Comments by "Bobby Loo" (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys) on "China Unvarnished"
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42 yr old, it will be very difficult for her to have children.
The woman in the video said, we all have issues. That may be true, but it is more who has more issues and baggage than man.
Think about it, they all want men with
-house and car (can be optional)
-high annual salary of no less than 150k rmb
-tall and handsome
-similar ages as them (not divorced men with children)
-can accept their emotions
Men-simple
-young, health and beautiful.
The other woman in the car with the blue dress.
Her mistake, she waited and waited. Men will take action when there are opportunities. Whereas women, are more cautious. It is fine to be cautious, but being too cautious can lose valuable opportunities.
This woman lost her opportunity. So now, she is hoping the man she admire, to divorce his current life. Sounds very selfish.
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Chinese were taught wrong. Univeristy degree is no longer worth much, as there are too many of them. Even master degree. These adults put too much pride in obtaining their degrees. The classes they took are out of date. All those knowledge and theories become out of date very quickly. Yet, these graduates, rarely talk about their work experience. In today's society, work experience is more valuable than just a piece of paper. And employers know this. Employer knows, nearly everyone has a pape of paper. What employers are seeking is, do they have work experience. Employers no longer want to train you, as it is a cost. On day one, the employee better start making money for the company or they are fired. Employers don't have the time, resource or energy to train. Furthermore, employers do not want textbook answers. They want those with high IQ and quality street smart, aka, common sense, problem solving skills, critical thinking. These can't be taught, only acquired through life and experiences. So, rather talk about what degree or what university he/she attends, how about talk about your skills, and working experience. Because your peice of paper is a piece of garbage!
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Family is number 1 in China. If the daughter who isn't married, the father/mother will lose face! Relative will criticism them, saying, how did you raise your daughter. So, the parents also feel pressure from their side of their family.
When the daughter is 35 and still not married, family members will judge the mother and father, saying and thinking, you failed to raise your child well, if she is still single.
SO, i totally understand the father's side. ANd he most likely wants grand children, which being single cant give to her parents.
Failed!
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Those university grads that can only work as sales, coffee markers, and etc, then that is your life value, with or without degrees. They have been lied to by: family, friends, society, etc that education is a ticket to a good life. This was true 20+ yrs ago, but no more. Unversities are still making money. Imagine, a graduate earning 5000rmb a month, l dont know the tution cost, but im pretty sure it will take along time to earn the money back from their tuitions (paid by their parents, most likely). Many university papers are becoming obslete and useless, especially arts degree. Those with STEM degree have a higher chance. This is also true in the west. University is an experience, it is a luxury. The return is not longer worth it. Street smart is becoming more valuable than papers received from university.
We have all been lied to. Only a very few lucky ones can earn high salary. It also depends on luck, your personality, looks and street smart experience.
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Women's life is easy. WTF
Stay at home do housework. And when the kids are at the age of going to school, she drop them, spend 2 hours doing housework and she has 4 hours to herself to relax and do what she wants to do.
The man, has to work 8 hours for money! The women, max 5 hours (cook, clean, pick up, drop off kids, educate, them)
This is why men dont want our women to work, when he has a good and stable income. ALL he wants and needs is come home and there is food on the table, house is clean, kids are quiet and etc
Is that hard for a woman?
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The women that earns 600k RMB. How can see be a mother if she is 100% devoted to her work. Also, how can she have a child at that age. Unless both parties do not want children, which is rare in China. And she still dont understand why she is single? These Chinese women, do they have any understanding of men?
The 38 yr old women, say she is beautiful. Yes, to her, she is. Bc her statment is her only. Men when knowing her true age, will NOT have the same opinion as her. She will never argue with her partner. This sounds like an ad show on tv...a big juicy burger, full of fries and nice cold drink, only to find the burger looks like shit, fries are cold and cola is flat.
All these women say, they are a good catch/buy, just like ads on tv.
