Comments by "Furious Destroyah" (@furiousdestroyah9999) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1.  @tzumer2534  I feel like you literally just threw in there all the possible negative effects from everything ever and wrapped it with a ribbon that says "porn addiction". I doubt it even causes a tenth of those, and that's being really generous
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  2.  @pussnuts  Yeah you're right. It seems like it comes down to parents needing to recognize and accept their children's maturity instead of just micromanaging them forever
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  3. So I grew up in an environment where every single little mistake I made was overexaturated to unimaginable proportions, so every time I try or have to do something I'm constantly thinking about how I'm gonna fail and it's gonna bring the end of the world so I'm paralyzed with fear of doing anything and I don't know if it's because of this overthinking but I usually fail at least 90% of those. This is happening before the action, during the action and after the action, until the next action I have to perform. Somebody just end me please
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  4.  @IncubiAkster  "If you are still telling your kid to brush their teeth when they are past 10 or so, youve messed up" You see, the trick here is to give up on them and let them ruin their teeth so you can then go full "I told you" mode because you need to be in the right at all costs At least depression doesn't exist so that can't possibly be what's causing them to be unable to do it /s
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  5.  @tzumer2534  I guess I'll need those studies since more than half of these side effects sound completely ridiculous (although a few of them seem to be more or less accurate)
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  6. I feel all you guys' pain. Needing to hide your hobbies/the one thing you enjoy/coping mechanism shouldn't be a thing
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  7. Parents are still responsible though, regardless if they grew up with other beliefs or whatnot. Just the way mine handled gaming was a large factor in our relationship decaying to a point of no return. They taught me that if I need/want to do something that they don't approve of I need to do it behind their backs, as well as always be vigilant in case they walk by so they can't see what I'm doing, whatever it is Oh also don't forget the fact that it made me be unable to open up to them about anything, especially preferences. Not the worst parent-child relationship out there but they didn't do me or themselves any favors by acting the way they did
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  8. I was never able to come to terms with this aspect of life. So I'm being treated unfairly but I just have to endure it because "it is what it is" ? Doesn't make any sense
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  9. I mean I can see both perfectly clear but it seems to me like the bad heavily out weights the good and it's not even close
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  10. Why have fun when you can not have fun? Pretty much sums up the chore thing
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  11.  @Sunnywastakentoo  What if you just entered loading screen for LoL and your parents come in and say "you have 10 minutes left, after that go out for a walk or something" Like I'd understand if it was something more serious but you have no reason to hard cap somebody like that when it's not a really important matter. It'd be another case if you gave them ample time to finish up and they ignored you and started another match though
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  12. Yeah, I use daydreaming to dodge boredom but it's a double edged sword: sure, it can get rid of boredom but boredom is also a major part of studying, so my brain is essentially trying to stop studying every time I try to. It's physically impossible for me to pay attention for more than 10 minutes if I'm not really interested in the subject which just isn't realistic
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  13.  @mafumofu986  Maybe. Nothing wrong with wishing for a better and more just society
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  14. I don't think I want to get used to this. It hurts so much
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  15. Yup, the story of my life (or rather childhood) basically. Struggling with school and bullying, turning to videogames, getting restricted and being forced to be sneaky into progressively hating (may be a bit too strong of a word but you get the point) parents more and more. In the end we get a 20 years old that's a suicidal/depressed, nihilistic, anhedonic, potential ADD, potential Depersonalization Disorder and extremely anxious yound adult I wish to the people that also find themselves in this situation to be able to overcome it and not just fucking give up on life
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  16.  @myhr2320  Yeah, I wouldn't quite call my gaming passionate but it's something that allows me to keep my sanity while attempting to live without saying screw it to everything and actually function somewhat successfully. My entire family gets really grumpy when it comes up and it's honestly quite disheartening. How am I supposedly wasting my life on the one thing that allows me to keep on living? That's so contradictionary
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  17. Same and it's been years since I've met up with a group of people at this point. It's extremely difficult not to feel like an alien when I'm literally the only person locally that likes the things that I do. Feels like we're an entirely different species altogether
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  18.  @galek75  Online friends can be better friends than real life friends
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  19. Same. It's pointless to talk about inattentiveness, nobody can force me to put brainpower into something I'm not interested in and some cravings are manageable with a bit of time while others just eat me from the inside until I manage to forget about them
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  20. Man I wish I could meet a person like yourself. My entire relationship experience so far has been that if you don't like football you're weird/an invalid human being. Can't find even a single person that holds even one of the same interests as me
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  21. It's already very bad and it's only going to get worse. The owning class will keep limit testing as long as we continue to let them to.
