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I grew up in Hawaii on Maui. When I was young and hunted, we had wild pigs, most pigs brought with the first Hawaiians, later they bread with domestic. While abundant, they took some skill to get.
Later goats began to go wild and were another hunted animal.
I dont remember ever seeing a deer when I was young, but slowly over time axis deer were brought and now these days, there are hundreds in a herd, wandering and eating the farmers produce and feeding in the golf course grass.
In fact, there are more deer than food to feed them.
Yet hunters are not pushed heavily to harvest them.
They do so much damage that the state will occasionally fly over in helicopters and shoot them, leaving the meat to waste.
My main point is that feral animals abound in a place like Maui, yet they raise local beef, which is good, but they need to really advocate for hunters to reduce the populations and encourage people to eat deer.
My friend's sons hunt and make sausage with it, but laws restrict the resale of wild meat.
Its a crazy world.
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5:09 Hawaii was this way when I was growing up.
My friends were Filipino , Portuguese, chinese, Hawaiian, Japanese, Somoan, Tongan and some Caucasians called Ha'ole. Over a few decades and generations, alcohol, drugs, especially meth, caused this family lifestyle to fall apart.
The families had backyard barbeques, people played music, of course these adults were into drinking beer, by about 1975, the younger generations that couldn't drink legally, got into drugs. Because the money from real estate began to bring lots of mainlanders in, it also brought in high end drugs like coke.
The worst drug was meth, besides losing friends to it, it tore the family fabric to pieces.
Eventually the youngest kids grew up, never knowing the way it was. They only knew parents and family members that died, went to jail or were too busy lurking off to find drugs.
I got to watch this fall apart over my years.
I moved away, as many of my family members did too.
Now I would not expect to return to Hawaii and find anything that I could recognize or relate to
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I'm 67. I was 50 when I got divorced from my second wife.
Frankly, I know I'm old now, but am in good health, not overweight, retired and while not rich, I have enough. Enough, as long as I don't get involved with a woman.
I really am not interested in having another family, so a single, older, especially if they are financially well off, would be nice, except, they look like my grandmother.
I didn't want to date a woman that looked that old when I was young and I really don't want to now either.
I would rather avoid women all together than date old and overweight women, mostly likely going to have health issues by now or a younger good looking lady that is so entitled and expects to just live off of me.
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I worked for myself and went to a utility, I retired just shy of 30 years, but the last few years I went out on disability for a few years.
As much as I still wanted to work and do projects coming up, it's a blessing to have gone out on disability.
The company at that point was quickly falling apart culturally. New supervisors that new nothing about the job they were hired for, just because they towed the line.
Upper management went through a bunch of switch outs and the company felt completely different.
Being a utility, the company is secure, but only wanted yes people and puppets.
It's no doubt that if I didn't have a health issue, I would not have lasted much longer.
Some left what was considered the best paying company by most people, yet as soon as people had a decent amount of years built up and retirement waiting, they left and went to the government, the next best paying job with benefits.
I've been retired now for many years and sure I wish I had a bigger retirement to live on now, but mentally and emotionally I would only have a few years left.
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Had to add that at a young age, probably any age, when people are somewhat introverted and shy in social situations, that's where alcohol does its dirty work. At 16 and no big social circle, introverted and then getting the first buzz from a beer, that tastes disgusting and is hard to get down anyways, it changes your brain chemistry. All of a sudden your social, talking up, people are laughing, probably at you for being a fool, but it feels like you are the life of the party.
A few more times struggling to quickly drink a nasty beer for the buzz, not the taste and then running with friends that just did the same, the world is unleashed. Having fun, doing stupid stuff and before long, you just can't wait for the next weekend or time to get a buzz and party on 😎 dude!
Before long, your body adjusts and your social life follows and you are chasing that buzz and that party that was so much fun, but they get fewer and further apart.
Next thing your old, drinking alone, just because you can't stand not drinking and don't know what normal is.
If you finally make it past all that and haven't drank for a year or more, suddenly it's a new world and you understand better how to maneuver in it and be happy.
Just don't start!
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Back when the sugar industry was running in Hawaii, Maui in particular, the owners of the mill, fields and a very big portion of Maui, named A&B, Alexander and Baldwin, the original families that amassed most of the real Este in Hawaii with a few other families, they laid off the field workers for two weeks every year around Christmas to lower their costs.
Later in the company magazine, I read where the person that set the lay offs up, made a huge bonus each year for laying them off.