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Education is NOT a guaratee. Those without degree but is willing to work hard, gain real working skills (not just study and get out of date knowledge), can earn more than those with masters.
By working at a young age, one can earn the real work experience, real life problem solving, critical thinking. One cannot get that buy buried in books and listening to lecture.
Thumbs up to those that DID not follow the trend and started working at age 16. THey are MORE valuable than freshly grad bc freshly grad cannot apply what they learned at school. What did learn soon become out of date. BUt those without, have one thing that fresh grads don't have. They have street smart, they have made connections. THose two alone is more valuable than ANY degree.
It is easy to understand, too many ppl with degree. It is no longer a worthy investment. The value has decrease to just an A4 paper.
Working or studying hard is no longer a guarantee.
It is who you know, your connections, luck, experience, etc all counts.
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From a women's POV (self), the man suppose to bring in the flow of cash. If that flow of cash runs out (lay off, etc), the women starts to feel anxious. And after 2-4 months, when the man still doesn't find work, she assume he is lazy. When the man does find a job, she will say, it is too low.
Basically, men can NEVER satify a women.
Those CEO husands with houses, cars, huge cash flow, tall and handsome are no different. THeir woman will complain and say, he spend too much time in the office or spends more time eaerning money than being with family.
U see guys, it is so hard to satisty them.
They will always find something to complain. And most of us, take their abuse by biting our tongue. But when we criticize them, ALL HELL BREAKS LOSE! WTF
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These well establish, financial stable Chinese men are NOT lame. They don't want a highly educated partner. Chinese men want a partner that is obedient; a home marker, raise children, take care of the elderly. Chinese woman want a man to be a provider. If you are single, 35 yrs old and a 25< is interested in you and ask you out, wants to get to know you. Are you saying, you will reject her, reject these beautiful Chinese girl, who are not 25 yrs old yet?
Yes, they might be gold digging. But if one is smart, one can detect it early on.
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If the husband (in China), needs the wife to earn money, it is because the husband can't earn enough to support the family.
So, if the husband's salary isn't enough, he should look for a higher paying job and not give stress to the wife, as the wife has to take care of the children.
As a man, my job is to make sure l earn enough money for the whole family, so the wife doesn't need to. If the man can't earn enough...hmmm...he can take part time job as a delivery man.
In my opinion, for me, l would never demand my wife to find a job, just to support the family. After all, the man is the man of the house, he should be the man income earner. If he needs the wife's help (salary)...he isn't fullfilling his duties. But that is just me.
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I do respect these women; getting higher education, working and etc. THese are great accomplishment. But, do men really want these qualities in China? Even a CEO for a big company, wants a young wife. Even a well off financially stable man of 30+ yrs old, wants a young wife of less than 25.
These career women choose the path of being independent, earning money and spending their money how ever they pleased. Why not continue on that path. Continue on that career path. If she is lonely, how about adopting a dog? Men don't want these successful and mature woman. If ptes aren't your perferrence, you can adopt a child from anywhere in the world, especially African countries or other poor nations. You can save a life, give your adopted son/daughter the best life you can give.
And now they are complaining that successful and well off men dont' want them. Well, ya. Chinese men has choices too. They want young and beautiful, non career women, the less education the better.
To those independent Chinese women, I congradulate you for your success. You acheive equal right and equal opporunities, the same as a man. But don't complain why successful men don't want to date or marry you. Continue on your path of being a career women.
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@Wben113 People with no degrees can still find jobs that pay 4000-6000 rmb. Do waiters and waitress need degrees? How about drivers and delivery? Do they need degrees to deliver, drive, clean tables at restuarant? Those working in the service industry with any degree might have a higher chance to get a little more pay, and higher change to be hired. But as employers, do they need their degrees to do their job? If a HS gradulate can work at a resturant by cleaning tables, take orders, and has working exprience, it would make sense for the employer to hiring a HS graduate with real working experience and pay them less. Why would the employer pay more with someone with a paper, when he/she can do the same job?
