Comments by "Bobby Loo" (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys) on "China’s Leftover Women Overwhelming? 1:9 Male-To-Female Ratio in Dating" video.

AKA gold digger, they want to marry into a high social class. But has nothing to offer.
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These women are book smart, BUT NO STREET smart or common sense.
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The guy in the video is absolutely right, an economic stable and handsome men are already taken by young and beautiful women. Many leftover women adv more than men in the marriage market. Only 40+ and divorce men can fullfill their requirement, yet they don't want divorced men. So I ask you Chinese mature ladies, who is the picky one?
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@hazybliss4069 Those women getting pregnant at 50s are and not natural. Think about it.
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@hazybliss4069 The higher the age, the higher the risk. It is biology and common sense. 25 yrs vs 40 yrs old, generally, who has higher risk? Come on. THINK!
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Established Chinese men in their 35 can find a women in their 25, can you ladies say the same. You are 35, can you find a 35 (+/- 2 or 3 yrs) man? High quality men has more choices than high quality women. Too bad they dont have this basic understanding, as they see themselves highly valued. Keep on thinking this way ladies and see if you can hook a man. GL.
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Those mature women are gambling with their limited time, waiting and hoping for the knight and shinny armor to find them. They believe they are worthy because of their high education. I tell you, they are not worthy. The only value is the youth and beauty. They may be beautiful at 30+, but their biology say otherwise. Having a child at 35 is dangerous for the mother and the child. They are playing a dangerous waiting game. By the time, they realize their standards are too high, and have awoken from the fantasy world, they have aged and beauty faded.
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These Chinese women has forgotten their roots, they belong in the household, raising children. Chinese men are looking for woman who can raise children, do housework and etc. yet, these woman refuse to go back to their roots/traditions, so they chase their career and equality. It is ok, to chase these things, but don't expect us successful men to chase you. Old and mature women are NOT luxury good. They can continue to think highly of themselves, but we Chinese men will NOT take your bait so easily. Im telling you lades, 20-25 yr old are luxury, not 35+
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well said. THey do not understand what man want in a women. THe only thing they are good at is advertising their demands. THey have little to offer, when past 30 yrs old. Chinese men knows EXACTLy want they want.
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@Redjoker96 Agreed. These Chinese women with their (unless) education, have high demands for their partner, which they beleive is equal to that of their partner. What they fail to understand, that men will always be the head of the family and the main income earner for the family. So their master and PHd degrees works well in the cooporate world, BUT not in a relationship. It is sad that these women beleive their degree grants them equal rights in a relationship. Chinese men want women to bear children and take care of the home. We want them to be simple and let men take care of the income.
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When these mature women FINALLY realize their thought process, it is already too late. They were too native, playing the waiting game and refusing to look at Chinese men, beyond both their economic status and physical look, only judging negatively, what they don't have, such as fully paid car, high annual salary, tall and handsome and etc. They refuse to see the reality and believe that their princess is just around that corner. They refuse to beleive their own short comings They refuse to lower their requirements, thinking that their self independence and high education will successful get a prince charming They only demand and have little to offer when they reach age 35 They refuse to look at men beyond economics and looks, and only judging on their pockets and not look at their hearts. They refuse to beleive that 20 yrs old is less valuable than themselves, because they feel they are more economically and socially accomplished self individual. Yet, l must ask, if they are so great, why are they still single? Because they are gambling with time, waiting and waiting and refuse to lower their standards. The men they are chasing is IN THEIR dreams! The men they want are less than 0.1% They men they desiring are rich CEO that are already married to young women, whom are less than 25 yrs old and can give them children These mature women have BIG dreams, with high hopes = high disappointments. I hope they do! I hope they have a good single and lonely life and when they are sick and dying, they die alone peacefully, without love in the world to give to these high standard women.
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@hazybliss4069 Alright, go have a baby with a woman at 40+ yrs old. GL
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= gold digging. They want to marry rich
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Chinese men DO NOT want high quality women. They want low quality women in education and independence. If these high quality women are so great with their high independence and career driven, then they should remain on that path. They are not attractive to Chinese men as we Asian men are still the dominate in society and in the household. If a women has a PHd and earns 150k+ rmb, a typical man can't match her education and earners, so he will find someone with less education and less earning potential. We asian men want a women that is more traditional, stay at home, be a homemarker and let the man worry about earning money for the family. A man is a man for a reason. He is the income earner. If the woman makes more money than a man, his peers and family and relative will look down on him, saying your wife is better you in every way. She makes more money, has higher education and etc. ALso, women wont' marry a man with less education, rather more education with good and stable income. So, men will find women, with less economic value and more household value + beauty and age are equally important. Those Chinese women with master and PHd can only find a man with the same level, but those man want women lower than them. The only men these women can go for are: -western men, who do not care about these traditions -divorce men (but Chinese women dont' want them, even though they are high successful -men with little education aka, rural men (again, they will not want) As a result, they pool of potential is become shallow. However, for a man who is 30+ and has good job, house, car, etc, their pool is HUGE. He has lots of potential to find a women less than 25 yrs old.
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