Comments by "Bobby Loo" (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. This proves that those woman on the show are looking for $, not love.
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  2.  @ChinaUnvarnished  THese event see men as ATM.
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  3. A man suggesting going out of coffee and not a 5 star restaurant is normal. Why invest in the woman on the first date.
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  4. the women with glasses has NO solution. IF the women works hard and get degrees and job, her standards will rise. Once she has acheive those thigns, she is over 30+ and very few men will want her, due to faded beauty and have difficulites bearing children.
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  5. The women who is 38 with glasses is a sugar mommy, willing to support a man. That is awesome. Finally, a man being taken care of by an older woman.
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  6. How the tables has turned on these GD. She though she strike gold. But it was he, who made money. Well done! Finally, GD got scammed.
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  7. Agreed. If it is tradition, then it is also a tradition that the bride/woman is pure. If not pure, no bride price. Why would the man;s family buy a used car when they can use the same money to get an 18 yr old for their son.
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  8. The crazy lady demanding 1 M RMB in dowry can continue to wait for a man willing to give. She will be waiting for another 33 yrs.
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  9. The women, say, she wants to manage the husbands' salary and transfer the property to her name. Once that is done, she will divorce him. For her, it is her own personal lottery!
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  10. I have respect for these men. They know how to play their game and do NOT fall into THEIR trap. These men are fighting back, showing these women a mirror! The mirror is the best weapon for a man!
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  11. too much education for a women does NOT benefit man. It brings him trouble!
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  12. make bribe price illegal, is a good start.
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  13. If women judge men on their financial conditions, we men have ever right to judge on their age.
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  14. WHen women do ALL the housework, take care of the elder, raise children, men will love them! Men wants a house wife, not a career women.
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  15. Wealth and finacial stable men who is 35 wants a partner who is 25 yrs old. Why would the 35 yr old want a 38 yr old woman, who's beauty value has faded.
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  16. The guy in glasses sum up all the characteristics of a single women. Well done!
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  17. 42 yr old, it will be very difficult for her to have children. The woman in the video said, we all have issues. That may be true, but it is more who has more issues and baggage than man. Think about it, they all want men with -house and car (can be optional) -high annual salary of no less than 150k rmb -tall and handsome -similar ages as them (not divorced men with children) -can accept their emotions Men-simple -young, health and beautiful. The other woman in the car with the blue dress. Her mistake, she waited and waited. Men will take action when there are opportunities. Whereas women, are more cautious. It is fine to be cautious, but being too cautious can lose valuable opportunities. This woman lost her opportunity. So now, she is hoping the man she admire, to divorce his current life. Sounds very selfish.
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  18. Chinese were taught wrong. Univeristy degree is no longer worth much, as there are too many of them. Even master degree. These adults put too much pride in obtaining their degrees. The classes they took are out of date. All those knowledge and theories become out of date very quickly. Yet, these graduates, rarely talk about their work experience. In today's society, work experience is more valuable than just a piece of paper. And employers know this. Employer knows, nearly everyone has a pape of paper. What employers are seeking is, do they have work experience. Employers no longer want to train you, as it is a cost. On day one, the employee better start making money for the company or they are fired. Employers don't have the time, resource or energy to train. Furthermore, employers do not want textbook answers. They want those with high IQ and quality street smart, aka, common sense, problem solving skills, critical thinking. These can't be taught, only acquired through life and experiences. So, rather talk about what degree or what university he/she attends, how about talk about your skills, and working experience. Because your peice of paper is a piece of garbage!
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  19. Any women that say, they don't have high standards, it means, their standards are high. When they say, they have already lower their standard, it is still high, even though they are 35+ yr old. For example, before, they demand the guy to earn 30k RMB per month and then lower the standard to 25k. Or from 1.8m to 1.75 m or from expecting the guy that has house and car, to only a house.
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  20. Finally, these match making are NO longer helping these selfish and high standard women. These agents are like real estate, matching buyers with sellers. The chances of earning commission from these 35+ mature women is NOT profitable, since they are very picky. These agent...err...match maker, would rather spend time and effort on those less 28 yr old. Im glad, these match making companies are understanding that it is mission impossible. Why are these mature/luxury women are angry at guys who don't want to chase these mature women. It MAKE NO sense. MEN have choices too, not just women. It makes TOTAL sense for handsome, successful men to chase 18 yr old. They are really angry (and self fish and stubborn) at THEMSELVES for waiting, being a career women and maintaining their high standards. Now they are blaming men! Yet, they don't blame themselves. They are playing the victim.
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  21. Dont like your supervisor, LEAVE. Leave the job, leave the bs, leave the bully. Get a job that deserve respect!
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  22.  @grgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgr2592  agreed. 20 yr old body are hot, sexy, smooth and all natural. Can a 39 yr old woman say the same? These women may say or think, they are young at heart. They could be. But their biology say otherwise.
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  23. To the lady in the red top (38), keep on dreaming! A guy that 100% meet all your requirement. That only happens in dreams. GL. Less than 1% chance.
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  24. Women who are homeless, would want this. No need to pay rent after marriage, LOL
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  25. THese princess will be single for their rest of their life and are disppointment in the eyes of their parents!
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  26. She is crazy! She will continue to be single.
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  27. it is simple, if the girl demands you to buy an expensive girl on a first or blind date, then the men can demand some action or 2, depending on the market price of the action. For example, if the item is worth 5k rmb, he must get 5-10 actions from the girl, or it is not worth spending on item on the girl, If these women see men as ATM, then it is fair that we men see these women as OUR pleasure toys! And these women must take the pill after the action.
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  28. Many of these women CAN"T have both. It is either career and independent single life or marry before the age of 30. Men can wait, but women can't. Day by day, women's beauty fades.
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  29. He will win in court. She will lose! Bc, they are divorced and she already got 250k and she accepted the 250. Done deal.
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  30. THese women are never satisfy with what they have. THey are always looking for a partner that is better than their previous one. Fair. We men are always looking for 20 yr olds. Successful men are the PRIZE NOT women in their 30s
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  31. smart man! When going on a blind date, if she suggest a place, to eat or drink, it is scam. Do NOT go to her suggested place!
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  32. so true, if he is wealthy, girls WILL line up for him. ANd the girl won. She gets to live an outstanding and luxury life. WHat else does she want.
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  33. if a guy ask a man's job, finances, how many houses, car, and other materalistic goods, then it is perfectly fine for the guy to ask if a women is in deed capable of being a women and NOT a career women. Cooking, cleaning, and other household chores are what Chinese men are looking for. WHat is the point of marrying a women, if she can not take care of the house and bear children. A man want these skills aka home maker while a women wants a financial supporter.
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  34. Family is number 1 in China. If the daughter who isn't married, the father/mother will lose face! Relative will criticism them, saying, how did you raise your daughter. So, the parents also feel pressure from their side of their family. When the daughter is 35 and still not married, family members will judge the mother and father, saying and thinking, you failed to raise your child well, if she is still single. SO, i totally understand the father's side. ANd he most likely wants grand children, which being single cant give to her parents. Failed!
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  35. 50 min commute is normal, as many people commute 2h+ daily.
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  36. There is a new marriage law that was past recently in 2025, in China to protect men's finances
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  37. Those university grads that can only work as sales, coffee markers, and etc, then that is your life value, with or without degrees. They have been lied to by: family, friends, society, etc that education is a ticket to a good life. This was true 20+ yrs ago, but no more. Unversities are still making money. Imagine, a graduate earning 5000rmb a month, l dont know the tution cost, but im pretty sure it will take along time to earn the money back from their tuitions (paid by their parents, most likely). Many university papers are becoming obslete and useless, especially arts degree. Those with STEM degree have a higher chance. This is also true in the west. University is an experience, it is a luxury. The return is not longer worth it. Street smart is becoming more valuable than papers received from university. We have all been lied to. Only a very few lucky ones can earn high salary. It also depends on luck, your personality, looks and street smart experience.
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  38. Women's life is easy. WTF Stay at home do housework. And when the kids are at the age of going to school, she drop them, spend 2 hours doing housework and she has 4 hours to herself to relax and do what she wants to do. The man, has to work 8 hours for money! The women, max 5 hours (cook, clean, pick up, drop off kids, educate, them) This is why men dont want our women to work, when he has a good and stable income. ALL he wants and needs is come home and there is food on the table, house is clean, kids are quiet and etc Is that hard for a woman?
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  39. I tell them, your degree is worthless to me, both economically and personally.
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  40. Many Chinese believe their degree can secure good jobs. Everyone wants good jobs, but that is the problem. Too few good jobs, and too many people with degrees.
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  41. Finally, the women in the video understands basic biology and understand what men wants. So glade to hear, match making agency are no longer helping 35+ woman. It makes NO sense to help them because, they all want the 1% men. But those 1% men are already married and why would the 1% men want an old lady. He wants a 20 yr old. And when the match making agency can't find them a partner, they will talk down on the agency, saying their company is shit. By not taking in 35 yr women, the match making agent, they dont; need to deal with their BS.
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  42. Sadly, these rural parents with a son is very desperate, as they want their son to marry and carry on the family name, as it is a very old tradition in rural China. With dowry, it is like buying a woman for their son. Woman in rural area have a big advantage, if they choose to stay in the rural, which is rare as many want to venture out of the city to seek richer partners. For those rural women that do say in their home rural, their mother knows economics 101; supply and demand. As a result, the daugther's parents can demand high dowry and those men that are interested will find a way to pay or buy the woman.
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  43. This shows men are always smarter and powerful than women in society. We have logic, they do not. They speak with their emotions which makes not sense They are the consumers, while we men are the producers.
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  44. The women that earns 600k RMB. How can see be a mother if she is 100% devoted to her work. Also, how can she have a child at that age. Unless both parties do not want children, which is rare in China. And she still dont understand why she is single? These Chinese women, do they have any understanding of men? The 38 yr old women, say she is beautiful. Yes, to her, she is. Bc her statment is her only. Men when knowing her true age, will NOT have the same opinion as her. She will never argue with her partner. This sounds like an ad show on tv...a big juicy burger, full of fries and nice cold drink, only to find the burger looks like shit, fries are cold and cola is flat. All these women say, they are a good catch/buy, just like ads on tv.
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  45. bc, too many gold diggers, women with feminist ideas, bribe price, insane standards at 30+ yrs old and etc
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  46. Those that demand dowry, let them be single! Single men can go to neighbouring country to get a wife.
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  47. Married for $, she even said it, loud and clear.
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  48. Why are these women worry about money. That is their husband's job. If these women think their husband salary is too low, they can cut child's expensive, such as piano, dance classes etc. Women should just focus at home, being a homemarker and child raising and let the man focus on earning money. Boss firing women is normal. Also, her cost/salary is too high, so it was right for the male boss to let her go. He also think like men. Women are homemarkers not career makers.
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  49. We men don't disrespect our own mother, we disrespect mothers and daughters that disrespect man's value. These women look down on rural men because they have no money, but have good character They look down on men without good jobs So it is only fair, we look down on them, especially their high confidence, thinking they can get any rich man they want. THey forget that men are the prize, not women. A man can lift up a women's social status, and the women give face to the man, ONLY if she is young and beautiful.
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  50. Education is NOT a guaratee. Those without degree but is willing to work hard, gain real working skills (not just study and get out of date knowledge), can earn more than those with masters. By working at a young age, one can earn the real work experience, real life problem solving, critical thinking. One cannot get that buy buried in books and listening to lecture. Thumbs up to those that DID not follow the trend and started working at age 16. THey are MORE valuable than freshly grad bc freshly grad cannot apply what they learned at school. What did learn soon become out of date. BUt those without, have one thing that fresh grads don't have. They have street smart, they have made connections. THose two alone is more valuable than ANY degree. It is easy to understand, too many ppl with degree. It is no longer a worthy investment. The value has decrease to just an A4 paper. Working or studying hard is no longer a guarantee. It is who you know, your connections, luck, experience, etc all counts.
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  51. From a women's POV (self), the man suppose to bring in the flow of cash. If that flow of cash runs out (lay off, etc), the women starts to feel anxious. And after 2-4 months, when the man still doesn't find work, she assume he is lazy. When the man does find a job, she will say, it is too low. Basically, men can NEVER satify a women. Those CEO husands with houses, cars, huge cash flow, tall and handsome are no different. THeir woman will complain and say, he spend too much time in the office or spends more time eaerning money than being with family. U see guys, it is so hard to satisty them. They will always find something to complain. And most of us, take their abuse by biting our tongue. But when we criticize them, ALL HELL BREAKS LOSE! WTF
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  52. The problem is, with bribe price and those women have education, they DON"T serve the women's family. They go to work and do minimal housework. So there is no value for the man's family. The man's family wants a housemaid wife, not a career women. By having a career women in the man's family, then what is the point for the man to work. These Chinese women claim to be traditional, by accepting bribe price, but do not accept their role as a homemarker.
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  53. Totally agree with the match maker's new business model.
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  54. Will the company help with -dowry/bride price -cost of wedding -cost of raising and having children, including all medical care -children's tuition -clothing and diapers and milk formula HELL NO!
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  55. These well establish, financial stable Chinese men are NOT lame. They don't want a highly educated partner. Chinese men want a partner that is obedient; a home marker, raise children, take care of the elderly. Chinese woman want a man to be a provider. If you are single, 35 yrs old and a 25< is interested in you and ask you out, wants to get to know you. Are you saying, you will reject her, reject these beautiful Chinese girl, who are not 25 yrs old yet? Yes, they might be gold digging. But if one is smart, one can detect it early on.
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  56. bc, she is not satisified. Even if her husband earns 20k (which is almost equal to a first yr expat eacher in China as a foreigener), she will not be satified after a few months, as she continuously wants to compare to the next family who's husband is making 30k rmb per month. So will NEVER be satified. I make over 700k rmb a yr, after tax, and my wife is MORE than satified. Yet, I still want to earn more! ANd my wife say, no need! TOld me, no need to work so hard for more! The most satisfing part is free tution for our child!
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  57. And society. Society taught women to go to school, get job and etc. THen, they are old by men's standard.
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  58. By donating to the disaster and they say, they will show the cost in detail. Information on the "bill" can be falsified. Rather than asking the local citizen, where are the officials with their 100s of millions of dollars in their many accounts all over the world. Why should locals donate when officials do not.
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  59. These mature women should focus on being a women and not a man. Focus on getting a man, so they don't need to worry about money. It is a man's job to be the income earner. Companies MUST give job to man FIRST. -they are the ones raising the family -they need bribe money -they need house It is fair because these women DEMAND these things I praise ANY company that only hire man FIRST.
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  60. As women age, they become less valuable. As men age, they become more valuable.
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  61. GOLD DIGGER. That is why she was divorce. Once she got the name on the property and the bribe price, she hands him the divorce paper and a list of reasons why.
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  62. Their unrealistic and high demand have made men ran away fast. No longer simping, no longer wooing them, no longer paying for the first blind date. Men have awoken and no longer treating these women as princesses.
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  63. agreed. I only hire women straight out of uni. Any women over 28, l tell them straight up. Use that time and learn to be a women and find a bf or go to the country side and farm. Plenty of jobs there! And l dont' even offer job to those older women, bc, if l do, they feel insaulted by the low salary.
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  64. Chinese born after 1990 can't endure hardship, due to being little emperor and princesses. Recent graduates have NO work experience, only a piece of paper. I won't hire without experience. Start at the bottom and slowly work your way up.
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  65. A good policy to ban dowry, but came too late.
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  66. THey are good in business but terrible in relationships.
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  67. IF men needs their juices squeeze, just look to the street, alley ways. Cheap and quick an No responsibilites. No need car, house, bribe price, just the daily rate.
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  68. These left over can try to find older men, that were divorced. Yet, these mature women will not.
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  69. All these women all say, what they want and demand, but never say, what they offer. GD
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  70.  @hendyanthony722  insane standard = insane woman, still in the dream world. Dont think she will come back to reality any time soon. She should just remain single, as the 1% rich and handsome is unreachable for her, due to her old age.
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  71. 1. Make Dowry illegal 2. reduce the price of housing 3. Better benefits for women
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  72. Too many young adults, want to start their own business and become boss. But they lack money. Also, they don't look at the downside. What if there no costumers. Opening a business that become unsuccess can drain one's saving including parents. Too much risk! I too started a business, but it has zero cost. Tutoring.
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  73. THese women gamble with time and they LOST. THeir dream man will NOT want them, as they will want longer women who are 18
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  74.  @raymondcarter1137  ONly if she can communicate in English. Many rural women do not have much education, therefore, English is out!
