Comments by "lordsneed" (@lordsneed9418) on "Creepiest Dating Coach Ever" video.

not really . For example some girls want a guy to ask them out multiple times to see that he is really interested before they say yes. Or for another example, sometimes flirtation and seduction is about "shit-tests" and a bit of a sparr over tension and boundaries. Girls often don't want to make it too easy for a guy and enjoy the feeling of being persued, enjoy the feeling of making it somewhat difficult for him. if you guys aren't aware of this then you just lack experience or have a very narrow range of experience
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@CobraKiss-lx5mw You people are so sheltered and misuse the word "toxic" so badly. "a girl likes to play hard to get that means she must be cruel and wicked" please grow up.
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let's be real here, it is actually true that you don't always have to accept a woman's rejection. For example some girls want a guy to ask them out multiple times to see that he is really interested before they say yes. Or for another example, sometimes flirtation and seduction is about "shit-tests" and a bit of a sparr over tension and boundaries. Girls often don't want to make it too easy for a guy and enjoy the feeling of being persued, enjoy the feeling of making it somewhat difficult for him. if you guys don't know this then you just lack experience or have a very narrow range of experience
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let's be real here, it's true that you don't always have to accept a woman's rejection. For example some girls want a guy to ask them out multiple times to see that he is really interested before they say yes. Or for another example, sometimes flirtation and seduction is about "shit-tests" and a bit of a sparr over tension and boundaries. Girls often don't want to make it too easy for a guy and enjoy the feeling of being persued, enjoy the feeling of making it somewhat difficult for him. if you guys don't realise this then you just lack experience or have a very narrow range of experience
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@asum7213 there are young women who behave that way at any age. also you're kind of conceding the point. teenagers flirt and date too.
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@7eddiii the difference is that you'll probably be able to tell that she's still open to it by how she acts. pursuing a girl who really isn't into you is lame but working on a girl over time when you can tell she's making her mind up and that there's potential there is fine. you sound too sensitive talking about dignity and self-respect like that.
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@jayharv285 the minority of girls who'd potentially go out with a guy who already shot his shot before isn't that small. Neither is the minority of girls who do shit-tests.
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@kaedanjohnson9302 Do you think flirting doesn't exist? It's absolutely amazing how totally lacking in experience you people are where you don't know what I'm talking about. I think this must be a result of people's only experience from dating being from dating apps. I'm not talking about when a girl solemnly says "no" ignoring her an continuing. I gave several examples of what I'm talking about and none of those match that. I'm talking shooting your shot with a girl on more than one occasion. I'm talking engaging in the tentative sparr of flirting where a girl doesn't want to make it too easy for you. both of these feature what are at face-value "rejections" but they either need not be permanent or they aren't meant to be taken seriously and the girl is giving you indications that is the case. If you really have no idea what I'm talking about then I'm sorry but you just have a very narrow range of experience when it comes to dating and seduction.
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@Sploda04 right, sure, no girl has ever sparred in a dance and game of push-pull during flirting or intentionally given a guy she's interested in a hard time and intentionally made things not too easy for him, no girl has ever reconsidered a guy after he initially shot his shot unsuccessfully, no girl has ever tested (aka shit-tested) a guy she's interested in, no girl has ever been coquettish. You think these things literally only happen in movies. Furthermore , you think that these things are equivalent to a woman solemnly and plainly telling a man she is not interested. Yeah you've got things figured out lol. It's really astounding. Either you're extremely ignorant and have a very narrow range of experience so have genuinely never come across any of these things that are not rare, or you're intentionally failing to understand anything I say and deliberately misinterpreting me.
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let's be real here, it's true that you don't always have to accept a woman's rejection. For example some girls want a guy to ask them out multiple times to see that he is really interested before they say yes. Or for another example, sometimes flirtation and seduction is about "shit-tests" and a bit of a sparr over tension and boundaries. Girls often don't want to make it too easy for a guy and enjoy the feeling of being persued, enjoy the feeling of making it somewhat difficult for him. if you guys don't realise this then you just lack experience or have a very narrow range of experience. I get the feeling that a lot of the comment sectioon are zoomers who have very warped ideas or whose only experience is through dating apps.
