Comments by "Wakeup and Sniff the Coffee" (@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee) on "Dr. Todd Grande" channel.

  1. I am in my late sixties, two boys and a girl in the middle. This describes her perfectly. Shes had kids from different fathers and although her mother and i are divorced, we have always helped her because of the grandkids. She and her kids live with me and her oldest is 20 and almost ready to get out of school and move away. But with inly months to go, she would rather make a dramatic move and leave the house, she and her kids lived rent and utilities free. All the things you describe, I have years of texts, where I have been bombarded by her if things didnt go her way. My ex and i have invested over two years to get her son though school and out of tech school, where he can make really good money, but her attitude with her own kids and parents is like she is trying to sabotage his success and because we arent as hard on him as she was, she says we are spoiling him. She would take him to therapy to convince heraelf and the therapists that he has issues, never herself. If we ever try to point the light on her, she just blows up. Nearly 20 years of helping her and her kids is going down the drain and no gratitude for the help she has had. Its always that we like the boys better, its a men versus women bias and the boys can do no wring, its always her. That is far from the truth. We have dealt with many issues among the boys, but they tend to iwn up and take the responsibility for their life and their kids. So this video really hit hime for ne right now. The question is how to deal with all of these behaivors. I doubt she will ever see it in herself, so stepping back and living our own lives, is about the only option. Luckily one grandchild will be on his own and one is 15 and close to keaving the nest and the youngest at 7 has a good father to help raise her, away from this environment. I need to skim through your videos to find an answer. In the meantime, she uses the sicial media echo chamber to feel like she is right, from ither women in the same situation.
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