If that HS gradulate is a capable worker and can add value to the restaurant staff, he/she deserve higher salary over time.
Having a degree over the life time, still yield higher salary. But with current China's economy, many with masters can't secure the job that they study. What do you say about that?
China's economy may not recover from this. Look at the Evergrande and housing policies. Together, they made the perfect storm. Housing bubble burst. Unfinished housing construction, too many university graduates, all factors are related.
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To these leftover women.
It is your choice and right to do whatever you deserve, education, job, etc
If you choose to be outstanding woman, then, you dont need us man. Continue to work hard and be excellent.
Live your life to the fullest as a single left over. NOthing wrong with that
Men, dont want excellent woman, as it does not benefit us. Excellent women with high degres, good salary and property and car are too focus on her career and will NOT be good mothers.
We men, perfer less accomplished, less education, less focus on her career and more on being a mother to his child.
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To the 39 yr old, l meet you expectation, BUT you do not meet mine. With my conditions, a house, millions of rmb in the bank, why would l go for you. You have no value to me. You are already 39 and will definitely have complications when having children. A 20 yr old, will have little to no problems in bearing children because her eggs are healthy and she has the body to carry children. You at 39, your egg is not high quality, yet you maintain you hare a high quality woman. You body is not suitable to carry children as the baby will NOT develop well, due to your 40 yr old. IF the child is 20 yrs old, you are 60 yrs old. It is embrassing for the child.
So, again, I have meet ALL your requirement, but you have NOT any of mine period.
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These selfish women forgot that men build this world. Men don't want their wife to work, bc, we know, working is tiring. We rather let them stay at home, do some physical labor of housekeeping and raising children. Actually, we have washing machine, dish washer, and mopping robots and etc. So, if you think about it, they have very little house work to do. Even buying groceries can be done online. So, these women are complaining, how unfair or how hard life is. Yet, they forgot what men have done for them. We fought in wars for freedom, construction, sewage cleaners, mining, and all those dangerous jobs. I don't see many women doing these jobs in society.
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Bribe price isn't showing respect to the parents. If one wants to show respect to the daughter's parents, there are other ways, like pour tea. Bribe price is "buying" a wife.
Chinese men can show respect by taking care of their daughter. Show daughter respect and love is like showing her parents love and respect. Furthemore, a man buying a house shows respect. It shows that he has the financial means to raise a family with the daughter. So, l don't agree. It is buying a wife.
If the daughter's parents say, "I spend money on her education."
Man: I didn't ask her to have a high education. Her education won't be useful when she becomes a mother and taking care of the household. Her primary job are: raising children, keep the house in order, educating the children, cook and clean, help with the elderly.
Man's job: brings home the bacon, responsible for bills, child's education, etc.
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@LightWavess Or they have too many bills, mortgage, car loans, etc. WIth these debt, it is no wonder, both parents need to work.
If one does not have a mortgage and rent and not have a car loan and take public transportation, l think one's cost of living is more affortable. Furthermore, always have PLAN B and back up plan. If l lose my primary job, my back up side gig, can support the family, comfortability.
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Finally, men are making women suffer, by making them wait. YOu see ladies, when you were young, and men chase you, you rejected them, because you believe you had time to enjoy life, focus on career. And now these women, are ready to be married at age 30+ but men in 30+ are in NO hurry, as their sperm can still fertilize an egg, where as a women in their 30, egg quality will continue to decrease, as well their body carrying the child is not as good as those in their mid 20s.
Since men were rejected by them at age 20s, we men are reject women at age 30+.
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bc these dogs, are always wanting more from the man, comparing their currently bf their friend's relationship. THey are greedy and never satifiy what is in front of them. When they have a bf, they will tell their bf, why cant u earn more money, why can't you be like my friend's bf, why cant you....blah blah.
