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  1. “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky
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  2. The cat analogy makes for a good story and there are lots of people with a sort of laissez faire attitude in their dealings. They are not good for anything other than casual talk. Important matters in life require strong commitment and determination because life is often difficult and there is rarely a quick fix to the problems we face. I have been married to the same woman for almost 46 years. It ain’t always been easy but we both were always willing to put the needs of the kids and our family's long term stability ahead of short term gratification. My wife and I both knew where our priorities had to be. Everyone has the right to the pursuit of happiness and to be left alone by the unwarranted intrusions of the state. However marriage is a rare case (if taken seriously) where devotion and duty require a higher standard than many people are willing to live up to.
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  3. The perception by women that they must pursue a “career” as a hedge against economic difficulties would not be near as powerful if it were not for the fact that once a country establishes a fiat banking cartel, the wealth is being systematically transferred to the top insiders by the process of debt monetization. This massive hidden tax not only eliminates the middle class but has gradually caused all workers to become basically like a Roman slave who ends up with little more than a place to sleep and food while still held accountable by the boss.
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  4. If she’s initially attracted to you, not much selling is needed to get your foot in the door. If she’s not, then your sales pitch is most likely going to be an exercise in futility.,
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  5. First you believe in Santa, next you don’t believe in Santa and finally you are Santa.
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  6. They weren’t really friends then just acquaintances.
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  7. You’ve been doing this for almost 20 years with no resolution? Don’t know about intoxication but you probably got a reputation.
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  8.  @annatalig2565  Just note who files 80% of divorces and you will see who benefits 90% of the time. Its not the man.
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  9. Whatever the mind focuses on will control the person. They did a study where many people demanded knee surgery for intense pain. The doctors at the knee clinic (after ten years trying to get legal approval) sedated the patients then just put a small incision in the skin with a couple of stitches but did nothing to the knee. The patients would wake up and exclaim that their knee now feels great and they need to do the other one. Same thing with lots of back pain, headache and stomach issues. Once all the “useless eaters” are installed in their urban high rise s**t holes of austerity and deprivation of agenda 21, they will no longer need to create a fake medical issue to fixate on.
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  10. You set yourself up to be monkey branched. Once her career got on track, you can be traded in for a higher value simp.
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  11. Women will not be fazed by this in the slightest. They know that they have you by the balls in court
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  12. Once she perceives that your trajectory has peaked, she may decide its time to pull the plug and just collect the cash and prizes and then monkey branch on to the next target.
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  13. Thats another reason why the court system makes it too expensive for the man to separate.
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  14. And if it were not for the “family court” system making sure the women came out on top, lots of men would dump her and move on.
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  15.  @sonofthesOUth77  Yeah, they know how to put up a good image until the contract with the state is signed.
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  16. Physical fitness is a diminishing return. Too much is count productive. Strength fades away over time. If you depend on that for self satisfaction you will end up disappointed.
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  17.  @freezymuchroom  You are just the mule pulling the wagon of money and prizes.
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  18. This revelation about the true nature of love also explains why people can’t remain happy unless they can be happy when alone and not dependent upon someone else’s gratification.
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  19.  @croissants1280  40-45 are the best age for men. If the man is in the bottom 60% in attractiveness it doesn’t help them just to be young. Women are only after the top 10-15%.
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  20. And if you’re not that physically attractive or have lots of status, the financial cost will be very high.
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  21. “My needs aren’t being met.” Great line for her to hand the judge at the “family court” for simps.
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  22.  @timizo691  It all goes back to Briffalts Law. What you did is in the past makes no difference. All that matters is what can you do for her now.
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  23. You just dodged some bullets without even knowing it, or costing you.
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  24.  @deepanjan.sengupta  Briffault states this law decades ago. Most men are just not aware of it in the gynocentric culture they grew up in.
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  25. There has been awful lot of socialization and the nuclear family is the most critical element of society. However between, second wave feminism, Disney princesses, gynocentric culture and the court system, lots of men have decided to just focus on other areas.
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  26. Most women will stop putting out after a while once she has the kids. That’s why the state enforces the gynocentric contract. The man has only two options and both are bad. Stay in the present situation or lose at least half of what you have worked for all those years
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  27. Once she sees that your growth possibilities are maxed out, it’s time for her to cash out with the divorce to collect the money and prizes.
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  28.  @wiltre  Not so. Women first look at physical attraction but then its wealth, status and utilitarian value. Pretty boys with no prospects will get kicked to the curb when she is ready to settle.
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  29.  @MVProfits  Religious upbringing does not have as much impact for most as it used to. Early submersion all week into the hedonistic public “school” system along with constant social media can dilute every thing else.
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  30. Probably wouldn’t sink in at a young age. Wisdom comes with age and trials
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  31.  @Mushamir  Get out now before it gets too expensive to leave.
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  32. Casinos are where fools go to have fun while losing their money.
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  33. You are lucky. A little further along or if she pressed it, you could have ended up in the “family” court for giving out money and prizes.
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  34. Women would normally not have much power over their husband until the marriage contract puts the lion’s paw of the state in the woman’s favor. Men need to be very careful about marriage.
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  35. Most people have lots of difficulty changing their character pattens that have been developed very early in life. Woman’s emotional levels tend to make the situation worse because issues are never resolved, they just get put on the back burner until she gets a chance to move them to the front burner again. Spotting these problems very early and terminating the relationship is the best course as the farther it goes the more the man will have to lose.
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  36.  @zensvlognotapro  You are correct. God has provided everything we need. It is mankind’s sinful nature that causes the problems.
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  37. Absolutely right. Too much talking will practically always just make things worse. Problems are rarely solved when dealing with a wife. She just moves them to the back burner to simmer. The next time any minor conflict occurs (no matter how trivial) she will bring up everything possible rather than focusing on the issue at hand and drag all the past to the forefront.
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  38. Women are the same everywhere. Only difference is economic conditions and that is being watered down by more choices coming in.
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  39. Ephesians 5:22:  Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.
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  40.  @nina.cazimi  I think that because of Christian culture, western mores and tradition along with the capitalist system, most women have fared pretty good in the US until fairly recently. I remember 40-50 years ago, most women did not need or want to work but the family could make it in most places on one income and often not even a very good one. Now everyone has to work longer hours at jobs that pay no pensions and are often temporary just to get by. This is because the banking cartel has for decades depreciated (so called inflation) the currency at ap. 50% every 17 years.
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  41. And thats all before she drags you into “family court."
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  42. No matter how good a deal is, lots of people will still try to Jew you down. That’d just the way it is.
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  43. No, it’s the opposite. The women got to work lots harder to get their commitment which the big majority will never get anyway.
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  44. Wives often age physically faster than the husband and don’t hold up as well as him. Their fertility window also being lots narrower decreases their desire and sex tends to fall off the cliff after the kids are done.. These factors will often create an insurmountable hurdle. Most men just didn’t realize that at the beginning. Like trying to ignite a pile of wet oak.
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  45. 12 years! If you have not accomplished your objective as far as relationships or mating after all this time then you might better consider hanging it up.
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  46.  @detroitvcw  Thats where the gynocentric courts come in. After she files for divorce, you are still provide money and prizes. Most of them stop the sex, intimacy part after a while anyway.
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  47. Women-wives tend to let their emotions (anger) flare up whenever you need them to assist on fixing a problem.
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  48. It is normally the woman who after she has the kids, who loses interest, not the man. This is evident by the fact that women file for divorce almost 80% of the time, not the man.
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  49. Problem is that if say a construction contractor hires a carpenter and then is not satisfied with work. The contractor is only obligated to pay the carpenter for the hours that he was on the job. The state does not get to come in and take half of the company and give it to the carpenter, plus permanent wage support.
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  50. 90% of the 40% would lose too much or they would have already left.