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  75. Agree. If she is too beautiful and he is just avg financially, ppl will look down on him, bc he can't afford her.
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  76. the 55 yr old man, approach Athena, asking if she would be with him. SHe should be flattered, yet still picky. Will till she is 40, and see what happens. The, 60 yr old men will approach her.
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  77. This may be true for Chinese living in China, but not for foreigners (including ABC, CBC and etc). Foreigners in China are always valuable and desirable, especially in the education sector. Foreign teachers vs Chinese teacher have the same number of classes, receive much more in salary, benefits and etc. The only benefit that foreigners don't get is pension. But we get air and housing allowance, which they do not get. Air and housing allowance is worth more than their yearly pension.
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  78. Men in their 30 wants fresh college grads. Why chase these crazy left over, when he can get 22 yr old or younger.
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  79. If the husband (in China), needs the wife to earn money, it is because the husband can't earn enough to support the family. So, if the husband's salary isn't enough, he should look for a higher paying job and not give stress to the wife, as the wife has to take care of the children. As a man, my job is to make sure l earn enough money for the whole family, so the wife doesn't need to. If the man can't earn enough...hmmm...he can take part time job as a delivery man. In my opinion, for me, l would never demand my wife to find a job, just to support the family. After all, the man is the man of the house, he should be the man income earner. If he needs the wife's help (salary)...he isn't fullfilling his duties. But that is just me.
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  80. Having a daughter is better than having a son. For sons in China, the parent has to buy a house to get future wife. This is a requirement for marriage. Having a daughter, it is NOT a requirement, rather it is option. Daughter's education is optional. Having a daughter will little to no education can still get married young and beautiful. A man with little or no education, becomes a left over.
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  81. The problem with these men, is that, they took out long term mortgage, thinking their job forever. Have they never though of, what if the campany goes under or restructure. Morgage is a death trap. By having a mortage, one becomes the slave for the bank, until it is paid off. After paying it off, the total housing price with interest doubled than the purchasing price.
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  82. Most important, those mature and high standard single women think their education and career gives them the power in the relationship, bring their work criteria to the relationship, criticize the man this and that. Whereas a young women, 18-24 is fresh, mind is simple and has NOT been brainwashed and NO real working experience. We men can flavor them as we please. Less opinion, less arguements, less divorce and more happy marriage. NO feminist!
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  83. They are chasing a dream, that are unlikely to come true.
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  84. agreed. These women spend so much time, energy and effort to building their career and become a career women. They all have forgotten what it truely means to be a women. Yet, all these women, want to marry a rich man, yet smart rich men see right through them, only wanting the men's money! Companies and bosses dont want to hire women, and I agree with them! Those are smart bosses. THey should only hire men as men are the ones who need money to raise the family, NOT women. If women want to rise themselves, they can go back to the countryside. There are plenty of food there and single men!
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  85. These mature women wont lower their standard, as it is seen as losing face. When they lower their economic standard, they are thinking, what is the point of getting a master or PHd.
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  86. Mother with adult sons, what their son to marry a women that can do housework, not career focus and can take care of the man's parents! The mother in law wants their daughter in law to be obedient daughter by taking care of the family. But many women that have degrees do not want to go back to tradition, so they are single.
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  87. what is wrong with working in a factory, at least she can survive.
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  88. GL to these older single women. They played themselves. THey did this to themselve, wanting equality. NO feminism. Women do NOT deserve the same right as men.
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  89. run! Not a good deal.
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  90. This is what happens in china, bc of dowry. He bought damaged goods without a warantee. And now the company will not accept the damaged goods. Solution: Now the man and the family has to spend me to repair that damaged goods via medical expensives and etc.
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  91. 100k bride price is too little, she needs to up to 150-200k for a young man of 25, since she is already 35.
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  92. If foreigner students are taking adv, one can also say, many Chinese parents fly aboard and get American citizen by giving birth there. Yet both parents are Chinese. So both countries are getting benefits. Furthermore, there is obviously a political motive. For example, giving hugh scholarships (free education, free...) to African student. Officials want to show the African govt that CHina is generous to their people. As a result, they want something in return. When it comes to trade talks with African govt, ther eis no doubt that official will say: we gave hugh scholarship to your people, now return the favor.
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  93. GOod, l hope this law holds and protect men with property, not more 50/50, even though the man/man's family brought the property.
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  94. These single mature women are always looking for someone that is better than their ex, yet their time is ticking, reaching 35+. THey don't understand that men only care about their age and beauty, especially age bc beauty can be fake and hidden with all that makeup. Yet, they still demand high standard when they are 30+. Yet, why would a man want old/used car (had many bf and already stretched) when the man can go after early 20, when 20 yr old
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  95. Agreed. It is like a competition for them, a game. To see who get that promotion first, get the bf first, married first and all their bs games. And when the friend is "winning" her bestie will do what she can do sabotage her accomplishments.
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  96. At the match making corners in CHina, it is women who are desperate and not men. THere are more women being advertised as left over goods than men. Successful men do not need to go to these market places because they know, all the ads are left overs. Successul men would just go to a university campus, dress up well and hold up a sign with his accomplishement such as job, salary, saving, cars and etc and a long line of uni students in 20s are lining up for his number. He is shopping at the new mall, new model cars everywhere. Whereas left over women are used/old/out of date goods. Why would an established man want out of date cars, when he can go to the uni campus and all cars are 10-23 yr olds.
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  97.  @johnc3525  And there r too many incompetent women who refuse to be a loyal wife/gf. And too many women simping on men, getting free meals and GD and treating men as their personal ATM.
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  98.  @Jessica-el3dc  THen what are they? They treat men like their personal ATM, demanding house, car, status. SO why not talk about Women as goods. They think they are still valuable to men. What value (not economic) do they have. What do they bring to the table. And no bs about character, personality, etc. Men can provide that too.
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  99. he has a much better woman. Good for him Woman like her, DOES NOT deserve a second change. NEVER!
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  100. The mediator should take care of her, pay all her medical expense. Clearly, she is on the woman's side and dimiss the ex husband's reason and feelings.
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  101. The number 1 problem is buying a house with mortgage. Mortgage breaks family. When the man loses the job, the wife always believe it is the man's job to pay off the mortgage. Imagine there wasnt any mortage, there will be no finanical pressure to pay the mortgage with interest. It is a HUGE burden by having mortgage. If one can not pay 80% of the down payment for a property, the risk is very high. Why play such high risk game. Pay 80% down, and mortgage 20% is doable. Not pay 20% down and mortgage 80%. Those that have huge mortgage are gambling their future, especially family with kids and wife.
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  102. This is what happens when Chinese hold on to their old traditions, wanting males as children. But when they grow up to become adults, they have so much pressure, job, buying a house or car, etc. Having a daughter, she doesnt need to worry about owning a house, it would be optional. But for me, it is a nearly 100% "a must have."
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  103. I do respect these women; getting higher education, working and etc. THese are great accomplishment. But, do men really want these qualities in China? Even a CEO for a big company, wants a young wife. Even a well off financially stable man of 30+ yrs old, wants a young wife of less than 25. These career women choose the path of being independent, earning money and spending their money how ever they pleased. Why not continue on that path. Continue on that career path. If she is lonely, how about adopting a dog? Men don't want these successful and mature woman. If ptes aren't your perferrence, you can adopt a child from anywhere in the world, especially African countries or other poor nations. You can save a life, give your adopted son/daughter the best life you can give. And now they are complaining that successful and well off men dont' want them. Well, ya. Chinese men has choices too. They want young and beautiful, non career women, the less education the better. To those independent Chinese women, I congradulate you for your success. You acheive equal right and equal opporunities, the same as a man. But don't complain why successful men don't want to date or marry you. Continue on your path of being a career women.
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  104.  @wl6020  Nice. Money is indeed power. A wealthy man walking in these parks, will indeed be on top of the women's and parents list. Fast interview. If they can answer your questions perfectly, stage 2. Nice.
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  105. The beautiful girl with earrings said it perfectly. She is giving excellent advice to all women in China. If these Chinese women continue to be picky with hand economic standards, they will become more and more leftover; unwanted vegetable in the market, that ends up in the trash. All the good vegetables are long gone, because the vegetables are fresh, and beautiful looking.
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  106. For the local yes, for the upper higher class, CCP members, NO!
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  107. Keep Dreaming!
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  108. If society think that is what your worth, then that is what is your worth. If your cost is too expensive, one can move to a 4th tier city. Don't come to 1st tier city. If one can find a higher salary, and the company/boss is willing to pay higher, than that is what the company/boss think your worth. But if not, then, keep looking. A drama degree, did she think she will land a movie role in Hollywood?
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  109. annual income is 400,000; that is about 75k USD. That is about top 15% of the population. For a man, she is too old. GL finding the top 15 in China. I would only consider it, if she was less than 25 yrs old.
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  110. They are chasing Air!
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  111. The fines are high for a reason. The officials will pocket most of it.
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  112. She can still remain single till 45, 50, 55, 60, etc. Lets see if she stiill has the same mindset and confidence at age 55+ Women like her, thinking they are forever 21. Crazy and insane.
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  113. If men spend money on dates, he MUST be something in return, in the form of getting laid. If no, what is the point of spending money. He much rather get a call girl.
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  114. The boss will buy workers luxury cars? Is it just all words? Then, when the workers demand their cars, the boss say, sorry, our profit was -ve. All the money went to the big boss pockets.
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  115. The man's family made the right decision. Find another, with no dowry. Im sure the family is regretting, as the daugther's value is fading day by day. The trade is not worth it: The guy and the family has to spend about 2 million rmb or more, just to get married (dowry, house, renovation, furniture). NOT a good trade. And if the daughter didn't argue on the man's behave, she is also equally at fault. The daugther's family is a gold digger. Period.
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  116. THey end up single and lonely. THey did this to themselves! Im glad women like her are regretting.
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  117. This uni girl student, rather than spend time and effort studying, WHICH WILL be USELESS, she should put all her effort into securing a man, BEFORE it is TOO late!
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  118. The women with the earrings tells the story perfectly, why would a 35+ man want a 33 yr old women. Having a 25 yr old wife has many benefits. She fresh, not much life experience and therefore, should have less strong opinions compared to the 33 yr old mature women. A 25 yr old should be more obedient and easy to influence, therefore, less chance of divorce. A 33 yr old with more life experience and strong opinions can lead to more arguements. That is why a mature man wants a wife (the younger the better), easy to manage and controlled. The auntie should relax the economic requirement. Not age. It makes no sense. The 33 yr old daughter value has decreased. In a few yrs, she can't bear children for the man.
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  119. TOo many ppl believe that degrees can get good jobs. They are gravely mistaken.
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  120. It is in their DNA.
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  121. Men are no longer playing their BS games!
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  122. A lexus's value will decrease over time.
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  123. To the 38 old women: your talking about the 1% who is able to find a sunny man with those criteras. Why not talk about the 99% of all the reasons why you are wrong! And the woman that was able to marry with all those factors you mentioned, is young and beautiful, less than 25 yrs old. This 38 women, sad...still in a fantasy land. She said, she has many suitors, so why is she still single. Makes on sense.
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  124. Good advice at the end of the video. Lets hope these mature women follows some of these advice.
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  125. She still think she is at her prime. She has NO value. Bc, having children at age 40 is very very hard. If she thinks African men will pay for expired goods, she should then. Yet, why is she still single If she think she is a good catch, go and find a partner. Why waste time on social media, b tiching.
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  126.  @Wben113  People with no degrees can still find jobs that pay 4000-6000 rmb. Do waiters and waitress need degrees? How about drivers and delivery? Do they need degrees to deliver, drive, clean tables at restuarant? Those working in the service industry with any degree might have a higher chance to get a little more pay, and higher change to be hired. But as employers, do they need their degrees to do their job? If a HS gradulate can work at a resturant by cleaning tables, take orders, and has working exprience, it would make sense for the employer to hiring a HS graduate with real working experience and pay them less. Why would the employer pay more with someone with a paper, when he/she can do the same job? If that HS gradulate is a capable worker and can add value to the restaurant staff, he/she deserve higher salary over time. Having a degree over the life time, still yield higher salary. But with current China's economy, many with masters can't secure the job that they study. What do you say about that? China's economy may not recover from this. Look at the Evergrande and housing policies. Together, they made the perfect storm. Housing bubble burst. Unfinished housing construction, too many university graduates, all factors are related.
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  127. If taxi drivers hate this job, find another. If one dont like their job, find another. If the driver can't, because he has no other skill, other than being a taxi driver, then that person didn't have a Plan B. Everyone should have a Plan B. When taxi ing, he should of learn a secondary skill, as a back up.
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  128. FOr these mature ladies, they always say, finding a partner is difficult. It is NOT. It is because A) they are unwilling to marry divorced man B) they are unwilling to give a chance to men who are lower than them in economic status; that is to say, they judge these men's economic and not judge their hearts.
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  129. Men don't want career women. Asian man wants traditional woman. Can be a homemarker and have the body to have his children. These women think, they are the only ones shopping. Good and successful man are also shopping! 30+ women have little value for good and successful man.
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  130. Why buy a local brand when he can buy an international brand, which can make beautiful mixed babies. Getting an international brand, gives him face Getting a local brand, gives him a shorter life Local brands is too much trouble! This is similar to Huawei. Why buy local when we can buy international, like apple.
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  131. Those family who insist on bribe price are living in an outdated society. IF the man gives bribe price, then the women is sold to as property to the man's family. Therefore, the man's family and the husband can do what they want with the property, such as no work, do ALL housework, take all the BS. During CNY, the property can NEVER go back to see her parents, since she is SOLD property, as well as grandchildren. Is that what the girl's family wants? TO never see the daugher and grandchildren, to be the property of the man's family?
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  132. International school is a way to escape the chinese Education path. With Interntional school, it is a path to western education.
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  133. I said this many times, if the guy pays for the meal, then he is entitle to get some action. ANd she gets some too. IF the man doesn't get any, then the bill NEEDS to be split.
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  134. Single man needs a computer, internet and a bunch of games and lots of p0Rn. Women = they need to social and spread gossip to keep them happy.
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  135. To these leftover women. It is your choice and right to do whatever you deserve, education, job, etc If you choose to be outstanding woman, then, you dont need us man. Continue to work hard and be excellent. Live your life to the fullest as a single left over. NOthing wrong with that Men, dont want excellent woman, as it does not benefit us. Excellent women with high degres, good salary and property and car are too focus on her career and will NOT be good mothers. We men, perfer less accomplished, less education, less focus on her career and more on being a mother to his child.
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  136. And they will die alone with no man by her side.
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  137. To the 39 yr old, l meet you expectation, BUT you do not meet mine. With my conditions, a house, millions of rmb in the bank, why would l go for you. You have no value to me. You are already 39 and will definitely have complications when having children. A 20 yr old, will have little to no problems in bearing children because her eggs are healthy and she has the body to carry children. You at 39, your egg is not high quality, yet you maintain you hare a high quality woman. You body is not suitable to carry children as the baby will NOT develop well, due to your 40 yr old. IF the child is 20 yrs old, you are 60 yrs old. It is embrassing for the child. So, again, I have meet ALL your requirement, but you have NOT any of mine period.
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  138. Not everyone can afford a house/car. It depends on one's economic and finances. Because too many people was able to get housing loan, this push housing price to unaffortable price, with a long life mortgage.
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  139. Women who claim this new marriage law discriminates them Why they want laws that flavors THEM , bc they dont believe in fairless. Any law that flavors them, is FAir to them!
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  140. These selfish women forgot that men build this world. Men don't want their wife to work, bc, we know, working is tiring. We rather let them stay at home, do some physical labor of housekeeping and raising children. Actually, we have washing machine, dish washer, and mopping robots and etc. So, if you think about it, they have very little house work to do. Even buying groceries can be done online. So, these women are complaining, how unfair or how hard life is. Yet, they forgot what men have done for them. We fought in wars for freedom, construction, sewage cleaners, mining, and all those dangerous jobs. I don't see many women doing these jobs in society.
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  141. If the women's family demand a bribe price, then the "property" belongs to him. He can control her how he please. Since the man family bought her, she must cut all ties with her family. I wonder how the daughter's family will respond. Ha.