ANd when they break up with their bf, they can't find their prince in shinny armor and realize what she had with the bf was the best.
SO, you see, these women want more from their partner, but have little to give in return as they age. As they age, their value decreases very fast. And men in their 35 have high value.
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If these single mature and think they are high quality woman, make demands, then it is perfectly ok for man to make insane demands on them. It is giving these B a taste of their own medicine. They demand a guy to be this and that. Then we man can equally demand this and that. For example, we men can demand age and beauty, while these women can demand men's ATM. Yet, when these B demand and have little to offer, they bi&ch about men is lazy, no ambitiou and not hard working and all that. Yet, when we demand to have hot body, big twin peaks, and etc, they complain we men are seeing them as object.
If these women see us as ATM, we can definitely see them as objects to please us.
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ANy single women in their 30-35 are left over because of their high requirement. They say, their requirements are not high. IF that was TRUE, why are they still single.
They should have very little requirement, like 18-22 yr old. Why go for 35 yr old women, he can go for the 18 with little requirements. We dont' care about your education, PERIOD. Men only care about your age and beauty. We dont give a horse ass about your master or PHd. We just want our women to be beautiful, young, and obedient. We men tell you what to do, you better do it! If women can be obedient such as be a home marker, raise the children, take care of the elderly that is valuable to men. YOur job, your career, your money means ZERO to us men. We don't care!
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The more independent and feminist women are, they high chance, she will be lonely. If she think, this life is what she wants, she is lying to herself, to save face in front of others. Deep down, she wants someone to love her.
But she love her job, education, and etc more than she can ever love a man!
A young women 18-24 is the perfect age, where she has LOTS of love to give. Most important is her young and hot body!
At 30+, her body has aged! A baby won't like her environment.
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These woman say, men are stingy, yet will they give him a release (blue balls), if men spend money on them, when going out on blind/dates? HELL no!
Why spend so much on bline date, when he gets NOTHING in return (not even establish a bf/gf relationship). He gets NOTHING, while these biches get FREE meal.
Any woman order TONS of dishes, is NOT to get to know the guy, she is getting free meals and leftovers to take HOME to share with her family.
Women are using MEN and MEN are fighting back!
This is why there is a NEW marriage law. Whoever paid for the property gets it, no more 50/50. This is to give MEN power and rights back.
If the guy and the guy's parents paid for the property, she gets ZERO, whether he or she initiate divorces. With his, men can control the woman (as IT SHOULD BE).
If doesn't like the man (citing abused, ok) she can go back to her parents, BUT can't take any of HIS wealth or property, if it proven that HE bought the house, car and etc.
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Before these Mature/Luxury Chinese women are complaining that men are not wooing them, not they will say:
"Foreign women are taking our Chinese men."
Hahaha. I hope so.
Never do these leftover women consider why men don't woo them, always thinking their standard of a man is not high. Yet, Chinese men and match making agency ALSO told these mature women, their standards are too high and as they age, they bring little to the table. Yet, they are mules, stubborn, only listen to themselves, thinking their degrees are so valuable in the dating world.
Im glad more foreigner women are coming to Chinese men, as their demands are low. They are looking for love, NOT ATM.
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Yes, we mend are "blind"
We are blind because we can't see her physical beauty at age 38.
Still believe her age and beauty is for 380k. If l had that money, why would l "buy" an old lady when l can use that money and "buy" an 18 yr old with reproductive value? Also, the 18 yr old might not deamnd 380, could only be 100-150, so
a) not only do l get a discount but also
b) young and beautiful and reproductive age
Men can go shopping too!
She said, 10 blind dates and say, all rejected bc of the 380 and still want others to be honest with her. Are those 10 men NOT honest? They all rejected her price!
So, no matter who is telling her, she will NOT accept the truth, she can't HANDLE the truth.
