Comments by "Dharmadasa" (@dharmadasa66) on "The Exact Moment She Realized THE TRUTH" video.

  1. @@Carmen-99 The word 'love' is the problem, it means many different things which are not the same at all. Different people understand 'love' in different ways. Men and women typically (not always) have different understandings of love. Men are discovering (through the internet) that love does not mean the same thing to women as it does to men. Men are the true romantics, women are much more utilitarian and transactional in their approach to love. Furthermore, they cannot see or accept this truth, due to lack of introspection and solipsism. Hence this video.
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  2. @@Carmen-99 Men do not receive status from women, they build their status for themselves in their work and activities. Women marry status much more than men (Prince and Pauper is the symbol). Hypergamy is the seeking of status by women through men and is much much more prevalent than men seeking status through women. Women assess men for resources (money) and status as well as secondary characteristics (character). I agree men desire looks, and this feeds into romanticism, but also look for character (although they are not always that good at assessing it, which is why men continue to get married). The reason why men and women without partners have been devalued is because society condones monogamy, and it is true that women were unable to be economically self-sufficient. The reason they are increasingly self-sufficient today is because there are thousands of compensatory mechanisms to help them.
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