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  142. Bribe price isn't showing respect to the parents. If one wants to show respect to the daughter's parents, there are other ways, like pour tea. Bribe price is "buying" a wife. Chinese men can show respect by taking care of their daughter. Show daughter respect and love is like showing her parents love and respect. Furthemore, a man buying a house shows respect. It shows that he has the financial means to raise a family with the daughter. So, l don't agree. It is buying a wife. If the daughter's parents say, "I spend money on her education." Man: I didn't ask her to have a high education. Her education won't be useful when she becomes a mother and taking care of the household. Her primary job are: raising children, keep the house in order, educating the children, cook and clean, help with the elderly. Man's job: brings home the bacon, responsible for bills, child's education, etc.
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  143. If l go to the rural areas of China, girls might line up for me. The only drawback I have, is my height. But have anything else. Rural area is a paradise, if there are young and pretty girls for ABC or CBC and can speak Chinese. Men in rural area will hate me!
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  144. Chinese mature has no common sense. TOo much studying and no life experience. THey should go out there, explore and not bury in books.
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  145. It is another form of prostitution, yet China says Prostitution is legal.
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  146.  @MukadisAymen-ui8fy  if they are left overs, in their 30-35, maybe no, especially if they have bfs in the past. Yet, they still demand high bribe price.
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  147.  @JosePineda-cy6om  filters?
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  148. The only respect we give to our women is: have children (less than 30) wake up beautiful be fit can do most house work chores We don't need anything else from them. Their level of education and their salary and their title and their accomplishment means nothing to us. NO value Being a traditional women and following the man in HIS leadership in the relationship, being obedient = valuable
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  149. She deserved to be played bc, she though she can get a huge commission on the sale. Greed blinded her. She got played good. Well done!
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  150. This 37 yr old demand is too high. If the company say, that is what you are worth, then suck it up. At least you won't be homeless.
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  151. "She can easily marry a rich man"-big words. The rich man won't want her. The rich man has many misstress and she is just one of them!
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  152.  @nigellei8591  might as well just hire a man aiyi
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  153. keep on waiting and see what happens. Lets all see what happens when these super confident keeps on waiting for their non existing partners that can fulfill their crazy demands. Lets see if they still maintain their demands when they are 35, 45, 55, 65, and etc.
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  154.  @LightWavess  Or they have too many bills, mortgage, car loans, etc. WIth these debt, it is no wonder, both parents need to work. If one does not have a mortgage and rent and not have a car loan and take public transportation, l think one's cost of living is more affortable. Furthermore, always have PLAN B and back up plan. If l lose my primary job, my back up side gig, can support the family, comfortability.
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  155. Finally, men are making women suffer, by making them wait. YOu see ladies, when you were young, and men chase you, you rejected them, because you believe you had time to enjoy life, focus on career. And now these women, are ready to be married at age 30+ but men in 30+ are in NO hurry, as their sperm can still fertilize an egg, where as a women in their 30, egg quality will continue to decrease, as well their body carrying the child is not as good as those in their mid 20s. Since men were rejected by them at age 20s, we men are reject women at age 30+.
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  156. Men needs to earn money for the family that is their number 1 role. If a man can't provide, he haven't fullfilled the family's needs. Women's number 1 role is family and not a career women. Everyone in the family have their own role. Some roles can be shared, like house chores. If women put career as #1, then, she can wear the pants in the family.
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  157. Men do NOT need to be equal to these crazy women's standard. These women think.. I have a house, you must have a house I have a car, you must have a car I make 30k rmb a month, you must make 50-60k rmb per month I have Master education, you must have master or PHd It makes NO sense for men to match these standards We prefer to find a woman that is less superior than us men, so we are the leaders We dont want our woman to be leaders, have high education...We want woman that we can dominate, control them and be submissive to the man. We are the leaders in the family. We are the leaders in this world, NOT WOMEN Stop the cap. Stop the nonense. Stop feminism.
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  158. It is no wonder they are still single. They are waiting for their handsome and tall man in shinny armor that will never come to marry them. Fantasy and not thinking in reality. Doesn't seem they want to wake up for their VR.
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  159.  @yelanchiba8818  And children? Maid too. Also, not everyone can afford it.
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  160. Old widow man are interested in these single mature women. The problem is, they still will not accept and maintain their standards.
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  161. My job: work 8 month, get paid 12 month, as a foreigner in China. ANd free bkf and lunch and snacks!
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  162. Love the guy's logic. Time to fight back gentlement.
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  163. Having university degree is NOT a guarantee to get a well-paying job. Luck and personality and experience plays a big role.
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  164. She may soon become a call girl, due to her current finanical pressure.
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  165.  @wl6020  must be desperate and when the family sense the man and his family is deseperate, the girl's family will take adv. of that.
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  166.  @teoleno4019  Good, let them continue to live independent, no need a partner in their life. Hope their life is good when they are sick and old and on one to visit them or take care of them.
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  167. The main reason why men want to marry is -have children -support him -can do most of the housework -raise and take care of children ANY woman who can't do ANY of the min. above or refuse, then they are just after men's $ and status. They want but wont give!
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  168. Finally, women are not criticism women who are gold digger, wanting/demanding this and that for a marriage. Men would rather than bother with these gold diggers. They would rather go to S. E. Asia to find a wife, where they are more traditional and have very little demands for marriage. Men have more options than women. Men who are 30-35 are more options than women of the same age.
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  169.  @thetotaltruth948  Giving money to parents in law is indeed common in China. However, if it is too often and too much, I will not be happy. Depending on the city tier, if the in laws get 1000 rmb per person in pension, that is enough for food and pay bills. How much can the elderly eat? And many of them have savings. So, it would depend how much they are asking and how often. And if they use the respect card, respect the elderly, l also have Ace up my sleeve.
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  170. Bosses firing single woman, is telling those single women to hurry up and find a man, to increase China's population. By working, they have not time to find a man. By having time (being fired) and not able to find job, then these women have no choice but to find a man to support her!
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  171. The guy with the frameless eyeglasses: So true.
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  172. Bride price to show respect to the women's family. What respect does the women's family show to the man's family?
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  173. We all know how these women ended up single and now they are desperate to get married. TOO LATE! Only options -divoced men (with children) -rural men -older men who has never been married (45+) THose are the options lady, GOOD LUCK. YOu need it
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  174. Because Chinese women with their insane standards and expectation including dowry has push men to western/foreign women. They did this to themselves and now all those men they have rejected and finding foreigner women. Good job ladies and enjoy your forever single life, especially when she needs a man.
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  175. Those women who choose career path can. But we men can criticize, they cry. Yet, when they criticize us men, we are suppose to be silent?
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  176. A once career woman, then become a -housewife -care giver to elderly and children IT IS YOUR CHOICE. IT IS YOUR ROLE If you dont want this, be independent, no need a man! A woman need a man bc she needs HIS financial support and she gives him a family and do household chores
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  177. Their high standard has failed their parents. These mature women has forgotten the meaning of a family and to fullfill their parents wishes. THEY have FAILED their parents. The become westernized, feministized and all that shit they believed on TV. THey forget what it means to be Asian/Chinese. They lost their way and blindly follow TV dramas. They have forgotten what it means to be a women, what it means to have a family. They have forgotten their culture, their tradition, their heritage. They have forgotten, their purpose is to: -reproduce -serve men -be a women, and not a man in the family
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  178. Watching too much fictional tv drama about romance. Bc of this, they believe it is real and can happen to them. I too, have a dream to be the KING Of this world, where EVERYONE bows to me, including all animals. The big difference between man and women, women's dream are unrealistic, fantasy Man: realistic expectation and focus on reality. They know they can't get a model as their partner. We men, know we are not perfect Yet women, believe they are 10/10 because they believe they are the prize. These women are the prize of being left over and rotten like discarded vegetables at the market and cleaners sweep them up every night and trash them. That is them!
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  179. Men dont want independent women. We man our women to be dependent on the man. By being too independent, they can leave anytime and intitiate divoce. Whereas, if the women is dependent on the man, she can't leave, so men are the general and the women is the soldier, obeying commands.
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  180. Men do not want women to put their career first. Men dont want career women. We dont want feminism. We want women that be a homemarker, have his babies, take care of his parents. The more these women fighting tradition and wanting feminist, the more men will suppress them.
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  181. Second girl in the vidoe: wants the bf to spend money on her and only her, yet is single. Wonder why?
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  182. ANy woman, who only wants and do not give, deserve to be leftover. THey deserve to be single and unloved. Honestly, these women do not deserve a man's love.
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  183. I have work experience before graduating uni. -camp experience -retail -cook -etc These Chinese student put too much emphasis on their paper, and no real work experience. The point of going university is to be slaughted. The money goes to the uni and the BIgs. It is a business, and do not care about you during and after uni.
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  184. The girl in the back dress that lives in the country side, say, her requirement is not high and is reasonable. Then she list them. Since her requirement is not high by her standards, then I wonder what are the requirements for other women, could be 2-3x. Even the interview told her, it will be super rare to find a man in the rural area to meet her requirements. She refuse to listen to reality and walks away. These girls are in the dream world and do not want to wake up. Because waking up is too harsh. Staying in the dream world and dreaming of one day being picked up by a handsome and rich man is easier in the dream world than in the real world. No rich and handsome guy would want a 28 year old women. Keep on dreaming girl, in the dream world. And by the time the come out of their dream world, they are over 35 yrs old. And some, even dream longer till 40. Sad!
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  185. Since Women needs a man's security, they should not fight for equal rights= feminism
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  186.  @DiscoveryMarket  ANd the 1 percent wants young and beautiful women.
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  187. 42 and still consider having children, WTF. DOes she NOT understand the high risk she will bring to herself and the child. Is she still dreaming! These mature women, they are smart, have degrees, have this and that. But when it comes to biology, they don't know their own body. WOW. She will feel reget. She keeps lying to herself, as many mature and leftover women do, they all lie to themselves.
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  188.  @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj  There aren't many wealth guys that can afford this type of children using surrogates. And it is true, if the couple is barely surviving, having a child is a BIG drain on their finances.
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  189. totally agree. They got greedy, thinking more business, and expand and expand will earn more money fast.
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  190. They wanted accomplishment, and by the age of 40+, they want love and company. Their biggest mistake, chasing men's dream/career and success. Their success is family. NOT chasing careers.
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  191. TO the lady that wants a bf that earns 20-30k. LEt me ask you, what do you offer him, other then your pssy. What security can you offer him. Once you divorce him, he lose 1/2 of everytihng. Will you accept a divorced man with children?
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  192. Leftover women hate it when men points out the age truth. THey can;t accept truth. Established and well off men would rather go for 20 yr old, not 30. And 30 yr old, demand the same bride price as 20 yr old, citing, they have more education, experience, good conversationist and all their bs reasons.
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  193.  @kazumakiryuu2668  agreed. Those skills are what employers are looking for, not some paper you got for university.
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  194.  @yenodepaz  They also look down on men who are less successful than they are. They have forgotten that men build this world. Without men, they won't be living in a luxury life; cars, roads, buildings, etc.
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  195. The saddest part, the Chinese policemen targets them and take their only means of earning a living, their motorbikes. Those bad Chinese police officer don't care about the bottom, they step on those at the bottom bc they think they are superior just bc they have a badge and a gov'ts job.
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  196. WOmen see men as providers and ATM, so it is only far, men see women as child bearing.
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  197. bc these dogs, are always wanting more from the man, comparing their currently bf their friend's relationship. THey are greedy and never satifiy what is in front of them. When they have a bf, they will tell their bf, why cant u earn more money, why can't you be like my friend's bf, why cant you....blah blah. ANd when they break up with their bf, they can't find their prince in shinny armor and realize what she had with the bf was the best. SO, you see, these women want more from their partner, but have little to give in return as they age. As they age, their value decreases very fast. And men in their 35 have high value.
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  198. The 50 reject 35, was a good move. She wants to marry up!
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  199.  @factsunloaded4808  These women are good at criticism others (both men/women), believing they are perfect. Yet, they fail to recognize their own short comings. They also fail to understand the men's perspective, thinking they deserve the best of the best by finding and marrying prince charming. They dream too big.
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  200. I love how their daughter yelled at their 30+ daughter. Awesome!
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  201.  @JolteonsHouseOfMusic  That is why we men label women as GD, especially in China, more of them.
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  202. it is sad. It is like self check out. These drivers need to find other skills, so they can be ahead of their game.
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  203. They were most likely the only child and being spoiled by their parents/grandparents. So, they can't adapt to the changing environmental and social condition ,as a result, they become extinct.
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  204. No Money = no honey!
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  205. Their dead parents haunting their single daughter. Do you have a bf yet? WHen will you get married?
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  206.  @LightWavess  Im smart about it
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  207. Women should focus on getting married and having children, and NOT focus on career. There are so many young men/graduate that cant' find jobs. By firing single mature women, this will allow space for young man. And single mature, leftover can focus on finding a partner.
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  208. No one force the father to have 3 children. Do they NOT know, having children are expensive. 3x is like 3x the cost vs 1 children. So, the father complaining of having no money saved up is because he has too many mouths to feed. He choose to not wear a bag around his d**k so, now he has to raise the 3 children till after they graduate univeristy in China. Complaining does not solve the problem. He created these children, now he has to raise them.
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  209. If these single mature and think they are high quality woman, make demands, then it is perfectly ok for man to make insane demands on them. It is giving these B a taste of their own medicine. They demand a guy to be this and that. Then we man can equally demand this and that. For example, we men can demand age and beauty, while these women can demand men's ATM. Yet, when these B demand and have little to offer, they bi&ch about men is lazy, no ambitiou and not hard working and all that. Yet, when we demand to have hot body, big twin peaks, and etc, they complain we men are seeing them as object. If these women see us as ATM, we can definitely see them as objects to please us.
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  210.  @Bruce_Wayne35  ALso, because these mature women are stubborn and refuse to lower their standard, couple with high dowry. Avg men can't afford them.
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  211.  @MickeyMishra  THey want a man to raise her. Fine/Fair. But will she be a full time home marker + raising both children and elderly?
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  212. LESSON: NEVER take out more than 50% mortgage value of the house. Best rule: pay 80% down and mortgage the 20%, not the other way around.
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  213. Buying a house is for those that are high income earner, at least 15000 rmb per month. And with millions in saving in the bank. Those earner, earning less than 10k, is hard, with less than 2 millions in the bank, will endure hardship when one lose a job. It is best NOT to mortgage, if you don't have high income or high savings.
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  214.  @ChinaUnvarnished  The lesson, never trust boss words, until they delivery, only then is that boss trustworthy.
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  215.  @tariqthaqeeq  Sure, she can travel outside of China, but will she be able to speak their langauge?
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  216. It is easier for ABC and CBC to earn money in 1st cities. They target rich family, by tutoring at a rate of 1000 rmb or more per hour. And it is min. 2 hour per class.
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  217. The ending of the video, perfectly summarizes it all about men and women.
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  218. IN a 4th tier city, the 1500 may seem a lot. But in a 1st tier city, couples will not take the bait.
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  219. They will truely regret when they are in the hospital and on family members, dying alone. Women's #1 fear is being and dying alone!
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  220.  @tarablue4472  IF one does not want to have a partner or take the risk of a bad partner, woman can stay single. No one force the woman to get a partner. If woman dont want to take risk, stay single. ANd there is nothing wrong with stay single. SHe can focus all her time, focusing and building her career. Many has good partner and some do not. It seems like you witness many that do not have good partners.
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  221. All these women talks about what they want, but not once, did they mention, what they have to offer, such as, giving him children, housework, taking care of HIS parents, etc.
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  222. Their mindset needs to be change and adapt themselves. It is about survival of the fittest. One can't adapt will be die out!
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  223. Going to university to obtain knowledge and skill but not real work experience. Too many recent graduates believe their degree can get good jobs, good salary and etc. But what they don't have is work experience. How about doing some internship or volunteer work, and boost less about it is unfair that their degree can't get them job. Degree is only 1 part, what about work experience?
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  224. Men has more choices when looking for a partner. Women do not, with age!
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  225. If women have high expectation of men's economic and social conditions, we men have high expectation of women on beauty and age. It is only fair.
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  226. ANy single women in their 30-35 are left over because of their high requirement. They say, their requirements are not high. IF that was TRUE, why are they still single. They should have very little requirement, like 18-22 yr old. Why go for 35 yr old women, he can go for the 18 with little requirements. We dont' care about your education, PERIOD. Men only care about your age and beauty. We dont give a horse ass about your master or PHd. We just want our women to be beautiful, young, and obedient. We men tell you what to do, you better do it! If women can be obedient such as be a home marker, raise the children, take care of the elderly that is valuable to men. YOur job, your career, your money means ZERO to us men. We don't care!