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  51.  @rebekkagasmi9451  Women use the kids (that they insisted on in the first place) as bargaining chips. They get custody over 80% of the time and child support is always way more than what is required for the kids. This is another reason why more and more high value men are saying no to the state’s marriage racket.
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  52. Yes, serving in Israeli Foreign Legion (U.S. military) must be very rewarding.
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  53.  @phillipcotton833  The player mentality seems to me like a bunch of stray dogs running around in the city dump. Not a good situation for men or women. People have to aspire to do better than that.
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  54. Western societies have been to a large extent shaped by a gynocentric culture and have put women on a pedestal. Part of this is due to the influence of Christianity which elevated the perception of women. Another factor has been technological advancement and capitalism which has reduced the amount of manual labor in the job market and created more white collar and service jobs. The last factor has been the feminist movement that has indoctrinated women to believe they will get more satisfaction from a job (career) than from following the traditional path in the nuclear family. Now they can all compete and pay taxes just like the men.
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  55. Women file almost 80% of divorces and the kids are usually weaponized against the man in the gynocentric court system. This does alleviate boredom for the man as he is now compelled to pay an extortionate amount for “child” care. It also alleviates boredom for the ex wife as now she has more money than ever to go after a new simp.
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  56. Once the attraction phase is over she focuses on wealth, status and utilitarian value. When she perceives that she has got from you all she can get, she will likely cash out of your operation and move to a new simp.
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  57. Men make most of the money but women drive the spending of most money. Economists estimate that women are responsible for ap. 80% of consumer spending and this includes real estate.
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  58. if she’s not enthusiastic an content with you at the courtship phase but is already disagreeable, contentious and argumentative, what do you think its going to be like when she has the court system in her favor and maybe a kid or two.
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  59.  @Stitch-smart  If there’s children involved, that prenup will probably be thrown out in the gynocentric court.
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  60.  KennethFabritius  No, only once he has accumulated enough so that divorce is the best way for her to profit.
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  61. Emotions are another facet of the mind that needs to be controlled by reason. Emotions are helpful in dealing with issues in relationships but too much emotions tends to short circuit the thinking process.
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  62. In traditional Christian western societies this notion of male and female conflict was so negligible as to be of almost no consequence. Women knew they had all the rights and privileges of men but also had the advantage of not being bound by the masculine burden of the daily grindstone as fell upon all males. The result was strong male female relationships and intact nuclear families of independently minded individuals with an ever growing middle class, the bane of the parasitic elite. How to solve this problem. First use the banking cartel to gradually transfer all real wealth to the top. This will eliminate the pesky middle class and force all the women to enter the work force therefore destroying the family. Next, propagandize the women that they are being liberated from the evil patriarchy as they become wage slaves and debt peons just like the men.
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  63. She can probably fake it for 12 months to get the right simp.
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  64. Many tradesmen can easily make it to retirement if they lead a decent lifestyle. Blue collar professions are now often less stressful and offer better pay than many white collar jobs.
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  65. Be careful men because if there are children involved the judge will often throw out the pre-nup because the child (and consequently the mother) come first. You will likely end up paying way more than what it takes for child support which she can then spend with Tyrone. You have no say.
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  66. Most people are just mediocre at most of what they do. The difference in outcome and reputation is accomplished by those who consistently put forth extra effort in each task, without going overboard.
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  67. Move on with other women as if she doesn’t matter any more. Gradually your feelings will follow your actions and you will find another woman to be compatible with.
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  68.  @generalrendar7290  Yeah and just leave your house and half of all your other assets with her and Tyrone.
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  69.  @henrystreet6152  The past is dead. Only the present is real.
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  70. Obedient workers entering a digital world prepared for their control.
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  71. I don’t think most women will leave a satisfying relationship even for Chad. There has to already be a problem there before the opportunity comes along.
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  72. Taraban is using the old cow analogy to spout psychological nonsense. What’s the difference between his so called “pure” and not pure? Nothing. Just because a woman holds her virginity up on a stick like a treasure does it make it any better? No. If she is holding command of the convent of purity what good is it for her or anyone else? What would a man rather have, miss pure pus’ with a contentious bitchy attitude or a contented, amiable girl who has been around the block a few times? I know which breed of cattle I would rather bring home.
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  73. Pursuing women is a lot like those bass fishermen with the 150 thousand dollar boats and equipment. They often don’t catch any keepers.
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  74. The nuclear family (both mother and father) is the most critical element of society in the development of self sufficient individuals despite many of them falling short.
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  75. Young men need to have a long term prospective on commitment. She will probably stop giving out those cookies after a while and you may not want them anyway. Thats why the court system is set up to enforce the contract.
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  76. The emotional commitment may last or it may not. Thats why the marriage contract is backed by the gynocentric lions paw of the state. Abrogating the contract is costly.
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  77. The farther you go into a bad relationship the more entangled it will get. Better to see the writing on the wall early and break all ties so you can move on.
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  78. 1 Timothy 4:8 For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.
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  79.  @lisa_angelina  Then he gets hit with the divorce.
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  80. They know that the lions paw of the state is giving them a huge advantage.
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  81. The problem with this analogy is that a person’s character including responsibility, purpose and initiative is already long established by the time a man confronts either of the two proposed institutions. If the man does not already have the capability and desire to succeed in either of them it will be very difficult to acquire the necessary traits. Thats the reason most first time marriages fail and why many men either fail to last in the military or don’t go very far. Most people don’t do any more than they have to regardless of the situation and so the seeds of failure are strewn carelessly among the rocks and thistles early on.
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  82. The “you waisted my time” is the resentment coming to the top as she is letting anger boil up because of her lack of emotional control. Lots of women are always on an emotional rollercoaster which effects their perception of everything. The husband is the most likely target.
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  83. The big majority of women today have been indoctrinated with a combination of belligerent feminism, Disney princess fantasy turbocharged with the knowledge that they have all the advantages in the gynocentric kangaroo court for simps. Men getting married are starting off from a very weak position and thats why most first marriages last about 7-8 years until its time for her to file for divorce and collect the money and prizes.
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  84. Modern society has exacerbated the tendency to be bored because of so many people addicted to social media and are almost living in a digital world, always looking for the next quick fix, having lost their ability to focus or analyze for more than a moment. This short attention span leads to superficial understanding and will make it easier to direct the herd in the desired direction.
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  85. All of this is true for most people. However there are people who are evil and care nothing about the rights of others. They do not want to compete in the market but strive to use the power of government to make society work for them. These people have no virtue but are wolves in sheep’s clothing.
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  86. Some situations are unavoidable and must be tolerated with the realization that they will pass. A bad relationship ain’t one of them
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  87. A generation ago most women didn’t need or want to go into the job market. That was when the U.S. still had the world’s most unassailable middle class. Feminism (Frankfurt School propaganda) has actually been mostly a cover just like the theft of the productive workers wealth by the financial insiders is attributed to “inflation.” The reality is that as America moves ever closer to a 3rd world economy, everyone both male and female better have their hand on the plow.
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  88. Yeah, he’s beating a dead horse (cow) on this one.
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  89. Well probably not initially anyway. The problem is that the physical attraction often wears down to contempt then the meanness inherent in gynocentric hypergamy begins to show.
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  90. Everyone falls somewhere in the market. Low SMV women are not likely going to snag high SMV men. They have to be bottom fishers.
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  91. Dating is a type of free market. Everyone will end up in their appropriate place sooner or later
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  92. Women often become flirtatious with other men once they decide it’s time to get ready for filing the divorce so she can collect cash and prizes when the present simp has accomplished all he can for her.
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  93.  @AH-tx1nj  Not Mary, Joseph.
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  94. Healthcare has had almost no bearing on lifespan or health span but actually the prime ingredients are a good diet and sanitation. Life expectancy is now going down in almost all countries. Once you account for infant mortality in earlier times, there is almost no difference in lifespan.
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  95. It is appointed unto man, once to die, then the judgement.
