Comments by "Michele Lyn" (@HRPFayetteville) on "“Shut up Mom” - Fatherlessness, The Biggest Epidemic in America" video.

  1. And really the mom is the first teacher. The father is supposed to be the provider. And protector and that's where this complimentary relationship is supposed to flourish from. Yeah, when your kids get a little older. The dad is supposed to step in, but in the beginning it's your mother who teaches you all this stuff in these lines not to cross, and that's a father who comes behind her and enforces it, so they need to be on the same page. First and foremost and how they're gonna be raising these kids
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  2. And I used to be a daycare teacher and I can tell you. There's no way to properly develop a two-year-old in a day. Care setting, especially when you have 112-year-olds and part of them are from almost 3-year-old to just turn to I mean, the two-year-old from 3-year-old, 1 year of development cannot happen inside a day care class and they're don't spend enough time with one parent or the. Other to have any. Standards policempathy any of this stuff? Practice by and with the parent that can't happen in day care. And then they go to the 3 year. Takdaycare is not replacing raising of children. It's just not and we keep pretending it is. Anybody who is an adult who says I pretty much raise myself because my mom worked all the time. That's pretty much telling you. That person was not raised. OKI mean, you have to be raised by an adult. Or a couple of adults that you spend a lot of time with as your growing from toddler to like. Really twelve thirteen
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  3. And day care is not raising your children and we need to stop pretending that this is replacing a mother. Raising her children, especially for the first 5 years of their life. These kids are stuck in daycare for 12 hours a day with multiple other children. There's no raising going on. Just like a babysitter or a nanny is not raising your child. And if you don't see your child, but for 1 or 2 hours in the evening and maybe a hour in the morning you're not raising your children either. So who's raising your children question mark there would be nobody. No. Body is raising children and it's been going on for about 30 years now. And the only children who have been raised are the ones who have stayed home mom's who love teaching and raising and developing their children personalities as they grow. That is not happening in day care. Or with the babysitter or with the nanny. It's just not they are providing a service. They don't have the lifetime investment that apparent has into their children. And I'm sorry, stick in your baby in day. Care and leave it in for 12 hours a day, 5 and 6 days a week, on top of having babysitters. Is resulting in kids not having any grounded routes not being set in their personality and their boundaries. In their personality type, I mean, they're totally confused. Basically, just struggling to get through every day. And then when they get a little bit older, everything's put on them. You gotta do this otherwise I can't work. Oh, you can't do this because I got to work. I mean, kids really have a bad these days. And they have for the last 30 years. And now you got 30-year-old parents tlet's take their kids in day care from the time they're born until the time they go to school and Before & After school. And then when they're old enough to be by themselves. Or you forced them into taking care of all the younger siblings when they shouldn't be. On top of all the rest of it
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  4. Well the reality is you need to be a good father isn't just a sperm donor
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