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@K̰ḭr̰ḭn̰5731 your remark is vague nonsense
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@K̰ḭr̰ḭn̰5731 If you don't appreciate having your remark dismissed as vague nonsense then write something substantive rather than writing vague nonsense. You have the power. 🤡
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@K̰ḭr̰ḭn̰5731 as expected you can't substantiate your original remark and so it remains vague nonsense. good job.
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@K̰ḭr̰ḭn̰5731 haha my mistake, I used the wrong word. I'm not even challenging you to substantiate i.e. provide evidence of your initial post , I'm merely challenging you to make it less vague so that it ceases being vague nonsense.
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@K̰ḭr̰ḭn̰5731 Buddy I already gave examples justifying my stance in my first post. Are you saying you know of no evidence of those examples I mentioned? You're welcome to claim that you know of no evidence of the examples I gave but that just makes you look like either someone with no life experience who needs to touch grass or someone who is dishonest and not wanting to admit something that you know exists. But like I said before I'm not even asking you for evidence for your first response , all I am simply asking for is to make your original post less vague because like I said, your first reply is vague nonsense. But unfortunately seem unwilling to do that You do seem willing to reply to try and get the last word while avoiding direct challenges to be less vague though so you can go ahead and do that again.
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@Chillipowww No, I do know women, everything I'm saying is correct and you are either ignorant or pretending not to know or you're not reading what I'm saying properly. Look up what coquettishness is.
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@Lizw6 Some people seem to falsely assume that "often" means the same thing as "most" , I never said that. The point is it isn't rare. In a man's lifetime if he starts dating in his teens and settles down sometime 25-35 he'll probably come across at least some girls or women who sometimes either act coquettish or want to feel pursued or don't want to make things too easy for him or enjoy a bit of a spar and feeling of push and pull or like to test men or say yes the second time he shoots his shot despite declining earlier the first time. That isn't a generalisation, it's just accurate. It really isn't extremely unusual That isn't a generalisation, it's just accurate.
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@Lizw6 "girls often do x" doesn't mean that every single girl does x often. "girls often do x" means the act of x is done often and the people who do that act are girls. The same as if I say "italians often eat pasta" that doesn't mean that every single italian often eats pasta. I'm pretty confident that if you heard someone say "Italians often eat pasta" You'd understood what was meant and not feel the need to say " actually you just said that all italians eat pasta and that's wrong". You are selectively misunderstanding normal english because you feel desperate to disagree with a very reasonable point that some girls like to be coquettish, play hard to get or will reconsider a guy after he initially shoots his shot and these things are not rare. If you want to nitpick over something then you should be asking "how often is often" or "what do you mean by often" and I've already clarified that what I mean is not rare, as in most will come across at least a few girls like that if they date between their teens and mid-late twenties.
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@Senseandstrategy I'm sorry but you are wrong and simply don't know what I am talking about. not only are the things I'm talking about not exceptionally rare, they do benefit women. You just have a severe lack of understanding and very narrow range of experience of flirting and courtship and seduction. You seem to have this kind of black and white, autistic thinking where you read me talking about flirting, sparring, not wanting to make it too easy for a guy and some how understand this to mean a scenario like a woman liking a guy then rejecting him as plainly as possible and giving no indications of interest whatsoever.
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@Lizw6 It's very clear to every normal and honest person who is allowing their brain to work regularly that I didn't say anything about all females or most females. I notice how you didn't even attempt to deny the fact that if someone said to you "Italians often eat pasta" You'd know full well that he was not making the claim that all italians often eat pasta, which is what you claimed "girls often do x" means.
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@jojotheoj ok, maybe no girl has ever sparred during flirting and intentionally given a guy she's interested in a hard time, and maybe no girl has ever reconsidered a guy after initially shot his shot unsuccessfully, and maybe no girl has ever tested (aka shit-tested) a guy she's interested in, and maybe no girl has ever acted coquettish and maybe all of these things were made up for movies. Or maybe you just your experience of dating doesn't reflect the totality of human experience in dating and seduction. I've come across all those things.
