Youtube hearted comments of Bobby Loo (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys).

  1. This proves that those woman on the show are looking for $, not love.
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  2. I still dont understand why these women always advertise their educational degrees as if it has meaning and value. Men don't care about their paper. She say "Im still young." I have some theories why her period stop 1. Emotional stress leads to physical stress to the body from society, relative, and family, all asking her, why she CANT find a MAN. 2. She said, her hair is thining, further prove my first point.
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  3. She said, she wants a healthy man, less than 30, but she is nearly 40 yrs. She will have a tough child birth.
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  4. The crazy lady demanding 1 M RMB in dowry can continue to wait for a man willing to give. She will be waiting for another 33 yrs.
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  5. Dont like your supervisor, LEAVE. Leave the job, leave the bs, leave the bully. Get a job that deserve respect!
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  6. There is NO respect when the women's family demand dowry. They say, it is culture, it is not easy to raise our daughter, your daughter becomes YOUR family. IT IS ALL BS. If that is true, she becomes my family, that means, she is my and my family's property and SHE MUST obey. SO, if she wants to see her parents during CNY, me/family, being the owner for that property can say, NO. We brought you, so you obey. Is that how the daughter's family wants the groom's family to treat only daughter, as a piece of property by the man's family?
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  7. These leftover women are looking for men that can give them advantages, but give no in return.
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  8. These (believe themselve as) high quality women have push Chinese men away bc of their crazy high standards. When they say their standards are not high, it is still high. When they say, there are 30M more men then women, they believe they have the adv = false. They believe men should spoil them = keep dreaming They believe they are princesses = keep on dreaming They believe they have high value = not unless she is between 20-26, after that, their value drops year by year They are looking for an ATM partner = go to the bank
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  9. They all want the perfect guy that does NOT exist, only in their princess mind. They watch too much tv romance drama.
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  10. for 520, he can get some real action, without any emotional attachment. Why spend 520 on first date when he gets NOTHING In return.
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  11. if the women and women's family demand bride price, it is totally fair for the men's family to demand her history. Since the man's family is buying the wife for the son, her V card must be intact and not stretched or pentrated by previous men. The man's family is paying high price, so it is fair, the man and man's family receive a pure lady. Man and man's family have woken up and no longer taking bs from tradition. If the woman's family wants to play tradition, the man and man's family can also play tradition.
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  12. The tax dollar goes to fund those military programs. When do they care about the people. The "Common prosperity" really means for those higher ups, not for the common people. Their bellies are fully, their family's bellies are full and the local people are starving, high in debt, tofu buildings, or uncomplete buildings, no jobs for graduates. And they wonder why the population is decreasing; no marriage, no children. They haven;t lived the life of the common folks, so they don't know jack. These problems, the officials will never have to worry about. Their children have everything, they have everything. It is all about they having it all. Screw the people. The officials step on the common people. The common people are the slaves, while they are the kings.
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  13. It seems like, those Chinese women that demand a dowry have insecurities and need a man's money as security. It is like holding a man's hard earn money as hostage. Whether the woman or man leave in the marriage, she won because the dowry is in her hands. Furthermore, she can demand 1/2 of everything he owns So, then, what security does the man have? He can demand dowry, he might be able to demand a prenup, but that is rare in China. So base on those factor, there are more risk for a man to get married. He has MORE to lose. And if they have children and she decides to divorce him, she will have the dowry AND the chidren most of the time AND demand child support. The trade off for a man to marry these mature woman is NOT in the mans' interest. He has too much to lose and she has a LOT to win. ANd if the man initate the divorce, he can't get the dowry back. If the woman initate the divorce, she can simple say, it was the gift for the marriage. So, what benefit is there for the man to marry these luxury/mature woman.