So all these farm workers families, mostly Filipino, Japanese and Hawaiian had to tighten their belts every Christmas and New Years to get by. All while the money saved just went to the top executives. Not like it helped them become a stronger company.
Had they used that money to reinvent the farms from sugar to diversified agriculture, they would still be in the business.
Instead they shut it down and sold it to concentrate on their real estate developments in Hawaii.
Obviously making more money in real estate.
I don't live there after a lifetime there and the houses are WAY over what an average person can afford.
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America's enemies only have to sit back and be patient. These troubles will be the end to civilized countries.
I don't care who immigrates to our country, but there is a reason to go through the vetting process in order to sort the good from the bad as well as possible.
There are no guarantees that a vetted legal immigrant won't be a bad apple, but at least the countries know more about them, where they came from and how they plan to support themselves and add something good to our country.
For many years, immigrants have moved to various countries and added to the quality of not only their life, but others.
To just throw the doors open and allow the worst people entry, unvetted and with no way to track them in the country is ludicrous.
Many other countries wouldn't do that.
As an American citizen, law abiding and able to support myself, I have had trouble trying to visit my son and grandson in Australia.
The vetting process asked questions that I have to answer, so a minor issue with a very evil second ex-wife left a mark on me legally.
I had to go through hoops to get police and court records to show them for a visa.
The day they denied me from visiting and closed the case on me, is the day the police clearance arrived, clearing me of any wrong doing.
So I have to try again. If it wasn't for family in Australia, I wouldn't even bother trying to go, but my fear is it could affect my passport negatively.
So I will try again.
To see people just pouring into our countries and others, while people cry that everyone should be admitted, makes me sick to my stomach.
I too have noticed the difference as people come in illegally and yet qualify for more benefits than residents, elderly and vets.
I don't mind immigrants taking jobs, what I resent is they get away without contributing to our system. Social security that many of us elderly depend on is always at danger of going bankrupt and yet if all these people were legal and worked legally, there would not be issues with Social security becoming insolvent.
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I came out of a school for electronics and worked in a small business. Prior to college I helped my oarents run a small neighborhood store and then a brand new movie theater.
So working on my own seemed the way to go.
I bought the business I was working in with some help.
I built a pretty good business, but basically just survived for 14 years while raising a family.
I finally had a job opening for an aerospace company, wirking nights there and still doing my businees the rest if the time.
That didnt work out beyond a few years and I went back to my business.
Another couple years and an electric utility job opened. I applied and was hired.
I sold my business and probably didn't make much.
But I was able to work oart time in that business and work for the utility.
Almost 30 years later, I had to retire due to a disability, which kead to bankruptcy and foreclosure.
Bottomline though is that if I hadnt worked for a company to earn retirement and disability coverage, I would have been screwed.
These days working so long for a corporation, union or not, they will probably just let you go early.
I was lucky, but having your own business isn't the answer unless you are very shrewed in business and your skill, or have a killer idea.
In the end, having your own business can be a bad mistake too.
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25 years of marriage and finding myself alone when my wife monkey branches and me a total inexperienced guy.
I held off dating for a full year.
I wish I knew all this stuff then.
I basically became a target. Good job and the first wife didn't exactly run me through the ringer.
So I had a good job and a 2nd job to boot with decent income.
I became a target. Like an idiot I fell for it.
Single mom, three kids from all different dads and I fell for her dog and pony show.
I thought I found someone and got lucky.
Fast forward 6 years, she had me under her thumb, ran off my friends and family, tried to have a baby with me and locked me down big time. That didn't happen thank goodness.
She went from this seemingly living and nurturing person to a controlling and fully dominating wife.
Having worked awhile in social services and with three ex husbands, she knew the laws and how a woman has all the control.
She set me up real good and it took most of my resources to just get out of it.
I bought the house, so she walked away with some money and within a year after the divorce was final, she ran down to Australia to meet a guy she met online and within a few months was remarried.
I think 6 months in, she worked him over big-time too. She thought she could get his resources, which wasn't much, but she couldn't
He called me after it blew up. My ex wife's new husband calls to compare notes and it was the same scam she pulled in him.
Being an Australian citizen, she ground him up and spit him out.
I think she even went on to stalk or marry number 6.
Some women should have their foreheads tattooed to warn men.
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Even though some of the passport bros are out to bed multiple women over seas, that is just a slice of them. Many are in search of the long term woman.