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  227.  @yelanchiba8818  THey still live in fairy land.
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  228. I got lay off during the Covid 19, but was lucky to find a job in 2 weeks. But the salary was 25% lower. So i had to do more part time job (online) to make up for the lost 25%. And online tutoring was bustling at that time, since many parents feel they are not learning enough, and need 1:1 support
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  229. THose who are single (especially CHinese men), can always look else where to get a women with very few conditions. SE Asia! And these women are tradition. They can take care of you and your family. Have your (men) children. The key asset is their willinginess to follow women's tradition.
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  230. To the last woman in the video: By being picky, might as well be single. The man arrived 10 mins early and offer you a drink. I ask you: What do you offer the man? NOthing, because you have NO value. Your fatal flaw is your OLD. Judging others, but unable to judge herself. Who is the stupid one here? She thinks, she is perfect. NO ONE is perfect. These b**** are crazy and stupid.
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  231. TOTALLY agreed!
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  232.  @StarPlatinumV  they can be single and work at jobs, but men FIRST.
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  233. The woman with the glasses makes no sense. So having baby (daugther) merits bribe price. Base on her logic, the bribe price is for her to carry the unborn child for 10 month. Is having a child, only the responsibility of the man. Does the woman in glasses not want to have a child too. Just because she carries the unborn child for 10 month, she demands bribe price. Then she states that, if the man is bad and divorce him, that is what the bribe price is for? The child will be responsible by both parties, financially in the court of law. She can take the man to court and demand child support.
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  234. Buying an hour time from a woman is much cheaper than dating. For example, he spend 500 on a date, he doenst get some But if he spend 500, he can release his blue b alls.
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  235. If women primary focus on man's economy, then it is within man's right and choice to focus on a women's age and beauty. You women did this to YOURSELF. You started this stupid game of your insane demands. So it is only fair that men play your stupid insane and unreasonable games. You demand this and that. We men can equally demand this and that. Here are our (insane) demands -house marker and stay at home wife/mom -bear children and raise them, including educating them (we men are busy with earning money) -take care most of the housework; cook, clean, laundry (we will do the physical labor such as lifting heavy objects) -young and beautiful, like a model -C to D cup, no B cup bc our baby needs milk and your twins are manufacturer (we men will help nurish your twins by giving you good food when your with child -take care of our parents FIRST, your parents SECOND You women play with fire and judging men we can do the same, you get fire in return!!!
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  236.  @teoleno4019  Yet, why so many 35+ single women regret not marrying in their mid 20. Also regretted rejecting those men chasing them, saying their careers are more important. And now their career is establish and they are ready to settle, no man is interested, other than 50+ and divorced man. Wonder why!
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  237. The more independent and feminist women are, they high chance, she will be lonely. If she think, this life is what she wants, she is lying to herself, to save face in front of others. Deep down, she wants someone to love her. But she love her job, education, and etc more than she can ever love a man! A young women 18-24 is the perfect age, where she has LOTS of love to give. Most important is her young and hot body! At 30+, her body has aged! A baby won't like her environment.
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  238. Why go for a high quality women, when l a man can choose a younger and less educated women who is younger and more beautiful than 30+ yr old
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  239. These women have too much confident, thinking they can easily find a man with their outstanding CV. Men POV: Your CV means nothing, only age, beauty and less than 30. Those are the CV men are looking for.
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  240. Stop being a feminist and be more of a homemarker, less arguments, accept cricism, be obedient = happy marriage.
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  241. If the tradition is deep rooted, the man and the man's family can do whatever they want with their property, including beating the property. That was also the tradition in the past, when the property didn't listen, the man and the man's family can discipline the property like a pet dog. Is that what the girl's family wants? IF the women's family is going to play the tradition card, the man's family can also play their game!
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  242. Successful men can easily find another women, whereas successful women CANNOT. So, MEN are the prize for men.
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  243. Those high quality and mature women do have choices. 40+ yr old men, maybe divorced with/without children. Yet, they refuse them! These high standard women cleary do not understand SUPPLY and DEMAND. The more educated and well off these mature women become, their dating pool becomes more and more limited due to their age. Yes, there are more men than women in China. Well established and economically stable men in their late 20 and early 30 has more choices. Their dating market is on university campuses. Only left over men and women are advertised at these markets. For men, they have average economic and edcuational status=left over For women, they have high ecnomic and educaitonal status=left over All good men are already taken LONG ago, by young and beautiful women. The marriage market should change it's name to: left over market.
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  244. And we though humanity have abolished "the right to own another human" base on price. If the family demand on a bribe price, I will tell the wife to say one more good bye, as the product will no longer have ANY contact with the seller. Once the property is "bought" i can do what l please! Is that how the family see their daughter; a piece of meat? A product for man?
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  245. Women has not value after the age of 35
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  246. These mature women are left over for many reasons, they refuse to wake up from their fantasy dream, hoping to find their perfect prince. They refuse to lower their standard, thinking their education and indepedence will attract the perfect one. They don't understand what men want, only think about themselve. They are self fish and want equality. Men dont' want to be equal to women. We don't want them to be smart or highly opinionated or have high education. We want a women that can take care of the family. We want them to rely on men. That is the way of things. If they want equality in the work place, that make sense. But not when it comes to relationship or marriage. Man are still the breadwinners in the family.
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  247. Woman criticism men for their short coming, either -not good salary or job -avg appearance -not tall enough -etc Yet, did they look themselves in the mirror and see their short comings? They love to criticism others BUT can't analyze themselves in the mirror. At 40, she still think she is 20. Crazy! Her biggest flaw, can't have children at 40 (risk is VERY high). Doctors will NOT suggestion women over 40 to have children. Their womb is toxic, just like their MINDSET.
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  248. The mediator is a women and is subjective. Of course, these women mediator will side with the women.
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  249. Chinese are picking up the bad habits from the west. If the man takes her out of the restaurant and then comes the bill. Here is what the man should do Ask her if she is willing to come over to your place. If she says, no, the split the bill. DO NOT pay, until men ask that question.
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  250. The 38 woman with everything. You can sense she is not desperate, but wont' settle with a divorced man with children. Ha.
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  251. Marriage and having kids are for the rich in China.
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  252. The woman that demands 10k rmb per month and dont so sh**. Hmm, l think going to the street 2/week to get some release cost only a couple to a few thousand rmb and the rest the guy can keep. I think that is much better deal. 999rmb just to have s8X daily with this 33 yr old. Men can find better deals.
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  253. These companies are right. These women should focus on repopulating China, and not chase dreams. Im sure the BIgs are telling these company, do not hire women, so women have no choice to become wive and give man the job. Make sense! If these daughters want to make their parents proud, they should find a partner with min. standards. Find a man that will love her and support her. This will make her parents proud, and not chasing the dream of a career women.
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  254. She divorced woman with children are selfish, they only want a man to raise her child. She has no value.
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  255.  @101ineke  Base on your logic, she will never see her mom and dad again, even during CNY. Even if she married a foreigner, she will never go back home? And when the couple has kids, the mother and father in law will never see their grand children? In CHina, family is very important. I married a Chinese woman and have been earning tons of money in CHina. ANd every yr, before CNY, her parents will come and live with us for a few months and l welcome them, as her dad loves me. Because I can provide. ANd they love their only grandson. So your arguements/staements are NOT a convincing and shows you do NOT understand Chinese culture. Your thoughts make no sense. And have no knowledge or understanding of family and CHinese culture.
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  256. Even if the man pays a dowry, she will see her parents again. I understand, dwory is nonsense, and IT IS selling their daugther. I do hate the idea and this tradition is out of date and those parents will their daugther, use this tradition to exploit men.
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  257. If I had to pay a dowry, then yes, i understand. I will NOT allow my wife/property to visit. But if there was no exchange of money for another human, then, there will be more respect.
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  258. Keep hold on to your dreams lady. See what happens in a few yrs.
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  259. SHe choose to divorce, she choose the consequences. ANd now, she will suffer long term. This shows, women need men. She said, life is unfair. Well...she choose this life. SHe choose to divorce. SHe choose to be happy, she choose to be free. All those dreams shatter when reality hit. HA. She deserve a life of suffering, and now, the child has to suffer with her. She choose this life without thinking long term. This is another proof that women can't think long term only thinking short term selfish goals.
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  260. bc, Chinese girls has fuking insane demands, thinking they are 10/10
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  261.  @JosephineBovain-wu5le  well stated.
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  262.  @stephenvoss6092  Sure, but it isn't as common.
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  263. These woman say, men are stingy, yet will they give him a release (blue balls), if men spend money on them, when going out on blind/dates? HELL no! Why spend so much on bline date, when he gets NOTHING in return (not even establish a bf/gf relationship). He gets NOTHING, while these biches get FREE meal. Any woman order TONS of dishes, is NOT to get to know the guy, she is getting free meals and leftovers to take HOME to share with her family. Women are using MEN and MEN are fighting back! This is why there is a NEW marriage law. Whoever paid for the property gets it, no more 50/50. This is to give MEN power and rights back. If the guy and the guy's parents paid for the property, she gets ZERO, whether he or she initiate divorces. With his, men can control the woman (as IT SHOULD BE). If doesn't like the man (citing abused, ok) she can go back to her parents, BUT can't take any of HIS wealth or property, if it proven that HE bought the house, car and etc.
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  264. Those women who are angry, cant do shit. THe law is the law. If women do NOT want to be wife duties such as housewife, then be single. Live a complete independent life. No one is forcing them. BUt if these Chinese women want a partner to love them, financially support them, take care of them when she is sick, then do her wife duties of cratering to the man's needs of cook and clean, raise the children. Let him be the income earner for the family and the women be the housewife. Chinese women who dont want to do their women duty is bc they beleive their education degree and pride does not allow them to do these chores. THey think with their educaiton, they should NOT do these household physical labor of cooking and cleaning. Even if she is independent, she still cooks and cleans. WTF
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  265. Since the women wants the man to provide a decent and comfortable life, the woman should follow tradition, be a homemarker, not a career maker.
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  266. The lady that demands 800k and nearly 40 and will not compromise. I wish i can ask her directly: What value do you bring to the table? And no, your economic value is NOT important to him, as he does not care about her money. Since she will NOT compromise and still demand a high dowry, she will continue to be a leftover. She just said it: She is selling herself, selling her aged body and soul for money because as she stated, her parents rise her and demands that money back from the man! = Modern day prostitution.
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  267. Women say, they are high quality left over. They are left over because we dont want finanically, high educated women. The lower the better
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  268. so the man sum up women perfectly, high confident, arrogant, subborn, and worst, look down on others, both men and women.
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  269. Before these Mature/Luxury Chinese women are complaining that men are not wooing them, not they will say: "Foreign women are taking our Chinese men." Hahaha. I hope so. Never do these leftover women consider why men don't woo them, always thinking their standard of a man is not high. Yet, Chinese men and match making agency ALSO told these mature women, their standards are too high and as they age, they bring little to the table. Yet, they are mules, stubborn, only listen to themselves, thinking their degrees are so valuable in the dating world. Im glad more foreigner women are coming to Chinese men, as their demands are low. They are looking for love, NOT ATM.
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  270. Having a degree DOES NOT make the person smart. Some with PHd are dumb fuxs
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  271. I;ll tell you exactly where you went wrong (40 yr old). You believe you are the prize for men. No, Men are the prize. Your car and house means nothing to the man. We dont care about your career or success. But you women do. Why would men want you, a 40 yr old when he can get a 20 yr old, with bare min. conditions. Asian man wants to flavor their woman how HE please. Since you (40) are already set in your mind, men can't change you. Men can't flavor you, to his conditions. Whereas a 20 yr old, her mind is fresh and innocent. She will NOT argue. We dont want a woman to argue, just follow the man's lead.
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  272. How that Chinese Phd will be forced to leave the country becoming a single mother, no support. Ha, she played herself. All the while, she is now used. And the dutch man can find another woman.
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  273. False advertisment on a product. In the west, if the price was incorrect, by law, the store must honor what was advertised. This is both common sense and logic. Also, yr by yr, women's value decreaes due to age and biology. It is also common sense and fact. Yet, many stick with tradition and ignore basic biology.
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  274. Bc, women abuse their "power". They abuse their tradition. Saying, it is a Man's job to take care of the wife. YET, when we say, then it is the job of the woman to be full TIME home marker, they get upset.
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  275. What if the man cant afford to get married, does he stil need to write a reflection The reflection topic can be about, not having enough salary to get married. With the cost of -rent -food -utilities -transportation -clothing -etc, There is not enough money left to go dating and woo a lady, that is a huge cost for the guy. By writing hard facts (math and numbers), hopefully the leader will read the reflection and reflect on himself, why these employees is working just to live and survive.
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  276. Soon, Chinese women are going to bich about chinese men, saying they are no longer chinese bc Chinese men don't want Chinese men (aka trash talking about Chinese men). These Chinese left over are superb at trash talking to their own peers and the opposite sex. BUT never self evaluate themselves. These single mature women continue to believe they are princesses and they r the prize for men. They can keep their prize as continue to be single as men dont' want their bag full of emotional problems. Furthemore, they will trash talk about these foreigner women, saying have no self worth and etc. And that is what we Chinese men want. An obedient and submissive wife, not some women that only focus on their career and being part of the rat race in China. We men don't need your career mind set, or high intelligent from you master or PHd papers. They are useless to us and have no value. We want simple minded and less educated Chinese women so we men can control them. It is tradition. Foreigner women are obedient and listen to their husband and will not argue. We Chinese men will treat our women right when they are submissive and dont see us as ATM.
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  277. AT 40 -wrinkles -sagging boobs (that means, sour milk for children, if she can children) why would men with good conditions want 40 old women, when he can get 20 yr old woman
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  278. Here is a career: Be a homemarker and let the man earn money!
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  279.  @ChinaUnvarnished  They lack common sense. They do not understand their own biology. They do not understand, men in 35 dont want them. Period. Men in 35 wants 25 or younger.
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  280. totally agree! These women believe their education, job title and etc is valuable to men. The only two thing men care about is youth and beauty. We don't want nor care about women's care. We only care if they can bear children, be obedient, submissive and raise the child and take care of HIS parents. Yet these feminist woman are brainwashed by western media and do not want to follow tradition.
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  281. It is so funny that these women believe they are so much value. They advertise their education like cv. This is good for the business world, BUT not when it comes to finding a partner. Men dont care NONE of their accomplishments. Yet, they believe their feminist ideas are attractive by men. THey clearly do not know what men want. Yet, we understand what women want. Men care about -young -age -big boobs for milk production for their future children -hot body The education and economic value is secondary conditions.
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  282. Yes, we mend are "blind" We are blind because we can't see her physical beauty at age 38. Still believe her age and beauty is for 380k. If l had that money, why would l "buy" an old lady when l can use that money and "buy" an 18 yr old with reproductive value? Also, the 18 yr old might not deamnd 380, could only be 100-150, so a) not only do l get a discount but also b) young and beautiful and reproductive age Men can go shopping too! She said, 10 blind dates and say, all rejected bc of the 380 and still want others to be honest with her. Are those 10 men NOT honest? They all rejected her price! So, no matter who is telling her, she will NOT accept the truth, she can't HANDLE the truth.
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  283. The lady earning 100k a month, citing professional model, what she really means, is she works at xvideo.
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  284. These women say, they scafice alot, pure BS They did work in oil rigs, do they work in construction. We men build this world, what did women do for this world, other than reproduction. Did women go to war? Fight for country's freedom? ALL NO These feminist women do NOT know what they are talking about, just talking through their asses.
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  285. They want the best deal, but aren't willing to offer anything to the man. They are best digging for man's economics. They are good at judging others, but they cant received being judged.
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  286. Men spend money on their woman, and women spend money they earned from themselves! Men need women more than we need them. If men need a release, he can find it in an alley way. Can women find men in an alley way, if she needs a release?
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  287. A bribe price is exactly like prostitution, buying a human being. So why doesnt the govt stop human purchase.
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  288. 38 and can still have children. SHe didn't hear or learn about risk to herself and the child?
