Comments by "Luiz Devil" (@luizdevil6855) on "Type Ashton"
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@Pheephy27 Its not that I have to "let" my wife (I'm not married yet) do anything.
Its that as we are married, we form a union of shared decision, that's what marriage is, its not about love. You can love anyone you want without a social contract.
Marriage is about becoming a unit, a unit should move in the same direction.
Its not that I "let" or "command" her, but just that it takes 2 votes to do things when you are married, and if the woman vote no and I vote yes, then we don't reach agreement and she can't do that, we have to reach agreement or the contract is void, via a divorce.
I would never let a woman do abortion, if she wants to break the marriage and leave, fine, but after she has the kid and I'll take care of the kid she doesn't want.
So, in a way, she does need my permission because I have 50% shares in the "company" that is the marriage.
If you think that a family is like a company and your wife is like a stakeholder, she does have to consult you, and the same way apply to the other side.
If I want to do anything, I have to consult with her, and I need permission from her. Because she has 50% of the shares.
That's what marriage used to mean.
And the entire purpose of the "business" is literally the good of the children, killing the unborn goes against it, by definition.
If a woman don't want to submit to that contract, then she won't marry me, but on the other hand, I should have no duty to take care of that child, or even contribute any income (fuck alimony laws), which is why abortion is prescribed.
Woman want freedom from responsibility, that's what they want.
On the other hand, man can just not marry and you get single-mother families.
The contract of marriage was never about freedom, but about responsibility.
The usefulness of that contract is broken when woman can unilaterally break it and man are required to keep financially supporting the family.
That's ludicrous.
Suffrage of woman wasn't a good thing, no one was forcing woman to marry.
Sure, they having the same rights in the eyes of the law, I'm totally 100% in favor of that.
But woman having freedom from all of the responsibilities in the contract of the marriage just make the point of having a contract moot.
Now we need suffrage of man, just get rid of alimony altogether, that would make the contract of marriage balanced and useful again.
I really think that the marriage should bind both the man and the woman to the responsibility of raising the children.
So, divorces shouldn't be allowed.
Yes, it takes freedom away, that's what responsibility does.
You lost your freedom because you made a tiny human that has needs and now you have obligations, simple as that.
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