In the meantime, a majority of the western women are spending their early decades, basically doing the same. Moving from Chad to Tyrone and back. Racking up body counts, then complaining that they were used, even though they chose the lifestyle and could have given a good average guy a chance and build a life with him.
After bouncing around, ignoring the good men, in search of who they believe is better, they hit the wall and start crying that it's then man's fault and try to paint a picture of passport bros as nearly pumping and dumping these foreign women.
Having followed many of the passport bro vloggers, a big percentage don't even get involved with women, while they roam the country to see where and who the most likely good wife material is at.
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My 9 year old granddaughter has been glued to me doing yardwork, planting and always up for anything.
Lately it is more of a challenge to distract her from social media.
She does a grandpa sleepover night once a week.
I still do a lot of stuff and things that are not ordinary with her.
We can't expect kids or grandkids to grow up and want to spend their time with the elderly.
I expected it a lot earlier based on kids and older grandkids, so I am enjoying what time we have.
I know I am imprinted in my kids and grandkids heart, but just like I did as a kid, we move on and grow up.
These days, just viewing your wife as a best friend is doomed.
If you have no life beyond them, that's the way it will be.
Learn to be happy on your own.
Most of my close friends I grew up around got into drugs and alcohol or died. I drifted away from that and now living across the country, my animals, farm and gardening is my life. Fixing cars and whatever projects I get into.
Occasionally, as money is available I will travel some, but can't afford to do that very often.
This guy's relationship falling apart with his wife is a good precursor to other relations failing.
Kids either take sides or drift away to get out of the drama.
He should focus on his wife and if that is not going anywhere, get a road map on how to get out, it won't get better.
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I'm a grandfather retired boomer. With three kids, six grankids and two ex-wives, I went through early retirement due to a disability, which led to bankruptcy and foreclosure.
Now 10 years later, I have good credit, a new home and land in Virginia.
Most of the last 18 years since my last divorce, I've helped at least one of my three kids at various times.
Now my eldest grandson just finished aircraft mechanic school and has a job working on small planes and earning a halfway good income, the same as fast food workers in California.
He's getting good experience, but will need to move to a bigger company before long to double or even triple his income.
A 21 year old man that knows the whole dilemma that is dating, he will enjoy life single and having toys.
I basically am providing his home and some expenses, as he doesn't make enough to be entirely on his own yet.
He is doing his best to help me pay my bills and money I have put out for him, but until he can move to a higher paying job, he is stuck living with me.
I would love to just enjoy retirement and have plenty of income and few expenses, but that day is not yet, soon though.
As a father and grandfather, I enjoy my ability to help my family, but the economy in this country is making it harder and harder for young people to get out on their own.
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When you mentioned women and foreign men, my mind was racing.
I thought back to all the old movies from the forties to the sixties. A lot of them was the attractive women, going to Europe, especially France, Spain and Portugal and hooking up with the foreign chad.
The theme generally had the Chad acting like he had money to pump and dump these American women. Some cases they did have money of their own or family money passed down.
These men did the pump or dump because they had no real money, because if they were self made men, they would not want to be seen by other professionals marrying an American women or if they had money from family, the family would be down on them for finding an American and not a girl of their own country.
The women, sometimes with little money, but most with days money would go to continue their "education" in Europe or to do the one two year find themselves and see the world thing. Just excuses to get with foreign chads.
Overall, Foreign men will usually use, pump and dump the more attractive women from America and move on, eventually finding a local girl with the qualities to be a wife.
The pumped and dump women might accumulate some wealth from these situationships and many would go home broke and cry about their lives. Boo hoo😢.
Bottom line very few men in America and the world actually want the modernized American woman.
It's not that they have a think about them being from America, it's about the whole load of crap they have bought into and now believe wholeheartedly.
American men want a good American wife, why not? They are the same language, often the same nationalities and have similar cultural upbringings.
The problem is that the American women went the way of feminism and don't understand that what they are rejecting, isn't even true.
Men don't dislike independent, thinking women. They just want a woman that is actually feminine and not trying to be a man.
The whole reversal of roles in the American sexes stinks. Women want to be the man, when it's convenient and men are being driven into thinking they are women.
So many guys now speak more feminine than almost any woman. It's sickening to hear a guy put so much over the top inflection into their speech to try and sound feminine.
Blah is all I can say.
Stop the bus, I want off.
