Comments by "Marissa." (@marissa._) on "Do Women Really Have it Harder? Male Feminists vs Antifeminists | Middle Ground" video.

  1. Abstinence is 100% effective. So I'm not sure what the o.p. is talking about. If it's forced that's obviously rape. If its consensual, you have a choice to simply not have sex and abstain from it. Its not hard and its not rocket science. It takes 2 to make a baby. An egg and a sperm. All the blame literally CAN'T be placed on just one side! A dude can't get you pregnant if you don't have sex with him. A girl can't get impregnated if you don't have sex with her. If she keeps her legs shut and he keeps his d**k in his pants...no impregnation can take place. Why is that so hard for people to comprehend? Its willful ignorance at this point! Edit: I, myself identify as a feminist and its weird how some women talk about men getting vasectomies and yet...they don't wanna take any sterilization methods of their own because "too much down town" and "full on surgery"! Some of y'all complain about pregnancy and yet...those same people are the first ones to lay down and f*** and not take any precautions for themselves! All the blame shouldn't be leaning ONLY on one side, especially when you consciously & consensually decide to have sex with him/her! (*I'm NOT referring to rape, which is NON-consensual!*) There's multiple different sterilization/precautions methods for women to take too: • Hysterectomy • Salpingectomy • Tubal ligation (*which is reversible just like a vasectomy*) • Abstinence (*which is 100% effective*) • Masturbation/self-pleasure (*which is also 100% effective*) • Birth control (*IUD, Nexplanon, etc.*)
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  2.  @SolSister10596  1. How is not having sex "unrealistic"??? 🤔 There's plenty of people that are celibate, asexual, etc. So no, its not "unrealistic." Its very realistic for a lot of people. 2. Is sex the ONLY "cornerstone" for connection??? 🤔 There's a lot of different ways a romantic couple can connect that doesn't involve having sex. Going out on romantic dates like picnics, romantic restaurant, etc. Going to the movies, taking a cooking or pottery class, going to an amusement park, etc. I agree, sex isn't just for procreation. Its also NOT an important part of a relationship. Its not the only way to connect with a person and its weird how people think they have to stick they're "p" in someone's "v" or someone being penetrated, under the guise of ‘cOnNeCtiNg!’ Abstinence isn't unrealistic (*yes, there's rape and incest. That's NOT what I'm referring to. I'm referring to those who AREN'T/HAVEN'T been in those awful, painful, dangerous situations!*)
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