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Regret is a b****. These women spend so much time engross in books, memorizing useless facts, taking unless classes and getting useless paper. Once they get their masters/Phd, they are near 30. They may be successful in the real corporate world, but has abandon their Chinese traditions, which is fine. And now they are crying and complaining they can't find a partner. At 38+, and with high standards/expectation, very few man would be interested in her. And many men, don't even want to look at her or talk with her, as soon as the Chinese men, know their age. How can she bare children at that age? The risk is so high.
Unless the man, agrees to be a DINK, then maybe she has a chance. But that is rare as parents and inlaws want grand children. Age is still a big factor for women. Imagine a 38 yr old man brings home this women at ate 38. Most likely, the son's parents will NOT approve. Again, they will say, your old. Yes, your successful with x number of degrees, but they can't get over the age.
Because she choose the career path, stick with it. Continue to be successful. But finding a partner and crying about it, no one cries. She made the decision to be in the corporate world. Stick with it. Get a dog as their long life partner. Nothing wrong with that and less people will judge. But regretting not marrying at a younger age, why cry? Your choice your responsiblity. Suck it up!
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The woman who is 38, saying, even 50 yr old woman can still have babies. yes, they can, but what this women lack is simple logical and no street smart. Those 50+ yr old woman, giving birth children, is rare and the women and the baby may have health issues. She even stated, it is high risk pregancy, but then go on, saying, there are those that can. WTF?
She is 39 and says, she is "abit" older. These women can never come to reality and must sugar coat to make them feel better. So, base on her logical (as mentioned, these women lack any street smart, aka, common sense), if she is a bit order, than what age is old? 45? is old. And those 45 yr old woman say, they are still young, because they are not elderly yet.
So, if she view herself as young, then why can't she find a partner to marry. Why won't men in her cohort approach her and ask her out on dates? And if a 45 yr old men as her out on a date, she will probabilty say, your too old. Yet, she being 39 is not? WTF?
Keep on sugar coating your age! Don't think she will come down from cloud 9 any time soon with that mentality. If she says, she is young. Ok. Fine. She is entitled to her opinion. But if l can tell her, l'll tell her this. Men in 30-35 or 40, will NOT have the same opinion as her.
Men has opened up their eyes and the only thing they see, is her age. The 39 is overdue. It is spoiled meat. Rotten and left over like cabbage. Unsold. Unwanted. But she refuse to listen to facts, just like these women refuse to lower their standards.
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@martingrey2231 Yes, it is a chance to get a better job. But overal, the value of BA degrees are being devalued. For foreigners in CHina, we use the degree to apply for a work visa. But most jobs don't require it, as the knowledge and skills we learned 20+ yrs is out of date. Therefore, we strive to include to be life long learners, gaining experience as we go through life.
Many people nowadays can't use their degree to find job, other than STEM, where those grads have a higher chance as it is more of a depand. But many other degrees, are not useful, such as philosophy, history, art history, to name a few.
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They have too much high esteem and confidence, that they will find their Mr. Right. As time pass, and they can't find Mr. Right (less than 1%) due to their extreme high demand, they will later (but also too late), realize their expectation was too high. As they age, their expectation will be lowered, as men wont even consider them, because of their unrealistic economic expectation from men. Their dream is scattered by their own doing.
Of course, she is attractive to those wealth men, because those 1% has EVERYTHING. For the men, they see her as worthless. Even the match maker said, "what can you offer." It is obviously, little to zero. Her hole is too old and no longer pure. Wealth men want young and fresh women, not old.
Love the quote "to him, she is worthless" That sums it up. But of course, she will refuse to listen, just like what the interviewed ask earlier. She can't hear those words. She can't hear other's truth and opinion. Image a wealthy man having her as a partner. Whatever criticism or suggestion the man gives to her, it doesn't go to the head, rather out the other ear.