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  96.  @collativelearning  Did you not note the fake election and ridiculous capitol “riot.” Also how all the countries jumped on the “virus” wagon when they usually argue incessantly about everything, no matter how trivial. Many people failed to see how the “war” in Ukraine” just happened to start as the trucker strike was having big effects on the Zionist Trudeau Gov. and Washington was next. The Hollywood puppets were brought out along with fake shootings such as Uvalde and Chicago while the elite's (Club of Rome) pumped up the climate change garbage, These same people control all of the major film industry. The corporate arm of Black Rock-Vanguard investment interlock controls almost 90% of major companies in this country. I didn’t say they control all films. They don’t need to. They just control the great majority of the distribution and what the herd views.
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  97. Some victories are not worth the price and some are often rooted in evil. It is appointed unto man once to die, then the judgement
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  98.  @mrquick6775  Your’e only as good as your worst feature and height is one of those traits that women value. After initial attraction however comes wealth, status and utilitarian value.
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  99.  @colasfalon6470  Yes and the fact that 50% of children have no father in the house explains a lot of why men don’t know how to be leaders.
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  100. Men should seek out a younger marriage partner because women typically will not desire sex over the long term near as much as the man and will not want it because of physical reasons either. The husband ends up in a sexual desert with no sex or intimacy, just the pay pig.
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  101. Most of them are sub 5’s and broke. Lots of them will never get out of their mom’s basement.
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  102. Both sexes want physical attraction first. However this is transitory and women then focus on wealth, status and utilitarian value (what can he do for me).
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  103. No problem. Just like calling someone on the phone. If you call them twice and they don’t answer or return your call. Shit can them.
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  104. Good logic but women are not generally big on high risk volatile investments. They want to see the money, status and utilitarian value right up front. Even after success there is a better that 50% chance she will file for divorce since she knows she will get half at any rate, unless there are kids, then she gets a lot more.
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  105. Yeah, especially for all those broke sub 5’s that are invisible to women.
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  106. Dating algorithms show that physical appearance is the no. 1 factor in the initial attraction. These other ploys that Orion brings out are only secondary. All women are attracted to what they perceive are the top 20% of men. Those men who fall in the bottom 60% are practically invisible. At some point, sub 5 women will have to accept these bottom dwellers as long term partners or become cat ladies. By 2030, 50% of women 18-45 will be single and childless. This is clear indication that lots of women in the digital dating world would rather be single forever than pair with a less attractive man.
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  107. One of the biggest problems for many is that young people have difficulty getting on the right track. By the time they figure out what they should have done in relationships and career it is difficult or near impossible to change course because of the consequences.
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  108. Eleven minuets is too long. Next he will believe in reincarnation.
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  109. Western women have been brainwashed for many decades by feminism, Frankfurt School media and the “entertainment” industry for the intended purpose of dividing the sexes in order to demoralize and destabilize society, destroy the nuclear family unit and western culture.
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  110. Yes, life is rarely the way we would prefer it to be so it is better to just accept that and move on.
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  111. When the natural hypergamous instincts of women are combined with decades of feminist propaganda and a court system tilted heavily in their favor, its no wonder that ap. 56% of first marriages in the U.S. fail.
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  112. Both sexes are the victims of the economic and cultural destruction of a once great Republic by the Zionist elite at the top. Their financial guru, the pervert Keynes even told us how it works on the financial side: By a continuous process of inflation, governments can confiscate, secretly and unobserved, an important part of the wealth of their citizens. By this method, they not only confiscate, but they confiscate arbitrarily; and while the process impoverishes many, it actually enriches some....The process engages all of the hidden forces of economic law on the side of destruction, and does it in a manner that not one man in a million can diagnose." - John Maynard Keynes Economic Consequences of the Peace, 1920
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  113. No use trying to use reason with an unreasonable person. Anger is the worst characteristic and a woman’s emotions often leads to unreasonable anger and perceptions.
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  114. The air show was a cartoon from the MSM. All of that cement dust from the thermite was amazing however.
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  115.  @alberttang6955  And remember she has the “legal” system backing her actions and she knows it.
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  116. Because of women’s hypergamous and emotional (rather than rational) nature, the prospect of satisfying long term relationships are dubious at best. This problem is compounded by the gynocentric court system that puts men at even more of a disadvantage. Do not get married.
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  117. Women usually like to be approached by attractive (Chads-8-10’s) but not by unattractive men. This is true even for un attractive women because they usually think they are a lot prettier than they really are. Don’t be a dumbass, like in the example Orion talks about. Unless you are an attractive male don’t waist your time but instead only approach if the female gives you a signal.
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  118. Long as she can bill the insurance or the patient, thats the only review that effects the bottom line.
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  119. They all know that from junior high. They are after the Money, status and utilitarian value. The initial attraction is just the entry point.
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  120. The detective falls into the category of the Parable of “The unforgiven debtor.” If we are not merciful to others, how can we expect mercy.
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  121. What affluence are you referring to? 60% of adults in the U.S. can’t put their hand on a thousand dollars without using a credit card or borrowing from a relative. The once unassailable middle class has now been eviscerated. Ap. 82% of the population is urban and don’t have any real survival skills other than pushing a cart down the supermarket isle. My grand parents (and parents grew up) lived during the Great Depression in rural Arkansas. They had no elec., gas or even running water. No insulation in the house. They slaughtered their own animals, ran a smoke house and plowed with mules. Of course they kept chickens and canned everything they could so they could make it through the winter. I think the great majority of people today only have an illusion of prosperity since most of them are practically living paycheck to paycheck. Years ago the nuclear family was almost an autonomous unit that raised self sufficient individuals that did not need the government to be their manager on a global plantation for obsequious barnyard animals. And that is the goal. As Lenin’s partner in murder, Trotsky (((Lev Bronstein))) stated: “In a country where the sole employer is the State, opposition means death by slow starvation. The old principle: who does not work shall not eat, has been replaced by a new one: who does not obey shall not eat.”
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  122. And “where ever you go, there you are."
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  123. What’s happening here is that lots of men are approaching women of a higher SMV, so the women are not willing to commit to anything other than letting him spend money on them. Most men are not physically attractive enough to generate much interest from women until some of the women (less attractive ones) will finally settle for a lower SMV man. Thats why by 2030 50% of women will be single and childless since women can now make it on their own. Women have not evolved as Orion claims but are coded with genetic information from conception (just like the original mitochondrial Eve) to be hypergamous.
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  124. This conundrum is part of a degenerating society that is headed to 3rd world status as the banking cartel insiders transfer (50% every 17 years) the real wealth of the country through debt monetization into their hands. Today in this country, the majority of adults cannot put their hand on a thousand dollars without using a credit card or borrowing from a relative. Although women appear to be gaining huge economic traction, with the graduated (unconstitutional) tax system and ongoing depreciation of the fiat currency, its a situation where both men and women are basically debt peons in a rigged system that is spiraling down at an accelerating rate. Read the U.N.’s Agenda 21 plan or the WEF 4th industrial revolution “you will own nothing.” These are just repackaged versions of Marx’ (Moses Mordecai Levy) communist manifesto. Unless people reclaim their liberties from the Zionist syndicate, the dating game will be shoved to the back burner as the herd of cattle trying to subsist in the urban high rise s*** holes while eating bugs, taking cold showers and counting fake carbon credits.
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  125. It’s important to keep things in prospective: Psalms 103:15-22 As for man, his days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so he flourisheth. For the wind passeth over it, and it is gone; and the place thereof shall know it no more. But the mercy of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting upon them that fear him, and his righteousness unto children's children;
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  126. People can become way too obsessed and vain by what mathematician and philosopher Pascal called “licking the earth.” Proverbs 6:16-19 These six things doth the Lord hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.
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  127. Way too many men have been brainwashed by the gynocentric culture pushed by the west, to only think I terms of what the woman wants.
