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Comments by "Andrew Brendan" (@andrewbrendan1579) on "Лесли Морган Штайнер: Почему жертвы домашнего насилия не уходят от своих мучителей" video.
Your opening paragraph perfectly fits what is going with a friend of mine of many years. I'm a guy who has been looking into options for my friend who is psychologically and verbally abused by her husband who treats her like a slave and ATM at the same time. I've offered suggestions (never said "Do this" or "Do that", just suggestions and without criticism) and have gone fact-finding and gotten information that might help my friend leave yet she keeps finding reasons to stay and some seem to be legitimate reasons, others not so much: her husband can't take care of his physical needs alone or cooking or cleaning (I say, that's his problem) ; the dogs will have to be re-homed. Too there's a house that's nearly paid off and the matters of transportation and work and where to live after leaving and how to pay for it. I would never have thought getting free of an abuser would be so complicated. I'm here for my friend and when she's ready to take the next step of leaving I'll do everything I can to assist.
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