Comments by "Lorri Lewis" (@lorrilewis2178) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1.  @ThatGuyz82  I'm not having sex with someone I barely know AND I'm not having sex with someone I have no emotional bond with. Women want an emotional bond AND sex together. Casual sex is more costly and risky for women than for men. You guys are all over the map. You don't want a woman with a high body count, yet you expect women to have sex early on before there is any bond or established relationship. You can't have both.
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  2. You couldn't be more wrong.
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  3. I would never have sex within 12 days. Are you kidding me? I'm not having sex with someone I barely know. Ridiculous!
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  4.  @ThatGuyz82  If you want a lasting relationship on a solid foundation, the first thing you do is get to know the person. Statistically, the marriages that last are "best friend" relationships. You need to like them before you love them. Then the emotional bond follows and comes before a sexual relationship. In the days when couples were celibate before marriage, do you think there was no emotional bond by the time they got to the altar?
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  5. You're telling us a sob story without telling us what you SAID to her.
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  6. The analogy of going on a date doesn't work - it suggests a man asks you out because he's expecting sex at the end of the date. I thought a first date was a chance to get to know the person to see if you even have enough chemistry to go on a second date. Women want to feel their man loves the whole of them or else they start feeling lonely in the relationship. The women who complain about sex say their husband pays zero attention to them EXCEPT when he wants sex - that's never going to work and you can't ask women to put up with it.
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  7.  @chrish2112  Some women never wear makeup at all and have no plans to start.
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  8. So, you are saying you think very little of yourself.
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  9.  @Lilith-9223  The whole thing is delusional. He starts by admitting women are killing it in the workplace more than men, and never once stops to consider that men themselves have blighted their own prospects by falling behind. It's NOT that women are all looking for rich men, but they sure as hell expect someone who has their shit together. Fewer men are in that category now.
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  10.  @Christine-j7n  It's so weird. The irony is that they complain about women with high body counts too. There's a guy who made a comment on another video who complained that he can't get the beautiful women he wants, but the ones he's not attracted to keep trying to get with him. This is exactly what these guys complain that women do. Insane.
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  11. "Men are the prize." 🤣😂😆🙄
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  12. "Romantic" love isn't love though.
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  13.  @nateo200  Meanwhile, there are plenty of husbands and wives who are both doctors and who get along just fine. Your aunt indeed sounds awful, but she doesn't represent most women doctors. Most of the women doctors I've to are lovely people.
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  14. She should have asked YOU to take on the risk of pregnancy and childbirth. The US has a higher maternal mortality rate than it should, but YOU will never have to take on that risk.
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  15.  @kangarooninja2594  No one should be disrespecting anyone, but men disrespect women a million times more. There is a big difference in the responses men get on social media vs. women. Women get death and rape threats from men on a regular basis. I had to flag a comment to me on YouTube because a man said he wanted to violently rape me. He said this not once, but twice. I bet that's never happened to you.
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  16. You don't speak for all women, thank goodness. Since when is it "rebellion" to make one's own decisions as a fully grown human being?
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  17. Maybe other guys lied to her about their intentions and she didn't realize she needed better boundaries. Maybe she learned from that and decided to change, and the timing coincided with you meeting her. Some women didn't have parents to teach them anything about protecting themselves. If you think she owes you sex sooner based on her past, you are wrong. If you think she doesn't get to change, you are wrong. Maybe she doesn't think of you as a "sucker", but as a refreshing change.
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  18. Correction: Such is the life YOU made. It does not have to be that way.
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  19.  @Gnomesmusher  So, she clearly told you that what happened was hurtful to her, and she decided to never let it happen again . . . and you're MAD that she learned the lesson? You actually think she should turn around from that bad experience and let you use her and hurt her too? She doesn't owe you access to her body at the drop of a hat just because she made that mistake once. Men are not the logical sex.
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  20. Strawman argument. Just because this guy hangs out with women in the top 1% financially, does not mean the vast majority of women are trying to get there. Most women just want a well-paying job and aren't concerned about being the boss, just like most men aren't the boss. The number one field that women go into is the healthcare field. Most women aren't going to marry and have kids before they can provide for themselves. There were generations of women who did that. They couldn't leave abusive husbands once there were kids to support. Not only did they suffer, but so did their kids. You're failing to appreciate the risk women take to marry and have children if there's no safety net in terms of being able to be self-supporting if necessary. It puts women at the mercy of their husbands and women KNOW this. It's a lot harder to get an education after children have arrived, and even more so if you're trying to shield yourself/your children from a negative or dangerous home environment.
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  21. Most women outlive their husbands, so what possible difference would having once been married mean? Many older women are moving in together to support each other too. This is not some unsolvable puzzle.
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  22.  @gailainsley6939  Yeah, if a guy broke it off with me that soon because of sex, my only conclusion would be that he wasn't the least bit interested in who I am as a person. If you're in it for the long haul, you want to know the person. It did sound like the only goal was sex.
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  23. Why do I know so many divorced/widowed women in their 60s who are in brand new committed relationships with men in their age range?
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  24.  @jobunny919  Exactly. After my grandfather died, my grandmother lived alone very happily and did all the things she loved. It was only when she got to her 90s that an illness she had in her 20s, started affecting her brain. She had a paid companion for a few years, and when that wasn't enough, she moved into a nursing home. That is the same progression whether you are a man or woman. Besides, most married women outlive their husbands anyway.
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  25.  @monty5961  Good lord. You seriously missed the point. He said she wasn't equal to him because she COULDN'T chop down a tree. She should have said he wasn't equal to her because he COULDN'T do pregnancy and childbirth.
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  26. By the time a woman is ready to break up with you, she has probably spent an ice age trying to fix whatever is wrong within the relationship and been ignored. She's already done her grieving. Typically, men who say they were blindsided eventually admit they didn't take her complaints seriously enough. Women are very patient until it proves fruitless.
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  27. You live on a different planet. In most marriages with children, you have two people with full-time jobs, and the woman is STILL doing the lion's share of housework and childcare. And then men wonder why women get so tired.
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  28.  @jobunny919  My grandparents had a happy marriage where neither felt taken for granted, so she did grieve. However, once the grief softened, she lived a full active life going out with friends, having a dog, and doing all her favorite hobbies. It's a good thing she enjoyed herself because she lived 30 YEARS longer after his death!!! However, I've heard plenty of widows feel like they retired after becoming widows because their husbands were a lot of work for them. Plus, they had to take care of their husbands for years while their health declined. My grandfather died suddenly, so my grandmother didn't have to do that.
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  29. Generally, a husband will say they were blindsided by their wife announcing she wants a divorce. The wife will say she tried to tell her husband for YEARS that there were problems. Her pleas were not taken seriously, or he promised to deal with the problems and never did. The wife is disappointed again and again. Most women will make repeated attempts to fix the marriage. If nothing ever changes, she sees the handwriting on the wall. The husband's disinterest is all the information she needs. At that point, women reject the "sunk cost fallacy". They'd rather not spend the rest of their lives being miserable. This is WHY women initiate most divorces. There are exceptions and sometimes the roles are reversed, but what I explained is the most common scenario.
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  30.  @Raymond7779  First of all, this idea that women can't find men in their 30s is funny. Do you know the latest thing happening with senior citizens? Senior men who are single are finding out that the senior women they're dating DO NOT want marriage. Senior men want marriage more than senior women. Once a woman has done the husband/family thing, they're over it. There have been several articles written about this. Secondly, lots of women don't care about having a husband or children.
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  31.  @Raymond7779  LOL. The senior women have their own money and don't need to or want to marry. Lots of women are just plain tired of men. They've found through experience that men end up being a detriment to the peaceful lives they've created for themselves. They realize they are usually less happy when they're in a relationship with one.
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  32.  @psychacks  I know this is an older video, but I'm surprised that you as a mental health professional are not aware of studies showing that the closer the couple is in age, the greater success of the marriage. I didn't even go out of my way to look that up. I ran across it by accident. If I recall correctly, even a small age gap was less successful than if the couple was the exact same age.
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  33. Well, women don't to morph into callousness after ONE man breaks their heart. It happens after many. And even then, they just write men off rather than looking for revenge. Anyone who becomes a cold hearted player after just ONE heartbreak is too weak to be on this planet.
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  34. "Behind every marriage proposal is an ultimatum." What bullshit. The happy marriages I see around me happened because BOTH wanted it. No one had to demand anything. If you need to give an ultimatum, you're already with the wrong person in the first place.
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  35. Lots of older women move in together. This is not rocket science. You aren't really worried about women; you are just hoping things don't work out for them.
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  36.  @Mike-dz4vqgoiajdpgoiadj-9  I disagree that all women expect a man who earns more. They usually expect one who has something going on for himself and isn't just doing nothing with his life. There are more men NOT in the workforce at all than ever before. THAT caused the pool of eligible men to shrink.
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  37.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  You literally just said a man who will treat you right is a RARE THING. That's why men in general are not a prize - good ones are all too rare.
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  38.  @psychacks  Oh come on! That answer is beneath the intelligence I assumed for you. The point is not that we are ASSUMING women are going to fall prey to abusive husbands BECAUSE they aren't financially independent. The point is that financial independence is a safety net IN CASE. This is coming from the daughter of an abusive father and a mother who couldn't leave. My father showed no signs that he was abusive during their courtship or the first year of marriage. He didn't show his true self until after I was born.
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  39.  Rambo, John J.  So if the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior, you're telling us that YOU can't be trusted because of YOUR past.
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  40.  @georgedang449  I love when Red Pillers pull numbers right out of their ass. No citation? Just make it up! :face-blue-smiling:
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  41.  @Metalbringer92  No human's "usefulness" ends at their reproduction abilities. Anyway, who's asking you to do stuff for free? Do you mean handyman tasks? We always pay handymen for their work.
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  42. Well, this is the first time I've ever given one of your videos an upvote, Orion. I always wondered what happened to you and at least this was REAL. My issue with the Red Pill is that men go into awful relationships, and then extrapolate from those experiences that that's just how women are. Yet when a woman experiences terrible men in relationships, red pill men blame HER, saying she should have known better. But these same men seldom blame themselves for not knowing better.
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  43. Well, good for you for taking care of sick family members, but statistically that thankless task usually falls on women. And there's a study that shows more husbands leave their wives when they become seriously sick (cancer) than vice versa.
