Comments by "" (@asgaiyawaya3973) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

Put one of these women on a blind date with a man, any man chinese asian whiite pink orange green whatever as long as it's random, and not with a lunatic of course, make this rule, they can talk about anything except their private lives, money job family all of that is off the table for 1 week. If that week is done then they can talk about those things. If they do this they will be shocked who they really match with and it will nail home the point they need to be more down to earth and the best men out there are actually not rich, they are just normal everyday people maybe they have a dangerous job like police or military maybe they are electricians or plumbers, they don't have big houses but they have big hearts if you are lucky maybe both and maybe they have a religion maybe they don't. Point is it's about the man and his heart money has nothing to do with it.
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I don't think it depends on the society but rather the individual. As a man i recognize that this is the result of a midlife crisis. Something that everyone encounters at some point in their life and it's different for every person and handled differently depending on the person. With that being said, having gone through it, i would talk to them and want to know what they really want. It really doesn't matter if they get it or not sometimes a friend willing to listen is enough if she wants to live at home with no work i would support her. Sometimes the heart cries out because it's looking for someone who cares. There is an emptiness within them like a person lost in the desert looking for water. It doesn't matter how they got themselves in all that matters is if you have been through it or you just sympathize then you have a moral obligation to do what you can even if it's very little Sometimes that is enough.
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These kids should have their education prioritized. Doing that job should be her choice and it seems like the system there isn't allowing her to have that choice.
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