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My grandson graduated from aircraft mechanic school and while he should be earning $30 to $40 an hour at least, he had to take a job locally at a small airplane repair company for $20 an hour and no overtime.
There are lots of big companies that he could be earning $100k a year.
The problem is he would have to relocate around the country, mostly in bigger cities and his rent, insurance, food, etc would make it almost impossible.
I prefer he stay with me, help me out as he can financially, and get a good year or more learning to repair various types of planes, versus doing a repetitive job day in and day out.
Because he has the FAA A&P certificates, he can work at a very wide variety of jobs that require it. So from small planes, military ships and planes up to rockets.
He will do okay because he is only 21 and has a great future.
Myself I'm retired from an electric utility and in a fixed, but doable income for getting by and helping him get started.
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My response to a 70 year old that has had a wonderful life and doesn't understand why everyone thinks like this.
"There is always an exception to the rule. I'm 68 and not an exception. My parents weren't the exception, both my wife's parents were not the exception.
Most of my friends parents were not the exception.
The few people that were an exception were far and few between.
Even many of those exceptions maintained a marriage and were not happy and just endured it.
I have known a few beautiful couples that stayed together and spread that down into their bloodline, but even then, somewhere down the bloodline it does strike and the exception rule falls apart.
I and many others have our hats off to you sir, but you are an exception.
I also wonder when a person loses their spouse, if their relationship was as ideal as they remember it. A loss like that makes the person focus on the good times, whereas a loss due to divorce or infidelity makes the person focus on the bad times.
In addition, you were married twice to people that passed away. My heart goes out to you, I would have had a hard time with that myself.
But, if your first spouse had lived, we don't know if you two would have made it to the end.
Culture plays a big part in how people change as individuals.
You were married a second time and again, would that marriage have been so ideal if it spanned a lifetime for you both.
Now at 70, you are in a much different frame of mind and physically your desires no doubt have waned some, like most men, so staying married at that age may be much easier.
Again, I applaud you and wished everyone was more like you, but I wanted to point out some variables in your life that don't exist in most men's lives."
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Ringo Starr did a great song. "No no no I don't need it no more, tired of waking up on the floor. No thank you please, it only makes me sneeze and then it makes it hard to find the door."
I grew up in Hawaii. We had Kanekapili parties in the backyard, barbequing, families getting together, playing music, talking stories and kids running with their friends.
The adults spent the night on the picnic tables, drinking, smoking and having so much fun. We watched all that and couldn't wait to get older to drink and have that fun, but we began earlier, sneaking beers and liquor.
Later in the evening, drunken adults got obnoxious and unruly. Saying or doing things that weren't acceptable or stuff they would normally do.
Lots of time by the late night and early morning, the heavies got into arguments, which helped the party end, many times badly and police coming.
Later over the years, the same parties shifted, the uncles and siblings older than us, maybe in their 20's began the party with a few drinks and then switched to drugs.
This really changed the dynamic of the parties.
Kids running around to now seeing drunks and druggies for their role models.
Eventually, while alcohol was still there, stuff like heroin and meth came in the scene.
Before long, most families were broken as the parents were hauled off to prison terms if lucky and dead if not.
Now parentless kids were being raised by older parents or grandparents, some, if not many, alcoholics themselves.
I think kids today do show signs of waking up to being just normal and actually living.
I'm 67, quit drinking and drugging awhile ago. When I say drugging, I include prescription medicines.
I am in better health, mentally and physically than I ever have been.
I got sick of knowing my kids had to see me like that and swore my grandkids wouldn't know that man.
I love the man, grandpa I am today.
Single, working on cars, raising animals on a small Virginia farm and being a role model to my grandkids.
Big business used the power of the media to sell us all down the crapper. The media can influence everyone, especially the children.
Just look at what kids are being sold now.
Being gay isn't just happy anymore.
There is no way to describe gender properly anymore.
Sexes trying to become other genders.
It's a new set of problems 😢 and so sad for the latest generations.
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My 20yr old grandson has spent most of his life raised by my daughter and I have been his father figure.
Over the years he's helped me work on mowers as a very young boy and now fresh out of High School, he went straight to aviation mechanic school in Virginia.
Except for a very rocky few months when he met a younger girl and was ready to abandon his dreams and run off to get married, he's been on track.
That girl messed with him and boys on the side. He finally opened his eyes, when his heart was broken and swore off these girls.
Now he is a typical guy, playing games with buddies online, but learning to tend to his adult needs and how to make and budget money.