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  289. Regret is a b****. These women spend so much time engross in books, memorizing useless facts, taking unless classes and getting useless paper. Once they get their masters/Phd, they are near 30. They may be successful in the real corporate world, but has abandon their Chinese traditions, which is fine. And now they are crying and complaining they can't find a partner. At 38+, and with high standards/expectation, very few man would be interested in her. And many men, don't even want to look at her or talk with her, as soon as the Chinese men, know their age. How can she bare children at that age? The risk is so high. Unless the man, agrees to be a DINK, then maybe she has a chance. But that is rare as parents and inlaws want grand children. Age is still a big factor for women. Imagine a 38 yr old man brings home this women at ate 38. Most likely, the son's parents will NOT approve. Again, they will say, your old. Yes, your successful with x number of degrees, but they can't get over the age. Because she choose the career path, stick with it. Continue to be successful. But finding a partner and crying about it, no one cries. She made the decision to be in the corporate world. Stick with it. Get a dog as their long life partner. Nothing wrong with that and less people will judge. But regretting not marrying at a younger age, why cry? Your choice your responsiblity. Suck it up!
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  290. The last part of the video, summarized these mature women PERFECTLy! Love the ending.
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  291. These high educated and mature woman have short term thinking. They can't see far into the future. Their future planning skills are zero. THey only see short term gains and not long terms. They are brained washed by feminist ideas and abandon their basic Chinese heritage. They believe their education degree and economic accomplishment are desirable by men. THey look down on men who have less accomplishment than them. They have forgotten what is the purpose of being a woman. They have very little understanding of men. THey don't understand what men values in a women. We men, knows exactly what they want. In the end, the die alone, gaining nothing.
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  292. A house in the county is not valuable compare to 1st tier city, which can cost 5-10 mllion rmb.
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  293. but now she will spend the rest of her life, being alone, full of regrets. Women like her, chase career, rather than train and educate themselve, of how to be good wife. Men wants a housewife, not a career women. A partner with a career women does NOT help the man.
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  294.  @Gytu  Lets hope she can find a partner that accepts her age and low reproductive value. GL
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  295. It is women's fault that so many men refuse to chase them nowadays. All these mature Chinese women know one thing: demand and more demands. They only want to receieve BUT are not willing to give. So men are fed up with their BS. They rather spend time with their buddies, spend money on themselves. And if men have an itch, they will find time with a women to satitisy his manhood by spending a few hundred rmb.
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  296. These Chinese women want Equality...Well, we men don't want to give them equality. Be a woman is all we man want from them!
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  297. Those mature women are single because they continue to look down on men who is NOT on equal level as her, in terms of social and economic status. So, they remain single. These mature women don't see the man's heart, only see their pockets and whether they have house and cars. They are gold diggers. They claim they are feminist, but want house and cars from men.
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  298.  @roythousand13  And the man can also demand if she is pure. If a dowry is a transaction then it is fair for the men to want a brand new car off the assembly line (aka uni grad) and not some new car that has been used. Now, if the women did the demand a house, car, dowry, gold and all that stuff, then we men can accept a slightly used car. Why spend the dowry on a mature women (old model car) when he can get a new model car (young and fresh out of college). If women can have insane demands and standards, we men can do the same! Only difference is, women can easily get offended and let out their emotions while men walks away!
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  299. The woman who is 38, saying, even 50 yr old woman can still have babies. yes, they can, but what this women lack is simple logical and no street smart. Those 50+ yr old woman, giving birth children, is rare and the women and the baby may have health issues. She even stated, it is high risk pregancy, but then go on, saying, there are those that can. WTF? She is 39 and says, she is "abit" older. These women can never come to reality and must sugar coat to make them feel better. So, base on her logical (as mentioned, these women lack any street smart, aka, common sense), if she is a bit order, than what age is old? 45? is old. And those 45 yr old woman say, they are still young, because they are not elderly yet. So, if she view herself as young, then why can't she find a partner to marry. Why won't men in her cohort approach her and ask her out on dates? And if a 45 yr old men as her out on a date, she will probabilty say, your too old. Yet, she being 39 is not? WTF? Keep on sugar coating your age! Don't think she will come down from cloud 9 any time soon with that mentality. If she says, she is young. Ok. Fine. She is entitled to her opinion. But if l can tell her, l'll tell her this. Men in 30-35 or 40, will NOT have the same opinion as her. Men has opened up their eyes and the only thing they see, is her age. The 39 is overdue. It is spoiled meat. Rotten and left over like cabbage. Unsold. Unwanted. But she refuse to listen to facts, just like these women refuse to lower their standards.
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  300. Men are the prize in China, especially if he is tall, successful and etc. Women are NOT the prize for men. As men age, we become more valuable economically. As women age, they lose their value in beauty and reproductivity .
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  301.  @martingrey2231  Yes, it is a chance to get a better job. But overal, the value of BA degrees are being devalued. For foreigners in CHina, we use the degree to apply for a work visa. But most jobs don't require it, as the knowledge and skills we learned 20+ yrs is out of date. Therefore, we strive to include to be life long learners, gaining experience as we go through life. Many people nowadays can't use their degree to find job, other than STEM, where those grads have a higher chance as it is more of a depand. But many other degrees, are not useful, such as philosophy, history, art history, to name a few.
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  302. They have too much high esteem and confidence, that they will find their Mr. Right. As time pass, and they can't find Mr. Right (less than 1%) due to their extreme high demand, they will later (but also too late), realize their expectation was too high. As they age, their expectation will be lowered, as men wont even consider them, because of their unrealistic economic expectation from men. Their dream is scattered by their own doing. Of course, she is attractive to those wealth men, because those 1% has EVERYTHING. For the men, they see her as worthless. Even the match maker said, "what can you offer." It is obviously, little to zero. Her hole is too old and no longer pure. Wealth men want young and fresh women, not old. Love the quote "to him, she is worthless" That sums it up. But of course, she will refuse to listen, just like what the interviewed ask earlier. She can't hear those words. She can't hear other's truth and opinion. Image a wealthy man having her as a partner. Whatever criticism or suggestion the man gives to her, it doesn't go to the head, rather out the other ear. Women like her, believe they are pure princesses (when they look in the mirror). They believe they want rich and handsome men. But they NEVER consider what the men want. We rich Chinese men, want young and obedient, like trophy wife, to show off to their business partners. We/They dont want a partner with much education. With little education, they will be obey.
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  303. Always fight back when you (men) are right. Don't accept fault, when you know you have logic and are not at fault. And if she wants to divorce you, go head, bc the new law marriage law flavors men. And since most of the property is brought by the men side the family, we men can easily kick them out! Men have awake. We are no longer simping, we are no longer bending backs for women. With the new marriage law in China, this gives POWER BACK to men.
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  304. This is why men don't respect women in China. 1. Feminist 2. bribe price 3. Their insane demands for marriage.
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  305. Because they have little to no working exprience. THey have this paper, but no company is willing to train them; cost the boss; time, money and energy. They should do internship, unpaid. Get some experience first, before worrying about money. Many don't even work during their off time. The one question during the interview that will kill them. Boss: Why should I hire you Newly gradulate: Becuase I am hard working, I have a degree. Boss: ok. Thank you. Next. The man said: I play everyday during uni. Wasted time! Could of worked part time, learned another skill on the side., do voluteern work. ANd now, all these graduates bit** about, is how no wants to hire them. Or when they do get hired, they bit** about the low salary. THey think uni paper is a golden ticket. Maybe so, 20 yrs ago. Now, experience is more valuable than just a piece of paper. WHat they learned at school is soon to be outdated.
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  306. no face, shameless, treating a first day as a man's ATM. She only wanted a free meal. She is shameless.
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  307. Traditon is still very strong in China and women have been whitewashed by everything that surrounds them.
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  308. Leftover women wants to marry well, it is all about money. IT is not about love. Chinese women love money more than the man.
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  309. One word to describe these women: Selfish The only care about men and how they can get it for herself and her family. They offer nothing in return, except a couple of release a week, if lucky. Keep waiting...
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  310.  @meddlingmage23  Men's value will always go up with working experience and skills.
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  311. And his son's dream will also shatter when he realize the world is worst off than his dad was.
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  312. asking for a bribe price is gold digging. HOw is it not gold digger if she ask for a bribe price and say it is not high. When women say it is NOT high, it is HIGH.
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  313. Losers. If one doesn't have millions in their bank account, they should not get married. They married, because their d88k is itchy. But never prepared for the cost of raising children. I totally understand why the wife is arguing with their husband, because they don't have MONEY. THese Chinese men did not prepare enough money for: house (fully paid) and money to raise their child. Think about it -mortgage -bills -food -clothing for the child, diapers, formula, etc Each month, the family does NOT have enough money to cover all expenses. SO, they are Loser. They did NOT calculate. THey did not finanically plan for the cost of having children. And when the wife see, money in and money out, of course the wife will b88tch, because the husand ISN"T bring enough money home.
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  314. TO the mother of 3 children: Did you plan for raining day? Did you plan for emergency fund that should last at least 6 month Why did you mortgage and not rent instead, with your partner's salary of 6k a month. Once you default, it is GAME over! End of the line.
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  315. Spending a few thousand on a paternity test is MUCH cheaper than spending nearly a million RMB to raise the child from 0-18 in a first tier city. Man will agree to it and pay the fee for the test. Any women who refuse, bc, they have something to hide. Simple. Any women agree, she has NOTHING to hide.
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  316. If Chinese women respect Chinese tradition, they should stay at home and be a homemarker. So how go to school? Why get educated. Graduating HS is enough, no need for useless degree, only end up jobless or very low salary. Men do not benefit from a career women. We only want our women to bear children and manage the household, yet many Chinese women who say they are tradition, do not even know how to do basic household work.
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  317. Foreign women knows how to respect Chinese men Local Chinese women only knows how to talk down on Chinese men (don't make enough money, don't spend time with me, dont spend money on me...etc) We Asian men hate nagging women and Chinese women are full of nagging, it is in their genes. They don't understand how hard we work, they dont apprecipate small kindness. They always compare us with their friend;s husband.
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  318. Rural family with daughter knows the rural situation; very few women and these family with daughter take advantage by selling at a high price. It is a bidding war. It is the old strategy: " I know a family that wants my daughter for 200k. So asking 200k rmb is not high. IF you can't pay, we will sell our daugther to someone that will." These parents have no shame. Selling their daughter. This tradition is out of date. If l paid a dowry for a rural girl, l take her far away and never let them see each other again. Bc, I own her! She is my property. Seller and buyer.
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  319. Im glad bosses aren't hiring women. This is sending out message to women, you did this to yorself. Men don't want women to be independent. Women do not deserving the equal rights to men. They have not earned it. THey have NOT worked for it. Men build this society, not women. Men fight for country's freedom, NOT women. Men are fighting back. NO simping, no treating like ATM and all bs and nagging.
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  320. Im 40, millions in the Bank, looking for 20 yr old; monthly 60k+RMB after tax in SH, China.
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  321. THese women only think about themselve and their parents. Not once, do they EVER consider the other's feelings. These women are single bc, they are very selfish and very narrow minded.
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  322.  @johank3007  yes, selling the women as a peice of meat/property. Why can't the man get bride price?
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  323. This is the problem with modern woman, they dont' give a chance to nice guys. They are selfish and overly judgemental.
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  324. It is women's fault that men dont want to date: -gold digging -insane standards -need to spend money -may not get laid -feminist -comparing you to other guys
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  325. That is why women lack common sense in society and social situations. They are NO independent and are dependent on friend's opinion to make decisions. Men are always more logical than women.
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  326.  @vladonaldtrumputler3114  NOT A 10, that is for sure, once she hits 35. Even with all those make up on and wearing beautiful dress, once the make up is removed, you will see a 35 yr old, with difficulties to bare children. As these Chinese women age, their biological and attractiveness goes down....fast. Some do understand that their value is decreasing, BUT They refuse to lower their standards in finding a partner. They wont' want -divorced men -lower economic-social status than them SO, their pickyness and playing the waiting time, basically screwing themselves over by being single.
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  327. at 40, only can marry divorce men or older men of 45+ . She has NO value.. GL
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  328. These women who are single and claim they are high quality wants to marry up and do no want to follow traditional role as a home marker These two big reasons are a BIG turn off for men. -old (35+) -high education (does not benefit men) -good job/salary (men do not need their money, but women want men's money) -lazy (they do not want to follow tradition of cook and clean) -too many opinions (bc of their high education, men much prefer women with lower education and women follow men)
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  329. TO the young man, she wants you to sell your organs, to come up with the bride price. That means, she are about you.
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  330. They dont understand biology 101. Men can still have children at 45, but not women at 45.
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  331. I love this quote: Men's money is just to show, not men to spend (dating). Men will only spend/invest when he see value in the relationship. Even so, he is still cautious bc, women are materialistic. It is so hard for men to find a woman who are NOT materialistic. As a result, men are very cautious on blind dates as there are TOO many women who only date to get free meals.
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  332. Yes, women in China are commodity, especially when they demand bribe price! Men have every right to state the truth to these left over women. The problem is these left over claim they have high education and high emotional Intelligent. If they have high education and all that, why can't they accept the fact that time and age is NOT on their side. Time and time again, ppl have been telling them, don't get picky, lower your standard, the man you want does NOT exist, look at yourself first b4 judging men. These women are stubborn. As a result, they are rejected!!!
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  333. I hope these quality mature women remain single forever and no longer waste man's time or other's time. Too many Chinese man can't satisitfy their crazy mind set. We would rather woo 18 yr and college students still in school, as their mindset are not brain washed by peers and are plain like yogurt.
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  334. ALl the men that fits her standards are already taken. It is sad she doesn't see it or doesn't understand OR...doesn't want to believe it (living in a fantasy land)
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  335. Bc Chinese women think they are the prize when they are not. Bc Chinese women will talk down on their partner, for example not earning enough money Bc, Chinese women think with their high education, they are too good to do housework or be home markers Bc, Chinese women have HIGH expectation and demand dowry. And when we say, are you selling yourself, they get upset, citing it is tradition, yet they dont' follow their tradition of staying at home.
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  336. Chinese women are brained wash by tv romance drama, looking for a man that does not exist. They created a fictional future partner.
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  337. They wont' judge themselves, yet loves to judge others. That is why they are argue, saying those handsome, tall and successful men dont want them. They are playing the victim, saying, men are to be blamed. They say, why wont high quality men, want high quality women. They beleive they are perfect match. They clearly do not understand men. THey only know how to demand and demand.
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  338. GL in China by filing a complaint.
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  339.  @kbgirel6965  that is true. Those uneducated woman, the man should not give the wife the money, he should dictate how the money is spent.
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  340. Well said, sister! (in the red car) Chinese men want a real non career women. They want a wife to be a wife. Match making agency will be busy working with single men, matching with foreign women. THis will give the Chinese man GREAT face, when he is able to marry a foreigner woman. ANd their children will be very beautiful. Chinese men have choices, especially those that have some saving, a pretty good job. Why whould they want to get a Chinese woman, who will bitch at the husband, saying, earn more money!
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  341.  @Jessica-el3dc  It is not about awful. It is the truth. Can you not accept the truth. Do you understand Chinese culture? Women like you, play on your emotions, and do not consider facts. It is because of toxic chicken soup advice, that men no longer want to be simps. Put yourself on men's shoe, if you can Many Chinese women want -house, -car -stable yet high salary -tall -handsome ANd many women with these demands, believe their education and etc is a good catch and deserving of these men. They are after the top 1% and you are part of the problem, bc u think men's logic is aweful. HOw about analyze why men do not want to deal with these left over women with their insane demands. WOmen like you do not accept facts, do not understand themselves, thinking why men dont chase women, especially when she is 35+.
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  342.  @Jessica-el3dc  DId you not see the comments of others. Many ppl have the same thinking as I do, mostly men. If men think women's demand, treating men like ATM, isn't that aweful. WHy don't you comment on that? Yes, not everyone is like that. But we men are not taking about those rare cases. We men are talking about the majority of Chinese women who are still single and continue with their high demands. Can you blame us men? We men, have to pay for blind dates to show our generousity. So what do men get in return when the woman get free meal and experience. Can you deny that men are the one that pays, are the supporters, earning money for the family. Can you deny that woman initiate divorce bc they are selfish, even though their current partner is working hard and she is STILL not satified and beleive, she can find someone better. Men are no longer want to be atm to woman. WHy spend 200 dollars on a nice meal, when he can spend that 200 on himself. If it is tradition that men should woo men, then it is treating men like an ATM. Are men wrong to think this way?
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  343.  @Jessica-el3dc  ALso, your just using yourself as an example. Can you denie that many women are after men's resources, maybe especially in CHina. Since the video is about Chinese women. DO you NOT know that the Chinese men are fed up with these women's high demand. They demand dowry, ok. So isn't that a goods, being sold? SO how can you say, women are NOT goods, when she and her family demand bride price in the name of tradition. Are these Chinese women tradition? Will they be wife and home markers? That is also tradition. you clearly lack understanding understanding of basic biology (age ) and Chinese men, Chinese culture.