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  44.  @aqua6613  And keep in mind that most STD testing does not test for Herpes. It's no death sentence, but people assume it's included in testing.
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  45. You have to use a movie as an example because real life doesn't support your point. How you can believe the feminine symbolizes "chaos" when men are overwhelmingly behind ALL forms of unnecessary violence (wars of conquest, murder, rape, domestic violence) on this planet is rich. Millions of young women apparently have the discipline to study and graduate from college in greater numbers than men and hold down demanding careers, while more men are wasting away doing absolutely nothing. You have admitted this before. So to imply that women don't have the discipline to wield power is literally crazy. Most women work full-time AND have the risks of pregnancy and childbirth AND take on the lion's share of child raising, yet here you are, a single man pontificating about women not having discipline. We are just trying to live our lives and there's nothing easy about it.
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  46. Lots and lots of women write that same sentence, except substitute the word "women" for "men".
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  47.  @orangeandslinky  The fact that your answer focuses on vows rather than issues in the marriage is concerning. So I will ask . . . did your wife ever tell you there were issues in the marriage that bothered her?
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  48.  @joaquin67  Re-read your second paragraph. A woman following your advice who left a toxic relationship would need to find another man in order to survive long-term in life - because her "small boat" isn't going to give her enough security. Men gloss over the danger women put themselves in by depending on a man. I'm not telling anyone what to do, but I do get tired of red pill men glossing over the very real dangers women face. My father was abusive and my mother couldn't leave for too many years even though me an my siblings begged her to get a divorce. She had no clue on her wedding day that he'd turn out to be abusive. When a woman puts herself under the control of a monster with no way to support herself, it emboldens him to continue with the abuse.
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  49. The vast majority of women aren't on Only Fans or making money via their looks. Most women choosing to forgo relationships are doing it for two reasons. 1) They can support themselves far better than women in past generations. 2) Self-supporting women are unlikely to put up with toxic relationships. There are legions of young women who've written off relationships entirely. Mostly, they savor their TRANQUILITY and are wary of getting with some guy who might destroy it.
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  50.  @hanooi7450  You obviously know NOTHING about the conditions that can happen in pregnancy regardless of weight. Pregnancy and delivery by their very nature carry a risk. Women were going through all that even when obesity was rare. And with all the abortion restrictions, it is even more dangerous in those states because if the woman starts to miscarry, but not all the way, she can become septic and die. Normal procedure is to do an abortion if the fetus wasn't expelled, but doctors are terrified by the new laws, so they are allowing the women to go septic before intervening. There's a big lawsuit over it in Texas. Five women were put in great danger - one has permanent damage and one almost died. The others had to leave the state to save their own damn lives.
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  51.  @georgedang449  It should be obvious what I meant. He has chosen to live in a limited way because of ONE woman. That's a CHOICE he made. He could have chosen otherwise, but he decided to extrapolate his ex's behavior to all women.
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  52.  @inconnu4961  You married her. I assume there was no gun being held to your head.
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  53.  Tracchofyre  By the 1700s, most marriages were NOT arranged if you're talking about Europe. And the ideal was to be in love, though financial situations weighed in also (just like now). Read some Jane Austen.
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  54. You are poorly informed about feminism. Feminism DID talk about relieving men of being sole providers. Still does. They envisioned a more fluid situation that would benefit both sexes more than rigid roles ever could.
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  55.  @whenpigsfly8178  How were families more stable? Do you mean there were fewer divorces? There were fewer divorces because most housewives had no money to leave. If they could arrange to leave, they had to prove in court that their husband was either abusive or having an affair. They had to drag the family through court with no guarantee a judge would side with them even in cases of abuse. When no-fault divorce became the norm, women's suicide rates went down and domestic violence numbers went down. Divorce numbers went up because of all the women who were freed from having to take their husband to court. And how did women trade off reproduction? They've been working and having children. The recent inflation and housing price rises have nothing to do with women and everything to do with government policies. Women went through the 1980s, 1990s, and 2000s while both working and having children with affordable houses.
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  56. Women make men.
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  57.  @blusox6486  Guess what. I have stories of incredibly egregious behavior of several exes. One of them was every bit as bad as your paternity fraud ex . . . maybe worse as far as what could have happened to me as a result of what he did. You know what I don't do? Take out my revenge on other innocent men. I just quietly walked away from men, which is a hell of a lot more decent and dignified.
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  58.  @markaurelius61  If even a study doesn't convince you . . . nothing will. Women are far more often the one caring for a spouse until they die. That's why fewer widows want to remarry - they already nursed a dying man and it's hard hard work. They aren't up for another round.
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  59. Men need to ask themselves some hard questions about why they're more likely to end up in prison (violent and criminal behavior), why they die earlier (ignoring their health & avoiding doctors), why they are more likely to be murdered (because murderers are mostly men). These things are not women's fault. The men need to invest in a mirror.
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  60.  @johncrow5552  The person who issues the invitation being expected to pay for the date is simply an old rule of etiquette, not a plot against men. In spite of knowing the etiquette, I have usually offered to pay half, but most men will refuse. A lot of women say the same - that they offer to pay. I've heard TONS of women online say they prefer informal and inexpensive first dates because they don't want to feel bad or obligated if it doesn't work out. Many women also say they like "activity" first dates because there's less awkward pauses in the conversation because you are also busy doing something.
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  61.  @JohnSmith-ks5xw  I grew up with an abusive father and a mother who couldn't leave. My father's father was also abusive. Most sane people would rather not place themselves at risk.
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  62.  @kellygreenii  Of course biology matters, but it's a big mistake to think it overrides everything. Being absolutist about gender roles is a recipe for misery. Just look at the original comment about men being "stuck" being a provider. Today, only 55% of married men are sole or main providers. 45% of married men are either in marriages where the wife earns a similar salary or is the sole or main provider.
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  63.  @kimilsungthefirst6840  Let me introduce you to Jeff Bezos. 😂
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  64.  @Raymond7779  Choose your own beliefs, but there are no stats showing older women have more depression. Quite the opposite. Women can be very happy with their friends and full lives. There are stats that show widowers have more desire to remarry than widows do. That's because there are studies showing women are unhappier in marriage than men. Men really increase a woman's workload around the house. A very common sentiment among happily married older women is that when their husband dies, there is NO WAY they'd ever want to remarry. And the final nail in the coffin (literally) is that it's mostly women who have to do the caretaking for a declining spouse. Once is enough.
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  65.  @orangeandslinky  It's EXTREMELY unusual for a wife not to tell her husband why she's leaving. Most husbands will admit their wife had voiced her concerns, but that he didn't take her seriously. My best guess from your story is that she has MAJOR issues due to her upbringing.
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  66. Bunny, the doctor is perpetually blissfully unaware of women's contributions. It's all invisible to him and his audience.
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  67. Housework? Grocery Shopping? Cooking? Childcare? Errands? The doctor doesn't even think about that stuff as far as I can tell.
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  68.  @nateo200  But it's not common. Even psychological studies show men are on average more disagreeable than women.
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  69. Right? There is so much delusion here.
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  70. Jo Bunny, you dodged a bullet. Any man going crazy because a total stranger declined a drink is not a safe person to be with. And don't you just love the "You're going to die alone with cats" meme? So original.
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  71.  @STak-ju7gx  Well said.
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  72.  @deborahrozenzhak3696  The irony is that this channel is supposed to help men, and explain women to them. I don't think it does the latter because it's a man trying to explain women . . . and there's lots of errors.
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  73.  @NilsMacQ  Understanding what? The laundry list he provided of what ails men, contains issues that are within a man's control or a result of sub-optimal behavior more common to men.
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  74.  @aeganratheesh  So you believe all the men in prison are there due to false allegations?
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  75.  @johncrow5552  I've never thought in terms of "men spending money on me." My general rule is that on a first date, the person who issues the invitation pays the bill. It's better if it's not an expensive date. A coffee shop date followed by a pleasant walk in a public area is no pressure on either. After that, if you're both still interested, now you're in the "getting to know each other" stage, which should be a fairly long stage. At that stage, you should alternate who pays and each should be extending invitations to the other. There are always inexpensive or free things to do, like going to museums. As this goes further along and if there is real interest and chemistry, THIS would be the time to pull out all the stops with an occasional nice dinner out, but again, alternate it. If one can't afford that, they can cook a dinner or pack a picnic which is just as romantic.
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  76. By the time a woman is ready to break up with you, she has probably spent an ice age trying to fix whatever is wrong within the relationship and been ignored. She's already done her share of grieving by the time she leaves. Typically, men will say they were blindsided, but eventually admit they didn't take her complaints seriously enough. Women are very patient until it proves fruitless.
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  77. HOW do you manage to leave out the fact that for eons, most women were PREGNANT or GIVING BIRTH every 2 years or RAISING CHILDREN? Or DYING in childbirth? You act like the women were doing nothing but consuming a man's resources. And I haven't even mentioned the housework and cooking, nor that women were excluded from education and high-paying positions for most of history. Why would men complain about supporting women when they were the ones excluding women from careers and the ones getting them pregnant? That does not correlate to the position high-earning women find themselves in with lower-earning men. The men are not risking their lives or health in childbearing or child rearing. Maybe he's contributing some housework and cooking. I have nothing against high-earning women being in relationships with lower-earning men, but your example is inaccurate. I have a family member who is a high-earning woman and she decided to have a baby on her own. Her reason was NOT because the men she met were low-earners. Her issue was that they acted like children rather than adults.
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  78.  @logicwins3492  She's a wonderful and kind person THAT YOU DON'T KNOW. She didn't date men for several years because no one was appealing, so no one ran away. She's got a level head on her shoulders and she's a happy person. Stats on single mothers have historically featured women with little education that live in poverty. We don't yet have stats on high-earning educated mothers. They raise their children in completely different circumstances. Her child has a wonderful life and home and will have opportunities that a child growing up in poverty doesn't have.
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  79.  @natrone23  She didn't date because no one appealed to her. No, she doesn't have "issues". She's one of the most stable people you'd ever meet, yet also cheerful. She worked her ass off to get where she is. You guys love the thought of her being miserable - I hate to disappoint you, but she's happy.
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  80.  @kellygreenii  Most women aren't acting like jerks. In a competition between men and women of who is most often acting like a jerk . . . men win.
