Comments by "May L" (@MeiinUK) on "South Korea's population crisis: why is nobody getting married or having babies?" video.

iloveIndia-re7sd : A lot of people had already sacrificed. Just that they don't know it. That is why.... even when some children's parents were adulting.. the child were already working. So children are working for the adults.. and then adults children.. and also getting degrees.. and then teaching.. and paying taxes etc... I mean.. it's endless...
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iloveIndia-re7sd : I am speaking from personal experiences !!! Basically !!! So.... Please don't be rude, and please don't assume that my label says "in the UK" meant that I did not suffer either. My parents are from HK.. and we have seen it grow from farm villages, as well as running businesses here in the UK as well... as well as us kids, needing to take care of domestic chores as well as working in the family business, as well as going to school as well. As well as translating.. .as well as dealing with adult grown up admin work. As well as being there for our grandparents too... It is a LOT.... That is even before other countries caught up, and set down their own laws and solidified their soveignty. Please do not be rude here. I am tired of a lot of these "media upon media" details... What other people went through, you would not know, at all...
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iloveIndia-re7sd : Why don't you think before YOU speak !!! Just because you can see what I write on the internet, and that we can communicate, does not by any means that I should need to suffer so. If you don't have anything UNPERSONAL to say, then DO NOT SAY IT !!!!!!!!!! Cos frankly, I don't give a damn any more. I am also tired of people assuming that others did not sacrificed at all... Absolutely rubbish.
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iloveIndia-re7sd :I am respecting the poster, by responding honestly and directly to her vlog... I see that as respect, to be honest. Even though I can see that English is not your first language, and that there are opinions that you do not like to listen to. And you cannot tell the differences between somebody responding, in kind.... Like a Q and A.. to your own personal preferences.
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iloveIndia-re7sd : Remember that you got personal first, and assume that this is a direct attack on you. I tried to use my wisdom on these youngsters.. who are making choices... right now. And yes.. many of us didn't have choices. And it didn't work out either. So... Sorry, I don't wish to speak to you any more.. India has done a lot of harm to the UK, a lot ! .... Sometimes, you don't see the knock on effect.. That butterfly effect.. causes.. damages... it doesn't go down the trajectory that we assume it would.
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Well... that is to be created, in the privacy within their relationships.... and to be fair... many couples now... even in Europe.. have kids early... and then also take kids with them on their travels too. So it isn't as uncommon as people assume or think. And you can indeed have a healthier body too.... post birth, but just look after it before giving birth... and take care of it too, post after. Don't have too much junky things, but as usual... the lowest dominator.. what a child finds fresh and decent, is going to be both nourishing for the adults.. as well as kids. Cos it has the exact same building blocks. So there doesn't need to be anything fancy, or creative. That is a misnomer really. But that's what illusions you create for yourself...
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@japesicle : Well dementia isn't the be all and end all... And yes, you could also have genes editing as well.. from when the baby was a foetus.. that is now being carried out any way? So therefore... dementia could possibly be either reduced or eliminated. So... and dementia doesn't necessarily mean... "this is end of life", there are roundabout ways to do things as well... Capitalism kind of broke away social fabrics.. but.... it just needs adjustments. Before.. people only created things which were healthy, and good for the body, it is with globalisation, and cross selling, which kind of ruined the diets.. A lot.
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In the USA, when this happened, this is whereby, they created an entire.... generation of "Oprah's TV"... Same here in the UK too... "Jeremy Kyles"... just a short way to discuss... issues. As in.... "we are the middle men here, but we wish you to work through this together, and let's hug"... I have been watching this kind of TV since my teenage years. 19 to now, I am 46. Still single. I didn't want to be single.. but in recent years, and seen the exposures.. and what is indeed happening in HK.. and everywhere else.. I am opting out as well. I rather go down euthanasia route.. Which.. it did increase and it did happen here in the UK. Since the introduction of Facebook. I can't handle the so called Metaverse, and I do not wish to handle the Metaverse. I didn't think much of the diplomats before.. but now I can see why many choose to go into politics. To be honest, cos we cannot see the wood for the tree sometimes. Literally, people do not get it, they don't do it. We don't have access... and even if you are to be the hero in a situation, the other person doesn't believe you. And then there are those individuals, that had always been staying inside actual academic environments... and now, I can see that even that is fruitless and pointless too. Trying to create a "slow educational environment, step by step , age by age" is also pointless now... Collapse of society as we know it.
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It is one of those things as well.... that... it used to be similar too.... for chinese, exactly the same... but.... this is whereby a lot of people doesn't even have this... nowadays, and actually your siblings protests.... or whatever... So.... This is one of those things as well.
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If you see the gazillion amount of videos online, most end up in divorces... so.... and then, the usual excuses happen... "it was a cultural clash"... Anyway, you need a network... of helpers, and it goes both ways...
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You do have to create romantic love... cos the opposite of romantic love, is actually trauma. So you're asking me... do you have lament, or do you have... anxiety ? For a woman, to receive oxytocins... and to relate... they cannot have that fear chemical inside their body ? And actually this.. literally.... harms your birth production as well. So.... that is why, you do need to be in a calm place, and to feel calm.... cos anxiety causes bad births. But the other thing is... it kind of goes against education as well. If you're too logical... even though you need to.. that itself, goes against your ability to look after the child too. As in, you needed to fill in a pre-set of memories, even before birth.. unless your mother-in-law helps you... cos otherwise, it can be very scary to have children. the rejection of the child, is also very high as well ? Those discussions between men and women, before marriages... are.. they need to be let go of.... Cos you will encounter a lot of emotional aspect of life as well.... And as humans as we are..."we can only be kind, once we have been through it ourselves".... but that is that tug o war thing going on too. It's so hard.
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Remember that, also in places like China.. or in HK... like my mother was... it was a case of..."children raising children" as well ? So a lot of people doesn't want children... cos we have been used. And so many so called "mothers" or "grannies" were so.... we had to raise.. even as children, we had to raise or help with our grandparents, as well as our parents too... So... This is so so so hard... to do.
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