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  344.  @Jessica-el3dc  Women like you, do not see how much men has provided. Can u not understand that MEN build this world. Men provide everything so that women like you can live a comfortable life. Yet, you still call men like me awful? THis is why some men dont want to give women's too much rights. Bc, women abuse it and take advantage of men.
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  345.  @lang-ed3bk  those are rare, young and infertile. Im talking about the majority, you are talking about a VERY small %age.
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  346. This is totally fair. WOmen demanding an out of date custom. So men are waking up. They are no longer fools. They want money, we men want purity, making sure, she is not USED and fresh If she is fresh and un-used, men will be willing to give dowry But if she has been used (second or third hand or more), then these women should NOT demand a dowry. SO it is absolutely fair to the man to demand for the woman to have a check up If she doesnt demand dowry, then he will NOT demand check up.
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  347. Women did this to men. Drive men away with their feminist ideas and insane demands for marriage. Men would rather marry a dumb chick, no education, can do housework, can be controlled, and they obey men's command. These women are brainwashed by feminist ideas and men don't like that. They don't need women with feminist idea, high education, career women and etc. These women think too highly of themselves and men can't deal with this!
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  348. So all this talk about being independent, dont need a man, feminist, is all BS. And why would a man raise another man's child. How about a man have two wives. Will both wives agree. These women are bit ches, selfish and do no deserve a good man in their life.
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  349. To the young man, LEAVE the relationship! Find a gf that has NO Demand for bribe price. There are prenty of women out there. She was brainwashed by her family to sell her off as property. However, if you insist of marrying your gf and need money fast, then sell your body parts, if you are stupid enough. That will generate money fast! Are u stupid enough!
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  350. Why invest in a first day, when there is a very high possibility that it may not work out. And women knows this, that is why they want luxury meals, bc, they know, it is free!
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  351. THis is an example, where women with their current bf or husband are always looking better. THey don't care about their parent's feelings or children. They are indeed pure greedy and selfish, only caring about herself. She play cards at late into the night and the 1st husband did not nag. When he worked more, she nag, saying he didn't spend enough time with him, yet spend time playing card with her gfs. WTF
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  352. To the 40 yr old, what do you have to offer a man? Your old and can't have children. And no bs reason about how successful you are, based on your car, house, salary, title. This means nothing to him. All in all, you have no value in the dating market. Just remain single and enjoy your life with your luxury goods with your cat. Why should a man value you when your 40.
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  353.  @eugenechin2863  exactly. Men should only invest their time and money, if the women is willing to invest their time and beauty on the guy.
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  354.  @eugenechin2863  Starbucks is pretty luxury brand, l would say MCD coffee or Tims
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  355. Bc my partner is a housewife and taking care of children, my job is to be the provider, working hard to earn more money!
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  356. A man can change a woman, especially if she is young. So men prefer young women. If a woman try to change a man, he can easily get another woman, if he has $ and is established.
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  357.  @rc8929  depends on the job. What jobs/position?
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  358. SHe will be a great wife for a CCP memeber, sinc the CCP have been lying to the public for yrs.
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  359. Men are no longer spending money on women, when women only see men as ATM. Regarding paying the bill when dating Chinese girls in China. If the man pay, fine. Then he should get some action from the woman. She also gets pleasure too. But she must agree to it, if she insist the man pay. If she argues; but you ask me out. Fine If she accepts the invite, then she should accept his dck into her V hole.
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  360. Dress up, look successful and women will chase men.
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  361. She should marry her bestie.
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  362. To be blunt, if her conditions are good, continue to be single, why find a partner. To be blunt, she is already 30+ year, what value does she have, that men care about. She has past her prime. Her economic value is 0 to a man. Man don't care about women's educaiton or accomplisment. It means nothing to him.
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  363. women's life is contradictory. Their logic makes NO sense. For example, they say, they are independent, have education and yet, want a man's resource, citing tradition, yet they are NOT traditional women.
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  364. She said, women has scarified a lot. What has women scarified ? Did they go to war? Did they build our society, doing all those dangerous and physical intense jobs?
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  365. Lesson: never go into debt
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  366. The ending of the video, with all those suggestions given, makes perfect sense. Too bad, these Chinese women were raised and spoiled by their parents and grandparents. They cant accept reality. They can't accept facts or simple biology. They only accept themselves and their high worth, even at 30+. They believe they are perfect. They believe they can be chased by knights in shinny armor. Then we men, we want to date as many young Chinese dolls as possible, take their Vs. That is most men's dream.
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  367. Well, girls ask man, what is his job, what is his salary, any siblings, where he lives. These questions is to see what is the man's financial situation.
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  368. 18k rmb cost of living and take home pay is less than that! I though Chinese are excellent in Math, as they are known worldwide. But when it comes to their personal math, they fail.
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  369. WOmen like her, refuse facts, truth and reality, they live in VR world.
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  370. Men only need 1 thing from them, help men release! And if he cant get that, then gaming!
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  371. Men are getting sick and tired of these mature's high demand. Men has waken and NO longer accept their BS. Those successful men would rather find 18+, fresh, plain yogurt, easy to be flavored by men's liking. Sorry mature ladies, your age and beauty is your ONLY value. We dont care about your accomplishments. These mature women won't even settle on older/divorced men. Yet only want to find their equal. It is no wonder good single and established men, won't even LOOK AT THEM. They are like overdue meat, rotten, no LONGER fresh. Establish men can EASILY find fresh and young meat.
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  372. they say, they want equality. But when it is time to split the bill, they give us their bs reasons, saying a man should pay, if he is a MAN. These feminist don't want equality, they want freebies and demanding feminist is a disguise.
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  373. Men are reasonable, women are NOT!
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  374. Chinese women are angry bc now Asian man can find a woman, dowry free!
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  375. It is bc these so called high quality women don't want to compromise. They want the benefits from the man and give little in return.
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  376. Due, your leader took your salary after 6 month. LOL Your leader told his boss, that all the work you did was actually his work. So his boss gave him the raise.
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  377.  @grgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgr2592  That is why these Chinese women think they are better than men in everyway. And they are stubborn. So lm glad these agent NO longer help them, and money isn't the issue.
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  378. These Chinese women are so self. They demand and demand but don't give. The women in the video only says: l'll cook and clean. But the man has to: earn 10k, pick up children, give money to her parents, work 9-4, etc etc. Doesn't seem like a good deal. Then the other women, wants a 100,000 for marriage, expect his future husband to buy a house for his younger brother, and she doesn't do housework. She wants all these things and give little back. It is no wonder why these men look down on these "princesses" Im so glad they can't find men. They look on the outside, but not the inside.
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  379. In university, your just a number. = a no body In reality you are also a no body, but worst due to job seeking, paid, and little money
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  380. Your bestie is jeolous and wants to ruin your happiness. SImple.
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  381. regret is a b*****. These mature Chinese women was playing the waiting game, waiting for their knight in shinny armor: tall, handsome, rich, loving, etc etc AND they lost, bc those men don't exist for them, especially when they are 30+ They refuse to lower their standard and time is a bitch for them. They (nonsense) believe they are so valuable and attractive by the time they hit 30. They carely dont understand biology and don't understand what men wants in a partner. We Asian men, knows exactly what a women wants, to get a wife. Your pickness is your own doing. You don't want this and don't want that. NO Younger men, no older divorced men, you want it perfect. I ask you, are you 30+ women perfect. Judge yourself before you judge others! Look yourself in the mirror and see if you are truely 10/10. You are competiting with women younger than 25. Can your beauty match theirs? Be alone and be happy ladies. You choose this path, you choose to be stubborn and NOW you are being punished due to your regrets in life. The sadest part, they have housing and cars. WHen they die, there is no one to transfer their yrs of hard earn money. They may sell all their shit before departing, but she spend it ALL? Travel- NO energy. Eating-can't eat that much when your old. The only place l foresee to send ALL their wealth is a luxury retirement home. Even that, there will be left over funds. When your old and sick, l hope your pet can take good care of you.
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  382. Housing price sky rocker because it was quite easy to get mortgage as bank can earn money from homeowner. Because of easy borrowing, housing price went up. And many CHinese people believe the housing price will only go up. They never heard of the housing bubble. Imagine 20-30 yr mortgage, you become a slave to the bank. By the time the family paid off the mortgage, the total price was 2-3x the original cost of the home. Was it worth it? A better strategy is to save. For example, say a housing in a 1st tier cost 5 Million rmb. You save 4 million. That means, only mortage 1 million. That is my plan; to pay it off in 3 yrs. Long term mortgage is a death trap. The winners are ALways the bank. Even if you default, the bank will ALWays find a way to get their money back. ALways.
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  383. Men will soon be the prize, especially those with good economic conditions. Women who are leftover are desperate and will run to those men, and many will be rejected bc of age. ANd some men will make those women into simp, by turning the table on them, especially if she is deseperate.
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  384. agreed. THe only difference between a street prostitution is this type is "forever prostitution" and so it isn't a marriage. It is a trade. Money for long term service.
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  385. Bc, girls nag. We want quiet and peace Bc girl wants to talk, we want quiet and peace Bc girl want to spend our money, we want to use the money to buy games and devices bc girls don't like a man be physical with her, so we touch the keyboard when gaming SO what is the point of spending money on the girl when she nags, talks, talks too much (wanting attention) and spend our money, when men don't get our weekly action (release in her). Spending money on games gives us mental pleasure, Spending money on her, does NOT guarantee action, yet push us away saying, Im not like that, lm not ready, blah blah.
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  386. Men only want young and beautiful wife. ALL their accomplished, such as job, toilet paper degress means nothing to the man! ALL we men care about, is her beauty, youth and health to bear children.
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  387. this is what happen when they keep on waiting for their prince that DOES NOT exist. It only exist in their fantasy. All demand the top 5% man of high salary of 15-30k rmb per month, house full paid, high salary and high education and high position in the job, tall and handsome. They are playing the waiting game, rejecting good men because 1 or 2 of their criteria's was NOT met. Yet they never evaluate their own short comings, thinking they are perfect: 10/10. Yet, they are 30+ and value continues to decrease yr by yr.
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  388. The boy is stupid. Holding on to someting that doesn't exist and she knows that. SO she played him. Even if he buys the house, she will have more reasons. SHe already told them, she will not have sex with him and will not have children. Yet, she keeps the 180k. The father knows, she is scamming the son. Yet the son, being blind, wants to hold on to a fantansy. He can get the 180k and find another woman.
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  389. Be equal to men! WTF. Try doing all the dangerous and risky job. THen lll say, you deserve to be equal.
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  390.  @bragiodinsen4604  And men with money and/or status.
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  391. I;ll do that too. WHy pay an experience worker, when l can pay a recent gradulate at 1/2 the cost, when the job can be done with the same quality. It is business. ANd young adults won't complain on small things. Because I can say, l can replace you right now and then. Similarilty, if there are two women; same age and similar qualifications. Yet one is more beautiful than the other. Who would tha male boss choose. Life is NEVER fair.
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  392. The woman with glasses that wants a 10 M man and a helicopter, she will continue to be single, to she departs from this world. When she is sick, she can hire an aiyi to take care of her. If she can't do housework, what does she bring to the table= NOTHING. When she said, she will patiently wait, she is referring to GOD.
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  393.  @harshavardhanreddyneelapu4782  Many travel long distance. Regarding school, rather than live on campus (to save money), many students commute to and from campus.
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  394. WOmen looking for an ATM man, so men run away.
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  395. Or learn some new skills.
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  396. Chinese men want a women that follow traditions. Cook, clean, rise children and etc Chinese women in China are LAZy. They do not want to do all the things that traditional women should do. They only want to work and focus on their career. When those foreigner women only wants their women to be homemarkers. Simple, period.
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  397. These women spend so much time with their education and job ,that they forgot that they are women and not men. Men dont need a career women. Career is for men, NOT for a woman. It is a good idea that companies SHOULD NOT hire women, rather men. By not hiring women, they realize, all their energy went to education was a waste. They should improve themselves and learn how to be a good wife and homemarker. That is valuable to men.
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  398. How can the exwife get a second change -one, he has a better woman beside him -she is a bitch, yelling and screaming and playing the victim. How can any man tolerate her. IF they go back together, it will be a repeat and worst!
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  399. Business are ran by men (generally). Yes, there are few CEO women, but are mainly men! So again, generally, women aren't really valued in the work place. Men do NOT want women to have power in the work place. Sorry ladies. This is the truth. Men still see women as home marker. Why promote a women to a high position, when they have family responsibilities of child rearing and taking care of the elderly? Women are too emotional when they break down in the work place. Those reading my comment, think I am discriminating against women. But the fact is (and you don't want to accept) it is in their DNA. Men are the leaders of this world. Men run business and etc. In history, men were rulers. History is deep and it is hard to change. Even though women are fighting for equal rights, it is just words. Women can't do men's job! Simple and Period.
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  400. anyone women who say, they have no high demand or their demand is basic = it means, HIGH and insane. She only talks about her. SO, what protection does he get? Nothing. NO DEAL. SHe has NO reproductive value. A man's objective is for her to give him children.
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  401.  @sdinim8695  And time is NOT on her side. Her beauty will fade, then she will realize, she was too demanding. Regret is a B****h
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  402.  @factsunloaded4808  Bc, she is the "man" in the relationship, her manly demands are showing.
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  403. The btch complaining Here is a though -you get food -shelther -utilites -kids are yours are well She claims she can get 5-6k as a housemaid by working for others=Fair Ok Then she has to pay -rent -food -utilities -etc so after all the cost, she maybe has 2k left in savings. And if the man's parents are looking after the children, she must pay at least another 1000rmb for as child care.
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  404.  @happilyevernever4289  Not all men have money. Many men in China have very little savings, after uni. So, it is those men that have money can get one goods. And those men that have it all, house, car, millions of RMB in the bank, have their own demands. young, beautiful, able to bear children, can do housework and take care of his family
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  405.  @abrahamg3354  Transactional. That is what these woman are after, men's resources.
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  406. She has no face, no shame. The worst. And worst part, there are many women with the mindset of a princess, thiinking she deserve EVERYTHING from a man! And if the ex ask her, what can he do to make her disappear (except re marriage), she will say: 50% of everything you own. SHe is not after re-marrage, she wants his finances/money.
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  407. Men dont get married: 1. They dont have the financial means 2. They are well established and have been tricked by G.D.
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  408. Many of these women are spoiled and have no manners. They expect a man to pay EVERYTHING and being a princess mind, she no need to say thx or show any mannerism. It is all expected bc she think she is a princess and deserving free meals. Guys, WAKE Up. NO MORE SIMPing!
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  409.  @hassletanaka9195  Even girls rated at 5/10, beleive they are 10/10 because their whole life, they are told how smart and beautiful they are. But when they enter society, they still live in the fantasy land.
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  410. Any women say, they don't have high standards for a partner, it means, they HAVE HIGH standards.
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  411. Any women say, they are slightly order means, they are old and their value has drop, especially when it comes to bear children.
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  412.  @txawjlaim5621  These crazy women think they are prize. They crazy think they are the only women in this world. They live in the fantasy world.
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  413. People like Athena, too expensive to keep. Those women like her, insist of eating the best, dresing the best, traveling on first class, etc. Only stupid men will fall for these OLD quality Gold diggers. Smart wealth men will not fall for these traps.They think to high of themselves. THey expect their future partner to solve all their finanical debt problems. They want everything, thinking the deserve everything bc they are raised with the mentality of a princesses. THey only take and do not give. They only expect their partner to give. THese women like her, DESEVE to be single...forever, with their dog and cats.
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  414. Answer to the first woman. YES! WHy men in their 30, for for men in their 30. Men in their 30, would rather go for women in their 20s. THey are fresh! Why would men go for 30 yr old women, that will nag and demand. We man, want younger women, so that we are in control. We men tell you what to do, you obey and be submissive. A high quality women, only focus on career while a 20 yr old, men can "Train" them to be home markers. AFter she graduate, she only needs to learn how to be a woman in the household, NO need to be a career women. It is the man's job to provide and women's job is to support and be a home marker. NO feminist. A women's purpose in life is reproduction, raise the children and take care of their husband. Simple. A man's money is women;s money A women's money is her. So having a women work and earn money has NO benefit to the man. But a man's job and income benefits women.
