much of a stretch to think that there is a possibility that a soul-less robot could be taken over by a demonic spirit? And isn't it rather interesting that throughout the years past, how many "programs" we have all watched on television have dealt with an ultra-soft disclosure (s) dealing with robots interacting with humans in every facet of a human's day to day life. For examples like, The Jetsons had a robot maid. The Twilight Zone, an ep abt a man who's conviction was to live on a deserted asteroid/planet & gets a female robot, another abt I sing the body electric, abt a robot nanny, or a robot that was put on trial for murder or an old couple looking at robots so that they can have their minds transferred to robots or the young women who was expected to have herself transferred into a robot, so she could be beautiful just like everyone else, And the robot on Lost in Space, or Data from Star Trek
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Excellent video on this subject. As I listened, I recalled these verses: 2 Timothy 3:13
But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived. and Matthew 7:22-24 KJV 22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
24 Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:
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So glad you got him away from there. Sadly, my hubby had both mental and physical issues and there came a point where I could no longer care for him at home. Needless to say, he became increasingly difficult to deal with for me and I was the one that loved him. So, imagine how things went while he was there. It was hell. I found out that when it comes to dealing with difficult patients that there is little to no training at all to the staff in how to handle the various issues that arise. And let me tell you the list of issues are massive. The staff would call me and or my son at all hours of day and night because they could not deal with him. For that I am grateful for because one staff member, had a literal brawl down in the floor with him per his roommate's testimony. My son and I continually would be telling them when he had a mania attack, to leave him alone, if at all possible, regardless of whatever they needed to do, like change linens, give him a bath, pretty much anything and everything. He would get that bad at times. Which was due to his mental illness. He also had several physical issues as well. 2 female nurses decided one day they were going to give him a sponge bath against his will. He ended up falling off the bed and the two nurses down in the floor with him. Mind you my husband b4 he became ill was physically fit for decades, and even in his 70's and weighing 90 pounds he could still wipe the floor with people if/when he had a mind to. NH is a nightmare for compliant individuals. So, for the difficult patient, it takes it all to a whole different level. Not for the faint of heart most definitely.
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