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@saran.4001 I didn't take what Jaden said as this is how he's treated. I took it as him saying don't mess with our family bec we don't play.
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Will in my opinion isn't a narcissist, but has strong narcissistic traits. I think that the combo of being a celeb and being married to a narc has almost totally wiped out his empathy which put narc traits in check. We all have the traits, but empathy puts them in check. Malignant narcs lack empathy. It has been said a narc spouse can erode their spouses empathy. It will be easier to do that with a spouse with strong narcissistic traits like Will's. Plus he's been with her for 25 yrs so thats a long time of narc mind games and environment
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There were no emotions in my opinion that's why I felt he wasn't genuine.
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Certain professions do draw narcissists and people with strong narcissistic traits to them. The entertainment industry is one of them.
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@angelsolitaire6456 He mentioned that in the apology. He said the reason he didn't apologize during his speech was bec everything was fuzzy at that time
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Well we all have narc traits and some people I know have used that exact phrase, but they're not narcs. He got those word salads from Jada who likes doing that. His talk about trauma and healing is also something Jada likes talking about. Will is highly narcissistic, but I don't think he's a narcissist in my opinion. He should have never made this video. He comes off even worse than before.
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We all have narcissistic traits to a degree. I dont think Will is a narcissist I think he is highly narcissstic but had empathy which put the narcissism in check. Malignant narcs lack empathy. Seems like Will's empathy is dwindling. Often times people who are with narc spouses start resembling their spouse. It was easy for Wills empathy to dwindled since he is highly narcissistic. Plus being a big celeb has gone to his head.
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@susanbarkman6762 I swear people use the term "Karen" for anything 😂 What did I say to make me a Karen?
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@winxclubstellamusa I never said kids witnessing violence doesn't effect them. I'm just saying that his mom wasn't the abuser. There is no single cause to being a narcissist. Environment, genetics and neurobiological elements are believed to be some factors. I don't even think Will is a narcissist. I believe he has strong narcissistic traits. Often times when your spouse is a narcissist it erodes your own empathy. It would be easier to do with someone who already has strong narcissistic traits and has been in a relationship with a narcissist for a long time.
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@winxclubstellamusa No. Will Smith didn't grow up poor or in a dangerous neighborhood Where did you get that from? He grew up in the suburbs in a middle class family in West Philadelphia. His dad owned a refrigerator business. His mom was a school board administrator.
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@saran.4001 He's been kissing his kids like that since young.He said his dad embarrasses him by doing that when he was older. Jaden just grew out of it. That same Oscar night he also said his dad's speech made him cry.
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@saran.4001 Kissing your kid on the mouth isn't abuse based on the family dynamics. Plenty of parents do this and their kids have a good relationship with their parents. Just bec something is strange to you doesn't mean it's abuse. I can say it's odd, but without any other thing to go by I can't say it's abusive behavior. As a kid it would be "fine" but once the child gets older and doesn't want the kiss I think a parent should stop. Even if a child is older a parent may still see them as a kid and may feel some type of way if the teenager wants to stop. It's no different than a parent not wanting to let go of other behaviors toward their child bec they "can't see" their child is growing up.
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@saran.4001 In no way I'm saying that family is perfect, but depending on the relationship it isn't abuse bec there are parents that do that and there is no problem. Im not saying it's ok at that age to do it, but like I said before parents can do or act towards their growing teenagers the same way like when the teenager was a child. I saw the video where they were doing an interview and Will did it. Jaden has said his dad embarrasses him sometimes. No different than parents doing things despite their teens telling them not to. He shouldn't have done it, but its more weird than abuse. Yeah Jaden asked for emancipation from his parents at 15 and his parents granted him it. They could have refused him. They even bought him a 3 million dollar mansion to live in after he left. His parents could have cut him off and let him fend for himself, but they didn't. Jaden always came off to me like he was too mature to be told what to do and is wise beyond his yrs so I actually wasn't surprised he wanted independence.
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@saran.4001 I don't care if strangers think I look bad bec of one comment I made based on an observation. Are you actually reading or understanding my comments? I clearly said I saw a video where Will did it but your telling me to watch a video about it? I clearly said it wasn't ok for him to kiss him at that age yet you're telling me it's not ok? I clearly said I'm not saying their family is perfect, but you're pointing out to me what Jada did? Just bec I said what I said doesn't mean I think the family is "normal", but at time there are variations in families.
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@saran.4001 Yeah I did say it was normal for some families. Of course I have to point out other families to show it's not unique to the Smith family. I never said it was normal to force kiss. I was just talking about the act of kissing your kids when young. When I was talking about normal in my last comment I'm talking about the family as a whole not that one behavior. I was responding to when you said the "family wasn't normal"
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@Sheila Keenan 😂
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@winxclubstellamusa His mom was not an abuser. She was being abused. His parents separated when he was a teen.
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@winxclubstellamusa Dr. Sam Vaknin? The leading expert that has a PHD in philosophy and states on his website that he isn't a mental health professional and has no relevant training in psychology or psychiatry? We can agree to disagree.
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@winxclubstellamusa I'm not saying trauma can't be a factor and that there is no data on that. I know Sam Vaknin is a prof of psychology and finance. I also know he has a certificate of counseling techniques. That's all I see as well as what I previously mentioned.
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@winxclubstellamusa Worlds leading expert or not I like to listen to a variety of people on a subject. Ive read and seen videos about narcissism from experts and narcs who say they're aware.. Im aware Sam Vaknin is a narc. He might be a psychopath based on what I've seen. As it is though a narc is a narc. Even though I can get some info from one I don't hang on to their every word. I also don't really like the idea of giving these abusive people too much attention and the recognition they crave bec at the end of the day they're all self serving and they shouldn't be rewarded.
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@winxclubstellamusa Yeah hearing vital info from the horse's mouth is valuable, but on the other hand that narc horse is prone to lies, half truths distorted truths as well as truths if it's for their benefit. For example the roots and elements of narcissistic abuse can be traced back to people like Freud, Ferenczi etc who had works talking about the dynamics btw narcissistic parents and their children.
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