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  81.  @kellygreenii  The individual woman who tried to hit you is a jerk. But there are far more men hitting women than vice versa. And you know it.
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  82. 1) If you think men don't subject women to "relationship creep" you're crazy. There's a lot of men who attempt to corral a woman before she even has time to figure out if she likes him. Ask me how I know. 2) If you avoid being EXPLICIT about not wanting a relationship, you are an immature coward with no communication skills and worse, no integrity. Plus, being explicit from Day One means you can exit at any time with your integrity intact.
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  83.  @valecrassus7835  Also, my grandmother lived 30 years longer than my grandfather. She was happy on her own and didn't need care until her early 90s. We got a caretaker to move in and that arrangement lasted a few years until she needed a nursing home. There are many ways to solve this.
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  84. Telling yourselves that older women can't date is one of the biggest myths men tell each other. I do not see it in the real world. Right off the top of my head, I can think of a couple of women in their sixties I know. One has dated and is now in a relationship. The other is a widow whose husband died a few years ago and she is dating TWO men (no sex) and is constantly going out with them. Also, there is a new phenomenon that's come out in studies. Among older couples who are dating, with both being divorced or widowed, it's the women who refuse to remarry while the men are wanting marriage. The main reason the women don't want marriage is that they already nursed their husband until he died, and don't feel up to reliving that experience again.
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  85.  @wildfangfilm  There is a reason he never provides statistics from real studies. They don't support Red Pill memes. You will never hear from him who is marrying or real divorce statistics broken down in a precise way. And most of his audience doesn't research, so . . .
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  86.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  Except, I don't need a man. Why on earth do you think I do? :body-blue-raised-arms:
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  87. Good lord. High-earning women aren't letting their homes go to hell in a hand basket. 🙄 Nor does earning a high salary mean a woman is not fit, attractive, empathetic, or altruistic. I don't think you actually know any of these women. They are people - not cartoon villains.
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  88.  @thecurrentmoment  Her understanding of corporate accounting or (insert professional skill here) PAYS HOUSEHOLD BILLS.
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  89.  @orangeandslinky  Okay. Listen, it is NOT a normal or usual thing for a wife to fall out of love with her husband when she has a baby. In fact, in healthy marriages, if she sees her husband is a great father, she usually falls in love with him even more. Granted, taking care of a baby is very demanding and many men don't realize how exhausting it is. But that has nothing to do with a woman falling out of love with her husband, unless he leaves all the work up to her. It sounds like your wife grew up with an example of a mother who put the children first to an extreme. If that is what she experienced growing up, she had a skewed understanding of motherhood and may have thought that was required of her as a mother. Still, when she told you she wanted a divorce, didn't she say anything?
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  90.  @trpweb  I think his meaning and her meaning are not the same. I'd wager she meant equal in worth and dignity. He said it as a total put down.
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  91.  @nateo200  But you said it in reply to someone who claimed rich women have nasty personalities - which implies you believe that bs.
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  92.  @SamElliott161  Except it's NOT a well known fact that rich women are nasty to be around. Also, the more educated a woman is, the LESS LIKELY she is to divorce according to statistics. College-educated couples have the lowest divorce rate of all. It's only in the twenty-something percent range.
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  93. You literally said what I was thinking while watching the video. There was something in the man's profile that was appealing, and that's not a fantasy unless he lied in his profile. And it's kinda sad that people have to be told they should genuinely be interested in the other person, but it's true. If the man only talks about himself, she's going to think he's only interested in himself and not all curious about who she is.
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  94.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  I've known lots of successful women and they are not holding their success over their husband's heads, nor are they argumentative. Crazy.
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  95.  thezoldics7648  Where I live, slavery was abolished. Sorry to hear you live in a backward place where women are sexually enslaved.
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  96.  @NilsMacQ  Where are the lies though? What lies did we tell? I could also say the comments by men in this channel is an example of how many men neither understand nor care about women.
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  97.  @markusfreund6961  She had her own place, so she didn't need to crash anywhere.
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  98.  @maelstrom2313  I saw NOTHING in his story except a woman who was coming over to spend time with him in the early days of their dating. He is angry because he didn't get sex out of it on his ridiculous time table. He's an entitled brat.
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  99. These men are probably not familiar with the term "emotional labor", much less what it means. It's a LOT more work for a woman to live with a man than to be single or live with another woman. But men are convinced they're the prize.
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  100. Tell us you don't like women without telling us you don't like women.
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  101.  @Terrapin47-s8y  My comment was originally aimed toward the guy who complained that women don't subject themselves to dangerous jobs. I said that we'll do that as soon as men subject themselves to the dangers of pregnancy and childbirth. BTW, the recent abortion bans in several states have made pregnancy even more dangerous. When a woman has a fetus die inside her or when her water breaks in the early stages, without a complete miscarriage she can develop sepsis and die. Five women (and their husbands) who had planned pregnancies, are suing the State of Texas because the new abortion bans prevented their doctors from performing a routine medical abortion that used to be standard care in cases of incomplete miscarriages. The doctors were so afraid of going to prison if the state decided they intervened too soon, that they allowed these women to develop sepsis and almost die. One of the women now has a totally damaged fallopian tube due to the infection that may prevent her from ever having children. There are lawsuits in other states for the same reason. Things can go wrong in a pregnancy really really fast.
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  102.  @marriagecausesdivorce7540  No woman leaves a marriage "rich" unless she married a very rich man, and they are the minority. This is something you say to make men aggrieved when it hardly applies to most of them. A woman divorcing almost always has less money to live on than if she stayed married. That should tell you how bad the marriage was.
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  103.  @EC-yl7xk  My mom was pretty, thin, fun, gentle & unassuming, and a talented artist. If I showed you her wedding pictures, you'd ask what the name of that movie star was. My father was insanely jealous and a bully who abused her verbally, mentally, and physically. And this same father who was insanely jealous used to go to church and surround himself with girls in their teens & twenties - paying so much attention to them that people began to notice. Yet he'd accuse my mom of cheating if a man so much as said two words to her. Bonkers.
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  104.  @VivatVeritas1  Women don't divorce for "rewards". No matter how much money there is, divorce means having LESS money. The fact that so many women want to leave their husbands is a testament to what too many men are like to live with. Men need to take responsibility for that. Women don't go into marriage thinking they will get divorced. Women don't leave wonderful husbands.
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  105.  @kittitaskid7540  You must not know any women as friends whose stories you'd be familiar with. Do you have the slightest clue what men have put women through in relationships? Of course you don't. The difference between a hurt woman vs a hurt man, is that women just write men off, whereas men look for revenge. Not a flattering look for your sex.
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  106.  @kellygreenii  I'm making a point about group dynamics also. You are trying to make me believe that women are more likely than men to shift blame, and I'm telling you that's baloney.
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  107. There are luxury indie brand bags that are more interesting, beautifully made, and better priced. That said, lots of women don't care about partnering up, and lots of women are just tired of men. I'm sure this will not compute, because you really believe men are the prize. Never before have so many men worried about what women are doing.
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  108.  @georgedang449  Show us a link to the official stats on your numbers. Oh wait . . . :text-green-game-over:
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  109.  @valecrassus7835  Ever heard of nieces and nephews? Ever heard of specifying things out legally before you get to that point? Ever heard of Power of Attorney, which can be anyone you designate? This is not the impossible situation you want to think it is.
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  110.  @Undaglibenglaubengloben  You are focused on the women who hit on you and were willing to cheat, but not acknowledging the far greater number of women who didn't. I can do the same thing. I can choose to focus on the men who were just like those women or worse. What's the point?
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  111. These men are BLIND to women's realities in marriage and what they go through physically to become mothers, the day-to-day demands of being mothers to dependent children - not to mention that many also hold down a full-time job. More of the housework is on them too. Unless the husband takes some of the load off, the women are essentially working two jobs, yet expected to be sexy and pay attention to their husbands. The husbands don't get what they want because they ignore that their wives are drowning. Studies show that women are more unhappy in marriage than men are specifically because of how much labor falls on them, but this psychology professional is unaware of the studies?
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  112.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  The channel keeps popping up and he ASKED for feedback from women. Dude, I have been married and have had many serious relationships. If I wanted another one, I would do that. I don't want it.
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  113.  @advhawk6455  Being a woman, I know more about them than you can. This channel isn't for men to learn about women as humans. It's about providing men with a simplistic formula that they will try to shoehorn every woman and relationship situation into. I talked about my high-earning female relative here who had a child, and got a bunch of men thinking they know more about her than I do. They wanted her to fit their red pill script so badly. Saw another example. There was a 36-year-old woman who cried on social media about never having a baby because she couldn't afford another round of IVF and the door was closing. A bunch of red pill men piled on and taunted her, saying it was her fault because she waited too long. The backstory was that she had married young and struggled with infertility. She and her husband did IVF and had embryos ready to implant, and then they divorced. Her ex-husband didn't want her to use their embryos and they were destroyed. So because those red pill men follow their narrative and apply it to women they don't even know, they heaped cruelty on this woman who has suffered from infertility since she was young. Nice job guys.
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  114. You do understand there's a difference between how humans are expected to dress to go out vs. how they dress at home, don't you? It's never been proper to wear lounging-around clothes anywhere but at home. You would be weirded out if a woman showed up to a date like that. Just like a woman would be weirded out if you showed up like that.
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  115.  @31minutesago  🙄 In the sense that we are a hell of a lot less violent than men and actually care for others, you're right. Good observation.
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  116.  @31minutesago  You don't even see your own double standard. If women get hurt in a relationship, you say it's all her fault because she CHOSE the guy (as if she had a crystal ball). When men get hurt, suddenly no one says a word about him CHOOSING her. We are just supposed to have sympathy for him.
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  117.  @seabreeze4559  I think you are talking to the wrong person. Is your comment intended for someone else who is seeking revenge?
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  118.  @31minutesago  You are literally on a forum where men regularly brag about treating ALL women they date like shit (their words) because ONE woman hurt them once upon a time. I'm not talking about the comment that began this thread, but a different comment under this same video. The thing is, it's a very common sentiment on this channel and is encouraged and celebrated by the emotionally stunted types that hang out here. So don't tell me how "magnanimous" you are because you are part of it. Oh, but I'M the problem. Sure.