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  14.  @Kayrialy  With money saved, house, car, at least 20k rmb per month, at least 1.75m height and maybe dowry and etc
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  15. THese parents are complaining, they have no saving and dont have good jobs, yet this women is complaining her kid's tuition is too high. 12k/month is private/international or bilingual KG. Im an Expat, when my kid went to local KG, we pay 1.7k while locals pay 300rmb. SO, if she and her partner lost their job, they should pull their kids out of these expensive KG and put them into local KG, which cost a few hundred rmb. It seems like, she has no common sense. If one can't afford private school, pull the child out. SHe can save 10k a month for the eldest child. It is called adapting to one's economic situation. If the situation is bad, tighten the family belt, spending less. It seems she doesn't want to cut the child's high cost of school. private school is a want, NOT a need. Her story gets worst, took out a 30 yr mortgage. Clearly she is uneducated in basic finances. Trying to follow the trend, what my friend has, l must have. Stupid. ANd a mortgage on a car. I don't even have a car and live in 1st tier, yet my monthly salary is like 5x of an avg salary of a local SH.
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  16. EAsily, the family is going to sell EVERYTHIGN they have to repay all the damage the child cost. The mother and father will work yrs just to pay off their child debt. They family will eat rice and beans for YRS.
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  17. If that is true, he would sided with David in the first place, fight their love! But she didn't and so ended up single AGAIN.
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  18. We can't blame everything on the economy. Those drivers only skill is to drive a car. What other skills have they accumulated over their 20 yrs, other than driving. Did they learn to cook? Rapair? They could of gotten a trade certificate. I say, it is bad planning on their part. We should be able to adapt in all situations or we become extinct like animals. If animals can adapt, then we can too. So, it is their own fault, only having one set of skills. SO they can't adapt and now they are crying because they will soon become extinct. It is survival of the fitest. Whoever can adapt to the changing environment; changing economic situation, they can survive. The double reduction when china got rid of after school training programs/schools. Many lost their jobs. They have to choice but to shift to other sector of the economy. They have to learn new skills. Life lesson: Always have backup plans. Always have multiply skills. If not...dont cry...when your sector tanks.
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  19. THeir parents, friends and society has brain washed these women believing they are valuable and following western idea of feminism. They have forgotten their roots, their Chinese traditional culture.
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  20. "YOu dont know how life ended up like this" I know: took on too much debt? How can she NOT know this Mortgage house, car loans, private school for her two kids, etc etc Even though l dont' know her, l know it is all bc of bad planning and no back up plan, no savings. Following western ideology that everyone has a mortgage.
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  21. Women love money more than their partner. They just want the ATM.
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  22. Every parent want to give to their child. HOwever, giving too much can spoil a child -fancy 5 star restaurant -luxury travel -etc Parents should ONLY give what he/she can afford to give. So the divorced with child woman wants someone else to give her son that SHE CANT GIVE. SO what does she give him. SHe has NO Value to the man!
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  23. I still don't understand why these graduates are complaining. They have a job, and it is probability their first job ever. We westerns, starting work at 16, slowly gaining experience from flipping burgers at 16 to becoming a teacher. So their first job, is like flipping burgers, with a useless degree. They should be happy. They should work at family mart or some convenience store when summer came. But of course, they were using that time, memorizing useless Chinese poems and taking other useless classes. The best experience is working experience. Get out there, and experience the real world. Sweep the floor for 5RMB per hour. This will open their eyes that life is all forms, shape and sizes. Only then, can they truely experience all levels of life from street cleaners to the big big.
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  24. Mortgage and NO saving. Nice. And no plan B. Having a mortage of 30 yrs, most of the monthly fees goes to the interest. And with housing value decreasing, those that buy high and crying. I do not feel sorry for them.
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  25. For many jobs, many do not require a degree. FOr me, l only need the degree in CHIna to get a working visa. Foreigners in CHina will also be more valuable that local citizens. This is a fact! FOr example a fresh grad teaching in China, for a 1st tier city, can easily make 15-25k+ WHile a fresh grad of a Chinese adult, if lucky, 8k. It is not wonder, why some fresh grads don't like us foreigners. They think, they work just as hard as we do, maybe more. In the end, we make MORE than them in EVERYWAY. Some even say, we are stealing their job. I say, yup, I am. Or they say, go back to your foreign land, we don't want you I say, apparently the company I work for, needs me. Any jeolous fresh grad say shit about us foreigners, l rub my contact in front of their face, showing them my 6 fig USD salary (converted from RMB)
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