Comments by "Lorri Lewis" (@lorrilewis2178) on "The way it ALL ENDS: the five endgames that all women face" video.

@Lilith-9223 The whole thing is delusional. He starts by admitting women are killing it in the workplace more than men, and never once stops to consider that men themselves have blighted their own prospects by falling behind. It's NOT that women are all looking for rich men, but they sure as hell expect someone who has their shit together. Fewer men are in that category now.
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"Men are the prize." 🤣😂😆🙄
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@Raymond7779 First of all, this idea that women can't find men in their 30s is funny. Do you know the latest thing happening with senior citizens? Senior men who are single are finding out that the senior women they're dating DO NOT want marriage. Senior men want marriage more than senior women. Once a woman has done the husband/family thing, they're over it. There have been several articles written about this. Secondly, lots of women don't care about having a husband or children.
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@Raymond7779 LOL. The senior women have their own money and don't need to or want to marry. Lots of women are just plain tired of men. They've found through experience that men end up being a detriment to the peaceful lives they've created for themselves. They realize they are usually less happy when they're in a relationship with one.
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@Mike-dz4vqgoiajdpgoiadj-9 I disagree that all women expect a man who earns more. They usually expect one who has something going on for himself and isn't just doing nothing with his life. There are more men NOT in the workforce at all than ever before. THAT caused the pool of eligible men to shrink.
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@beowulf_of_wall_st You literally just said a man who will treat you right is a RARE THING. That's why men in general are not a prize - good ones are all too rare.
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@Raymond7779 Choose your own beliefs, but there are no stats showing older women have more depression. Quite the opposite. Women can be very happy with their friends and full lives. There are stats that show widowers have more desire to remarry than widows do. That's because there are studies showing women are unhappier in marriage than men. Men really increase a woman's workload around the house. A very common sentiment among happily married older women is that when their husband dies, there is NO WAY they'd ever want to remarry. And the final nail in the coffin (literally) is that it's mostly women who have to do the caretaking for a declining spouse. Once is enough.
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@beowulf_of_wall_st Except, I don't need a man. Why on earth do you think I do? :body-blue-raised-arms:
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@beowulf_of_wall_st I've known lots of successful women and they are not holding their success over their husband's heads, nor are they argumentative. Crazy.
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These men are probably not familiar with the term "emotional labor", much less what it means. It's a LOT more work for a woman to live with a man than to be single or live with another woman. But men are convinced they're the prize.
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There are luxury indie brand bags that are more interesting, beautifully made, and better priced. That said, lots of women don't care about partnering up, and lots of women are just tired of men. I'm sure this will not compute, because you really believe men are the prize. Never before have so many men worried about what women are doing.
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@beowulf_of_wall_st The channel keeps popping up and he ASKED for feedback from women. Dude, I have been married and have had many serious relationships. If I wanted another one, I would do that. I don't want it.
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@beowulf_of_wall_st How is it that you still don't get it?
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@Raymond7779 Show the study. And the difference between married and unmarried women's rate of depression is overstated. Men are a lot happier in marriage than women because they benefit more.
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@richien8472 If you believe that, why are you so invested in worrying about what age women get married?
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Correct. So correct. They get jealous when their woman is doing well.
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You misunderstand the book/movie and that particular character. When the book was published in 1913, his character was written as an ignorant foolish blowhard. Why would any women accept a proposal that insults her to her face? Yet, that was not the reason for the refusal. The man was an ignorant fool and she was an intelligent woman who could not imagine spending the rest of her life with such a fool. The book is considered a classic and NO ONE thinks he was a desirable character.
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@joshuangeno628 Thank you for proving my point that men here will have NO idea what the term means. "Emotional labor" is a term that has been coined for all the unpaid work of running a family and household. Even when women work full-time, they have less "down time" because they are mentally taxed with keeping on top of everyone's schedules, children's schooling needs, errands, groceries, nutrition, housekeeping, holiday arrangements, etc . . . Most men are blissfully uninvolved or barely involved and they can't understand why their wife is tired all the time.
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@emilianosintarias7337 Men don't have their brains constantly taxed with all the arrangements of running a family and household, in addition to working full-time.
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@emilianosintarias7337 Go back and read the comments I made. You don't understand the term "emotional labor" yet. It's not about emotions.
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@Raymond7779 Scroll up and read the comments, dude. I posted three links right in the comments. You must not know many older women. Right off the top of my head, I thought of two 65-year-old women I knew. One was widowed and the other divorced in her 50s. The widowed one is not young looking for her age, but she is currently dating two men. She goes out to dinners and plays golf with them. The divorced one does look young for her age. She was in a relationship after her divorce. Now, she's been in a very serious relationship for over a year with a guy her age. And aside from the men in these two women's lives, they had happy full lives in between relationships. They also have large friendship groups of older women and they all do all kinds of activities together. I see nothing but smiles in their group photos.
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