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  119.  @markdatheist9179  Did you know it's 2023 and most women work full-time, thus few men are all alone paying the bills?
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  120.  @nativetexanful  Since most wives work, how is she taking half HIS wealth? And even if she wasn't working, do you think her contribution of running a household and raising children is worth nothing? No one "gets" a house for free if it still has a mortgage. They have to pay the mortgage on a reduced income. Your statement that women divorce because they have so much to gain is bonkers. If they were only concerned about gain, they'd stay married and keep access to 100% of the savings and the higher income from being married. Typically, men still have more money after a divorce than women - or they did historically. Nowadays, women in their 20s are earning more than men in their 20s, so the women have more to lose. The better question is why women are driven to give up so much to get away from their husbands. You should Google the top reasons women give for seeking a divorce.
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  121.  @nativetexanful  I'm not trying to insult you, but you have a poor understanding of divorce law. Anything a person owns prior to marriage is not considered community property. A house you bought before marriage is yours alone. It can't be given away in divorce. Any money you had before the marriage is not considered community property as long as you don't co-mingle it in a joint bank account. Most divorces don't include alimony and when there is alimony, it's usually temporary alimony meant to tide the person over until they can start earning. Permanent alimony only happens after long marriages when the spouse has no way of supporting themselves after being home so long. You can do a prenup and as long as your attorney makes sure it's valid (it must meet standards), it dictates who gets what no matter what state law says. A prenup can specify no alimony. The one exception a prenup can't address child support.
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  122.  @nativetexanful  You are absolutely wrong about prenups. There are requirements that must be met at the time a prenup is signed to make it valid. A decent attorney makes sure the prenup meets those requirements. If all requirements are met, which is easy to do, then prenups hold up in court. If they didn't, no one would bother. California, being California has a situation that without a prenup, everything the spouses owned before marriage becomes community property at the 7th year of marriage, BUT that is NOT the situation in most states. Even in California a prenup avoids that situation. Even without a prenup, no judge will hand property you owned before marriage to your spouse in a divorce. However it's still crucial to get a prenup. Once you have a valid prenup, the only wild card is child support, which a prenup can't address.
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  123.  @munkqiking7207  I have never jumped to the defense of cruel women in my entire life, nor do most women. And if only the hurt dog hollers, then why are Red Pill men so keen to discount the things men have done to women?
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  124.  @fromgermany271  That's a personal anecdote. There will always be outliers - your ex-wife's behavior was not the norm.
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  125.  @jobunny919  Even funnier is that they think only women will die alone. How do they think THEY will die? Actually, there is not a single reason women have to die alone. Women can live with their best friends. You could have a whole house full of women having a grand time! What an empty threat. Also unoriginal as we hear it from them every other comment they make to women. It's not even a comment; it's a meme.
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  126.  @jobunny919  It's just a meme with no relationship to reality. It's also what they WISH would happen, just like they express glee at the prospect of women who don't like them getting older and "hitting the wall". The funny thing is that I personally know two women in their mid-sixties who are dating men near their age. One of them is dating two men at the same time.
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  127.  @roses6564  Great question, but with these men, women are automatically wrong no matter what because they don't acknowledge bad behavior in men.
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  128.  @peteranon8455  Is it true or is it not true?
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  129.  @AliMacAzz  Which comment?
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  130.  @worndown8280  What I wrote is not remotely anecdotal. You are just blissfully unaware that this has been studied to death and is very well-known. It's called "The Second Shift" for women. There have even been documentaries made about it. Anyone who counsels couples should know about it. Show me the data that claims only 46.8% of marriage have two working spouses. Make sure it does not include retired people.
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  131.  @maelstrom2313  He gave zero context to why he chose to give her sexual pleasure. ZERO! You were not provided with the reason why he did that, nor if there were actions on her side that led up to it. You were not provided with her thoughts about it. He seems to have no idea about her thoughts on anything. What we DO know, is that he was more hyper focused on getting sex than he was on getting to know her. That's an important piece of information. In his objective to get sex, he no doubt thought making the moves on her would get him there faster. There is no indication in his story that it was her idea. Her not returning the favor could easily have been because she wasn't ready for it in the first place, but didn't want to offend him. If she was ready to have sex, SHE WOULD HAVE.
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  132. @Mudworld I'm talking about very specific problems between them in the relationship. Not abstract things, but things that need a specific outcome - and the men just don't take her complaint seriously enough to make a change. This has been long known about in couples therapy. It is the reason I got a divorce. I had told my husband for years that I was not going to be able to withstand a major problem of his forever. After saying this for years with nothing changing, I walked. He was in shock because he obviously didn't believe me. I'm keeping the reason private, but you would have walked too in my position.
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  133.  @Genevasplaytime  I think you should reflect on why you dislike women having options in life, as if they are less than human. Whether a woman gives you clues or outright states the problem, do you really want her to threaten to PUNISH you??? You are an adult. She tells you what isn't working and graciously waits for you to address it and show you take it seriously. If you don't address it, she concludes you don't want to or don't care about her. At that point, there is nothing left to do but leave. Red Pill men love to say that women in bad relationships "chose" wrong, but when women do the responsible thing and get out of a bad relationship, then those women have "too many options". There is no winning.
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  134. Pure baloney. Many many many women have zero problems being alone. We have more friends on average.
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  135. Thank you! I actually questioned whether he really has a psych degree! He's just a red pill man using a psych degree to make it seem scientific. He's unaware of any studies that contradict him. He talks about men becoming more desirable with age and therefore more able to get younger women, yet doesn't know about the study that found married couples closer in age have a lower divorce rate. The lowest rate of divorce was for couples who were the exact same age. With every year of difference in age, the divorce rates goes up. Then there's the study that showed that "best friend" romantic relationships have lower divorce rates. He's never showed any awareness of these studies that could actually help his audience!
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  136.  @AtheismF7W  Women had no choice but to bear multiple children (if they didn't die in childbirth) throughout the majority of human history. That meant another baby about every two or three years unless there was a fertility issue. Then they had to breastfeed them every two to four hours, take care of the other children, and run a household. How much of a world could men build if women were not holding down the fort at home and bringing new souls into the world? I get so tired of answers like yours that imply women were doing NOTHING. Now women have some control over fertility, and you still want to side step that they are showing more discipline than men these days. As for the ability to wield power, you act like there have been no female rulers in history or leaders in our world today. Not to mention women running companies. These all exist.
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  137.  @psychacks  As I said, it doesn't correspond to real life in this case. I am my own person and have no need for an "authority" over my head in the form of the masculine. You remind me of an old boyfriend I had who owned a business. I was never more glad I broke up with him than when he told me this gem ... QUOTE: "You used to give me great business advice and I would secretly take your advice. I never told you because you were just a girl." He actually thought that was a compliment. It wasn't.
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  138.  @watamutha  Just as soon as men start bearing all the physical discomfort and risks of pregnancy and childbirth, which includes the risk of death, we can talk about women being ice fishermen. Lots more women are paying spousal and/or child support these days.
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  139.  @Terrapin47-s8y  For most of history, women could not choose. It has been said by historians, that in the ancient world, the most dangerous time in a woman's life was giving birth - the death rate was high. In the Middle Ages, as soon as a woman realized she was pregnant, she would write her will. Within my own family, we know of ancestors dying in childbirth. Even now, the US has an unacceptable death rate for childbirth in the modern age, and that isn't even counting the ones who come close. My mother almost died having me. You are making the mistake of thinking that because births happen every day, that it's "not that bad" and not dangerous. The list of possible complications in pregnancy and childbirth fills medical books.
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  140.  @dharmadasa66  My father's side of the story? He grew up with a father who abused his mother, so his mother left. Then his father remarried and abused his second wife - severe abuse like throwing her across a room. My father hated his father, but then he grew up and repeated the pattern. My mother said sometimes he would sit on the edge of the bed and cry and say he needed to get help. But then he'd never make the slightest effort to get help. The physical abuse was concealed from us children for many years, until one year when we were on vacation. We were in the car driving to our next location, when our father slapped our mother because she didn't see the highway exit soon enough for him to take it. We were all in a state of shock and crying. My dad cancelled the vacation and drove straight home, where he locked himself in their room and didn't speak to our mother for days . . . as if him slapping her was HER fault.
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  141.  @dharmadasa66  No, I did not say women were generally subjected to abuse. However, it has always been around, and it's prevalence depended on what culture you're looking at. Even today, there are parts of the world where abuse of women is rampant - see India and Africa. Consider all the girl babies killed in China in the past. There is another aspect to being financially dependent. Some men, consciously or unconsciously, tend to be more controlling when they control the purse strings.
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  142.  @nogoodusernames100  Very few husbands are wealthy or will ever be wealthy. Not a concern of the vast majority of women.
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  143.  @nogoodusernames100  Where did I say you had to settle for anything? :body-blue-raised-arms:
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  144.  @nogoodusernames100  Why do you feel the need to tell me and what does it have to do with anything I've said?
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  145. Same. I knew it was coming and he didn't disappoint. :text-green-game-over:
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  146.  @yossarian67  It's not a "disgust threshold". Women pick up on when a relationship isn't working. The TYPICAL pattern is that the woman tries to talk to the man for years about what is wrong. The man might promise to take action, but doesn't take it seriously. After a number of years, the woman see nothing will change and she leaves. The man claims he was blindsided. Just ask a couples therapist if this is true. That lesbian couples have a higher divorce rate is an indication that women figure out when things aren't working. That's a strength; not a weakness.
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  147.  @lightworker2956  My point is that his example doesn't make sense. That flew right over your head. I don't know what point you're trying to make about biology sucking either. The doctor tried to say that men didn't mind giving women their resources as if the women were contributing nothing. The women were literally risking their lives in childbirth. The death rate to bear a child was very high for most of history.
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  148.  @michaelpaniagua2836  She's not going after the top 5% of men. She isn't concerned with "standing out" because she isn't looking for anyone in the first place. Her mother also lives with her (big house) and they are super close. So there are two of them to take care of the child. They have a lot of fun and it's a happy home. And she does not have that selfish attitude about money. No married woman in my family has ever separated her earnings from her husband. You guys have a narrative that you stick to even when it doesn't apply. As for men in history, most men wanted and needed children to work the farm if they were farmers - not having children was economically disadvantageous. Rich men wanted children to inherit what they had and keep the property through generations. Wealth and property was a family matter. That's why men got married historically.
