Comments by "Wakeup and Sniff the Coffee" (@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee) on "Soft White Underbelly" channel.

Wow, I'm impressed what you have made possible financially for this family. Side note, it seemed like Ray wanted to show you the electric box, not the creek. The whole family has really come alive since you first came across them.
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It's gotta be nice to have over 200 acres of mountain that your family all came from. Compared to living in a typical neighborhood where you can spit into the neighbor's window.
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This was an excellent video. He did an excellent job explaining everything. Our family court system is one of the main reasons for the decline of male and female relationships and marriage. Men have been totally screwed over in family courts and women use marriage as a way to get the man's resources. If society is going to survive, the whole legal system needs to be changed and quit excluding men from being with and influencing their children. So many of the weak men, men in prisons and transgendered nen, come from single mothers. Most never had a father or a male presence in their life and this is the results.
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Tight kitchen as it is and having Ray's bed there doesn't help. Looks like everyone enjoys their coffee. Always a good time of day to socialize. Wow, Timmy does word searches. That's great.
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Trusting anyone with that kind of money without strict stipulations is asking for trouble. Allowing people that have no real education and ability to deal with it is really bad. There should have been a conservative put in charge that could really represent their best interest. It is really crap that you got dragged into all this. I commend you for facing up with them and trying to expose it. It's hard to blame a drug addict, but still they should not be let off and have excuses.
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That's a waste of money to go to North Carolina. Without a job and a place to live, how is she possibly going to make it there. You saying that you will give her money to go just makes feed for her next scam.
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Those dogs know how to work them. 😆
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I wonder how much of this is genetic or perhaps tied to the coal mines? Ray has lived quite a while. Amazing that they all live so long and are healthy. Must be that mountain living.
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It's great to have a spouse that is your best friend, but without having some real conversations about how sex is a part of that, a spouse can end up sort of friend zoning their spouse and then sex becomes hard.
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So many lost generations that grow up with parents in jail, dead or strung out. Grandparents raise them. The next generation after will have no grandparents to do the same thing.
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This was like the sum of the manosohere red pill movement. I've listened to a lot of great channels and they should all run this video and talk about it. I'm sharing the heck out of it with channels I listen to.
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Damn! I wish I could memorize everything he is saying and the divorce lawyer you also interviewed. I would love to talk about these issues with such a clear understanding, in depth, like these two individuals.
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47:27 I wonder how many people sucked the Whitaker's for money. It had to be the case, because they wouldnt even think about it if there wasn't.
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He is so spot on with everything he says. I have to say that when men see the mother of their children, their wife, etc in an emotional way, it decreases their drive for sex. They want that sex to be almost animalistic and that's what they get with the random women that they would never wife up. So it makes it very hard to transfer those feeling on someone you love, that you will spend your life with and that gave you children. Maybe if they practice role playing it is possible, but even then it can also drive away that love they had. I compare that with an elderly single man, looking to date a woman and the one's his age look more like his mom or grandma. That seriously kills the desire for that man. So looking at younger good looking women just ignites the right feelings for the man. It's also a hard type of relationship if the man isn't looking to start another family with kids, but that woman may have a tribe in tow or if she hasn't had kids, she will want one and will not stay faithfully in a relationship with the older man. Those feelings make it almost impossible for a man to develop a long term relationship. I think that if a man has had a chance to know a woman closer to his age and value her for who she is, not the sex, there is a better chance for wanting to stay with that person. In a good way, the creator or nature gave man a declining sex drive, which may help him develop a relationship that is not based on sex. Unfortunately, a woman is often finally ready for some sex after she has gotten older and back on the dating market. So now the man is able to be with her, looks and all, because his drive has tapered off, but she is wanting sex and another imbalance begins. I think a good older woman has the capability to restart his desires if she is willing to put in the effort.
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I find myself doing the high pitched grunt thing, sounds sort of like hey, that the whitaker man would say. The one that couldn't speak. It's a classic sound.