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  415. Living in SH or other 1st tier city are for high income earners and those who can find success quickly. Only few can find success from those that are NOT from SH. Those who are from SH, will still have a home (parent's house). SH is for those who can survive and adapt.
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  416. So simple, don't take on debt, then they wn't have this problem. They did this to themselve, no back up plan/plan B. They never once consider, if what one of us in the family lost the job, what if we need money for medical emergency, what if... I once though Chinese people are great at saving money and don't beleive in mortgages. BUt they were brained wash by the western, by their peers in that: everyone should have a car everyone should own a house everyone can live happily with 1 income in the family etc They were following those that have the ability and resources to buy. They were too confident that by taking out 20-30 yr loans, that they are able to pay it off, easily. I thought Chinese ppl are wizards at Math with their finances. It seems that we judge them wrong. Chinese people are short sighted. They see other buys house and car, they follow suit. They see other borrow money, they follow suit. They want what others have, and confidently borrow money, even with a low interest. They believe the housing price will NEVER fall. They have no back up plans or save for raining days. When they fall, they fall hard. When they fall, they cry and become losers of the society.
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  417.  @juliahello6673  didnt the vidoe say, many companies are laying off workers? And when these 35+ men look for job, it is hard?
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  418.  @darkflame031  YOu can start your own business and be your own boss. Then if your business is doing well, hire some employees. I am sure, those employees will think the same as you!
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  419. If these left over woman do NOT want to have children or give up their career, then DONT marry. Be single and Be a career woman. NO need to marry a man. A man wants a family, have a wife to have children, support him. He wants a wife, NOT a career woman .
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  420.  @LightWavess  I work 1.25 job, and is equal to 2x. Im lucky that my other side gig (part time less avg. 5-8 hour a week pays full time salary)
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  421. IM glad even her sister scold her.
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  422. The lady that demand 5M, said bc of her appearance. So she is "Selling herself" ANd yet, they all say, it is tradition. FK that! They are saving face by citing tradition. We all know, she is selling her goods, if any!
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  423. I wonder what happens when these leftover woman reach 70, and are bedridden. What happens then? What is the point of earning all that money, when she cant use it all.
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  424. bc we men, dont' want to be your ATM on the first date. We want to test you, to see if you are a GD. By ordering many expensives dishes and even expect us to buy bags for you on a first date, shows that even rich man are not simps. A wealth man taking a women to eat 30 rmb noodles, is a test and you single left over women FAILED our test.
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  425. WHen a women is down (lost their job), we will support them, bc that is what a MAN does! But when a man lose their job, the wife face turns sour over time!
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  426.  @shadowmod3  International school is for the rich, costing upwards of 80-200,00+ a year. A family combine income of 10k (without any mortgages on house/car payments) is difficult. Parents with international kids knows they don't want to go to the Chinese system, due to BIG classes, and weak English systems. It can be true that it is useless, but those parents who have the funds want their kid to have a western education system, as their goal is to go aboard for school. It is mostly buying experience. Once their kid has a foreign degree, they can brag to their friends, who make less than them and/or their kid will take over the family business.
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  427. If these Chinese mature women thing it is unfair, they can leave the country.
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  428. That is why, during interview, l ask: can l meet the leader of the team, before l even accept the offer being offered. If it is a man, l'll accept. If it is a women, l would like to chat with her, before accepting. For example, in all my teaching position, there was one TC l quit (started looking for a new job after TWO months) because it was ran by CHINESE women. I was not happy how she manage the foreign teachers, thinking she and them are better than us. Without us foreign teacher, there will be no TC/business. The center only had business bc of foreigners. So, basically, we are the ones earning the money for THEM. They only had the physical building, a brand and resources. What good are these things, if there was no foreigner teachers to teach their client. I too, can get resource, build a brand and get a building (rent). So the TC has no value. The only value was us foreigners. We were the ones servicing the students. Their job was to get them in! I can do that as well. All other jobs l had, l had finished the contract and renewed bc they were ran by foreign females or males (chinese and foreigners). My point is: I do not want to by lead by a Chinese women leader in the dept or company!!!
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  429.  @eac26114653  right. And if she doesnt have skills or can't find another similar job, she suffers the abuse. Best is to learn some skills during her free time.
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  430. My wife, say, l make too much money, making 6fig after tax (USD) in CHIna.
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  431. Why should a man marry those women who have/are -divorced with children, used -high demand -bride price Any smart man will not accept any of those conditions
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  432. THat is China. Too many ppl with uni papers and not many good jobs. At least, they won't be homeless. Too many Chinese believe that after graduation, they all believe they will have good job. They were WRONG!
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  433. I still don't understand how these "recent" graduates, have such high demands. As a employer, if you want 8k, l want to see your past work experience, during ur uni yrs. I want to see volutunteer work experience or intership, paid or not paid. I don't want you to brag or talk about what classes you took, how you write your essay, projects, etc. I want to hear your work experience, skills you obtained, how you problem solved that is not textbook. If you can answer all these questions well and have worked during university during time off like summer and winter and etc, yes, lll give you the 8k rmb because I see the value you bring. But these b**** has no value, only a useless piece of paper, a peice of shit and want 8k. They are lucky to get 4k and maybe 8k after 3-4 yrs of work experience based on performance. They demand and demand, believing they are so valuable. As a employer, lm looking for the cheapest labor, if you only have a sh***y paper from university.
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  434. GD
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  435. All those girls believing in love are chasing their fantasy of a knight in shinny armor. They all beleive they are princess and deserve to be chased by these handsome and rich men. But they don't understand their own short comings, only judging men, and why men don;t spend money on her or not chasing them. It is because they are too expensive and the investment is NOT worth it. Men would rather spend 500 RMB to get a quick release! Women see men as walking ATM. Men are not waking up, and NOT failing for women's old tricks.
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  436. What is truely sad is that, all their life, they were chasing wealth as a career women. WHen they die, all those accumulated wealth is taken by the state govt. So, they work for nothing. No one to past on the wealth too.
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  437.  @MickeyMishra  well said.
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  438. Stupid, divorced women 1. puzzy has been stretched and no longer freshed, already used product, 2nd hand 2. child is not the his, no bloodline 3. saying younger women had many men, she was one of them, being bang when she was younger
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  439. when the wife does most of the housework, men will apprecipate her very much. Bc, from the man's POV, she has fullfill the duties as a wife, a home marker. WHile the duty of a man is to earn money for the family.
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  440. If the wife is making 6 fig+ and is enough for the entire family. And he is a stay at home, wouldnt you want him to take the responsbility of house chores? Now, if you come home and the most of the chorse are not done, wont you "put him down" and give him the big talk/yell? Everyone has a role. It is called partnership!
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  441. The man with the glasses all on point. Women loves playing games and we leave. It is no wonder they are single. They played themselves with their stupid childish games. We men also have games too, it is called finding another woman.
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  442. 50k rmb as a dowry for a man in SH is too little. He should demand 500k. HOw the table has turned. Athena cant reproduce as she is already 35
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  443. Yes, the only want to spend the man's money like an ATM. If it is a transition, she sould apply for those sites; suggardaddy; pus** for money!
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  444. She decided to go to college and now demands 390k back? Women with education is a turn OFF for many men. Man dont need their partners to be accomplished. Just be a traditional women is enough.
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  445. asking women to lower their standards and not look for men for economic gain, is asking too much of them. They won't, and when they realize it is too late. When they do lower their standard, it is when they are near 40. asking women to analyze their own short coming, is..."mission impossible" They were likely brain washed by their mothers.
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  446. The bestie true intent is to break them up bc the bestie cant see her being married first.
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  447. Women like her, are NEVER satified. They want more, just like what they see in TV, seeing those actors making millions. ANd she wants what she sees.
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  448. Raising children in CHina in 1st tier city is too expensive. Not only cost, and time. Once a child is born, both the couple is anchored for the next 5-8 yrs. Couples can't do the things they want to do. Energy and time and cost is spend on raising the child. Only rich people who can afford full time aiyi and tutors can afford to have many chidren. Then, when the child becomes an adult, he/she will feel alot of pressure from society; school and job and etc. A couple with a boy child, parents have to start saving up for a house. WIthout a house, chances of marriage is low.
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  449. to the divorced woman with child. There are MANy difference between YOU and young lades -you are old and used -you have a child (he is raising a child that is NOT HIS) That man marrying you, he is stupid. I hope he realize the biggest mistake in his life.
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  450. 50k bride price to the man, that seems very cheap in Shanghai. She should offer 200k. Only rural men, might be interested and take the 50k. She is cheap, and can only find a cheap product (man with limited education) With her age and offered price, she can only find a low value man, 45 +, maybe divorce and maybe with children.
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  451.  @tariqthaqeeq  Yes, l do agree. But there is another bigger issue. Her options are limited. At 37 yr old, her reproductive value is near ZERO. The only foriegner man that would want her, is he doesn't want children or divorced men who already have children.
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  452. women who Dont that want volunteer sacrifice, stay single! Simple.
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  453. The men stated it very well. That is why employers ask if she is married, how many children, how old is she. So that company can calculate their risk. His logic makes perfect sense. That is why companies only higher married with children because employers know, they can't take advantage of them. I also hire either: fresh grad or mature married women with children.
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  454.  @transitengineer  That is true, but interest alone is also like throwing money out the window each month. For example, most time, your mostly paying interest and little actually goes to the principle.
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  455. Men has awaken and no longer be ATM for women, no longer accept their test, no longer accept and play their game. Men only want a simple minded women who can follow tradition and NO feminist
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  456. Women who say, she has pressure from society. Solution: Leave the career to men and be a stay a home wife, obedient, submissive and do most of the housework and prepare to get pregnant. Let the man worry about job and women be a women. These women claim they are high quality. How does it benefit the men?
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  457.  @cheetavontiebolt9971  and try to not ask for dowry when marrying. The tradition is out of date. If women in China as for bride price, she better be pure. If women continue to treat men as ATM, we men will treat women as object, especially, if she demands, house, car, dowry and all their bs demands.
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  458. These Chinese ppl got into debt on THEIR OWN fault. They blindly follow the trend. They have a house, I MUST have a house. They have a car, I MUST have a car. They have a child, I too MUST have a child = life long debt, till you part. Those married into Debt. It was their choice. No House, no car, no children = no debt. I do not feel sorry for those in debt with mortgage, cars, and children. No one force them! This dude earns 500 rmb for 12+ hour. I make that in ONE hour. They turn grey before their debt is fully paid.
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  459.  @riceball4u172  voluteer, internship (free labor given by the worker, and company teach) These teens learn: -customer skills -how to operate devices such as cashier -organization skills -problem-solving skills That is why foreigners have MORE work experience. A 22 yr old foreigner who just recently graduated have work experience, including paid and unpaid (voluteer). Can you say a 22 yr old Chinese recent graduate have work experience? ALl they are good at is memorizing out of date info. NO real work experience, no critical thinking and etc. Why would I hire someone with only a paper and NO work experience. I much rather hire a 22 yr old with some work experience. That is valuable to me! Owned!
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  460.  @MissKealoha  I own my own company, lm the sole owner and worker, easily making 5 figures, part time
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  461.  @riceball4u172  They can flip burgers, work at family mart, and other seasonal jobs, as HS. That is why foreigners in CHina are so valuable. They started working at 15/16 yrs old.
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  462. Women in their 35, continue to show high confident and big ego can continue to live their single life. Let's see what happens when they become 50-60-70, sick. She will have no one to take care of her, when she is sick, laying on bed.
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  463. Their dating pool are: left over men that are NOT established and/or those men that are established are divorced with/out children. Successful men are NOT interested in these old women. Having relative asking these left over women is totally normal, because their relative are questioning their mind/logic and why they aren't married and still single. Their relative are challenging their mindset and logic, making sure are they truely educated or maybe too much education has rotten their brains.
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  464. Cleary, these biches/women dont understand men. We men do not want to play their bichy games. That is why they will become single and left over. A 30 yr old women's value decreases while a man of the same age value increases, due to his potential earnings.
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  465. well stated: to the 45 yr old man
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  466. they were clearly fuking!
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  467.  @yelanchiba8818  IF she doesnt want to do housework, what is the point of having a wife? A man's job is to earn money! Woman job is to take care of the household, children and etc. A woman working is because the family income is not enough. THat is, the man earning is not enough to support the family.
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  468.  @basillah7650  then, there is no point having a wife. IF he needs a release, a call girl is all he needs.
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  469.  @tarablue4472  I think you work, bc he isn't earning enough?
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  470.  @tarablue4472  Not true. Woman not working does not mean she will get abused. DO you have data to back up your claim?
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  471.  @tarablue4472  I have a good partner, who l dont want her to work, rather stay home and take care of children and etc. My income is 6 FIG USD after tax, and living China, that is more than enough, can retire at 55.
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  472.  @tarablue4472  HOw I am not a good partner. A man is the main provider. Yes, not everyone can earn 6 fig, no matter how hard he works. Even if he works 60-70 hours a day, he may still not earn 6 fig. Women marry, bc she needs financial support. If she is has money, then she marry bc she needs emotional support. So, for me, our partnership works. Think about it. If the man can bring home enough money, why would the man want the woman to work. She manages the household finances. If the man earns 6fig and she earns less than 30k (after taxes), the man doesn't want the wife to do the 9-5, and rather use that time and energy to be a home marker.
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  473.  @tarablue4472  If your man makes 6 fig, he also dont want you to work. Why continue earning money, when his salary is WAY MORE than enough, plus saving 1/2 of it every yr.
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  474.  @tarablue4472  I;ll give you another example. She works 40 a week for a yr to get about 30k. If the man works an extra 1-2 hour per day, he can get that 30k. A loving man wouldn't want her to work, if he can provide a very comfortable life for her and him and the children. And in China, 6fig+ USD after tax, the family can live like royalty I bet you what, many man earning BIG money, will NOT want their wife to work, rather, take care of the household finances and household. IF the couple works, it is because (that means the woman) -their cost of living is high (mortgages, car loans, other debt) -not enough savings -others One can decrease debt. I dont have a car (in China), i can easily afford a 100k car. But it makes NO sense bc cars have a depreciating value. So a car worth 100k on day 1, after 5 yrs, loss about 40-60% value. Me, l just ride to work, take the metro or taxi (and taxi are SUPER cheap)
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  475.  @tarablue4472  "well good for you" I am good, bc i worked DAMN hard to get what I am at today! Putting tons of OT
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  476.  @tarablue4472  he only puts you down, if you dont do housework, yet he is out there earning the money. He wants to come home, home is clean and organized. ANd if there are children, she is helping them with their homework and etc.
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  477.  @tarablue4472  sounds like you either witness too many bad men, or your partner was one of them!
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  478.  @tarablue4472  YOu have your thoughs and I have mine. We live in different worlds, different culture, different belief. you have your pride, i have mine You have your partner, I have mine Whether you accept your partner or not, it is up to you. We all have choices. You have seem many bad partners, I have not. You have your standards of life, I have mine. ...
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  479. If divorced, never tell the ex wife anything, especially about money. Bc once she has this info, she will try to get it. NEVER tell your ex wife anything. He made a HUGE mistake by telling her. Now she is hooked! BAD move!
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  480. any chinese factory? Making Chinese products such china brand electric device (MI, Opp, Huawei)
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  481. The more rights women receive in marry and in society, the less willing man is going to marry. And yet, CCP is worried about the marriage numbers and BR. THey screwed the Marriage system and BR. By giving marriage rights to women, women will 100% abuse the system.
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  482. Why invest in a first day at an expensive restaurant, when 90% of the chance, it won't work. A simple coffee day is enough!
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  483. Simple reason: Men don't show up bc it is a waste of them. These women's expectation are insane. Women show up bc, they are leftovers and desperate, yet still have high standards.
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  484. There are plenty of men in the rural area. They should go there.
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  485.  @pauldwalker  sure, for women. Because they believe they have more experience. But Asian men wants a plain and traditional women, where he can flavor the yogurt as he pleased. The older the women with more life experience, the greater their opinions and their demands, which can lead to more arguements. Imagine a man that is 30 yrs old with a wife that is 24 or younger. He will flavor her to his liking.
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  486. THe problem with these high quality women is they focus too much on their career and not building social relationships. Too many of them, think they are too good and will only consider men with salary of at least 1 M RMB. THey think the are deserving of such men. But men with excellent financial status, only consider women in their early 20s. Why would men with excellent condition, consider this old woman, even though she is a virigin. Also, her parents is also partly to blame, as many CHinese parents are overally protectived for their only girl child. These parents dont like guys gets close to their only daughter. TOo much protection = lost opporuntity to meet ppl of the opposite sex.