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  149.  @OthelloBlaq  Regardless of depth, the character is treating women badly because of heartache caused by ONE woman, which he's applying to ALL women who've done nothing to him. Isn't it funny how red pill men love to say women get their hearts broken because they pick the wrong man? But when men get their hearts broken, you guys NEVER say it's his fault for picking the wrong woman. Plus, now it's a license to mistreat every other woman who crosses his path. The double standard is bullshit and red pill men need to go buy mirrors.
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  150.  @OthelloBlaq  Telling the truth is not "insulting" men. It's telling the truth. And the truth IS that red pillers CONSTANTLY say that women who get victimized by men are at fault for choosing those men. I asked why red pillers don't apply the same standard to themselves. I got no answer.
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  151.  @ninjanickysveganwellness  "Rebellious" is a word we use for children.
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  152.  @scottverge938  I was going to say the same. Maybe he's disappointed because he wanted to brag and was told not to?
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  153. Oh lordy, this would be hilarious if it wasn't so sad. Projection? Your whole channel is about projecting traits onto women that reflect YOUR personal issues. Envy? Of what? Envy of being delusional? Enjoy pouring out your brand of toxic tea. :face-turquoise-drinking-coffee:
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  154. Women in the Middle Ages used to write their will upon the discovery they were pregnant. Let that sink in. Pregnancy is still more risky than is acknowledged.
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  155.  @31minutesago  Because men have done it to me. They thought because they were determined to have a relationship with me, that meant it was a done deal.
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  156. I have to hand it to you. You tried. Unfortunately, these guys aren't up for self-reflection.
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  157.  @valecrassus7835  I might ask if YOU are from Earth. You act like no one in the history of the world has ever lived without children. Plenty of people are close to their nieces and nephews. I know two brothers in their 70s who both left everything to their nephew. One of them has already died and the nephew handled all the arrangements. When it comes time for the other one, the same thing will happen.
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  158.  @jackdeniston59  Pregnancy and childbirth comes with huge physical stress and risks, including the possibility of death. Leave it to a man to act like it's nothing.
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  159.  @kimilsungthefirst6840  Well, you SAID "even if you max out" it's hopeless. Anyway, I was teasing you. Things are not nearly as hopeless as channels like this say.
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  160.  @Clownsallaround  My ex-husband decided to stay home and do some day-trading while I was working full-time. He said, "This doesn't mean I'm a house husband." So he did zero housework, including the weekends. The prior year I endured the most severe bout of bronchitis in my life - needing two rounds of antibiotics to cure it. It felt like I was trying to breathe underwater and couldn't get enough oxygen 24 hours a day. This made me exhausted. My husband came home one day while I was lying sick on the sofa struggling to breathe. He said, "Couldn't you have cleaned?" Of course, now that he's single, he does all his housework because there is no woman in the house that he expects to do it all.
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  161.  @Clownsallaround  They can be so unconscious of what is happening right in front of them. Even John Gray, the man who wrote the "Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus" books missed the mark. He talked about how stressful his wife would feel about all the tasks that had to be done. He described them going for a walk one day and he wanted them to relax when they got home. She told him the kids needed help with their homework and the kitchen had to be cleaned, so she couldn't rest. Did he offer to help her? NO! He went and rested while she ran around doing everything, and then had the nerve to imply it was her fault she couldn't rest!!!!!!!
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  162.  @Clownsallaround  I hate to say it, but most of the time (not all the time) when a man jets off to the Philippines to get a wife . . . well lets just say they aren't necessarily the most mentally or emotionally stable men. I do know one man who doesn't fit that. He's in Canada and lives in a remote area where he doesn't see many people, and he's a widower in his 70s. He had a great marriage before his wife died and he's been alone a long time. He's considered the Philippines, but hasn't made up his mind. He's old, but he's very very kind.
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  163.  @Clownsallaround  A man I know showed me a YouTube channel of a man who went to the Philippines to find a woman. He moved there. He did a whole video on watching out for Philippine women who run scams on these guys.
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  164.  @Clownsallaround  A womanophere? I have seen a huge shift in women's feelings about relationships. Never have I seen so many women of child-bearing age deciding to opt out of relationships. The other thing that is hilarious is the channels with guys who give relationship advice to women on how to deal with men. It used to be that women would watch those videos in hopes of learning something. Now? You would not believe how many women watch those videos and say, "Frankly, I don't care what men want." "I'm not interested." "All the advice is for women to do all the work and where are the channels for men explaining what women want?" A lot of ladies are done. They want to focus on themselves and their career. They have learned that it's a much more peaceful life without a man in it.
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  165.  @Clownsallaround  They are blind to what marriage with children is really like for women. After pregnancy and childbirth, if the wife/mother holds down a job, she is working two jobs. She is also the one doing most of the housework, cooking, and keeping track of everything. She plans holidays and executes them. The man wants a medal for doing the dishes once in a while. For these guys to act like they're the plow horses in marriage is a big joke.
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  166.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  How is it that you still don't get it?
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  167.  @Raymond7779  Show the study. And the difference between married and unmarried women's rate of depression is overstated. Men are a lot happier in marriage than women because they benefit more.
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  168.  @richien8472  If you believe that, why are you so invested in worrying about what age women get married?
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  169.  @advhawk6455  Your wife had ideas that keeping the house going was toxic, but MOST women take care of stuff and more often than men do. Why does your body count come into it?
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  170.  @nickg2431  If she doesn't share her money with her husband, she is the wrong woman. Period. No woman in my family has ever kept her money separate.
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  171.  @nickg2431  Yes. We're supposed to take care of each other when we're married.
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  172. Hard disagree. I have known couples where both adore equally, and those are the best relationships. Sorry you haven't seen that.
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  173. Studies are one thing, but you don't even talk about statistics that aren't faked. You never talk about the "assortative mating" pattern of today (men and women of similar educational and career status marry each other), which totally contradicts your insistence that women are eaten up with hypergamy. You don't talk about how different the divorce rate is between socioeconomic groups. College educated couples have a divorce rate in the twenty-something percent range. You don't talk about the effect of an age gap on divorce rates - the less of an age gap, the lower the divorce rate. There is also research on the valid reasons women give for deciding to divorce - no one will hear it here, though the info would help the men in your audience gain some perspective. You don't talk about the fact that a lot of dating apps are 80% men and 20% women, which skews everything in the women's favor. Your male audience needs to go outside and touch grass and meet real women in the wild where the percentages are even. Your explanations of how women think are merely Red Pill memes. There are forums on Reddit and elsewhere for men who've left the Red Pill behind and found their relationships with women greatly improved because they realized most women weren't actually like the memes. They were tired of being angry and that was the impetus they needed to free themselves from Red Pill angst. I know this will fall on deaf ears. I've had absolutely HORRENDOUS stuff happen in my life at the hands of men. I walked away. Same story for many many many women. When we are traumatized by men, we tend to just quietly build a life without them. Men who have trouble with women seem unable to do the same. They create endless channels and podcasts about "evil" women and even worse, some incels go on rampages and murder women they don't know. Or they worship Andrew Tate, the guy who admitted to getting dozens of women to fall in love with him and once he was certain they were hooked on him, persuading them to do porn . . . for him . . . then he'd pocket most of the money the women made. He's vile and he's a Red Pill icon and hero to so many men. Women are shouldering life's challenges and getting more degrees than men are, yet Red Pill guys are still whining that women have it easy. Way too many men are a mess these days.
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  174.  @simon_patterson  Thank you! I don't know that it's optimism so much as that the structure of the business will allow it to run like clockwork once it's set up. I'm bone tired tonight from working on the "setting up" part, which is the tedious part. 🛌 🥱
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  175.  @simon_patterson  Ha ha ha! Check in HERE? Everyone hates me here! 😏
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  176.  @simon_patterson  I'm interested in seeing myself get through this last slog!!! :face-red-droopy-eyes: Man, is it tedious! But I got through nearly a year of putting the product together and that was tedious as well.
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  177. You were talking to a dumb doctor if she thought she could wait 8 years. FEW women think it's easy to conceive at 40. Anyway, there's a growing number of women who NEVER want children and/or marriage. I don't think you've caught onto that yet.
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  178. Sure. But the men here believe a high body count is okay for THEM. Never mind that if they find their virgin princess, THEY can give HER an STD. There is no HPV test for men and some strains cause cervical cancer which could KILL their virgin princess. Yet these guys want women to accept THEIR high body count. :body-blue-raised-arms:
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  179.  @forgottenfuryan  The divorce rate varies according to socioeconomic groups. College-educated couples have a twenty-something percent divorce rate - not even close to the 50% rate that's touted. I have only known one woman who divorced for a petty reason. All the others did it for valid reasons.
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  180.  @disabledchatzen5276  You should stop drinking the Kool-Aid. :face-turquoise-drinking-coffee:
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  181.  @DvDick  If I had taken up the idea to "make men pay" for what other men did, I'd have left a path of destruction in my wake.
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  182. So what's the problem?
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  183.  @FrankM  So then please explain to me why I know so many women in their sixties who were recently divorced/widowed and are now in long-term relationships with men their own age. I live in a resort/retirement area, so see plenty of this.
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  184. Women initiate the majority of divorces, so your conclusions are faulty. Studies have shown men are happier in marriages overall than women. It's almost a moot subject because so many women don't even want to get married now. You could substitute the word "men" and change it into "women", and every word he said about the disadvantages of a serious relationship apply to women too.
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  185.  @saintoflastresorts2272  Relationships or marriage? The divorce rate is correlated with education and socioeconomic factors. College educated couples have only a twenty-something percent divorce rate. This is unfortunately partly due to too many employers demanding degrees for jobs that don't really require it, which has made high school only grads less financially secure. Recently, some employers have decided to quit demanding degrees when they aren't necessary, so this could change.
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  186. Correct. So correct. They get jealous when their woman is doing well.
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  187.  @markaurelius61  A lot of doctors and nurses have also observed what the study says. The only time the ratio narrows is when you look at very long marriages.
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  188.  @Gnomesmusher  Go back and read your own words. You said you "put up with" the fact she wasn't intimate with you right away. You said "she strung you along" because she wasn't intimate with you right away. You sound like you think you were entitled to her body, dude. Learning her lesson does not mean she can't get into a new relationship right away. It means she learned not to jump right into sex before getting to know the guy. I'm not logical? You're the one who needs the obvious pointed out to you.
