Comments by "Grey Matters" (@o0GrayMatters0o) on "Why Absent Fathers Harm Children and Ruin Society" video.

  1. "i strongly admire all the men who are present in their children's lives" so a man gets strong admiration from you for meeting responsibilities that he himself created!? no. the role of father does come with respect, yes, but raising a child you created is an unspoken obligation that simply allows one to avoid the title of dead-beat p.o.s. anyone that brings life into this world and is not present is simply a dead-beat p.o.s. all others start at the base-line level of doing what they should. dad's that do a good job and are 100% present are in the same pile as those who try.
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  2. i read it as "i strongly admire a man that has sex with a woman, fills her with his seed, and doesn't abandon the seed once it sprouts." in reality, even dads that are in but not a part of their kids lives, or who financially provide for the kid, but are emotionally distant, are mostly p.o.s's. it's like someone going to the pet store and buying a dog, you don't get kudos for pouring water and food in the dog's bowl. "i strongly admire people that buy dogs and don't dump them on the side of the road when times get hard." bruh
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  3.  @Ghs--173  so commendable.
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  4.  @sararichardson737  neglect is a form of abuse. if you bear children and neglect to care for their physical, mental, and emotional well-being, you have done harm to them. not doing harm is not creating the opportunity for directly causing the harm done by not providing the safe-guards of mental, physical, or emotional support needed for the seed to merely survive. At that point, not starting the fire that does the damage is the solution. The fathers that are that dysfunctional set the wheel in spin to cause the harm they directly or indirectly cause with their lack of positive action. The world does not need those types of genes in the pool. Those types of men do more of a disservice by simply reproducing, regardless of their intention during physical intercourse. Oops babies are almost literally most often better off being miscarried. Nobody needs those bastards to make more little bastards. Leave your genes out of the pool big dawg's, or go breed more puppies to buy your drughs and alcohol that you escape your responsibilities with. fatherless kids are puppies that end up in the pound on a waiting list of pain till they're put down. you selfish fuks. women and men, with their own agenda's and list of wants needs. It disgusts me when a single mom talks about going out or dating because she has "needs." Betch, you need to raise your seed.
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