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  128. Couples can be together too much but mostly this is because there were other problems to begin with. Having other people involved (as in Hillary's village example) including in-laws just exacerbates any potential problems. Its good to have your own separate interests but too much separation will only serve to fracture the relationship and encourage further estrangement. As far as the evolutionary nonsense, Orion needs to explain by what mechanism organisms are supposed to accumulate the massive amount of gene sequences perfectly placed by random chance in order for any animal to advance to a higher state. There are none in the millions of fossils found and there are none with us today.
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  129. Attack the messenger not the message.
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  130. You have hit the nail on the head. As long as you keep the gynocentric government out of the picture you will be ok.
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  131. Fame and SMV are both ephemeral. In the long run those with those attributes often end up with more regrets than those who never experienced them.
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  132. And after 3 generations, no one will remember you anyway, if even for that long.
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  133.  @psychacks  It can be a windfall for the woman. She can take the house and all the other tribute which in many cases she didn’t contribute anything to and then move on to the next simp (I mean commitment).
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  134. PsycHacks has been soaking up too much of the “everything is as it should be" doctrine of Buddhism. People often create lots of internal problems for themselves. However the biggest problem for mankind is that a small number of elites have seized control of all governments of any consequence and are using that power to enslave everyone else
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  135.  @DNA350ppm  Once ought to be enough for any man. Don’t make the same mistake twice.
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  136.  @LisaCulton  Woman’s SMV drops quick and they are mostly invisible by 40. Even a young attractive woman that has had a child goes way down. Left over women.
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  137.  @jcnlaw  often, prenups go out the window when there are children involved also.
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  138. Once the man is in the marriage contract (either official or common law cohabitation) she has him by the balls. And she knows it. That snatch is just a simp trap. Practically all women will put a pad lock on that thing once the kids are in the bag.
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  139. Thats why we have a lot more female ancestors than males. Most of the men were’t getting any and a few were getting a lot. As an example, Solomon had a thousand.
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  140. Ephesians 5:22-33 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
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  141. Any good man that gets married is taking a big risk not only by very likely dealing with a resentful, vindictive woman but also facing financial ruin from the “family" court system
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  142. Acting now wether you want too or not is the best way to put aside the futility of ruminating in the past
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  143. The problem of wives that can’t control their tongue is greatly aggravated by the way the court system is overwhelmingly in their favor. Wives know that their husbands have too much to lose in a divorce. Marriage contracts put the lion’s paw of the state over the marriage.
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  144.  @thundershirt1  He shouldn’t have been that distracted. Plagiarizing real scientists can’t be that hard.
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  145. Ephesians 5: 22-33 The husband is head of the wife as Christ is hard of the Church.
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  146. Did Peterson also teach you to clean up your room. PsycHacks is concise and right on target with his message. Peterson, obfuscates and often goes down a philosophical alleyway.
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  147. Most people will never be great achievers. There are not very many Hannibal or Robert E. Lee star performers around. Thats ok, just do the best you can with honesty and integrity.
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  148. The film industry has always been used as a propaganda tool just as the public “education” system and the MSM. Wether it’s to promote the latest axis of evil, climate change, “virus” or woke agenda to brainwash the young. The only thing that adds interest to this cultural subversion is that the elite parasites at the top always tell you way ahead, what the agenda involves. These clues are sometimes imbedded in the inane superficial storyline, such as the 9/11 demolition coded into “Back To The Future."
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  149.  @Private-i1t  The sexual frustration and loneliness still will hit late at night when you wake.
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  150.  @srhenderson  Like Tarban said, first comes attraction. Women don’t want the bottom 60% no matter what. After that comes money, status and utilitarian value. If your’e sub 5 and broke like most men, it going to be a hard row to hoe.
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  151.  @refsOnReality  Both of them are actors in a staged play controlled by the same syndicate.
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  152. Congratulations on your podcast achievement. PsycHacks is the best psychological based channel I have seen. Most sites are just quick fix and superficial as to the difficulties presented. Be cautious as to traveling the podcast circuit because there are lots of people doing this now so much that they remind me of the old game show “guests.” Also advise caution with regard to who you bring on your channel as it will water down what is normally concise and many times insightful wisdom, turning it into an interminable nuisance. I thought your last guest was well below your standards and some of us don’t have a lot of time to devote to long dissertations but prefer your usual brief psychological insights. Everyone knows that YouTube is policed for PC. There are alternative views on many issues that will cause your algorithm to drop. It should not be this way because the net was funded from the beginning with tax payer money and so free speech should prevail for all content providers. On a personal note I have noticed that it seems that all over the wellness space we keep getting the references to “evolution.” Its always ”natural selection” (thats not evolution) or ”evolutionary biology” (where is the real evidence). Although many people have been deluded into blindly accepting this dogma of which there is no evidence in the millions of fossils, the geological substrate nor the physical world. It would be very refreshing if PsycHacks just avoided this issue.
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  153.  @georgedang449  All true. Problem is she is compatible, cooks and cleans but eventually quits having sex . A feeling of loneliness sets in for the man.
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  154.  @Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq.  The parasitic elite know that patriotism is the last refuge for those scoundrels. Don’t serve the Zionist Agenda for Greater Israel.
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  155. You are just the mule pulling her gynocentric wagon down the road to a dead end.
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  156. Just not bitching all the time would help.
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  157. You really lap up the propaganda. The Titanic sinking was fake. There are no icebergs at that latitude.
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  158.  @roses6564  The truth is the truth regardless of wether it is harmonious.
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  159. Is that why Muhammad married an 8 year old child. Disgusting.
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  160. Psalms 19:1 The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork.
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  161.  @MrOdammy  She is not an employee however but rather a business partner with a state enforced contract in her advantage that she may choose to exercise whenever she sees that as her best options.
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  162. You don’t want it bad enough then. Just drastically cut the carbs and eat animal protein and saturated fat. After a few days the hunger (and fat storage driven by the insulin) will subside and the weight will begin to fall off. Excess wt. is inflammatory leads to diabetes and accelerates aging. Get down to that 125 pounds. Don’t let them lean bitch’s leave you in the hog pen.
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  163. Although there may be an initial sexual attraction between men and women, this wears off pretty quick. At that point for the woman she is after three things. Wealth, status and utilitarian value (what can he do for me). I think Solomon was likely a sex addict. At any rate his behavior displeased God who told Solomon that his kingdom would be divided. The ten northern tribes were hauled off by the Assyrians (to work their irrigation ditches on the Tigris Euphrates) and were never herd from again. it was never intended that a man have more than one wife, as the pattern was set with Adam and Eve.
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  164. There are lots of immature people. Women drive ap. 80% of consumer purchases so they are the media target.
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  165. The problem is not men’s relationship with women but rather how both sexes have been duped by the elites that run the governments and who’s primary concern is to keep their plantation livestock in fear and under control. Patriotism is the last refuge of the scoundrel and once the public are told that they are under attack by the axis of evil or we’re making the world safe for “democracy” or we must save (fill in the blank) and the flag of patriotism is waved. 21,000 millionaires and billionaires were created in the US (including the Bush family) during WW1. We know this because of the newly created internal revenue “service” has that data. All wars are contrived and managed for the benefit of the elite. Women are really just a peripheral issue for the men sucked into the scam. The government uses and has used lots of other propaganda including “viruses”, lab made, gain of function, spike protein (no real scientific peer reviewed paper shows its action) H1n1, Zika, SARS, Swine flu, bird flu, anthrax, AIDS, climate change (formerly global warming), greenhouse gases (all gasses have cooling effect not warming in open atmosphere), over population, the oceans are dying, the Great Lakes are dying, the ozone layer is depleted, we’re running out of oil, mercury in the fish, alar in the apples, the new ice age is coming, the Russians are going to nuke us, the “war” in Ukraine, the “war” in Gaza, The too big to fail banks will collapse (gave million dollar bonuses the next year) and so will the economy so we have to bail them out. This is just a partial list of government propaganda. Women are not the problem.
