Comments by "Bobby Loo" (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys) on "Modern Women PANIC! China’s New Marriage Law Takes Effect – What Will They Do Now?" video.

  1. WHen women do ALL the housework, take care of the elder, raise children, men will love them! Men wants a house wife, not a career women.
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  2. Women who are homeless, would want this. No need to pay rent after marriage, LOL
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  3. GOod, l hope this law holds and protect men with property, not more 50/50, even though the man/man's family brought the property.
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  4.  @yelanchiba8818  And children? Maid too. Also, not everyone can afford it.
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  5.  @tarablue4472  IF one does not want to have a partner or take the risk of a bad partner, woman can stay single. No one force the woman to get a partner. If woman dont want to take risk, stay single. ANd there is nothing wrong with stay single. SHe can focus all her time, focusing and building her career. Many has good partner and some do not. It seems like you witness many that do not have good partners.
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  6. Those women who are angry, cant do shit. THe law is the law. If women do NOT want to be wife duties such as housewife, then be single. Live a complete independent life. No one is forcing them. BUt if these Chinese women want a partner to love them, financially support them, take care of them when she is sick, then do her wife duties of cratering to the man's needs of cook and clean, raise the children. Let him be the income earner for the family and the women be the housewife. Chinese women who dont want to do their women duty is bc they beleive their education degree and pride does not allow them to do these chores. THey think with their educaiton, they should NOT do these household physical labor of cooking and cleaning. Even if she is independent, she still cooks and cleans. WTF
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  7. Men only want young and beautiful wife. ALL their accomplished, such as job, toilet paper degress means nothing to the man! ALL we men care about, is her beauty, youth and health to bear children.
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  8. when the wife does most of the housework, men will apprecipate her very much. Bc, from the man's POV, she has fullfill the duties as a wife, a home marker. WHile the duty of a man is to earn money for the family.
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  9. If the wife is making 6 fig+ and is enough for the entire family. And he is a stay at home, wouldnt you want him to take the responsbility of house chores? Now, if you come home and the most of the chorse are not done, wont you "put him down" and give him the big talk/yell? Everyone has a role. It is called partnership!
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  10.  @yelanchiba8818  IF she doesnt want to do housework, what is the point of having a wife? A man's job is to earn money! Woman job is to take care of the household, children and etc. A woman working is because the family income is not enough. THat is, the man earning is not enough to support the family.
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  11.  @basillah7650  then, there is no point having a wife. IF he needs a release, a call girl is all he needs.
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  12.  @tarablue4472  I think you work, bc he isn't earning enough?
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  13.  @tarablue4472  Not true. Woman not working does not mean she will get abused. DO you have data to back up your claim?
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  14.  @tarablue4472  I have a good partner, who l dont want her to work, rather stay home and take care of children and etc. My income is 6 FIG USD after tax, and living China, that is more than enough, can retire at 55.
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  15.  @tarablue4472  HOw I am not a good partner. A man is the main provider. Yes, not everyone can earn 6 fig, no matter how hard he works. Even if he works 60-70 hours a day, he may still not earn 6 fig. Women marry, bc she needs financial support. If she is has money, then she marry bc she needs emotional support. So, for me, our partnership works. Think about it. If the man can bring home enough money, why would the man want the woman to work. She manages the household finances. If the man earns 6fig and she earns less than 30k (after taxes), the man doesn't want the wife to do the 9-5, and rather use that time and energy to be a home marker.
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  16.  @tarablue4472  If your man makes 6 fig, he also dont want you to work. Why continue earning money, when his salary is WAY MORE than enough, plus saving 1/2 of it every yr.
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  17.  @tarablue4472  I;ll give you another example. She works 40 a week for a yr to get about 30k. If the man works an extra 1-2 hour per day, he can get that 30k. A loving man wouldn't want her to work, if he can provide a very comfortable life for her and him and the children. And in China, 6fig+ USD after tax, the family can live like royalty I bet you what, many man earning BIG money, will NOT want their wife to work, rather, take care of the household finances and household. IF the couple works, it is because (that means the woman) -their cost of living is high (mortgages, car loans, other debt) -not enough savings -others One can decrease debt. I dont have a car (in China), i can easily afford a 100k car. But it makes NO sense bc cars have a depreciating value. So a car worth 100k on day 1, after 5 yrs, loss about 40-60% value. Me, l just ride to work, take the metro or taxi (and taxi are SUPER cheap)
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  18.  @tarablue4472  "well good for you" I am good, bc i worked DAMN hard to get what I am at today! Putting tons of OT
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  19.  @tarablue4472  he only puts you down, if you dont do housework, yet he is out there earning the money. He wants to come home, home is clean and organized. ANd if there are children, she is helping them with their homework and etc.
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  20.  @tarablue4472  sounds like you either witness too many bad men, or your partner was one of them!
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  21.  @tarablue4472  YOu have your thoughs and I have mine. We live in different worlds, different culture, different belief. you have your pride, i have mine You have your partner, I have mine Whether you accept your partner or not, it is up to you. We all have choices. You have seem many bad partners, I have not. You have your standards of life, I have mine. ...
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  22.  @arewahaircaretv8718  * honest. Typo
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  23. Now with this new law in China, this gives economic power to men. And if women wants to be part of the men's success, she better to submissive by doing most of the housework. Bc, if she doesn't do women's stuff, he can divorce her and leave her with NOTHING. Which it should be!
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  24. If CHinese women want men's respect, they should be good wife, not good career women.
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