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  487. she is insane at 40, thinking she is valuable. She is NO value for men.
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  488. Those women are NOW being punished Why. Because they were busy chasing a career women and forgetting their roots They are busy chasing equality WHat they should prepare for is, be a partner, be a mother, be a women, not taking men's job in society. They forgetton their purpose on this Earth, which is to populate. So, lm glad these companies ARE not hiring them. Men's purpose to work and provide Women's job is to support man, bare children, raise children, and etc. I support any company that is NOT hiring women. This will force women to rely on man again. ANd making women go back to their roots. That is the advice!
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  489. This why women are GD, they are always looking for a better partner, when they are with their current one. They are always thinking and comparing, if she can get someone (shopping) better. As a result, men are fed with their BS and rather date women in their 20s because their mind is not complicated nor brainwashed by society and friends.
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  490. Young women's main value is their youth and beauty. Some weaponsize it and scam men for money. And use their limited acting skills to dig the wealth man's pocket. So, lm glad, this lady got scammed. This video/example is an example to be shown to other women who are just like her, trying to get goods for a good deal, when the deal is in fact, his to take.
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  491. Didn't she say, she was independent yet still demand 60-80k bride price. Make not sense. All those talk about independent is ALL BS, when they demand bride price. Why spend money on a divorce women, when he can go to the uni campus and pick up a 20 yr old without bride price.
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  492. Gender discrimination (like racisim) WILL always exist, even though there are laws. So lades, that is just a fact in the work place and in society. We dont want feminist. We want a women to be a women. Beautiful, raise children well, take care of the elderly, take care of the household. That is what men want and need! Let me take care of business, society, politics, economics!
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  493. If she thinks she is so valuable, why can't she find a partner. An 18 yr old can be "trained" and is fresh like plain yogurt. She will not have much opinions. SHe is young and beautiful. Mature women has too many strong opinions and do not want to do housework or cook and clean. THey believe highly educated women should not do these thigns, as they believe it is a waste of their time and talent. That is why Chinese men wants 18 yr old. Her logic MAKES NO SENSE. She will be too tired and busy with her career. SHe will say, we have the money, we can hire tutors. No common sense. Living in the fantasy land. We dont' care about your master/PHd degrees. ANd she is 38, how can she have children? Yet, she is still considering the men's hight. WHy not consider her own short comings FIRST. She is so good at talking about others and set backs and etc. Yet, she refuse to talk about herself and her high demands. She refuse to talk about where are those men that she is after. The answer: they are ALREADY married with the young and beautiful wife. Bc she is left over, her pool of choices are left over men. WHy would rich and successful men want her, due to her age.
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  494. Or he is gay and prefer a man's susage, rather than a sweet, wet, tight hole.
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  495.  @vqvyt  that is what l said to another post. lol
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  496. WOmen these days, treat men like ATM, as their punching bag, talk down on us, compare their friend's bf, saying shit about us, like...my friend's bf is so great. Why can't you be great. These same women love to degrade their partner, make them look big and strong. If there wasn't a law about slapping woman, men would have whipped their asses LONG time ago and bring them back to order; bring them back to becoming obedient and traditional women.
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  497. Women has no longer term vision and lack planning skills.
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  498. THere are more single mature women at the marriage market =left over and desperate. A man who is 35 yrs and economically stable and establish has MORE choices than a women who is the same age. He just simple go to the university ground and look for a 20 yr old. Why would a smart man want a women bag full of unstable emotions. He can just simple walk the alley way and get some physical action. NO emotions attach.
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  499. The narrator is COMPLETELY right. They only think of themselves. I hope these b***** with high standard, remain alone FOREVER. She can adopt a dog. The problem, they dont' see themselves in the mirror and they DON"T reflect themselves. They only bitch, why men don't chase them. THey don't understand, that after 35, they are no longer attractive and will have difficulties to bear children. THese highly educated mature women, i ask them, are they educated. THey lack basic understanding of men. Only thinking of themselves. THey LOVE to judge other. FOr example, what men have and do not have. BUt they can't and don't judge themselves.
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  500.  @Aw3someOpZ  These women claim, by having a house, they....err, she gets security. Other than her pussy cat hole, she has NO value.
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  501. Their high dreams are shattered. During HS and University, they were too naive and too over confidental that their degree is the golden ticket to a better life. THey might be smart, but lack common sense or street smart. They only understand 1 perspective and can't see 360 degrees. They see onside of the coin and cant see the other side. And when the real world hits them, they can't adapt. They were told Santa Clause and Tooth Fair are real all thougout university. WHen they finally understood the harsh reality, they break down. Saying, life is not fair, all that hard work for nothing. Since when is society EVER fair. Some are born rich and others poor. Some a few have luck and most do not. During summer and break times (university yrs), they continue to study, like brainless zombies. Thinking working at convenient stores or other low paying jobs like MCd is not for them. Again, they look at one sided, never think of the benefits of working at these low paying jobs. I learned: customer service skills, problem solving skills, communication, using a cash register, time management. All these skills are so valuable in the real life. Yet, their dead mind set, thinking, they are too good to be working at these jobs. They only see the low salary. When they graudate, the only have 1 thing to show or talk about during the interview. And the employer know, this is boring. They heard it all; their school life. What employers want is their work life, skills he/she accumulated during his/her time. What problems were encounter during the employement. How was it solved. What method was used. What is effective. etc etc. When ask these questions, their mind is a blank. They can't answer these questions because they never worked in low labor job. Yet questions apply to all sectors of the job economy.
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  502. SHe isn't that pretty, avg looking. 5/10 GL finding your knight in shinny armor that is willing to spoil you. Smart men won't! These b*** also think what they want/need and never consider what the partner wants. Totally self. What beauty? Its all make up. Undereath all the foundation is an old wrinkle mature woman. Reminds me of the story of the Handsome stag who loves his antlers. In the end, it was the Stag's leg tha saved him from the hunter and the antlers was nearly catch by tree branches. Totally a gold digger. Wants the man to FULLY pay for the house and then left her parents come in. Soon, the wife kicks the man out of HIS house. Wants a divorce and keeps 1/2 the house. NO DEAL.
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  503. As the vegetable age, the price should be reduce by 50% and those fresh and beautiful and young vegetation is price high. So those stupid vegetables that are old and unwanted and still price higher than those new and fresh vegetables makes no sense. Why spend 5 dollars on a rotten and old vegetable when l can spend 3 dollars on a new one. Those new vegetables have very little requirement, they are fresh and easy to control, as they are young and their roots has not been brained-washed by society.
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  504. Any Chinese women demanding a bribe price ARE objects and tools for men.
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  505. 39 yr old women, can't bear children and selling her old V card. Once she accumulates a million of cash from the guy's monthly salary, she will divorce him. SHe doesn't like a man that is too old. Yo B*** look yourself in the mirror first. Criticizing the match maker, and not criticizing herself. These match makers are professional. If the match maker cant find a man with her requirements, and then, say, they aren't professional. She is indeed daydreaming. Wait a few yrs, and lets see she has any regrets on her thoughts.
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  506. Spending 390k is prostitution, just another form. Does that mean, she is an toy/object for the man and man's family? Bribe price = selling a human/woman to the man's family.
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  507. These women think they were too good and only accept the best of the best man. As a result, they rejected good men. Now, it men's turn. We are rejecting women over 30+ Revenge is a btich
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  508.  @lowspender147  no, lm too well off to go for used/divorced women. I rather go for 20 yr old, single and simple minded and plain like plain yogurt with little opinion.
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  509. This is why men are not respecting women these days. -GD -selfish -feminist -saying they don't need a man all bs
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  510. She wants attention, like a spoiled teen/brat.
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  511. And that is why we criticize and judge women like her. She thinks she is a princess, deserving a prince. These women lack common sense. They say, they are highly educated yet, failed in reading people (body language).
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  512. These princes are spoiled by their parents. As a result, their mind set is set in stone and wants to find a man, to spoil her, continue to treat her like a princesses. ONly stupi d men will do this. Because in the end, she will drain his life saving and she moves on.
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  513.  @man_at_the_end_of_time  but many wn't accept. THey think they deserve the world, deserving of everything like a princess. THey actually deserve to be single.
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  514. Rich man, earning 300-500k rmb, has many toys to play with. Once he is bored of the toy, he toss it. Women using their beauty to hook men, trying to use men as ATM. ANd smart man, wont spend much. Only hook them, give them the sense that he will spend money on her. Once he is done with her, he will toss her. For example, sleep then buy And if she refuse, he dumps the toy.
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  515. These women wants to fight tradition, but tradition is stronger than being a feminist.
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  516.  @arewahaircaretv8718  * honest. Typo
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  517. NO money, no honey, no family. Simple. Everything needs to be calcuated to date, marry and start a family. Those that don't calcuate and do not have enough savings to cover all these expensive, they will turn grey very soon! Their wife will nag at their husbands daily because not enough money to raise her and the child.
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  518. must check goods and see if she cones with a warantee
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  519. They were happy when they were 20-30. Then from 35+, the rest of their life they will be miserable. All because they lack common sense, planning skills, and wanting to be feminist. Now, that they are aged 35+, they are consider old by men's standard. They value is near 0. All because they live in a fantasy world. They rejected good men when they were 20s and now, mid 35, men reject them. Sweet revenge!
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  520. Finally a woman that understands men. Women has little value as she ages. Asian men only care about their youth and beauty and V. Good personality is also important with age and beauty. Men brings so much to the table: house, car, raising the wife and children What do women bring to the table: complains? NO DEAL.
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  521. If i married a chinese local and her family demand a bride price, l'll take her home to my country and NEVER let her visit her family. Since l bought her, she is my property. Is that what the family wants. They have demands, by selling their only daugther. Fine. I too have demands. My property, l take her away.
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  522. Men and Women will NEVER be equal. So those women fighting so hard for equality. It is a lost battle. Those who disagree is because they can't handle the truth. -men build society -men are inventors (history) and created big national companies -Men are leaders of this world (99%)-politics and governance -Men are CEO, yes there are female CEO, but the numbers/percentage are small. -Men in military Prove to me that: --women build society? women are inventors (history) and created big national companies-small percentage -women out number men in leaders-politics and governance-few -Women CEO out number men -Women out number men in military/war? need l say more!
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  523.  @afroabroad  An aiyi can never replace a mother's love or responsiblity.
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  524. Bc these women only use men for their money!
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  525.  @Fermolina352  The man has the right to know, that he is rising HIS child, and not some other man's child. Remember, women initiate divorce more than men bc women believe they can find someone better (social status and economoic power). Many women are selfish. Abandon their children, break the family for her happiness.
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  526. The interviewer is right, company has no train, energy or resources to train these fresh graduates. They have no working experience and this is a BIG cost to the company. These young graduates has education, but no real working experience. When l graduated uni, i already done many part time and seasonal jobs.
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  527. I feel no remorse for those ppl that were so confident and too out millions of RMB in housing mortgage. And they NEVER though of: what if l lost my job. THey only live for trm, never look beyond the future, never consider what if, never consider plan B. They live high in the moment when their business was doing well and spur on living the good life. I have xxx millions in the bank in RMB and l still don't feel confident to buy a home in SH. Nor will l take out millions in mortgage just to buy a house when the housing price is dropping.
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  528. The woman wants a bride price, i want check her goods. It is only fair. And if she refuse, no money.
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  529. It is unfair to demand a bribe price as a left over! These selfish woman don't comprehend others, only themselves. They are left over for a reason and they deserve that title=unwanted, left over cabbage, old car...etc
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  530. Yo Athena, if you want to live a life a luxury, be single. Dont need to marry it a rich family. 2. WHy would a man who is wealth and high status want a nearly 40 yr old woman who can't give him children? You have no biological value. Your old, with wrinkles. What possible value do you have to offer to a rich man?
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  531. They rejected men bc these women believe men have not met their expectation. They also reject men because they are 100% focus on being a career women. They were too busy chasing equality and chasing feminist. And when these women are finally ready, they are old and men reject them because of their age.
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  532. All these divorce women say, they dont need a man, they can take care of themselves and their children, blah blah, yet, then they say they want a man of this and that character. WTF?
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  533.  @Gregabob  Or, could be plastic. Who knows. But biology doesn't lie. A 38 yr women trying to concise a child, will have a difficult and high risk child birth.
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  534. Those old single lady with their demands, that do NOT want -to do housework -take care of children -etc So, they just want to be career woman. So, this is NOT a good deal for both of them Man wants a wife and wife responsibilities, NOT a wife that is a career woman. Men with good conditions, should ALWAYS find younger, 20s because we men can "train them" to our needs!
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  535. Now with this new law in China, this gives economic power to men. And if women wants to be part of the men's success, she better to submissive by doing most of the housework. Bc, if she doesn't do women's stuff, he can divorce her and leave her with NOTHING. Which it should be!
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  536. These woman, want status. They are comparing which of their friends can find a guy that can spend on them. They want to be envy and want face. For example, if she said l guy took me out and spend 1000rmb, so her friend will naturally try to find a guy that is willing to spend 2k and, then her next friend 3k and so the cycle continues. It is all about THEM. TO see which of these biches can get the man to spend MORE.
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  537. if he dated her, his wallet will soon be empty. You can tell, she can't accept no. Imagine if they were a couple, she will throw a fit in public when she wanted something expensive and he said no. 2. She clearly see the man as an ATM, ordering all those spicy dishes and eat so little. ANd her Chinese accent is shit.
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  538. The ending of this video is well said. Only buy a house, when you can pay 50% or more for the down. For me, l will only buy at 80% down, so that bank cant earn much money from me.
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  539.  @benstandard  i do. Millions of RMB in the bank, i think it is enough!
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  540. The women's family treated her daughter as a piece of meat to be sold at the market. Bribe price should be illegal in China and ban. If ban, this may encourage more marriages and increase population. Isnt that want pooh bear wants? Yet, no action is taken. Why? He is weak and can't fight tradition. He is giving up, bc he knows he won;t be running for 4th term. Too many ppl hate him. He killed the economy.
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  541. uni degree in China are toilet paper.
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  542. at 34, YES. Bc she has no reproductive value (or at least, high risk). Why would a good man with good conditions go for a 34/5 yr old when he can get a 22+ yr old.
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  543. The elderly don't give a f*** about young people's stressful life. THey only use their age as a weapon as a demand for stuff.
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  544. Company wants obedient women! Not big mouth like the one in the video. If she dont' want to do medical test, someone will.
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  545. Yes to all the man's question. You can thank the Bigs for his. ANd yes, if the boss say you are worth that much , that that is the value. If the man think he is worth more, go find a job that pays more than 3.5.
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  546. HE man wanted love, but those ladies are looking for $. Yet, many woman nowadays, go to school, and work, claiming, they are independent, yet, these ladies (most likely have uni degrees), only want a rich man and use HIS resources. So they claim they are independent, have their own money and job, yet still wants the guy's resouces of house, car, etc. These woman are NONSENSE. Im glad the rich man showed the audience, that these women are GD. Nothing more than selling themselve, wanting and demanding a man's resource. The sad part, many women believe they are still good catch after 30+. Maybe for some. Furthermore, many still believe their are princesses thinking that they are the one deserving to be spoiled by men. They take the 30M more men than woman and weaponsize it to their advantage, thinking they are rare goods.
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  547.  @manifest2203  Women in 35+ should pay men the bribe price! They are called left over for a reason. They are like unwanted rotten fruits on the floor. The good fruits are already picked up and sold.
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  548. If these women believe the new law is unlaw, the only solution is -Be single and focus on your career If woman wants to be married, be OBEDIENT, submissive, do MOST of the housework, raise children. That is the job of a woman. This new law: make women be servant to man, if she wants a partner FInally, this new law will make woman be woman and NOT career woman, if she choose to be married. NICE. And will destroy GD mindset.
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  549. BC girl's demand and standards are too high, they become materialistic things. Many woman are NOT worth investing men's time and resources if men don't anything in returned. The man summarized women's attitude perfectly.
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  550. THese women, say they are smart with their high degree, BUT lack basic common sense. They do not understand men. They have little to no critical thinking skills. They only understand memorizing facts and textbooks in China, and can't apply their knowledge. They are good at absorbing knowledge and spitting it out, like computers
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  551. If CHinese women want men's respect, they should be good wife, not good career women.
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  552. If the family is demanding bribe price, than the man;s family can demand that after the price is paid, she becomes the property of the man;s family and can do as they please, including the old tradition of beating and slavery. Is that what they want?
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