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Comments by "Dharmadasa" (@dharmadasa66) on "How to get any MAN you WANT: the HOOK" video.
See the 6:45 timestamp in the video. He specifically says, in relation to your past behaviour. If you are a shy virgin, hold hands in the most enthusiastic, passionate way you can. He will think "She is a virgin but really wants me above all others. I matter. I count. I bet she will be great going forwards". A man will estimate your past and come to the conclusion that his presence is driving you to greater levels of commitment and enthusiasm on your part.
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@hk5454 It is the women filing for divorce in 80% of marriage break-ups, not the men.
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@masterTigress96 Well said.
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6:45 timestamp in the video. Try to understand the significance of the 6:45 timestamp.
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@masterTigress96 Think carefully about the timestamp starting at 6:45 in the video.
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6:45 timestamp. 6:45 time stamp. In case you missed it, 6:45 timestamp. Please try to understand more deeply.
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A woman's 'usefulness' includes emotional support, tenderness, care etc. Not things that can be outsourced to worker drones. You need to think more deeply about value on both sides, as Orion does. The fact the you misunderstand the whole intent is not his fault.
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Be a better judge of character. I thought women were the intuitive ones with high emotional IQ. Why don't you use all that to judge character?
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@bluebay0 They have no idea what they want. Or rather, confuse it all up with silly concepts that don't work and have no functional strategy.
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Check the timepoint at 6:45 in the video.
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Everyone misses the significance of what he says at the 6:45 timestamp. Think about it carefully, and what it means for the psychology of both the man and the woman.
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@NolandaNolanda High value men need to be seduced into commitment, not chased.
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6:45 timestamp lays it all out. You need to think carefully about the amazing wisdom described in the 6:45 timestamp. She: "I am a virgin and have never given it away, and want to wait. But you drive me crazy and I'll kiss and hug you and whisper sweet nothings all day long. Let me look deeply into your eyes you amazing man". He: "Wow, she's a virgin? But she feels like that about me? I bet she will be a cracker when we finally get to it. How can I get that? Maybe she is the virgin waifu unicorn of legend. I need to wife her up".
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High value encompasses moral qualities. The women has to judge character and be selective. Her actions will likely prevent him from becoming bored. It's really quite simple.
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@Letsplay222 No. Saying there are no high quality men who will stay committed is a sexist slur against men. Of course there are high quality men who have access to more than the usual amount of women but contrary to your assertion this does not mean they will treat all women like trash. Women are filing 80% of the divorces, not men. And no, this is not because all the men who get divorced are evil and deserve it. There are levels of high value men: Tier 1: HVM who has status, wealth.and looks. Tier 2: HVM who has status, wealth, looks and good character. Tier 3: HVM who has all the above and wishes to wife up the best woman available to him. Along comes a woman who knows what she is doing, adds value to his life, makes herself supportive and looks like she will satisfy him. Bingo.
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@Letsplay222 So, you are trying to shame me directly or indirectly, which is a typically female response to threat or lack of understanding/insight. What does it matter what my personal qualities are if the thoughts are presented as logical propositions? Guess what, I can present a concept without it being some emotional projection of my own, try it yourself some day, so I was speaking abstractly although I understand whereof I speak. I am a high value man in most ways: earn a shit-ton of money; have high social status; married to the same woman for 33 years; three adult children; good-looking. Had good relationships in younger years, prior to choosing my wonderful wife. However I admit I am under 6 feet tall, not that it ever mattered the slightest.
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@-glitch-8195 This is rubbish and shows a complete lack of understanding.
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Yes, spiritual mind here. They way through ascending the chakras is to encompass the lower and transcending their grip on you. Enlightened beings still have physiology, sexual energy, will and regulate them appropriately (i.e. not destroying or denying them). The way up is through. You transform the energy. Sexual energy can be used to inform the heart leading to compassion, altruism etc., and sexual energy is one main path to even higher transcendental state. Sublimation can include sexual union without neurotic grasping, neediness, lust etc.
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This is about going through sex to get love. Love is built through these types of reciprocities.
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@cosmictreason2242 I agree he didn't say it. But it is true. It is up to the individual to build on the foundations what they want in a relationship. He is advising women how to beat out the competition for the best guy she can. Then you can build using sex, trust, communication, shared values etc. There is no point in his discussing all that which should be understood or be the content of another video.
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6:45 in the video. She is more committed sexually than she has ever been in the past. She can communicate this to let him know she will be amazing going forwards.
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Where does he discuss straying? Where does he deny effort on both sides?
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Then he is NOT high value.
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Watch the 6:45 timestamp.
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