Women like her, believe they are pure princesses (when they look in the mirror). They believe they want rich and handsome men. But they NEVER consider what the men want. We rich Chinese men, want young and obedient, like trophy wife, to show off to their business partners. We/They dont want a partner with much education. With little education, they will be obey.
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Because they have little to no working exprience. THey have this paper, but no company is willing to train them; cost the boss; time, money and energy. They should do internship, unpaid. Get some experience first, before worrying about money.
Many don't even work during their off time.
The one question during the interview that will kill them.
Boss: Why should I hire you
Newly gradulate: Becuase I am hard working, I have a degree.
Boss: ok. Thank you. Next.
The man said: I play everyday during uni. Wasted time! Could of worked part time, learned another skill on the side., do voluteern work. ANd now, all these graduates bit** about, is how no wants to hire them. Or when they do get hired, they bit** about the low salary.
THey think uni paper is a golden ticket. Maybe so, 20 yrs ago. Now, experience is more valuable than just a piece of paper. WHat they learned at school is soon to be outdated.
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Losers. If one doesn't have millions in their bank account, they should not get married. They married, because their d88k is itchy. But never prepared for the cost of raising children.
I totally understand why the wife is arguing with their husband, because they don't have MONEY. THese Chinese men did not prepare enough money for: house (fully paid) and money to raise their child.
Think about it
-mortgage
-bills
-food
-clothing for the child, diapers, formula, etc
Each month, the family does NOT have enough money to cover all expenses. SO, they are Loser. They did NOT calculate. THey did not finanically plan for the cost of having children. And when the wife see, money in and money out, of course the wife will b88tch, because the husand ISN"T bring enough money home.
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@Jessica-el3dc It is not about awful. It is the truth. Can you not accept the truth.
Do you understand Chinese culture?
Women like you, play on your emotions, and do not consider facts. It is because of toxic chicken soup advice, that men no longer want to be simps.
Put yourself on men's shoe, if you can
Many Chinese women want
-house,
-car
-stable yet high salary
-tall
-handsome
ANd many women with these demands, believe their education and etc is a good catch and deserving of these men. They are after the top 1% and you are part of the problem, bc u think men's logic is aweful. HOw about analyze why men do not want to deal with these left over women with their insane demands.
WOmen like you do not accept facts, do not understand themselves, thinking why men dont chase women, especially when she is 35+.
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@Jessica-el3dc DId you not see the comments of others. Many ppl have the same thinking as I do, mostly men. If men think women's demand, treating men like ATM, isn't that aweful. WHy don't you comment on that? Yes, not everyone is like that. But we men are not taking about those rare cases. We men are talking about the majority of Chinese women who are still single and continue with their high demands.
Can you blame us men? We men, have to pay for blind dates to show our generousity. So what do men get in return when the woman get free meal and experience.
Can you deny that men are the one that pays, are the supporters, earning money for the family.
Can you deny that woman initiate divorce bc they are selfish, even though their current partner is working hard and she is STILL not satified and beleive, she can find someone better.
Men are no longer want to be atm to woman. WHy spend 200 dollars on a nice meal, when he can spend that 200 on himself.
If it is tradition that men should woo men, then it is treating men like an ATM. Are men wrong to think this way?
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regret is a b*****. These mature Chinese women was playing the waiting game, waiting for their knight in shinny armor: tall, handsome, rich, loving, etc etc AND they lost, bc those men don't exist for them, especially when they are 30+
They refuse to lower their standard and time is a bitch for them. They (nonsense) believe they are so valuable and attractive by the time they hit 30. They carely dont understand biology and don't understand what men wants in a partner. We Asian men, knows exactly what a women wants, to get a wife.
Your pickness is your own doing. You don't want this and don't want that. NO Younger men, no older divorced men, you want it perfect. I ask you, are you 30+ women perfect. Judge yourself before you judge others! Look yourself in the mirror and see if you are truely 10/10. You are competiting with women younger than 25. Can your beauty match theirs?
