Comments by "May L" (@MeiinUK) on "1M Views"
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China is a very big place.. and it is very political.. that is why these men, wants to marry into a smaller Russian town or city.. Whereby they could have a genuine personal and private life? Most elites inside the PRC cannot have that really... as a life.. So.... When you see a country in terms of its size like 1.2 billion people.. Can you have a private life? No, you cannot. Even if you avoid some situation with your parents.. either of them.. you would also find other situation that would affect you indirectly. So.... Most people living in small communities, could have more of a private scenario.. but otherwise.. everybody does not... and this is whereby it fails.. as a society... It's very weird.. if I dress up... two responses occurs.. One.. if it was a foreign guy... a local white guy, he would open the door for me. I would say "thanks". But when it is a chinese older guy... he would make a nasty comment... but then again, maybe I am not used to that either.. Cos in his mind, he is swearing in a way.. and my .. or my younger position should be more... "kowtow-ish" towards him.. So you see.. how do you survive this constant... and continuous... older/younger ettiquettes ??? Exactly how ??... Never mind the public and work life, Vs the private and personal life. It's really funny... in another youtube video... the video showed how a young guy, defended his mother.. He also dressed AS good as she does too. So that he doesn't show HER up... outwardly. Now, this is called "smart"... You need to show where your loyalty lies.. So... He doesn't critise his mother.. for not dressing up. She might be ready to give up on life... and she is making an effort to stay alive... and do her thing... which is taking care of herself, since he is old enough. So why shouldn't that happen ? At all ?...
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Hong kongers have a cheek , cos most aren't even Chinese themselves ? Many are mixed race already. So... If you care to look at the feng shui aspect, you can see that it is so, and as such. My cousins have never called me bill jer. She has bad friends and I had to be her wing woman. My mother flips. And yet she takes advantages of me. None of them respect my wishes either. You would stick up for family, but they don't. They're another level altogether... I wish I did go back to HK when I was younger. There is truly a reason why the nsl was enacted. I'm the youngest in my family, I shouldn't need to take care of so many after me either. Nine of them after me ! And they fight like cats and dogs !!??? I am glad that all of them are now married and I haven't, cos frankly, I don't give a damn any more..... I've had enough. Many people are like myself too. I'm 1 of 4. Only 2 of us have kids. My mother is 1 of 7. It's tough to help raise all 7. So... The male tend to have more kids. So yes, we help raise them too. Most women in my family tree doesn't have kids.. or unlike some idiot that tries to push til they get a boy. One friend has 5. Most I know go for IVF to ensure a boy. So .... What you are talking about is nonsense actually... When I was in hospital. Nobody visited me. That was a surprise. Yet, when they had kids.. we have to help out. I painted my oldest cousins house. Cheap child labour. Babysat how many times. Even his own sister runs off and avoid the work... My own brother berates me. He is right though, I don't help him enough... Til I cannot. According to my cousin, I am ungrateful. Lol. I'm tired. Everybody is tired. Entertaining arguments. Entertaining favouritism. Taking one side. Not the other side. Losing all the time, to let one win. So the other one doesn't get jealous. Crawling on the floor cos you lose a card game. Cos you made your brother mad. So he doesn't hit you. Being hit on the hand cos your brother just got hit by your dad. My dad doesn't hit me. But then my brothers knew how to get back at my mother and my dad. Cos they would pretend to teach us and then whack us on the knuckles hard with a ruler til it burns. He would buy canes from HK too each summer to threaten us. I would hide them. If you think that triad life is tough. Imagine what is normal family life.
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