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1:28:23 in the past, as lower earners, the women would consider guys that earn much less than her. The more they earn, the more the man needs to earn to be considered. In the past, a guy with a job that could pay the bill is what they looked for. The scary thing is the amount of young women that are hardly earning much or even unemployed have such unrealistic requirements. The woman can be unemployed and expect a guy to make $100k or more. Even the ones that are hard to look at, obese, mentally unstable, often with kids in tow and huge body counts, saying they are the table have very few men that would even look at them twice.
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I thought that there were ways to delay a comment. Then if the people aren't dead set to leave one, they kind of forget and move on.
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 @subtomypage I'm trying to do things and just listen in my earbuds, but her accent, combined with the way she talks does make it difficult to listen to. Not unpleasant, just hard for me.
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Are people offered any money or compensation for doing Ng these interviews?
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He has an amazing ability to talk continuously about these subjects and just makes total sense. You did good with only a few questions and comments. He handles this talk on his own really well and less interruptions works out well. While I never heard him before your channel, I can see where many other YouTubers have been carrying his same messages. I sure wish women I have known would have been open to listening to him. Unfortunately, I don't know any women that would sit through his talk or even agree with much. Being married twice, in both marriages ,any attempts at therapy ended with the wife walking out on the therapist before the end of the session. It was a woman therapist each time. The therapist tried to call them on their way of thinking and they weren't having it. Women on Tiktok and other social spaces go on and on about finding themselves and doing the work, yet I have stuck with years of therapy to help me through, but women only do therapy if they hear what they want to or can just go to cry and feel like they are doing something.
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Its a rough situation when most of the Whittaker family don't have the mental facilities to full absorb all of this. I have followed and enjoyed the series and other work you have done. I have also watched Tyler's channel. It's unfortunate that people go looking for the negative in these situations and try to increase their channels views. I would hope he wasn't doing it out of malice, more just ignorance. I hate that it put you in this situation and you now have to change course. I really feel for the family because i am sure they don't fully understand what is happening and how to properly thank you, but instead they will be baffled now by this new turn of events and having to deal with no money coming in. The family really needed some legal representation to help keep it all above board. It is really hard for just an average person to try to juggle it and not look like something is shady. I hope things improve for you all and thanks for your efforts to help them.
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I can attest personally that the Kratom leaf can help people get off most drugs, especially pain meds and opiates. They want to crack down on Kratom, but for something not much worse than a cup of coffee, it can ease a person off the pain of opiates. Having been on pain meds for over a decade, committing suicide can come to mind easily when the withdrawals hit. I wish they made it available for these people. On another hand, all that settlement money from the makers that pushed the pain meds, should go towards helping rehabilitate these people, but I'm sure the states take the money and dole it out as they want, not what is needed. The news of Larry's death has been greatly exaggerated.
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Who are all the people talking in the background on this video?
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This and the divorce attorney help me bring together all the man channels and red pill info I've heard for the past year. They should all be doing a dialog video about your three videos.
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I've seen shows about these religious orders, but this is a great interview with someone that believes in it.
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The oroblem i have with your channel is that my brain can absorb it all as fast or as much as I would like it too. I want to watch all your videos, but feel like I need to keep jumping to another subject. You have a life time if video binging available already.
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People are really worried that a person offering something, always have an angle.
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32:26 as your psychologist mentioned in his interview, men have a harder time having raw desire for sex with a women they respect so much as with a wife. As a wife becomes a mother to his children, she's not only the mother of his kids, she represents motherhood and that relates back to his mom. It is hard to find sexual desire when his spouse can be seen in his mind as being like his mother, unless he has some fetish. So a prostitute might be easier to just have sex with. But on the other hand, a man is driven to protect women and love them. So often a prostitute and her lifestyle might bring out the feeling that the man wants to help and protect her. I would imagine that many men might choose to be with a prostitute and then have a hard time actually having sex, because now he wants to protect her and not violate her as a person. This then kills that desire for sex. To get past that, a man might just have to work at suppressing his real feelings in order to just have sex and be over it. Many prostitutes are already hardened to these feelings and would not like a man to feel protective. She probably avoids any feelings and wants to just do the deed and get paid and leave her alone so she can get in to the next guy.
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