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  189. You misunderstand the book/movie and that particular character. When the book was published in 1913, his character was written as an ignorant foolish blowhard. Why would any women accept a proposal that insults her to her face? Yet, that was not the reason for the refusal. The man was an ignorant fool and she was an intelligent woman who could not imagine spending the rest of her life with such a fool. The book is considered a classic and NO ONE thinks he was a desirable character.
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  190.  @michaelscholes8956  Thank you and YES decent men have NO IDEA about things women endure from men. If men were to ask all the women in their lives about it, they'd be in for a big surprise. Ask the women if they've ever been disrespected as a woman, if they've ever been discriminated against, if men have tried to sexually prey on them in a destructive way, and if they've ever been or felt in physical danger from a man. I can say "Yes" to all.
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  191.  @hh71vmcaad_5g9  I don't know what you're saying. There are 61 comments and I don't have time to look at all of them to understand what you're replying to.
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  192.  @hh71vmcaad_5g9  I don't have time to hunt down my comment out of so many. Can you quote it?
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  193.  @VivatVeritas1  Read it again. I'm not only referring to myself, but to what women in general experience both in their personal lives and on social media. You are not a woman, so you are not subject to how women are treated. Numerous studies have shown women are far more disrespected and threatened with violence on social media. Plus there is a big difference in how men and women handle trauma in relationships. A woman who has been badly treated by men will be more likely to simply stop dating men. A man who has been badly treated by even ONE woman, seeks revenge on ALL women. Have seen too many Red Pill comments not to notice that. Famous divorce attorney, James Sexton, has said that his male clients will empty their bank accounts just to inflict as much misery as possible on their exes, while women just want peace.
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  194.  @tdaye6978  Righttttttttt. Sure, Jan.
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  195.  @roses6564  You've said a lot of intelligent things. I would not have seen your comment at all if it hadn't shown up in my notifications because I instructed YouTube not to show me any videos from this channel anymore. I can't say I value Dr. Taraban's views as much as you do. He seems like a wounded man talking to other wounded men. There's very little appetite for acknowledging men's faults in their failures with women. There are gaping holes in his knowledge of women and ignorance about existing studies on relationships and marriage that contradict his views. You must have more stamina than I did.
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  196. No. Men refuse to understand that many women are sold the idea of radical sexual freedom. Then when they discover it doesn't work for them, they naturally change. You are making the mistake of believing their change has anything to do with YOU.
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  197.  @annesmith9181  He is incredibly blind. The fact that a licensed therapist is dressing up the red pill to give the impression it's based on credible research is alarming.
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  198.  @gailainsley6939  I think society overvalues romantic relationships and undervalues every other relationship.
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  199.  @markusfreund6961  You're not the boss of me. You're not King of the Comment Section. Your dumb command means less than nothing. I'll post whatever the hell I want to. Get over YOURself.
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  200.  @kenyanicholas6809  LOL
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  201.  @maelstrom2313  That's only one tiny part of the story though. And maybe she wasn't even wanting him to do that in the first place, which would explain not returning the favor. The rest of his story is bs. Would love to hear her version. For him to expect a woman he's only just getting to know to jump into sex is crazy.
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  202.  @maelstrom2313  It's been all too predictable to observe your entirely red pill reasoning process. Here is his initial story: "I dated a woman for 1 week. We went on a date, got along great. Set up something for the next weekend. By the next night she wanted to hang out. We hung out every night for the week. By day 3 she was wearing no makeup and coming over in sweats. All of my advances were rejected. On day 6, I kicked her out of my house after she accused me of only wanting sex. I told her she only wanted validation and if we were emotionally going from 1 to 10 in a few days, then the sex needed to follow. If she did not want to have sex so soon, then she should not have pushed the emotional relationship so quickly." She very CLEARLY wanted an emotional connection before progressing to sex, which is the NORMAL sequence of events for relationships. He very CLEARLY didn't give a damn about an emotional connection and he kept trying to force the sex (by his own admission). He. Only. Wanted. Sex.
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  203. Yeah, I don't think social media is it. It's a subset of women who make money from Only Fans. What I see women saying is that they value their tranquility too much to put up with a draining relationship.
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  204.  @marriagecausesdivorce7540  Why are you assuming women are being drained by "nice guys"? Who said they were nice? As far as "mothering" a man in a romantic relationship, if I had a dollar for every woman who complains about it, I'd be rich. Many men adopt weaponized incompetence once they are in a relationship. The guy who used to clean his own place, do laundry, schedule errands and appointments, suddenly forgets how. Women gain a lot more work once they enter a serious relationship, especially marriage. Google "emotional labor in marriage".
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  205.  @georgedang449  From my experience, it's the men with mothers that did everything for them that expect the same in a wife. My sister divorced her husband solely for that reason. When she went back to work when their daughter was old enough for preschool, her husband expected ALL childcare to fall on her still. If she needed to go grocery shopping after work, he didn't want her to leave their daughter with him. He'd say, "You aren't going to make me babysit her are you?" She told him you don't "babysit" your own child.
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  206.  @ПикококерТВ  Funny how convenient that philosophy is for men. It's called being "self serving". No woman with a brain wants your STDs just because you had to work harder for them. There is no way to test men for the HPV virus and some strains cause cancer in women if their body doesn't clear them. And if you're a big player, you undoubtedly are carrying those strains.
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  207. @WarlockX4 Emotionally healthy women don't give the time of day to men who "treat them like garbage". At the first sign of it, they get the hell out of Dodge. Warlock, the only vag you're getting is from broken women who don't know how to value themselves. You left out that part. You are more than likely "treating like garbage" women who grew up in terrible situations and have never known anything better. Congratulations on adding to the collective damage out there. All so you can puff yourself up and feel like a big man because ONE woman broke your heart. You are no better than her. You're merely proving that you're a weak man who bullies because he was bullied. If you had any sense, you would have gotten therapy and worked to heal yourself instead of looking for revenge against all the other women who've done ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to you.
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  208.  @lightworker2956  Why do you think a 60-year-old woman can't have fun in life? That's really weird.
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  209.  @marcuscole1994  Does not line up with reality. There are so many studies showing women do better emotionally on their own than men do.
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  210. I see tons of women online who want nothing to do with men. Even five years ago this was rare.
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  211.  @joshuangeno628  Thank you for proving my point that men here will have NO idea what the term means. "Emotional labor" is a term that has been coined for all the unpaid work of running a family and household. Even when women work full-time, they have less "down time" because they are mentally taxed with keeping on top of everyone's schedules, children's schooling needs, errands, groceries, nutrition, housekeeping, holiday arrangements, etc . . . Most men are blissfully uninvolved or barely involved and they can't understand why their wife is tired all the time.
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  212.  @emilianosintarias7337  Men don't have their brains constantly taxed with all the arrangements of running a family and household, in addition to working full-time.
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  213.  @emilianosintarias7337  Go back and read the comments I made. You don't understand the term "emotional labor" yet. It's not about emotions.
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  214.  @WtfReal  No, fertility begins a sharper drop off after 36.
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  215.  @andreal2625  He never answers critical comments as far as I can tell. He should have to give a disclaimer that his content isn't based on academic studies because his audience probably thinks that's the case when they're looking at his framed degrees on the wall. It's so irresponsible.
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  216. Most women DO know. smh Just because some dumb people exist, doesn't mean most women don't know.
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  217. Divorce is ILLEGAL in the Phillipines. Gee, do you think that might affect the divorce rate? Also, I'd like to see your stats on body count and divorce rate, but I don't think you have any.
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  218.  @carlospita6442  Explain to me why a man who believes women have nothing of value to say, is watching a video about how to date them. If you don't enjoy their company, don't try to date them!!!
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  219.  @deanholness4864  You're the poor soul who can't figure out why he wants to date people who have nothing of value to say.
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  220.  @carlospita6442  Women are individuals, so what they each bring to the table varies. If you aren't interested in women, then you wasted your time on this video.
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  221.  @keepawake3055  I don't know ANY women like that. Where do you find them? The only time I could see them not saying much is if the questions are coming off as an interrogation rather than a natural conversation.
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  222. Total red pill propaganda to think women are all trying to be a boss at work. Most women are just trying to support themselves and the largest field women go into is healthcare.
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  223.  @HelloWorld-cq1sq  Before attending to anything else you say, SHOW me stats that show women perpetuate more domestic violence than men. I realize this task will take you forever because it does not exist.
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  224.  @marriagecausesdivorce7540  The stats you listed do not apply in the U.S. Melinda Gates had very good reasons for the divorce, which even Bill Gates does not quibble with!
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  225.  @EcoworksFL  There are definitely more women these days forking over money in a divorce.
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  226.  @KingBeef216  If you deem the solid points I made as "emotional babble", I question your reading comprehension. It's not about "shaming" him; it's just disappointing that he doesn't get the perfectly reasonable way women look at the subject.
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  227.  @Acetvn-kg6ty  It is a huge factor for women.
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  228. That is the myth men tell each other.
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  229.  @chad-9171  Where do you live? I don't see it where I live. The girls who wanted an older man were very much in the minority. Most were very turned off by the idea. From what I've read, it's more common in third world countries with less resources - so it's a survival mechanism for the women there.
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  230.  @chad-9171  Where do you live? In the US they only rarely choose older guys unless you mean about 4 or 5 years older. There are studies on it. There's also a study showing that the closer in age the couple is, the lower the divorce rate is.
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  231.  @chad-9171  4 or 5 years older is common - but still, there is that study showing the closer in age, the lower the divorce rate. Even being the same age results in a lower divorce rate than there being only one year difference. As the age difference goes up, the divorce rates also goes up. The audience here though believes, or wants to believe, that women commonly want to be with men who are 10 to 20 years older. They are wrong.
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  232.  Rambo, John J.  Your last sentence is just regurgitated Red Pill rhetoric. Look, you have a giant double standard. You think it's okay for YOU to whore around and then get butt hurt if a woman does the same. I don't care how loyal you claim to be --- if I was dating you and caught a whiff of your double standard beliefs, I'd drop you so fast that I'd be in the next zip code before you realized I was gone. From my point-of-view, I have a low body count and YOUR whoring around is a disease risk for ME. Even if you tested negative for STDs, there is NO TEST to detect if a man is carrying HPV. Some strains of HPV can give a woman cancer and kill her. Your "lock and key" analogy has zero medical significance. STDs are more symptomatic in women, so we have a huge risk from male whores.