In a month when he gets his A&P certificate, he is on his way to a starting pay of $60k, with sign on bonuses. In a few years, he will top six figures before even 25.
If he steers clear of women until at least 25, he has an excellent chance of a great life.
Of course, as we all know, a woman could squirm her way in between him and his money and dreams.
Hopefully, he will continue to learn. I sent your videos to him to enlighten him.
My granddaughters are another issue. I'm doing what I can with them, but all three kids have different dads that don't live with their mom.
But grandpa is doing his best. My ex, grandma is also still working alongside me to help them get through life.
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The easiest way is just be outright honest and communicate and slow down.
Ascertain whether the relationship would last without lots of sex.
People lie and manipulate others to get what their fantasy is.
But regardless, you can't take back body counts.
A majority of men haven't even had aex with one women, so the majority doesn't come with a heavy body count.
This misperception is that men have sex every chance they can, but that's the minority Chads and Tyrones, not the majority of men.
Yet the majority of women have huge body counts, whether they admit it or not.
At 67, I married my first relationship, years later a second marriage was with the second person I was ever with. Fast forward 6 years to the end of that marriage, she had an underderermined amount of relationship, baded on her stories, I figure about 19.
I've been relationship free since 2006. I don't see the big rush.
Sex isn't enough to overlook how these women act, regardless of body count.
I understand the control hormones have on people, especially young people.
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There is always an exception to the rule. I'm 68 and not an exception. My parents weren't the exception, both my wife's parents were not the exception.
Most of my friends parents were not the exception.
The few people that were an exception were far and few between.
Even many of those exceptions maintained a marriage and were not happy and just endured it.
I have known a few beautiful couples that stayed together and spread that down into their bloodline, but even then, somewhere down the bloodline it does strike and the exception rule falls apart.
I and many others have our hats off to you sir, but you are an exception.
I also wonder when a person loses their spouse, if their relationship was as ideal as they remember it. A loss like that makes the person focus on the good times, whereas a loss due to divorce or infidelity makes the person focus on the bad times.
In addition, you were married twice to people that passed away. My heart goes out to you, I would have had a hard time with that myself.
But, if your first spouse had lived, we don't know if you two would have made it to the end.
Culture plays a big part in how people change as individuals.
You were married a second time and again, would that marriage have been so ideal if it spanned a lifetime for you both.
Now at 70, you are in a much different frame of mind and physically your desires no doubt have waned some, like most men, so staying married at that age may be much easier.
Again, I applaud you and wished everyone was more like you, but I wanted to point out some variables in your life that don't exist in most men's lives.
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11:34 no friends, but who voted for you to become a homecoming queen?
You might have had friends, but you already had a negative self talk going on and wasn't able to see those that would have become friends.
I was always quiet and shy. Overweight when I was young and moved to Hawaii prior to 7th grade and was one of a couple other white kids. Only one was my age.
Later on after 16 alcohol made us all more friendly, but now retired and in my 60's and don't drink, it's hard again to find friends.
It can be just as hard as an elderly person. The people you click with don't reach out and you don't make an effort and that made them wonder why you were that way.
In school, it didn't matter if a guy was short, fat, the bad boy or whatever, as long as they didn't think about it and were outgoing.
As an adult, it works better if you realize that you can't worry about it and if no one likes you so be it, but you would likely be in more demand if you make the effort.
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These stories are so common.
As social media, Tiktok and dating sites become more available to women throughout the world, the more westernized these women become.
The province girls might be decent enough, but the more access to the internet they have, the more they are influenced by the influencers.
Every year, months and days, more are turned to the dark side.
Considering their prospects and access to schools and jobs, scamming guys becomes a job for them and then they are addicted to the easy money that this disception brings.
Women love to recruit other women to help validate what they must know deep down inside is immoral and downright criminal.
Soon they and their friends are rolling in their ill-gotten gains.
The window where you could meet a province type girl is quickly disappearing and like Bo says, you have to live there, be familiar with the people and then, maybe, just maybe, you can meet an honest, good hearted woman.
But, and it's a big but, the laws in the country can definitely go against a foreigner.
The Philippines says that kids must take care of their parents and family. So if you marry one, you are legally responsible for helping her family.
They know that and the family members will crawl out from the forests and under rocks, if they hear someone married a foreigner, just to get a piece of the pie.
If you have a strong Filipina, she may hold them back, not really wanting to lose money that belongs to you and her, but they are raised to help the family.
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