Comments by "Sandy Tatham" (@sandytatham3592) on "Omar Suleiman: Islam | Lex Fridman Podcast #352" video.

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  12. ​ @hoodietay2083 : I have heaps of Muslim friends!!! And I criticise Islam all the time with them. My problem with smooth-talking Imams like Omar Suleiman is that they don't discuss the controversial dimensions of Islam. For example, the terrible rights for women and girls (child marriage, multiple wives, no consent for sex in marriage, wife-beating, guardianship, inequality in divorce, to name a few things). They also don't say much about the perpetual "jihad in the way of Allah" that occurs on a daily basis in some part of the world, and the creeping #sharia in the West. Around 15 years ago I was invited by some Muslim friends in Morocco to become a Muslim. I said I must first study Islam before I can accept it. And what I found shocked me. And that was before the wave of fundamentalist Salafism had swept through the Middle East and North Africa, and women had begun to cover totally in black, and girls were rarely seen. Since then, we've had the Arab Spring and now conditions are either more authoritarian or unstable in those countries. My heart will not give up on fighting for all females and children to have the rights that we follow in the west, ie. those found in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. This includes the child's right to have genital autonomy. All boys born into islam have their penis mutilated in the name of Islam. That's child #abuse. I don't care what a grown man does to his body, and what 'covenants' he makes with his god, but a child cannot give informed consent. Without having any say over it, he loses around one third of the sensitivity and natural functioning of his penis. It's barbaric.
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  15. ​ @Remyyalta : As an Unbeliever living in the Middle East, I take notice of what ALL Muslims SAY and DO. I am not able to assess whether leaders like Osama bin Laden or Sheikh Yusuf al-Qaradawi had the last word on Islam, nor can I say that the spiritual Sufis have it right. None of this is my business as a kaffir, an infidel. I just notice what Muslims say and do, and even that can change very quickly. Politics in the Middle East is impossible to separate from religious ideology. Islam is a complete way of life (a deen), with laws for Muslims and laws for how the Unbelievers are to be treated. It's not just a personal religion, like Christianity is. Islamic countries have Constitutions which say that the Qur'an and the traditions of Muhammed (the Sunnah) are what guide their governments. You are right that a huge number of Muslims have never studied their scriptures. They are happy to believe what they've been told, and Islam has a very mesmerising quality, especially in the five daily prayer format and the soft words of their sheikhs. Islamic fundamentalism is also attractive to those young men who don't see themselves getting married easily (polygamy ensures that there is a shortage of females), and if they are killed in the act of jihad against the Infidels it is believed they are able to intercede in Heaven for up to 70 relatives [Sunan Abi Dawud 2522], which is of great value. These young men are also very useful to their powerful and corrupt leaders as jihadi warriors. But maybe Islam has always been like that? It only gained a significant following after Muhammed received the 'revelations' about jihad, war booty and sex slaves. For his first 13 years of relatively peaceful preaching, he attracted a very small number of around 175 followers. Then during his ten years in Yathrib (Mecca) he grew very quickly in power and stature, and raids on caravans and villages began. Quite soon after his death, Islamic militaries had invaded and conquered the largest area of the known world at that time.
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  37.  @NobodySpecial420 : My bias is towards evidence of claims. I've spent hours trying to find evidence that pagan Arabs had the widespread custom of burying alive their healthy girl babies and I can't find anything other than a mention in a poem a few hundred years after the life of Muhammed. If you could provide me with a link to some evidence I would appreciate it. Otherwise I have to assume that it was a 'story' that, when repeated often enough, it becomes believed. This is what we call today an 'urban myth'. Same with your idea that the "legal age of marriage within Islam is puberty". Can you provide me one scriptural references to back this up? No Muslim so far has been able to. Probably because there is none, and Islamic scholars are clear that there is no lower age limit for marrying off your daughter, only that you should ensure her body won't get damaged by sexual penetration when she is still very small. Thankfully, Muhammed was infertile in his older years and didn't impregnate his child bride, prepubescent Aisha, otherwise she might have died giving birth. Today in countries like Iran, Yemen and Afghanistan it is often preferred that a girl attain the age of puberty in the house of her husband so he can be sure that he is the only one who is having sex with her. She also becomes more malleable when married off before attaining sexual maturity, and less likely to be disobedient. If Arab women were "not allowed to inherit", can you tell me how Muhammed's first wife Khadija became a wealthy businesswoman? And these things that Muhammed supposedly revealed to improve the life of Arab women was a pretty low bar to set because other cultures in the surrounding areas of today's Israel, Jordan and Egypt had much better standards of rights for women. Even Aisha said "I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women." [Sahih al-Bukhari 5825] Did I mention anything about a veil? How Muslim women or any other women dress doesn't really bother me. The Bible is a very different collection of writings than the Qur'an, which is believed by Muslims to be the literal word of Allah as revealed to Muhammed. The Bible is a 'descriptive' book which tells of certain covenants made by certain people for a certain time. If the Qur'an was the same, then Muslims could reject a lot of things that don't sit well with them in the 21st century. But we all know that straying even a tiny bit from the words of the Qur'an, or the Sunnah of Muhammed, is haram.
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  50.  @mahyargharehdaghi9383 : I'm not "making a claim". I'm stating LEGAL FACTS. Here's the list of ten countries which have the death penalty for male apostates from Islam today: Afghanistan, Brunei Darussalam, Iran, Malaysia, Maldives, Mauritania, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, United Arab Emirates and Yemen. I don't believe this penalty comes from the Quran (many verses were lost). It comes mainly from Sahih Bukhari, Hadith No 84:57, where Muhammad said, “Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.” I don't care who comes to this conclusion, or how they make this interpretation, but you could easily pursue this question with Islamic organisations who offer free advice. I only care because Muslims have little freedom in the world. In most countries a person born into a Muslim family cannot convert out of Islam without being killed or punished severely. This is from Humanists International and the-right-to-apostasy-in-the-world... "In many other countries apostates face social stigma or are actively discriminated against or persecuted by the state... even when there are no official laws stating that ‘apostasy’ is illegal. For instance, in Kuwait, apostates can lose certain rights, like the right to inherit property from Muslim relatives. Moreover, the government does not issue documents stating a change in religion or belief, unless the person has converted to Islam, making apostasy de facto illegal." I know that in Egypt it is IMPOSSIBLE to legally or officially leave Islam if you've been born into a Muslim family. That means that your children, and their children, and their children will all remain Muslim no matter what they believe. It's a closed system which prevents Islam from losing any members. And if a person is known to have left their Islamic belief they might have trouble getting a job, or having work done on their home, or they will lose many other privileges which are taken for granted by the Muslim community. If an ex-Muslim speaks openly about not believing in Islam they will quite likely be jailed for a period of time, because it is said to cause "disruption in the land" if someone is believed to be critical of the dominant faith of the country. I've spoken to young men in both Morocco and Egypt who fear this. They said I must never tell anyone in the community about their lack of faith in Islam. They live in fear of being discovered and punished or shunned by their family and community. I hope this helps you. What country do you live in?
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