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As the saying goes, "Chase excellence, not women." The older I get the more I get women thinking I'm the catch. Never married so no alimony, no kids so no child support, house paid for, cars paid for, my own hobbies with my own clique of friends and the freedom to go anywhere I want at anytime I feel. (work pending.) And when people, especially women try to shame you, belittle you are telling you it's not the norm, IGNORE them. Do what makes you happy and enjoy. Majority of them are jealous, bitter, miserable or all 3. Joker living his life the way HE wants. THAT'S freedom.
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On a serious note, I just never wanted to be married with kids because I just like my security of KEEPING my money that I earn. I'm 50 now and when I was younger I did have people say I was selfish or immature but it's amazing how these same people now say I was ahead of my time or if they could've done it again,,,,,,,,,,,,.
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Reminds me of the joke "How come there are no women in heaven?,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,because then it'd be hell." LOL
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I'm 50 now & to be honest I was nervous that I was set in my ways beginning in college on never getting married & no kids. Now I am so HAPPY on my choices. All I see is train wrecks called women, too many friends & their horror stories about divorces, losing kids, moving back in w/parents, selling their hobbies(bb cards, cars ,etc). Now that you're here Joker, I feel like Canseco after his Vindicated book came out. And I agree, it's getting worse, not better,,,,,not better yet.
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I normally live a quiet life & keep to myself. I've noticed when women find out more about me, like I have my own house, no alimony, no kids, couple of classic Z28's, & enjoy my life my way, they become MORE interested in "getting to know me." It's amazing how many times when I tell them I have NO interest in LTR's right from the beginning of meeting, months later they STILL get annoyed, angry & definitely my favorite, the shaming and belittling comes out when I STILL say no to a LTR. Men/Bachelors, just ignore them when women do that. Walk away like "whatever". Some go more nuts, some get the point. But once in while 1 does text on a lonely friday night for them. It's like these cliches write themselves sometimes. Anyway, Good Luck with everything Joker!!!!
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I feel like Canseco after he wrote his book "Vindicated" after going a few decades of dealing with family, friends, co-workers & many women constantly telling me "You should get married, have kids, settle down." After many, many of these people are divorced, hate their kids, hearing about co-workers jealous of me now that I can retire at 54 and as for the women, of course I can see why THEY wanted to get married & have kids, they get all the benefits from breaking said government document that is a marriage certificate. But hey, to each their own.
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50 now and EXTREMELY happy that I never married. Not going to lie, was nervous when I was younger & starting out but after hearing all the horror stories from relatives & friends about divorces, kids, in laws, their money was their wives money, etc, I feel VERY vindicated about my decision. Once in a blue moon I do wonder if I had caved to the norm where I'd be now, if I made a bad choice, but then I look at my bank account from the 80z28 & think,,,,,,,,,,nope!
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Just like Joker says, "Yeah. She's pretty. I think she's a smoke show." That's a preference. Perfectly fine. Now, all these women will say the same exact thing that Joker said. To me, she is average at best, not that attractive. Once again, a preference. But the one thing these women will shame men for, belittle them for or put them down for is when men TELL them that they are not attracted to them. Modern women's egos can't deal with that like men can. Men don't live up to women's preference's, she's strong, powerful and she'll never settle for anything less. But if I'm not attracted to a certain woman, whether she's obese, A-cupped, covered in tats or like most of them, single moms, society & these women tell me that I'm the A-hole. Luckily, I couldn't care what society or women think, but unfortunately not every man is built like that.
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In my 20's back in the day, once I realized the more I catered to MY life & not on society's norms (marriage, 9 to 5 job, kids,) life just got better & better, mentally, physically & money wise. Whatever they call this type today, Alpha, Sigma or Loner, the thing that gets better is women to choose from, better investment opportunities & just peace of mind. Just depends on what a man wants in life.
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@BetterBachelor I'm just glad someone does have a channel on here because every thing you say is how I've felt & talked about since the 80's all the while people mocked, pitied, laughed or ignored me. Being 50 now, enjoying the single life with my own money, house, cars, hobbies & "toys". Now they tell me horror stories, divorces, kids hate them, don't respect them, treat them like ATM's, exes screwing them in court, etc. Joker, you are truly telling it like the facts they are!!!!