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  166. Women in the west also have the lion’s paw of the state on they're side in any relationship and they know it. Just look at cultures where they don’t have the 900 lb. gorilla in their corner.
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  167. if a woman is interested in a man she will be available however once under contract the mostly physical attraction she initially had will often decline as she can now cash out and move on to another simp.
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  168. Most sexual interactions are I believe, driven by biological and practical needs rather than romantic fantasy. She’s (you hope) got the physical, intellectual and emotional capability you want. It’s like PsyHacks said, “a transaction."
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  169. I think these comparisons are just the result of individual opportunity presented to the individual wether male or female. Each person will react and evaluate the situation according to their already fixed culture and mores. That is why so many expats expect things to be different when they move their failed relationship or financial model to a foreign country where it’s just a repeat. Its like the Buddhist saying, “wherever you go, there you are.
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  170. Thats why the court system is rigged so it costs too much for the man to get out.
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  171. You must just be referring to those in the hood.
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  172. Many battles have been lost because they quit too soon. Quick fixes hardly ever work.
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  173. Most girls think they are prettier than than they are but the SMV scale doesn’t lie. The real lookers however will still pull in a huge number of simps
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  174. I think Tarban was getting the silver platter treatment because he was a visiting foreigner. I expect not many high value Japanese women would take up with an outsider. Very little miscegenation in Japan.
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  175. I think Taraban was just getting the silver platter treatment for visiting foreigners. Very little miscegenation in Japan.
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  176. Jesus said to “put the kingdom of God first.” There is no general admonition to divest your property. The rich young ruler was charged by Jesus to sell everything and give to the poor because he loved those material possessions more than anything else. Other people would be perhaps more susceptible to other vices.
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  177. Christian culture is primarily what elevated the status of women in western societies, not political activism. 2nd wave feminist propaganda has polarized male-female relationships in society and the workplace. Women have for the most part enjoyed a privileged position in western culture but the feminist demand for equality is fast eroding this status. The big female advantage in the court system is now hurting women as more men see marriage as way too much risk. Many men now avoid women in social settings and in the workplace because of fear of being reported for any perceived slight. All of this is according to the Zionist plan to destroy the nuclear family and reduce herd size. A society of independent individuals in stable families, does nothing for the parasitic elite.
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  178. No wonder it is very often difficult to have a reasonable discussion with women. Emotion always creeps in on top of an already inefficient manner of communication. Thats why Ephesians 5:23 states that “the husband is head of the wife."
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  179. And YOU married this woman.
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  180. More wisdom from PsycHacks. Most young men will still have to learn the hard way. Some of them may be taught some skills but its a lot harder to teach them not to be an idiot.
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  181.  @Damesanglante  The dating culture and human psychology are the same wether online or on the street.
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  182. You can’t reason with unreasonable people and lots of women are always close to the edge of going over the edge. They catch on to the reflection tactic real quick.
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  183. The outcome of most scientific studies is overwhelmingly baked in from the outset by whomever is funding the research. Its very similar to the allopathic medical model that controls practically all medicine and also launched big Pharma the CDC and WHO. People have trusted the “science” ever since the medical con man Pasteur claimed to have proved pathogenic transfer. His medical diary has now been published and so we know (as proven in repeated failures over more than 150 years) that the only thing he transmitted were toxins, usually arsenic or mercury. Although sudo scientific papers and the PCR (not a diagnostic test for any disease) claim to test for the “virus”, no medical organization can provide a written genome for Covid 19 other than an insilico (computer generated) fragment of a genome with no real isolation, purification nor verification. Just trust the “science” and line up for your “vaccine.”
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  184. These basic character types are engrained in the person at a very early age but as Orion says can be modified to help us be more socially successful with experience if we are willing to learn from our shortcomings.
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  185. There needs to be an attraction at the beginning. After that women are primarily after wealth, status and utilitarian (what can he do for me) value.
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  186. Reality is a perception experienced by the individual. When the government presents a construct to the people in the form of an contrived situation along with sufficient propaganda, the livestock will not only tolerate the pain but actually wave a flag of patriotism in favor of the elites who are oppressing them and are often willing to not only attack their own countrymen but even their own kin. This happened during the Sodomite Lincoln’s War of Northern Aggression in which ap. 620,000 Americans died in order to maintain the unconstitutional tariffs, prevent free trade and damage the south to prevent their competition and westward expansion.
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  187. You’re right. She should have just wished him the best and done the right thing.
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  188. Remember, the clock is ticking.
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  189. This degree of information as Orian states should only be reserved for close confidants. For the vast majority of aquantences just parse out the usual faint praise and move on.
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  190. It’s like Benjamin Franklin said, “marry in hast, repent at leisure."
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  191.  @virginiamoss7045  He was holding up his obligations but she was not. Both partners have to their job. She knew what the marriage contract required to begin with. None of us can do just what we want in this world.
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  192.  @sammyb1651  Exactly and lots of their time is not billable but probably unproductive like everyone else.
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  193. Unless you are a member of the synagogue
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  194. Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel. You can be sure that none of the “elite’s” children are in any danger in those contrived and scripted conflicts. If it is reported that they were, then it was faked. As for gratitude as it relates to women, Briffault covered this a long time ago: Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?) If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. (“I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.“) A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.
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  195.  @runningwarrior5468  I think the record is a Russian woman with 54.
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  196. Women often pull this tactic because they know the gynocentric court system is in their favor if they file for divorce. They walk out knowing they will get at least half of everything regardless of the situation.
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  197. This tendency of women to go positive or negative is what happens when the brain is controlled by her current emotional state instead of rational judgement No Wonder Woman file almost 80% of divorces
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  198. Briffault laid out how the female mind works a long time ago.
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  199.  @gravitydefyer3722  Practically all of them do it. Its female nature as Brifault’s Law exposes.
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  200.  @LanLe-rz4lm  Very unlikely she will change her character or cultural traits. Especially since she knows society and the courts are on her side.
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  201. All men need to read Briffault’s Law before becoming emotionally involved with a woman.
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  202. Nothing evolutionary about it. It was coded in at conception like everything else however there is no reason now for a woman to ever risk pregnancy unless she was trying to.
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  203. Orian said actions that are not rewarded or benefit others are a waste at best. I disagree because some pursuits, endeavors or hobbies or only for personal development and may not even be noticed by others
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  204.  @user-ew3hh1mv9l  Move on to the poor house after she drags you through the “family” court and collects the money and prizes.
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  205.  @jth_printed_designs  Most men will lose too much to get out because of the gynocentric court system. Women know it.
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  206. The best way to have a successful marriage is keep your expectations low.
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  207. She will really have commitment from the simp when the lion’s paw of the state hauls him into “family" court.
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  208. Must disagree with PsycHacks on this one. Both men and women pursue each other. They are just approaching things from a different perspective. Men’s psychological behavior is geared to youth, beauty and fertility in a female. Women are wired to look for wealth, status and utilitarian (what can he do for me) value. A man’s worth to a woman is like a blast furnace in a steel mill. Is this simp going to be able shovel enough coal to keep the production up.
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  209. A person’s culture and tendencies are developed while still a child. If they do not develop proper work ethic, mores and character early on but are influenced by less positive influences, it is very difficult for them to change. Once in a while a North Korean will escape out of their open air prison of totalitarian deprivation and get to South Korea where life is much better. The government even puts them up with a lifestyle far better than anything they ever dreamed of in N.K. Despite the fact that they should be overwhelmed by their good fortune, South Koreans are reluctant to hire them because even though these refugees have been taken out of the grinding poverty and oppression of tyranny, the old system can’t be taken out of them.
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  210. Socialism is a racket imposed from the top down so that society works for the elite. All so called socialist systems (monopoly capitalism) have the steepest divide between classes. All women tend to be hypergamous regardless of what country or economy they are in. The only difference is that the poorer a woman is, the less likely she is going to move very far up the socio economic ladder.