Be alone and be happy ladies. You choose this path, you choose to be stubborn and NOW you are being punished due to your regrets in life.
The sadest part, they have housing and cars. WHen they die, there is no one to transfer their yrs of hard earn money. They may sell all their shit before departing, but she spend it ALL? Travel- NO energy. Eating-can't eat that much when your old. The only place l foresee to send ALL their wealth is a luxury retirement home. Even that, there will be left over funds.
When your old and sick, l hope your pet can take good care of you.
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Bc, girls nag. We want quiet and peace
Bc girl wants to talk, we want quiet and peace
Bc girl want to spend our money, we want to use the money to buy games and devices
bc girls don't like a man be physical with her, so we touch the keyboard when gaming
SO what is the point of spending money on the girl when she nags, talks, talks too much (wanting attention) and spend our money, when men don't get our weekly action (release in her).
Spending money on games gives us mental pleasure,
Spending money on her, does NOT guarantee action, yet push us away saying, Im not like that, lm not ready, blah blah.
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Answer to the first woman. YES!
WHy men in their 30, for for men in their 30. Men in their 30, would rather go for women in their 20s. THey are fresh!
Why would men go for 30 yr old women, that will nag and demand.
We man, want younger women, so that we are in control. We men tell you what to do, you obey and be submissive.
A high quality women, only focus on career while a 20 yr old, men can "Train" them to be home markers. AFter she graduate, she only needs to learn how to be a woman in the household, NO need to be a career women. It is the man's job to provide and women's job is to support and be a home marker. NO feminist.
A women's purpose in life is reproduction, raise the children and take care of their husband. Simple.
A man's money is women;s money
A women's money is her.
So having a women work and earn money has NO benefit to the man. But a man's job and income benefits women.
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So simple, don't take on debt, then they wn't have this problem. They did this to themselve, no back up plan/plan B. They never once consider, if what one of us in the family lost the job, what if we need money for medical emergency, what if...
I once though Chinese people are great at saving money and don't beleive in mortgages. BUt they were brained wash by the western, by their peers in that:
everyone should have a car
everyone should own a house
everyone can live happily with 1 income in the family
etc
They were following those that have the ability and resources to buy.
They were too confident that by taking out 20-30 yr loans, that they are able to pay it off, easily.
I thought Chinese ppl are wizards at Math with their finances. It seems that we judge them wrong.
Chinese people are short sighted. They see other buys house and car, they follow suit.
They see other borrow money, they follow suit.
They want what others have, and confidently borrow money, even with a low interest.
They believe the housing price will NEVER fall.
They have no back up plans or save for raining days.
When they fall, they fall hard.
When they fall, they cry and become losers of the society.
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That is why, during interview, l ask: can l meet the leader of the team, before l even accept the offer being offered. If it is a man, l'll accept. If it is a women, l would like to chat with her, before accepting.
For example, in all my teaching position, there was one TC l quit (started looking for a new job after TWO months) because it was ran by CHINESE women. I was not happy how she manage the foreign teachers, thinking she and them are better than us. Without us foreign teacher, there will be no TC/business. The center only had business bc of foreigners. So, basically, we are the ones earning the money for THEM. They only had the physical building, a brand and resources. What good are these things, if there was no foreigner teachers to teach their client. I too, can get resource, build a brand and get a building (rent). So the TC has no value. The only value was us foreigners. We were the ones servicing the students. Their job was to get them in! I can do that as well.
All other jobs l had, l had finished the contract and renewed bc they were ran by foreign females or males (chinese and foreigners).
My point is: I do not want to by lead by a Chinese women leader in the dept or company!!!
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I still don't understand how these "recent" graduates, have such high demands. As a employer, if you want 8k, l want to see your past work experience, during ur uni yrs. I want to see volutunteer work experience or intership, paid or not paid. I don't want you to brag or talk about what classes you took, how you write your essay, projects, etc. I want to hear your work experience, skills you obtained, how you problem solved that is not textbook.