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@jojotheoj you sound autistic . Yes, flirting can in a literal sense be considered a "mind game" , you're often verbally sparring and playing with each other. And? so what? that's a healthy and not-rare part flirting, dating and seduction. It's so weird for people to consider this something nefarious. It's like I say "coquettish" and what you imagine in response is a girl solemnly saying "no, I'm not interested". No, you can tell when someone is giving you signs. Please don't assume that your own personal set of experiences is the totality of human dating experience. What you call maturity is just your own personal taste. Also, you seriously think it's always inappropriate to shoot your shot on more than one occasion? I'm sorry but that's how I know you have a pretty narrow range of experience. It's entirely acceptable if you maintain a good relationship with someone after asking them out and haven't seen them for a while to ask them out again.
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@cryptiddy I never said most girls were like that. You have a skill issue in reading comprehension. It's far from a rare thing however. Most guys, if they date girls during their teens and late 20s, will come across at least a few girls who do one or more of those things.
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@plutonium09 don't like your experience represents the totality of the experience of 50% of the planet.
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you might not be aware of this but some girls actually want a guy to try and ask them out more than once before they say yes because they want to see that the guy really likes her or talk to him more before going out on a date. You might not be aware of this if your only experience is dating apps or hitting up girls on through dms though.
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@philanders3705 yeah usually, but there are times when a girl isn't sure if she likes a guy and so doesn't want to make things too easy for him before she agrees to go on a date with him or wants to see if he likes her enough to ask her out again or that kind of thing.
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@blakewhite3131 What's this "let's not tell women what they're like" nonsense? as though someone being male makes it impossible to say things about females that are true. Hogwash. It sounds like you think that listening means accepting every sentence literally at face value and obeying. As though girls never flirt by playing hard to get. This is just naive , inexperienced nonsense.
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@fevre_dream8542 Almost everything you've said in your post is wrong and it's very sad that at least 13 people are so ignorant that they agreed with your post. your conception of an "actual adult" is very narrow minded and sheltered. Flirting often isn't about being "clear what you want", it's a dance, a sparr, a push and pull, a stretching of tension. If you don't know what I'm talking about because your entire experience of seduction is just matching with people on apps then going out on a date somewhere and back to your place then I'm sad for you but I'm afraid you're just inexperienced and your very narrow range of experience does not reflect the whole. Furthermore, no you are infact risking very little, because you can tell whether there is potential or chemistry there. And how does a girl for example playing hard to get have no idea what consent means? that does not follow at all. You're extremely soft and sensitive if you take a girl shit-testing you or playing hard to get or wanting you to ask her out again as an insult. That kind of fragility indicates someone who lacks self-confidence
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@gunsandroses896 That's great that you're a girl but your tastes and how you behave doesn't represent or speak for all girls. I went out with a girl in highschool that I ended up shooting my shot with multiple times before she started to like me and agreed. I could tell there might be something there which is why I kept flirting and getting closer to her. You should stop projecting your narrow experience and assuming it's the totality. You especially might be unaware of the stuff I'm talking about if your only dating experience is from dating apps .
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@dawson3776 I never said girls don't ask guys out. That's a situation that happens sometimes like the situations I'm describing. You people seriously have a problem of thinking that your narrow experience of dating represents the totality of how dating happens.
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@whenallelsfails21 uh huh , so according to you sparring during flirting and intentionally giving a guy she's interested in a hard time, or reconsidering a guy after he initially shot his shot unsuccessfully, or testing (aka shit-testing) a guy she's interested in, or acting coquettish all mean that a woman is "insane" Ok dude you sound really emotionally well adjusted and with a wide range of life experience to draw wisdom from. My advice is to not be so sensitive or so literal and autistic. I'm not talking about women solemnly and plainly saying "no I'm not interested" I'm talking about women who give you signs.
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