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  211. Problem for most Christian churches is that most of the men are simps and pedestalize wives.
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  212. Young men need to spend time around their potential mate’s family in order to gain a prospective of the kind of culture she grew up in. Are they a peaceful, contented bunch or is it a constant bickering contentious dog fight. Has the mother ever been divorced. Are they heavy drinkers or spendthrifts. The environment they grew up in will have shaped his and her perceptions, decisions and actions. Best decision in the long run is probably to stay single and at peace.
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  213. Young western women have been spoiled by being put on a pedestal as result of western culture and a big dose of feminism. As they age they will have to lower expectations and just as the middle class is about gone, as things continue to get closer to the third world for all but the top echelons, they will be climbing down from the pedestal more in line with those in the third world.
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  214. Forget about dreaming, just be pragmatic. Sexual relationships are even more risky than business partners. And often have worse consequences.
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  215. You are absolutely right except in one circumstance. We are all commanded to obey the gospel of Christ as laid out in the New Testament. The wrong choice has eternal consequences: Matt7:13-16 Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it. Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?
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  216. Probably looking for some simp to monkey branch too.
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  217. The basic frame is genetically set at conception. A reasonable amount of natural muscle can be beneficial but heavy lifting is not necessary to develop. Most exercise content creators on the net are juicing which is probably detrimental and all exercise has a diminishing return. A little is productive but lots is a waste.
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  218. Yes, not all men act like pigs and if a woman is willing to have sex on the first date she’s desperate or low value.
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  219. The gym will do very little for your face. if its not attractive she will only look once and move on.
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  220. The fact that a mature educated woman would fall for the divide and conquer strategy employed by the (((Frankfurt School))) to pit men against women and destroy the nuclear family shows how effective propaganda can be when used by the government, MSM, academia and corporations. These groups are all for freedom of speech. As long as its their speech. Socialist systems always use legislation to divide everyone into groups so that they can be better controlled while the elite continue to consolidate all authority to themselves. The end result is that the livestock have all kinds of laws and the insider elite have all the power.
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  221. Like almost all alopathic medicine, psychiatry is a scam to make money while treating symptoms instead of the disease. Read Szasz MD “The Myth of Mental Illness."
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  222. All good points but the biggest problem lots of men face is the marriage contract that puts the man under the lion’s paw of the state. Women often see divorce as an opportunity to scoop up assets at the man’s peak of production and then many of them can monkey branch on to another target.
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  223. Problems are often used and indeed usually created by the government (elite insiders) to achieve their own long term solution which is always more control and power and less autonomy and freedom for the livestock. There are many different problems (crises) employed for this purpose including “viruses”, “wars”, “ shootings”, “climate change.” As Obama’s chief of staff said “never let a good crisis (problem) go to waste.”
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  224. How so. The military insulates the individual from the vicissitudes of real life in an artificial construct payed for by the productive members of society.
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  225. Not good news for all those liberated feminists and Disney Princesses.
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  226. Best content for relationships but most of the herd has short attention span and little analytical processing capability. They just want to be entertained on their way to the weekend.
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  227. If the man pays, he comes over better since he asked for the date in the first place and does not come across as a cheapskate. This also puts him in a more favorable position psychologically, as “the hand that gives is more powerful than the hand that receives.” Of course a bad relationship (most of them) is a lot worse than none so try to weed as many applicants as possible before waisting time and money in person.
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  228. The elite parasites that run all the governments of any consequence have known this for hundreds of years. The incentive model is also a dis incentive model that can be used as formulated by Philosopher George Hegel as the Hegelian dialectic of thesis-antithesis and synthesis. The best way for the few at the top to enslave the plantation livestock is not physically but mentally, using a sophisticated strategy of carrot and stick that employs both external conflict and internal subversion and unsubstantiated fears. It’s like Gobbles stated, tell it to them loud enough and long enough and they will believe it.
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  229. PsycHacks, why are you watering down your channel’s value with this chump. You and your followers have nothing to gain from him.
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  230. Women are in this age not just luxury items but often big liabilities as they file almost 80% of divorces in the gynocentric court sytem
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  231. PsycHacks has become a stoic. The tenants of Christianity are very similar: Matt 6:19-21: Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. Basically this philosophy entails as Christianity also encourages one to “be not of this world.” This is difficult because life is in many ways a competition for material goods and associations. Most of us are content to co exist and even lend a helping hand but there are always some in powerful positions that harness the power of government so that society works for them.
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  232. @ All modern fiat systems are based on the monetization of debt. Some of it is done by the individual banks as when you borrow for a car or a mortgage ( this debt is extinguished upon payment) but the vast majority is done by the central bank in collusion with the country’s treasury as in 2020 when over two trillion dollars was created by this process and given to Black Rock companies. This instant money then “trickles” down, raising prices through out the economy.
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  233. @ I didn’t say they were privileged or that they did not work. All I indicated was that they were generally held in a favorable light because of Christian culture and western tradition. this has certainly been the overall case. This tendency has for decades been eroded by the feminist doctrine of equality and economic realities. Men are now less deferential to women and more willing to let them “root, hog and die” just like the men.
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  234. No different than the CDC-WHO telling everyone about the “virus."
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  235. Only approach women who signal they want you to approach.
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  236. If the mother has indoctrinated them from an early age they will most likely always see only her side. Thats why the government wants kids in the public schools as early and as long as possible.
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  237. they don’t perceive your long term prospects as being worthwhile in relation to other options wether because of physical attraction, financial, character, utilitarian value or whatever so they move on.
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  238.  @mickbenson9161  Millions of men end up being locked onto sexless marriages even though the wife may have contributed a lot to the success of the partnership and is good in many ways. Its a hard row to hoe but duty and integrity require we stay the course.
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  239. There are no real tests to establish the presence of mental illness just as there are no real tests (PCR is not a diagnostic test) to establish the presence of any “virus.” No virus as ever been purified, isolated nor characterized and what the virologists claim to be “isolation” is in fact the exact opposite.
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  240. This backfires because it tends to isolate the individual in a digital reality that polarizes the sexes even more when these young men need real male role models not fantasy.
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  241. Wonder what “state of bliss” the Dali Llama was in when he said to the young boy “suck my tongue.'
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  242. Like the stoics say, it how we react to things and not the thing itself that is the biggest factor
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  243.  @ets5697  You are right. For one of them however you will probably be her best option. Its often a battle between putting up with their emotional instability or suffering the sexual frustration and loneliness without them.
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  244. Realistically both partners need to get something out of the marriage contract. I believe this is what’s happening in most marriages. If it’s as bad as Orion says then why is it that the majority of people who divorce are not satisfied until they get married again?
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  245. She hadn’t yet figured out that the political parties are just another stage play to distract the herd.
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  246.  @TheCentralScrutinizer99  2nd class farang ATM.
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  247. There is no evolution involved but rather the hard wiring of the brain from conception as coded information imparted from a supreme intelligence. You evidently believe like Darwin, that organisms could just change according to need. Darwin, knowing nothing about DNA, genetics or mutations had an excuse for his ignorance. You don’t.
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  248. They were usually bought and sold. Of course the king would have special reps. looking for the most choice females. Many of the wives were donations from other kingdoms as tribute or as an alliance. The Israelites at that time were at the peak of their hegemony (soon to go down hill) and Solomon even had a wife donated by the Egyptian Royals. This is typical of powerful and wealthy men. As Napoleon's army traveled through the European cities and the people came out on the sidewalks to watch, he would often point to a women that fit his fancy and his officers would have her rounded up. At camp, Napoleon would just tell one of his officer staff “bring me a woman.” They all knew what his preferences were. Not much difference today. Gates, Trump, Andrew, Clinton and lots more were riding the Lolita Express. They were most likely not doing Bible study on Epstein’s Island.
