Comments by "Vaska Tumir" (@vaska1999) on "Genevieve Gluck: Why I’m exposing the trans cult | The Brendan O’Neill Show" video.

  1. ​ @GreatSageSunWukong  You experienced degradation, sexual abuse and humiliation from a very selfish heterosexual pervert. Please do seek some therapy (the key is finding a therapist who listens to you, validates you and with whom, as a result, you feel comfortable) and understand that you're a woman with a perfectly normal reaction to what your ex put you through. I myself was married (briefly) to hetero pervert, and I know how hard it is to defend oneself from such narcissistic men and to draw firm boundaries. There are probably quite a few of them around given the apparently general acceptance of pornography in our societies, but they don't represent all men. Perhaps not even the majority. Once you get your inner strength and self-, confidence back and start dating, I think it'd be a good idea to ask the man on a second or third date whether he likes pornography and how often he uses it. In a totally calm, detached, just-out-of-interest sort of way so you don't give him any clues as to how he's to answer those questions. You'll need to rehearse asking such questions before you put them to your date and don't wait for the fourth date: you want to eliminate men you definitely don't want to see again and you also don't want to alienate a good guy by springing such a question on him on your first date. You deserve a full life and a family, so don't let that piece of excrement spoil your life for you! ❤
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