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@SomeCanine Very true. Only problem with some of them is that they actually dig around, asking other people questions about you. I mean sometimes they just see a man in his own house, with an extra car, hobbies, etc. "you're going to Florida again, why don't you take me too,,,," Just always with the nagging/questions. Sometimes man, if it weren't for the fact I love a girls body or boobs,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,!!! Then again I'd have no other reason to deal with them.
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Sitting during that speech, Trump looks like he's thinking, "I wish I could fire her, she's terrible." That woman as pastor has NO clue how millions of illegals, especially the ones that have been here for years, live better than ordinary citizens. Working off the books, not paying taxes, kids get free schooling, many still collecting gov't benefits, etc, etc.
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Oh wow, that first profile of the day,,,,,,,,,, I thought all those daddy/step daddy with daughter/stepdaughter videos were just on YouPorn. LOL
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Women don't really hate men, they just HATE the fact that they now have to work for a living & can't get a man to pay their debts, bills, rent & worse, their kids. Plus it's just so easy to hook up with these women today, there's just no reason to ring them up, unless you want a family. But even then,,,,,,meh.
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Not the type of woman the Commodores were talking about when they sang "She's a brick,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,house!!!!!!!!!!!!"
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Typical woman dating profile: 6ft tall, very muscular, must own a house, must have a car for me, must earn 150K a year but only work a regular 40 hour week, take me on 4 vacations a year overseas, must not have kids, must provide for my 2 kids from 2 different daddies, must pay my credit cards on time, must buy me flowers twice a week, must not get jealous when I have guy friends & must not spend more than 2 days a month at the gym. Men on dating profile: I want a fit & feminine woman. Women everywhere: HOW DARE YOU!! YOU'RE A MYSOGINST PIG & PART OF THE PATRIARCHY PROBLEM KEEPING WOMEN DOWN!!!!!
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@PassionateSpirit88 I'm 54 now, born & raised in NY, was a minor league ball player in the Eastern league, "retired" at 28, lived all over the country at times for an automotive warehouse company and NOW fully retired in Knoxville for now. Getting women was never really a problem if you have some game. Sort of like poker, win some, lose some, bet in, fold out. Now at my age it seems the most reactions just in general is the cliche that's thrown out there now. Target, Walmart, Kroger, Publix, Denny's rest stop or just a nice restaurant like Gondoliers seems to have older women (30's-50's) more flirtatious than I've ever noticed. But I'm still sure it depends on the guy too. And if a woman is not my type, oh well. They're like buses, there's a new one every 15 minutes.
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In my 20's) How come you're not married? In my 30's) When are you going to settle down with a wife and kids? In my 40's) Do you want to die alone? How come you're so selfish by working all the time? You should settle down. In my 50's) (From married men usually) You're so lucky you never married. My kids are draining me financially & never see them. In my 50's) (From the women usually) You've never married, no kids, no drama, no debt, own your house, go wherever you want, are semi retired with money in the bank,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,You're a catch!! As the saying goes young men, "Chase excellence, not women." They WILL notice you if you are successful or successful in a way where you're financially stable and better off than many of the divorced men. It can, will and does pay off.
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Women just need to realize that men don't need a relationship with a woman today. It's such a double standard when women keep ranting "women don't need men" or "Do we need men at all?", they don't realize that men can live on their own,,,,,,,,,,,,and enjoy it too!! Not really a woman's nature to live alone. Besides, who wants to marry a woman whose body has been eyed by 1000's upon 1000's of men online already.
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Personally, I say who cares if older women say middle aged men have outlived their usefulness. To me, middle aged women are even MORE useless, especially since not 1 has ever beaten the Wall. Their bodies are used & abused, v-sleeves are more stretched out than a Stretch Armstrong doll, majority of them are fat now, many have/had kids, many of them have TREMENDOUS debt & majority of them get their money from alimony, child support, inheritance or daddy government. Like the saying goes, best part of being a middle aged high value man, every year there are new 22 year girls.
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