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  233. A significant amount of men are bad at sex. When he's getting more out of it than she is, Houston, we have a problem.
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  234.  @mikeoms  What are you trying to say?
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  235.  @VivatVeritas1  Divorce is a huge decision. Women rarely leave a good husband. In conversations with divorced women, not once has a woman said her husband "failed to make her happy". I hear specific reasons for the divorce that are completely reasonable. The husband failed at being a partner in one or more ways - often by not pulling his weight. After years of trying to talk to the husband about it, the women see that nothing will change and they exit. The men don't take them seriously until it's too late. That's the pattern. Studies have shown that married women gain seven additional hours of housework per week just by having a man in the house. That is ridiculous since most women work.
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  236.  @garyfrancis6193  What didn't work?
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  237.  @logicwins3492  One more thing. I grew up in a two-parent house with a father who was verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive toward my mother. She was beloved by everyone and beautiful, sweet-natured, and artistically talented. No one deserves to be abused, least of all her. My father also scapegoated my brother and used to put him down and punish him harshly. We begged my mother to get a divorce, but she was a stay-at-home mother for many years and couldn't afford to leave. She finally got a job that paid well enough to leave when I was nearly 20. I can assure you that my highly paid female relative who chose to have a child on her own, has created a far better environment for her child than I had.
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  238.  @djjukeboxhero6491  I'm not your sweet cheeks. You should do some reading in women's spaces online. You'd be surprised as hell.
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  239.  @OthelloBlaq  Dumb interpretation of what I said, but you do you.
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  240.  @OthelloBlaq  Hey, you have no reading comprehension.
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  241.  @OthelloBlaq  I don't like men's topics? No. I just call out bullshit when I see it.
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  242.  @OthelloBlaq  You refuse to understand that what I'm pointing out is valid, which is super dumb. Men go on women's sites all the time and disagree. You are not the judge of whether I "belong here" either, so get off the pedestal you put yourself on.
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  243.  @dukekessler6292  The average man erroneously believes he has fewer choices because of dating apps, where the ratio is 80% men and 20% women. Get off dating apps and meet women organically in the wild. The average man believes women go after bad boys because it's a meme that is mindlessly repeated so many times, it's taken as fact. It's not true. In many cases when a woman is with bad boy, there's a good chance he's lied to her about who he is. She will eventually find out, and may become disillusioned about men because her trust was thrown on the ground and trampled on.
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  244. DNA testing exists, you know.
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  245.  @moxygenpathogen7678  Nah.
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  246.  @moxygenpathogen7678  What are you even talking about?
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  247.  @jonbutton3259  There are 125 comments under the original comment. I have no idea what comment of mine you are replying to on this old video.
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  248.  @dharmadasa66  You should do some research on the divorce rate because it's not 50%. Different socioeconomic groups have different divorce rates these days. Also the divorce rate is going down.
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  249. Most women DO know. Can't explain why the doctor he knows is so dumb. It is common knowledge that fertility begins a sharp decline after age 36.
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  250. Do you have STUDIES that PROVE women do this MORE than men do? You haven't provided any. We're just supposed to believe you? There are plenty of stories about men leaving for another woman waiting in the wings.
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  251. There are many risk factors for placental abruption. Age can be one, but it's not the most common reason.
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  252. They really make it too complicated. Women don't want to listen to a guy brag endlessly about himself. It's boring and it suggests he's not interested in anyone but himself, let alone the new woman sitting across from him. He should be trying to get to know her and vice versa.
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  253. Also, no one wants to feel like the date is a job interview. We don't want to feel like we're getting interviewed or that we're doing the interviewing. It should be two people getting to know each other with no expectations beyond that for the moment.
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  254.  @jeffpliskin  Whatever I wrote was months ago and there are 84 comments. Therefore, I don't know what comment of mine you're replying to. However, as a response to your comment, one should not commit to a relationship based on only one date.
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  255.  @Nah-ah  They need to go outside and touch grass for starters. Then they need to be the best person they can be, get off social media, quit taking stupid advice that frames women as subhumans out to destroy men instead of just living their lives. Then, they need to lighten up and get involved in group activities they love and meet women who love those same activities. Then get to know them as humans instead of the one-dimensional cartoon characters this channel portrays them as.
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  256.  @31minutesago  Had a guy in a class who was obsessed with me, though I didn't know at the time. He told me later he managed to get his seat changed so he was sitting right in front of me. He was always turning around to talk, but otherwise he wasn't on my radar. One day, he realized we had a female friend in common and started talking about that. The girl in question and I both had a secret crush on a guy in our music theory class, and that guy was standing in the courtyard right at that moment. I casually pointed him out and said my friend had a crush on the guy, but didn't say I did too. He immediately said, "Oh, she can do better than him!" I didn't understand why he was dismissive of the guy, but I ignored it. That casual exchange prompted him to hatch a plot. A couple of weeks later he said he knew a handsome guy he was sure my friend and me would like a lot more than the guy we had a crush on. He went on and on about how great this mysterious handsome guy was. Handsome guy had a boat and with his agreement, he invited my friend and me out on the boat. His real motive was to spend time with me, but he didn't admit that until much later. My girlfriend ended up canceling and he knew I wouldn't go on a boat alone with two men, so he had to find another girl. He told me later, he chose the most promiscuous show off he knew, because he wanted handsome guy to go after her over me because she represented easy sex. His plan worked. She was as provocative as he hoped for. It became clear on the boat that handsome guy was going for easy sex. On the drive home we were in the back seat. My hair was in a million knots from the ocean winds. I started combing it out and he said, "Oh, let me do it!" He spent an hour combing out the knots. He told me later he was in Heaven, but I had no idea. After that day, he kept up a relentless rush of getting me to participate in more "non-date" outings. They had to be "non-dates" because I never expressed interest in him and he acted like his only goal was setting me up with someone else. His secret goal was to wear me down with his continual presence. Then he began portraying himself as the final arbiter of every subject - to elevate himself and make me question my own judgement. He was trying to create a mental dependency on him. Without ever discussing it, he managed to incrementally slide into a situation where we were dating as a couple - though I'd never consciously liked him that way. I eventually got free, but it was like freeing myself from a determined octopus with eight arms. I was unaware of his plotting and planning, but he later confessed it all to me. It never occurred to him that if he had to plot and be so secretive about his real intentions, the relationship was imaginary on his side.
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  257.  @jensen4993  My experiences with men are not unusual. I have much worse stories - one experience could have been made into a movie. 😔 I view men as creatures that require one to exercise extreme caution and extreme vetting. The sad difference between men and women is that men who get hurt seek to hurt other women who did nothing to them. Whereas most women don't seek to hurt other men because of their experiences. We just become skeptical and guarded.
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  258.  @valecrassus7835  They can easily get someone younger to move in to help them. The Caretaker Gazette is full of listings for those type of arrangements. Sometimes the caretakers even put in their own ads that they are available. For starters, the caretakers live rent-free.
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  259.  @tranya327  At a certain age, no one should live alone and if those people in Japan had banded together with other older people, no one would be finding corpses. Also, there are already devices available to put in an elderly person's home where someone monitors them. They speak to them through the device and the device has a cutesy friendly face. The elderly person can have whole conversations through the device. They monitors know when there's something wrong and can dispatch emergency workers.
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  260.  @sebsebski2829  The difference in lifespan in ONE COUPLE tells you nothing about the median difference. You have to control for genes and whether the person took care of their health. On average, there is not such a giant difference. My grandfather came from a family with genetic heart problems. Though he was in otherwise great shape, his genetics worked against him.
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  261. There are studies that show that when it comes to serious illness, men leave their sick wives more often than women leave their sick husbands.
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  262.  @LA-wv7gf  Yep. So many of these guys have a script running in their heads that doesn't correlate with the real world.
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  263. If anyone here cares about reality, breast size has no correlation with the ability to breastfeed a baby. Breast size is mostly fat, and fat is not what feeds a baby. Milk supply feeds a baby and has nothing to do with breast size.
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  264.  @Clownsallaround  I don't think these men are ready for the discussion about how many young women are now avoiding relationships with men. I don't think they're even aware this is happening.
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  265.  @manee2412  I have never ranked my feelings about men I've dated based on their looks. I rank them by how I felt being with them. If I take the top two (calling them "top two" based on good memories), they were not objectively the most good looking of all the ones I dated.
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  266.  @manee2412  You aren't me. You didn't live my life. I know my truth. You don't. However, you have the right to keep wallowing in self-pity and low self-esteem as long as you choose it.
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  267.  @Raymond7779  Scroll up and read the comments, dude. I posted three links right in the comments. You must not know many older women. Right off the top of my head, I thought of two 65-year-old women I knew. One was widowed and the other divorced in her 50s. The widowed one is not young looking for her age, but she is currently dating two men. She goes out to dinners and plays golf with them. The divorced one does look young for her age. She was in a relationship after her divorce. Now, she's been in a very serious relationship for over a year with a guy her age. And aside from the men in these two women's lives, they had happy full lives in between relationships. They also have large friendship groups of older women and they all do all kinds of activities together. I see nothing but smiles in their group photos.
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  268.  @OthelloBlaq  Oh, go chase your own tail.
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  269.  @X8cY3rP9sF2aZ6qB  If you're telling me YouTube doesn't allow source links, it shows your inability to think. I've posted sources numerous times, so why can't you???
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  270.  @X8cY3rP9sF2aZ6qB  ?