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  249. Social media is about a lot more than profit. The syndicate that controls social media and indeed all of MSM and practically all of the “alternative” also control almost 90% of major corporations in the U.S. They are linked right into the central bank cartel, control academia and run the allopathic medical system. They have long controlled both fake parties and all the key puppet actors that stage the fake opposition to each other so the livestock can think their voting makes a difference. The divide the sexes program is another part of this group's agenda launched all the way back in 1st stage feminism but supercharged after the founding of the Frankfurt School in the 1920’s which led to the direct attack of 2nd wave feminism on our culture, institutions and mores. Does anyone think that Budweiser spent many millions on advertising over the last forty years, building a brand name and did not know what was going to happen with the recent in your face degeneracy? Sadly, its not about getting the money. They have controlled the money for a long time. Now they are moving in for total control of the global herd.
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  250. Mao said ‘power comes from the barrel of a gun.” Thats what women have if she drags you into “family court."
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  251.  @31minutesago  (((They)) might as well. All the medieval kings and queens are now negroes. Its no wonder, Wakonda was the greatest until those white savages ruined everything.
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  252. The question here is wether you are going to be a free moral agent cognizant of reality or wether you are going to be duped by the government or others. If you accept without question the narrative (propaganda) with no opposition, you become no more than a barnyard animal waiting to be fed and herded around. The great political scientist Alex De Tocqueville way back in the 1840-50’s said that the greatest danger for people of America was that they would eventually become no more than docile livestock on the plantation, having lost all capacity for individuality and self governance.
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  253. Luke 12:16-21: 16 Then He spoke a parable to them, saying: “The ground of a certain rich man yielded plentifully. 17 And he thought within himself, saying, ‘What shall I do, since I have no room to store my crops?’ 18 So he said, ‘I will do this: I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my crops and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years; take your ease; eat, drink, and be merry.” ’ 20 But God said to him, ‘Fool! This night your soul will be required of you; then whose will those things be which you have provided?’ 21 “So is he who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God.”
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  254. Or a jack ass.
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  255.  @georgedang449  The husband is there mostly to keep the boiler stoked for her and the kids. And not all kids are equal or treated the same by parents. Some are “more equal than others."
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  256.  @eddie-ni5ox  Yeah, he should have avoided her like the plague.
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  257. Only God knows a person’s heart but since we all fall short of his glory it is likely that they realize the need for repentance and a change of direction.
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  258. Women tend to get way too emotional. When huge amounts of anger are generated the person stops being rational. There is no reasoning with them and that is when they can’t control their tongue. Anger breeds resentment against the husband and is then often manifested as depression. Thats the reason far more women are on anti depressants than men.
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  259. Exactly. They always bring everything else they can think of from the past to fan the flames, instead of just dealing with the issue at hand. No problem is ever solved but just moved to the back burner until the next time she gets angry. Anger is the worst character trait.
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  260. The boredom that comes over men after years of a no sex, no intimacy marriage was (as with just about everything else) factored in by the elite syndicate long ago. Thats why they implemented the “family” court system to keep the livestock down on the plantation.
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  261. You just described the typical long term marriage. However he can get as desperate as he wants. There are only two options. Stay the course because you have too much to lose or get a divorce and lose at least half of your stuff. The gynocentric court system was set up for a reason.
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  262. Your money was just as good as Chad's I bet.
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  263. Despite what women see on social media and movie nonsense, the great mass of them have very limited options not much different from their male counterparts. They are forced to scramble for a living just to get by. 60% of adults in the US cannot put their hand on a thousand dollars without using a credit card or borrowing from a relative. This is only one generation away from when most women didn’t even need to work and their husband could make enough money even in a mediocre job to have a modest house and own a car. Today the middle class is all but gone and if either partner loses their job it will put them under water. Housing is unaffordable for the majority of young people and even in the baby boomer “wealthiest” sector 80% have only 200,000 dollars or less in savings or investments. But what can be expected when the banking cartel for decades has depreciated the currency by ap. 50% every 17 years as all real wealth (land, water, minerals and infrastructure) is transferred through this process of debt monetization into the top government insiders hands.
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  264. When I was a kid many years ago, having a tantrum was only a one time attempt. Once the old man took his belt off and swung it across the ass a few times it was quickly determined that tantrums were a real bad tactic.
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  265. Escorts have to be driven for the money only in order to be successful whereas other women are going to look carefully at appearance first. Thats why at least 60% of men are practically invisible as all women look for the top 10-20%. You are only as good as your worst feature unless you are a celebrity or rolling in money.
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  266. Amusing that Orion dispenses this message on YouTube that censors all content and makes sure that only the Zionist approved narrative sees the light of day. Even though tax payer money was used to develop all of these social networks you don’t have freedom of speech and politically incorrect narratives are never allowed to be debated. Doesn’t do any good to contact your fake right or fake left congressman either, its all controlled. All major political parties, media, allopathic medicine, academia, “entertainment”, major corporations and banking are set up to keep the livestock in fear while being plundered from the top.
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  267. Thats not going to happen because the gynocentric court system is the only thing keeping lots of men from pulling the plug.
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  268. Haven’t looked into any of this in detail but it is my understanding that the knights (low level aristocrats and bouncers for the king) applied this noble criteria only to women within their own socio economic caste. Commoner women were fair game and subject to be raped if presented the opportunity.
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  269. Orian mentions STD’s in nursing homes. Although I have no direct knowledge in this regard, I expect the prevalence of sexual intercourse between residents in this setting is about zero. In view of the fact that no pathogenic transmission has ever been proven including those of the medical con man and scientific fraud, Louis Pasteur (as revealed in the publishing of his own medical diary) I expect these alleged infections are merely more evidence for the improbability of the widely held “germ” theory and more verification of the “terrain” theory. It is reported that on his death bed, Pasteur stated,”the germ is nothing, the terrain is everything."
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  270. Agreed. its almost always because of the financial consequences of divorce payments, property loss and having to get set up in a new household.
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  271.  @riekabosman7894  The “family court” judge will usually just throw the pre nup out in most states.
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  272. Many women today who have been steeped in Disney Princess fantasyland and Frankfurt School feminism are way too entitled to go live under a man’s frame of leadership. They would rather remain cat ladies for life.
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  273.  @aim-for-greatn3z947  She’s still young and looking for a simp. Just give it time.
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  274. For most of us, driving a vehicle is not something that requires protection just to get to work or the grocery store.
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  275.  @paulsmith5611  Thats a situation where there is no attraction feeling in the woman. She is just looking to upgrade her living standard. She is going to pot physically (women tend to not hold up as good as a lot of men) and so is more willing to accept lower SMV man who will not be as critical of her.
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  276. With women old issues and problems are rarely solved but only moved to the back burner until the next time they get emotional.
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  277. Don’t know much about Japan but I think that maybe Teraban was overly influenced by the Japanese politeness. I question wether many of the higher socio economic women would take up with a foreigner. Bar girls and ho’s positioned around all the layabouts in the U.S. military may not be indicative of the overall population.
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  278. No pathogenic transmission has ever been shown. As an example, the medical con man Pasteur, never transmitted any pathogens but only toxins, mainly arsenic and mercury.
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  279. It’s called feminism. They all bought into the (((Frankfurt School))) philosophy for destruction of the nuclear family.
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  280. It’s fear because most men know they are going to be rejected, as even low SMV women are after what they perceive as the top 10-20% of men. The rest of them are invisible or just pay pigs.
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  281. Everyone has to do a minimal amount to not be anti social but normally only reasonably attractive women can reap over the top rewards for doing almost nothing.
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  282. 6’s most likely perceive themselves to be 9-10’s so you might as well approach the ones you are more attracted too. However unless the man is at least a 7 or much better to be an 8-9, he will most likely be rejected unless the woman perceives other high SMV criteria such as money or some type of status. If the man is a 6 or below in physical appearance, unless he has other obvious SMV markers, he might as well fold up his tent and go home. He’s invisible anyway to women anyway.