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  22. I've never been diagnosed but I feel like I've had ADHD as a child and nearly grown out of the hyperactive part, so now I'm stuck with ADD and some fractions of hyperactivity, but not enough to be able to classify for it. Shit's whack
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  23. Pause that multiplayer game the same way you pause those 666 likes baby
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  24.  @anzaia2164  Depression for sure makes this impossible. I don't think I've ever experienced any small good thing that would make even confronting 1 of the bad things worth it, never mind being constantly blasted by thousands of bad things day in and day out while a single good thing happens like twice a year
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  25.  @mathiaschristensen1194  Unpopular opinion but all subjects besides maybe your native language and maths should be completely voluntary. Studying something you're passionate about which allows you to excel > studying garbage that you don't give a shit about
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  26. Omg I'm literally playing ds1 for the first time right now, though it's been a few days since I got the drake sword. Zweihander ftw
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  27.  @goblethisgoblethat  Regarding your penultimate paragraph, people really tend to try to quantify and label things. We have IQ even though it really narrows down intelligence and is borderline useless, we have test scores even though they don't communicate much but are still seen as be all end all, we have thousands of labels to narrow down different things, from disabilities to sexual preferences and they mostly seem to work against us yet we keep taking them as gospel. I really hope humanity can grow out of this stupid concept of grouping any and every thing and just see things individually for a change. There is more nuance to things than just white, black and the occasional gray
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  28.  @maiqtheliar2260  Well there are some exceptions, like when you have the drive to become something or just in general are fascinated by a certain subject. I was talking more about generic studying where you have to study everything, not just things you might enjoy or need for your future, that'd be a bit bizarre
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  29. Same here. Mostly self learned English and also kind of started to understand some other languages
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  30. ​ @Moto_Medics Lmao just pay that guy in the first bell of awakening 20k souls 😂
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  31. No friends, no love, no money, no degree, no experience, no will to live...
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  32.  @Sunnywastakentoo  Welp, I suppose kids are kids after all. The exception can't necessarily be the rule
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  33.  @maiqtheliar2260  Damn, people get addicted to studying and homework?
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  34.  @Vallinen92  Damn, I even added an /s just in case and this still ended up happening XD
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  35. Now that I think about it I might experience this too. Sometimes I start thinking in different languages and the thoughts aren't always synchronized with one another, like other people are talking inside of my head, but those people are me. Huh
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  36. Yeah I had and am currently still having a similar experience with my own mother. She's currently on her third abusive husband from which she's escaped once so far and they just got back together again. I also practise the whole "be a good boy" thing but a while back I lost my capability to care about things so I've just kind of been operating on autopilot, just doing what others want from me and nothing more. I don't want anything, although I somewhat desire death but not actively, it'd just be something nice finally happening or a kind gesture from somebody
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  37. For me the real world pretty much feels like the demo of actual life. It's missing core functions that are locked behind some kind of unexplainable wall and the very diminished experience we do get is very limited, your life could end in a matter of minutes today, tomorrow or the day after, etc. As long as you stay alive it'll never change but you don't know what's after death, there could be an even worse hell or access to the genuine experience and this also happens to be the philosophy behind my nihilism. People out there are talking like this existence is some kind of ultimate gift graciously given to us by something but I can't relate because suffering is all I've known during my lifetime.
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  38. I still can't understand what's so bad about it... If you just an orgasm then porn is the best way to achieve that, and if you want an actual relationship then just go out there and get into one. Don't see what porn has to do with relationships except arguably reducing sexual activity with the partner
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  39.  @mathiaschristensen1194  Hence the unpopular opinion, not interesting and not vital for at least a certain part of your life = useless imo
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  40.  @Jazzafritsch  And yet you have people that get bullied to the point where they don't want to socialize with anyone anymore at all. I agree on the other part though
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  41.  @heehokuzunoha7757  Still though, 40 days of severe brain atrophy? That's not worth going through
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  42.  @hotdog5927  "Just get into that Sigma male grindset you loser"
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  43.  @TheDhammaHub  You mean decreasing motivation in general? I can't even imagine how masturbation correlates to lower motivation in general
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  44. Nah gooning to pregnant Sonic art is lowkey based af 😂
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  45.  @Sunnywastakentoo  I honestly couldn't get your point with that reply there, except for the last point, which is ironically rather pointless since nobody would do that without expecting to be punished
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  46.  @svetavinogradova4243  If I did care then I wouldn't have shared them as I hate bothering other people. I care about the people that are close to me (well, at least as much as I can, considering I'm generally as "dead inside" as it gets) so I don't waste their time with my shit and keep everything to myself
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  47.  @IncubiAkster  20 years old here and that's pretty much what happens, usually they try to make me promise them emotionally and if I don't do something they do this thing where they try not to show it but they're visibly really disappointed Well, not that I care though, if they don't make me then I'm probably not gonna do anything anyway
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  48.  @tovrobi5097  Be interested in what you're doing I suppose. Certain subjects overpower the whole boredom coping mechanism but you can't decide what you want to learn at school and studying outside of it is just wasted time
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  49.  @cornloin9732  For the body? Yeah, I can't imagine that doing any real damage, but for the mind? I prefer my sanity over some soul stuff
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  50.  @jonathanesayiasberhe3222  It was actually from a story I read. Extremely tldr but there the main character had a very kind and cheerful childhood friend that they later got together with. At the time of me writing my previous comments that's all I wanted but now I can settle for just finding such a person I suppose (although that may again be a bit unrealistic since are there even such people left on this planet?) This may sound a bit strange or perhaps even childish but it's the one and only thing I've ever wanted in my life, the only thing that seems worth any effort at all
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