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  271. Carlos, the only reason you exist on the planet is because your mother took on the considerable discomfort and physical risk of pregnancy and childbirth. And then she didn't abandon you, but raised you so you could turn around and ask what females bring to the table. :body-blue-raised-arms:
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  272.  @thecurrentmoment  The red pill is faulty in that it assumes all high-earning women insist on marrying a man that is even HIGHER-earning. No doubt there is a sub-set of women who think that way, but I think they're a minority. That type of woman is more likely to live in a highly competitive environment where wealth is the norm among their peers. For the past 20 years or so, we have switched to "assortative mating" - equally high-earning professional men and women are marrying each other and they have a low divorce rate. Whereas it used to be that high-earning men married women of lower earning power. The women who are not getting married as much, and have higher divorce rates, are women with less education or earnings. This flies in the face of what the red pill says and it's been documented to pieces. I don't understand why this well-known fact seems to be invisible to the red pills. Looking at the studies, a young woman would conclude that pursuing success pays off. It's also insurance that if she doesn't marry, she won't end up impoverished. Add to this the economic situation where everything is more and more expensive. I always laugh when red pills say THEY aren't impressed by her earnings. Well, she is earning for HER OWN well-being and to expect her to be okay with ending up as a bag lady if the romance thing doesn't happen is bonkers. This is not to say I have any issue with trad wives. That is a valid lifestyle too. Everyone should run their lives however they want to. But women do worry about being dependent on a man and how poor they will end up if the marriage doesn't work out or if he dies.
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  273.  @inconnu4961  You don't know what the meaning of "word salad" is. It means a lot of words that don't have any meaning. My words were straight to the point. Do you brush your hair before you go out? Do you bathe? Wear respectable clothes? If so, should I accuse you of doing it all for women? There have ALWAYS been standards of dress in every culture on this planet. What a weird thing to complain about. If you asked a woman on a date and she rolled up looking like she just got out of bed, you'd definitely complain about it . . . and you'd be right!
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  274. Bingo! He's not very smart it seems.
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  275. Is something stopping you from asking one of them on a date?
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  276.  @rnt45t1  Can't you see the problem there? If you are as you described yourself, you are not invisible to women. You are just absent.
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  277.  @rnt45t1  Pretend I'm a woman in your town you'd be interested in. Well, I never look your way because I never SEE you anywhere! I don't see you because you are not there to be seen. Do you have any hobbies or interests?
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  278. I don't know about Maria, but I'm in the process of starting a business. It's not about being a "boss babe" . . . it's about financial independence for myself and being able to help people that need it. I don't understand why red pill men think that just because men don't care about a woman's wealth, that SHE shouldn't care about it. I'm not going to impoverish myself because some man I haven't met doesn't value it. And finally, I personally don't want to choose a man based on how much money HE has. If I don't need the money, I can choose him because I like him. Though to be honest, I'm not looking for anyone. Just saying I'd rather be financially independent because it's in my best interest.
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  279.  @simon_patterson  The main draw for singleness is that it's peaceful. It also gives you time to get to know yourself and fine tune your lifestyle to what works for you. Even if I wanted to pair up, I wouldn't do it anytime soon, because starting the business requires all my attention. Soon it will run like clockwork, but the beginning stage is more intense.
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  280.  @simon_patterson  I made a vow not to tell anyone until it's out there and a big success. I will just say it was a SIMPLE idea that only required a lot of time and patience to devote to it. I had the idea years ago, but could not figure out a marketing structure for it until the solution popped into my brain last year. I was trying to sell a product to some big company last year, and as soon as I got the "No" from them, I dropped that and started working on this and never looked back. I've rarely been so certain of anything in my life.
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  281.  @adamrocks19  The man's part involves nothing but a few minutes of pleasure. Do I really have to explain the vast disparity of effort and physical danger between the man's and woman's part? In 2020, 850 women in the US died in pregnancy/childbirth. For EVERY woman who died, 70 MORE pregnant women required life-saving interventions to avoid death. That's 59,500 pregnant women who would have died without intervention. And that's only one year (2020). The numbers are similar each year. Below is a quote from Adebayo Adesomo, a fellow in the Department of Maternal-Fetal Medicine and instructor in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Utah. His M.D. is from the University of Texas Health Science Center: "Although pregnancy is not a disease, even one that is otherwise uncomplicated can go unexpectedly awry. The changes that the body undergoes during pregnancy that are needed to support an ongoing gestation are still physiologically akin to running a marathon. All of an expecting mother’s organs and bodily systems are put to a nine-month endurance test. The work of the heart and lungs increases by 30 to 50 percent (or even more in a twin pregnancy!), the kidneys filter more blood, the immune system adjusts, metabolic demands increase substantially, and there are myriad other changes. The way any given individual’s body reacts to these changes is unpredictable.
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  282.  @ironmonkey1512  Your opening comment says men make and maintain EVERYTHING.
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  283. Enjoy prison.
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  284. You're talking about men who have a madonna/whore complex and a double standard. Maybe she's just as upset about HIS past.
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  285.  @orangeandslinky  I wish you would use paragraphs because it's hard to read a wall of text. Women do not "always choose to be whores." There is no data indicating 40% of men are fathering babies that are not theirs. Women don't wish they were men. The rest of what you wrote is unintelligible, so I can't address it as it is written.
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  286.  @chad-9171  It should have explained it that way because that makes a lot more sense.
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  287.  @roses6564  Unless she's mentally ill.
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  288. We have had DNA testing for quite a while now.
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  289. Disagree.
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  290.  @memesofproduction3  You don't get out much. My main doctor is a woman. Plenty of female accountants, attorneys, surgeons, etc . . .
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  291. @@mudworld5307 Unfortunately, there is a bottomless well of toxic men out there. The funny thing is, they never announce their toxicity ahead of time. They are just self-aware enough to know they'd better hide who they really are until the relationship is further along. It's more a matter of those men being deceptive than it is that the women didn't "choose well". The women eventually leave the toxic men, but if they keep meeting those types of men, they just get tired. The Red Pill movement has increased the supply of toxic men who are being trained to despise women, so it's not getting better. The immature guy who runs this channel knows almost nothing about women. He couldn't find a coconut on Coconut Island. Yet young men flock here and drink his poison. :face-turquoise-drinking-coffee:
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  292.  @monty5961  You still don't get it.
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  293.  @ironmonkey1512  I'd love to hear your interpretation of what he wrote.
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  294.  @SquarishLink  Another one who doesn't get the point.
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  295.  @HumptyMcFly  You don't get the point.
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  296.  @Acetvn-kg6ty  You need a "partner" who gets a pleasurable orgasm as his part of the reproductive partnership, while the other partner takes on ALL the physical discomfort and risks to their health and life.
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  297.  @morepower1989  Men do more house chores than they did in the 1960s, but most of them still don't do 50%. That's not me talking - it's the stats talking.
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  298.  @carlospita6442  1) I don't have kids. 2) If a couple chooses to have kids, that doesn't mean one should be more exhausted than the other because the other won't do their share.
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  299.  @carlospita6442  Your comment makes no sense.
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  300. Your comment brings two things to mind. 1) You're a liar. 2) You're immature.
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  301.  @spacebear916  I see a BIG DIFFERENCE. In forums where women talk about what they dislike about men, they don't actively wish harm on them. They just stop having relationships with men. They really do go their own way. The manosphere doesn't really go their own way. They gleefully anticipate women hitting "the wall" or "dying alone" or "living with cats" (dumb memes) and that's the mild side. The other side is incels who go out and murder women or talk about it. There's a growing group of men on TikTok doing "What if" videos where they fantasize going on a date and physically harming or killing their date. One of these things is not like the other!
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  302.  @georgedang449  QUOTE: "Divorce rate is 90% for women with body count of 6+, 6% for virgins at time of marriage." Oh look! It's a typical Red Pill guy who pulls numbers directly from his ass.
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  303.  @djjukeboxhero6491  Vast majority of violent crime (murder, assault, rape) is done by men. It's the reason women have to watch their backs everywhere they go.
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  304.  @31minutesago  I don't have a neurosis and there's plainly nothing magnanimous about you, so feel free to stick to your true personality.
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  305.  @andreaslind6338  Because it's a red pill MYTH that most women prefer jerks. I would question where he finds these women. The only women who would respond favorably to jerks are women who grew up in abusive of dysfunctional families. They usually have low self-worth or jerky men seem normal to them because it's all they ever saw growing up. I'm a woman and I know women better than any of the men here. Most women HATE jerks and walk away from them once their jerkiness is revealed. Anyway, he never said he was acting like a jerk. He did not specify what "skills" he learned. He only said that he is detached from them and drops them if either of them develops feelings. No psychologist would say that is healthy.
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  306.  @juankeyblademaster  How would you feel if you didn't feel a connection to a particular woman and she became bitter?
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  307. Holding a pillow to sleep is NOT creepy behavior. Yes, you should be able to share your feelings with your wife. Those were not good relationships and most women are not like that.
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  308.  @randy4609  Depends on how he conveys it. I can't say what happened in your case because I was not there and don't have enough details to guess. But what happened to the OP is crazy. A pillow? Why would a woman be concerned about a pillow?
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  309.  @randy4609  Everyone is the captain of their own life, including women. I don't agree that men have to keep their feelings inside. I don't think you should have to change your true personality for anyone, unless there is something in your personality that harms others. It sounds like your marriage is pretty good, so I don't know that this channel is doing you any favors. Some of the men here make conclusions about women based on one or two weird ones.
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  310.  Finnhungambar  Their mindset is sad, but they can change if they want to. Have read several articles about senior women who took care of their husbands in their final illnesses and are now widows. So many of them never want to marry again because the thought of ending up as a caretaker again is exhausting. When the widows start dating, they find out the senior men they date are the ones wanting marriage more, while the women don't. Since fewer men end up in the caretaker role, no wonder they are more open to marriage in their later years.
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  311.  @nativetexanful  Should I believe you, or should I believe James Sexton, a prominent California divorce attorney who deals with wealthy clients? No one gets to claim they signed a prenup under duress without proving it. When a prenup is written correctly, it is written in such a way to prevent claims of signing under duress. Look up James Sexton. He's all over YouTube discussing divorce and prenups. Judges HAVE TO honor them if they are valid and it's easy for an attorney to make sure they are valid.
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  312. So what you're saying is that you want to trap women in marriages, even when it's a bad marriage. Men will benefit because they won't even have to be decent because she can't leave. The result will be that women will see the trap for what it is, and not marry or reproduce with you. Good luck.
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  313.  @sigerian1085  No, you can't. Ask a gynecologist. Your ignorance of female anatomy is staggering.
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  314.  @EC-yl7xk  Men don't even look up studies on women or know anything about our bodies. And when they do, they don't keep researching to see what else if out there, so when they find some outdated or poorly done study, they believe it.
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  315. How many rich men are nasty to be around?
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