If you can answer all these questions well and have worked during university during time off like summer and winter and etc, yes, lll give you the 8k rmb because I see the value you bring. But these b**** has no value, only a useless piece of paper, a peice of shit and want 8k. They are lucky to get 4k and maybe 8k after 3-4 yrs of work experience based on performance. They demand and demand, believing they are so valuable. As a employer, lm looking for the cheapest labor, if you only have a sh***y paper from university.
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@tarablue4472 HOw I am not a good partner. A man is the main provider.
Yes, not everyone can earn 6 fig, no matter how hard he works. Even if he works 60-70 hours a day, he may still not earn 6 fig.
Women marry, bc she needs financial support. If she is has money, then she marry bc she needs emotional support.
So, for me, our partnership works.
Think about it. If the man can bring home enough money, why would the man want the woman to work. She manages the household finances. If the man earns 6fig and she earns less than 30k (after taxes), the man doesn't want the wife to do the 9-5, and rather use that time and energy to be a home marker.
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@tarablue4472 I;ll give you another example. She works 40 a week for a yr to get about 30k. If the man works an extra 1-2 hour per day, he can get that 30k.
A loving man wouldn't want her to work, if he can provide a very comfortable life for her and him and the children.
And in China, 6fig+ USD after tax, the family can live like royalty
I bet you what, many man earning BIG money, will NOT want their wife to work, rather, take care of the household finances and household.
IF the couple works, it is because (that means the woman)
-their cost of living is high (mortgages, car loans, other debt)
-not enough savings
-others
One can decrease debt. I dont have a car (in China), i can easily afford a 100k car. But it makes NO sense bc cars have a depreciating value. So a car worth 100k on day 1, after 5 yrs, loss about 40-60% value. Me, l just ride to work, take the metro or taxi (and taxi are SUPER cheap)
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Their high dreams are shattered. During HS and University, they were too naive and too over confidental that their degree is the golden ticket to a better life. THey might be smart, but lack common sense or street smart. They only understand 1 perspective and can't see 360 degrees. They see onside of the coin and cant see the other side.
And when the real world hits them, they can't adapt. They were told Santa Clause and Tooth Fair are real all thougout university. WHen they finally understood the harsh reality, they break down. Saying, life is not fair, all that hard work for nothing. Since when is society EVER fair. Some are born rich and others poor. Some a few have luck and most do not.
During summer and break times (university yrs), they continue to study, like brainless zombies. Thinking working at convenient stores or other low paying jobs like MCd is not for them. Again, they look at one sided, never think of the benefits of working at these low paying jobs. I learned: customer service skills, problem solving skills, communication, using a cash register, time management. All these skills are so valuable in the real life. Yet, their dead mind set, thinking, they are too good to be working at these jobs. They only see the low salary. When they graudate, the only have 1 thing to show or talk about during the interview. And the employer know, this is boring. They heard it all; their school life. What employers want is their work life, skills he/she accumulated during his/her time. What problems were encounter during the employement. How was it solved. What method was used. What is effective. etc etc. When ask these questions, their mind is a blank. They can't answer these questions because they never worked in low labor job. Yet questions apply to all sectors of the job economy.
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HE man wanted love, but those ladies are looking for $. Yet, many woman nowadays, go to school, and work, claiming, they are independent, yet, these ladies (most likely have uni degrees), only want a rich man and use HIS resources. So they claim they are independent, have their own money and job, yet still wants the guy's resouces of house, car, etc. These woman are NONSENSE. Im glad the rich man showed the audience, that these women are GD. Nothing more than selling themselve, wanting and demanding a man's resource.
The sad part, many women believe they are still good catch after 30+. Maybe for some. Furthermore, many still believe their are princesses thinking that they are the one deserving to be spoiled by men. They take the 30M more men than woman and weaponsize it to their advantage, thinking they are rare goods.
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