Comments by "Lorri Lewis" (@lorrilewis2178) on "Most MEN BLOW the FIRST DATE: why you are your own worst enemy" video.

  1. So, you are saying you think very little of yourself.
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  2.  @inconnu4961  You married her. I assume there was no gun being held to your head.
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  3. You literally said what I was thinking while watching the video. There was something in the man's profile that was appealing, and that's not a fantasy unless he lied in his profile. And it's kinda sad that people have to be told they should genuinely be interested in the other person, but it's true. If the man only talks about himself, she's going to think he's only interested in himself and not all curious about who she is.
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  4. Tell us you don't like women without telling us you don't like women.
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  5. You do understand there's a difference between how humans are expected to dress to go out vs. how they dress at home, don't you? It's never been proper to wear lounging-around clothes anywhere but at home. You would be weirded out if a woman showed up to a date like that. Just like a woman would be weirded out if you showed up like that.
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  6.  @scottverge938  I was going to say the same. Maybe he's disappointed because he wanted to brag and was told not to?
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  7.  @carlospita6442  Explain to me why a man who believes women have nothing of value to say, is watching a video about how to date them. If you don't enjoy their company, don't try to date them!!!
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  8.  @deanholness4864  You're the poor soul who can't figure out why he wants to date people who have nothing of value to say.
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  9.  @carlospita6442  Women are individuals, so what they each bring to the table varies. If you aren't interested in women, then you wasted your time on this video.
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  10.  @keepawake3055  I don't know ANY women like that. Where do you find them? The only time I could see them not saying much is if the questions are coming off as an interrogation rather than a natural conversation.
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  11. They really make it too complicated. Women don't want to listen to a guy brag endlessly about himself. It's boring and it suggests he's not interested in anyone but himself, let alone the new woman sitting across from him. He should be trying to get to know her and vice versa.
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  12. Also, no one wants to feel like the date is a job interview. We don't want to feel like we're getting interviewed or that we're doing the interviewing. It should be two people getting to know each other with no expectations beyond that for the moment.
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  13.  @manee2412  I have never ranked my feelings about men I've dated based on their looks. I rank them by how I felt being with them. If I take the top two (calling them "top two" based on good memories), they were not objectively the most good looking of all the ones I dated.
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  14.  @manee2412  You aren't me. You didn't live my life. I know my truth. You don't. However, you have the right to keep wallowing in self-pity and low self-esteem as long as you choose it.
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  15.  @inconnu4961  You don't know what the meaning of "word salad" is. It means a lot of words that don't have any meaning. My words were straight to the point. Do you brush your hair before you go out? Do you bathe? Wear respectable clothes? If so, should I accuse you of doing it all for women? There have ALWAYS been standards of dress in every culture on this planet. What a weird thing to complain about. If you asked a woman on a date and she rolled up looking like she just got out of bed, you'd definitely complain about it . . . and you'd be right!
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  16. Your comment brings two things to mind. 1) You're a liar. 2) You're immature.
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