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  283. Sign her marriage contract, wait a couple of years and you will likely find something else you didn’t expect from her attorney.
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  284. All totalitarian systems seek to control the narrative. Thats why the elite’s first priority is to establish a fiat central banking cartel so they can finance their schemes while moving all of the country’s real assets (land, water, minerals, infrastructure) to the top. Next it is absolutely necessary to get control of practically all information by owning all media, education and “entertainment.” Machiavelli pointed out in the 1400’s that one of the main tools of the government was to lie about just about everything. This includes the use of “viruses”, climate, wars, domestic crises, and economic issues. The elite also know that at least 90% of the barnyard animals on the plantation will never do anything as long as they have some kind of job to go too and one meal per day. They also don’t care what you know as long as you are to cowardly to say anything.
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  285. No need for all of this psycho analysis. Some people have better upbringings, better socio-economic situations, more intelligence or better connections but everyone needs to be able to go out and compete in the market with what ever attributes they have and make the best of it. They should also not need to consult with a psychologist to move forward with their objectives.
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  286. Men have always competed for women regardless of the terminology. Thats why Solomon had a thousand of them and you can be sure that there were thousands of sub 5’s in his kingdom that never got a one.
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  287.  @marriagecausesdivorce7540  You may take solace in the fact that women are expert at hiding their true character until enough assets have been accumulated to spring the divorce. Most men were young and inexperienced at relationships but there is no excuse after the first time.
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  288. I thought we all were supposed to just believe whatever the Zionist governments tell us, “trust the science” and be obedient workers on the global plantation.
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  289. There is no doubt that people tend to feel more satisfaction by committing themselves to causes that are more rewarding than merely focusing of things that provide material satisfaction or personal achievement. They are still unfulfilled unless the spiritual nature is also satisfied. That is why in all cultures, at all times there is the desire in most individuals to acknowledge and indeed worship a supreme deity.   Mark 8:36-37: For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
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  290. Women are real good at offering men what they want until the woman figures she has gotten everything he is capable of giving under the existing contract. At that point she understands that her best option is to file for divorce and cash in for money and prizes.
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  291. The appeal to patriotism is the last refuge of the parasitic elite.
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  292. He is a Zionist puppet actor for his bosses. A total facade created by the MSM. just like his friends the Clinton’s and the Bush family.
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  293. PsycHacks is without a doubt the best relationship channel on the net. However I must disagree on this particular issue. Men and women often go 50/50 on rent, groceries and other expenses. The banking cartel has since 1913 depreciated (inflated) the currency by ap. 50% every 17 years, so the dollar of 1950 is only worth 0.07. The once unassailable middle class is all but gone and the big majority of women once insulated from the competitive market vicissitudes are now struggling in an ever more dog eat dog economy. Now that the women have been “liberated” from the evil patriarchy they are debt slaves on the global plantation, just like the men.
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  294. Thats just the difference between part time escorts and full timers.
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  295. Losing the woman may not be that big of a deal and may even be a positive. The problem is all of your cash and prizes she is able to aggrandize form the “family” court settlement.
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  296. This observation of the natural traits in the normal male and female psyche explains why the entire culture promoted in the western countries for a long time now is directed at making feminized men and masculine women, resulting in a demoralized and destabilized society of weak, frustrated, depressed, and impotent but obedient workers on the plantation.
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  297. The submerging of the individual into a digital fantasy reality and the consequent loss of contact with the real world is a long planned maneuver designed to control the livestock on the global plantation. Not only will this eliminate the nuclear family which is the basis for a society of critically thinking individuals but ultimately result in a demographic disaster of population reduction. A much smaller herd of “useless eaters” having been warehoused since early childhood in the public indoctrination centers (public schools), propagandized by climate change, evolution, sexual degeneracy, germ theory, green energy, contrived conflicts, fake shootings and race baiting all while being plundered by the banking cartel are on the fast track for their final destination in the digital prison of austerity and deprivation of Agenda 2030-21.
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  298. Practically all attractive women already have lots of orbiters (simps) they can pick from whenever they choose.
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  299. You mean artistic expression they try to expel in.
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  300.  @jdsartre9520  For men. The old women don’t go over near as well.
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  301. Despite Orion’s diversion into Schopenhauer even highly competent men seek out intimacy and sexual satisfaction from women. Would be a lot easier and less costly for them if that need were not there.
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  302. TV “entertainment” is propaganda that is all staged just like our political puppets in the fake congress and the fake presidency. They are just actors fronting for the real rulers who care nothing about party labels and just use whichever left-right dichotomy suits the current environment while the real agenda goes on regardless of which actors are on stage.
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  303.  @Ace.0.0.0.  You probably didn’t have that many assets to forfeit. Lots of women would benefit if the husband left so she could keep half his stuff and then monkey branch to the next simp.
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  304.  @momo99123  lots of people want someone else to raise their kids. The school or the grandparents are often given the job.
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  305. Gomez and Morticia are a bizarre fantasy only fit for a tv sitcom. Hollywood will never portray a western white culture marriage and nuclear family as successful because that goes against the Frankfurt School culture for changing people into a society of degenerates, looking to the government for guidance for every aspect of their life rather than being autonomous critical thinking individuals.
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  306. It’s a high risk endeavor no matter what
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  307. Both the emotions a person feels and the reasoning they develop to deal with those emotion are I think, going to be mostly formed by their childhood environment or culture from which everything that they encounter is judged. People can alter their perception and therfore change their reasoning but this will probably take a long time to happen after they have experienced a lot over time. We have not evolved but are coded at inception with whatever genetic material we have to work with. There is no mechanism whereby any new or additional genetic sequences can be added later. The millions of years canard is just a way for the evolutionists to make their baseless random chance argument seem plausible. If it were possible, there would not only have to be a scientific mechanism apparent but the resultant transitional organisms would also everywhere in the many millions of fossils now unearthed. There are none, nor or there any transitional organisms with us today. If a primitive person were kicked out of the tribe, I think their chances of survival would be much better than that of the great majority of people today. Those early generations had no amenities, or conveniences that we take for granted today. Even as far back as my grandparents who struggled during the Great depression in rural Arkansas, they had no running water, gas, elec., plumbing or insulation in their house. They had to live off their own land for the most part. Most people today wouldn’t know where to begin. All they know is how to push a cart down the supermarket isle. To these rural individuals, the notion of someone sitting around ruminating about psychological motivations and complex sexual interactions would have been very curious.
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  308. In a healthy society this topic would not even come to the surface anymore than the notion that there is a some kind of person as a “transexual’ rather than just a mentally ill individual. The best way to change society is to change the people and changing society is the goal according to Black Rock CEO Larry Fink, who’s companies (almost 90% of the S.P.500) received over 2 trillion in 2020 under cover of the “virus.” Trump’s no1 individual donor was the early transgender promoter, billionaire Paul Singer. This is all big money and a big impact on the nonstop attack on men and especially white men in the west. The so called “entertainment” industry and academia are also part of this rot. The ultimate goal of this Frankfurt School assault on western culture is to feminize men, divide the sexes and destroy the foundation of civilization, the nuclear family.
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  309.  @drtox06  The sex will almost alway stop after awhile, no mater what.
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  310.  @chercher304  Women are almost always the ones who withdraw sex and intimacy after they have been married a while.. Thats why prostitutes claim that wives are what drive their business.
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  311.  @ytano5782  If he didn’t know, then he might as well be a homeless person walking around the outside of the building looking for aluminum cans.
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  312. We could also add the 2010 movie “Contagion” to the list along with the Barcelona games of 1992.
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  313. I am not an expert on this but I don’t think overall there is that much difference generally between the sexual activities of say a liberal agnostic and a Bible Belt fundamentalist. Women will monkey branch around for the best simp they can land.
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