Youtube comments of Dharmadasa (@dharmadasa66).

  1.  @robertmilak5425  They are not manufactured however, they are grown. The statement relates to processed 'foods'.
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  2.  @nmc1859  It drives them crazy because they cannot stand facing reality, which men require them to do.
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  3. Exactly. No actual empathy there, just fear of the consequences that are upon them. It will never change.
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  4.  @juliebraden  No, 80% women are sharing the top 10-20% of guys. Those guys have multiple girl-friends and those women do not consider themselves to be single. Of course they will not all be able to marry these guys, which is why they complain about men not committing. These figures are absolutely clear from multiple sources. Look it up.
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  5. See the 6:45 timestamp in the video. He specifically says, in relation to your past behaviour. If you are a shy virgin, hold hands in the most enthusiastic, passionate way you can. He will think "She is a virgin but really wants me above all others. I matter. I count. I bet she will be great going forwards". A man will estimate your past and come to the conclusion that his presence is driving you to greater levels of commitment and enthusiasm on your part.
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  6.  @Jennthegreen  Of what use is a single anecdote in a discussion of social phenomena?
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  7.  @ScarletRiley  The silent treatment is far from toxic when the toxicity is emanating from the other side. By refusing to validate drama it enervates that toxicity and eventually allows reason to enter the space. It is not necessarily passive aggressive, it can be patient and a form of leadership.
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  8.  @juliebraden  No, read carefully, I'm saying that the top 80% of women chase the top 10-20% of men, and the bottom 80% of men either have no girlfriend or chase the bottom 20% of women. The top guys are sleeping with many women but cannot marry more than one. Those women do not think they are single because they will occasionally hook-up but have little marriage prospects with those guys. The bottom 80% of men are divided into those that have given up or are ignored. So the self-reported rates of singleness differ among men and women. If scientific analysis is too hard for you, just relax and stop worrying yourself with these facts.
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  9. Women following this advice can lead high value men into considering marriage.
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  10. The last two are not priorities at all in her mind.
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  11.  @debrafirestone861  And in order for her to love him he needs to dominate her completely without being mean and abusing his power. He has to master everything. And even then she offers very little in return. It is not evident to men that "...she would do anything for them period" amounts to much of value. After all, she thinks she is the value and all she has to do is be (I am the table).
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  12.  @lauracolo06  You are avoiding the fundamental issue which is "What value does a women bring to a man and a relationship?". And no, it isn't being a boss babe or making money or demands he enable her career, or even the cleaning and housework. You misunderstand Dr. Taraban. He said basic services can be outsourced. Women talk about 'team' but never bother to consider what that means in regards their contribution. They think that they are team players just by existing. Women think they are the table and the prize without having to do ANYTHING and high value men know that is not true. So good luck getting one if you are not agreeable, kind, friendly, loyal, good-hearted etc. See the three videos he made for women: "How to get any man you want: (1) the master key; (2) the hook; and (3) the unbreakable rule."
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  13.  @lunard8690  Truth. No animal has buttocks as large as we do. It is fairly recent in evolutionary time and leads to more mess. We have learned (by our big brains) to wipe precisely to aid in hygiene. Like we learned to cook our food.
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  14.  @wyleecoyotee4252  They have nothing to apologise for. You cannot see or acknowledge their value and sacrifice over the years, reflecting your own blindness. It would be better for you to attempt to refute the arguments in this video than simply sniping away with one-line comments from your tired perspective.
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  15. The definition of rape is being changed across jurisdiction to make it legally impossible to accuse female perpetrators. It used to be sex without consent, and could apply equally to females as well as a male victim who was drugged, asleep, incapacitated eg wheelchair, tied down or a minor (who cannot consent). Now the definition is changing to penetration without consent, thus a woman who has sex with a male victim who is drugged, incapacitated, tied down or a minor (who cannot consent) is not guilty of rape. The only way a women under this definition can rape is if she digitally penetrates her victim anally. This was at the insistence of the feminist lobby and not only does not allow for lack of consent from men as a factor, but also effectively decriminalises sex between adult women and children of both sexes. This is a huge problem because there are many many examples of adult women having sex with children. Such women, if they fall pregnant from an underage male victim, can sue him for child support. Again, an outcome sought by feminism.
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  16.  @veronicaana  The time to have spoken out was 40 years ago. Too little, too late. The damage is done and cannot be undone.
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  17.  @Leila2023_  How to lie with statistics. If 50% of marriages end in divorce, and all the divorced men commit suicide, you will still have the 'fact' that married men live longer than unmarried ones. Ask the question 'never-married men compared men who have ever married' and it will appear different. Also, married men are likely to have better jobs, higher status, income etc. so marriage does not cause men to live longer, it selects for men inclined to live longer because many other things are in their favour.
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  18. Of course it's the globalist oligarchs and bankers who call the shots on everything, they are the money power and have bought up both sides of politics and all the media outets, what reflexive lefties won't admit is the rhetoric of inclusion, diversity and multiculturalism was engineered by these very same plutocrats to be unleashed on the native working class through the left. How much has identity politics, beloved of the petit-bourgeois university chattering class, been used invalidate working-class concerns? How much has fake champagne socialism, feminism and every brand of weirdness been used to castigate working men? The Guardian and BBC left, while loyal to their middle class roots, are traitors to the national interest. The working class, betrayed by the left, may opt to go hard right. All the fascists need to do is disavow the bankers and corporate crony capitalists and they will be a shoo-in. Don't imagine for a second that the far-right is necessarily dominated by big business. The plutocrats long ago co-opted the middle-class against the working class using those sterile ideologies. The funny thing is, big business will soon make the middle class redundant as robotics and AI removes the need for any human skill. The middle class left, having spat upon the working class for decades, will soon join them as all jobs will be executed by AI and robotic technology, and with no economic reason for existence, the middle class will also be reduced to the status of 'useless eaters' and hence be dispensable (i.e. surplus to requirements). Karma is a bitch. Welcome to 1984.
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  19.  @clauaome25  Indeed. And so have men. So it should be. But men have figured out that women have stopped providing value and men are expected to continue to provide value, so the equation does not balance any more. That is what the whole discussion between the genders is about.
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  20. It's come from the deliberately engineered degeneration of Western culture.
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  21. What value does she bring? And men are not convinced of the argument that "I AM the table".
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  22. The statistics on non-paternity were first discovered by testing family members for organ and tissue transplant. Someone was sick, needed a transplant, they tested family members for tissue/organ donation and found around 30% of children were not genetically related to the named father. This had nothing to do with suspecting foul play, custody, child support or any familial issues.
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  23. It was deliberate.
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  24.  @darcydickson  It is not about what theoretical plan will work best. The collapse of society is way way more likely to actually happen, whether people want it or not. Men have started to pull away but it is through individual choice rather than collective action. The two things go together. Collapse is the end result.
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  25. Absolutely proves the point that irrational hatred of masculinity is widespread among women, society and many men too. And before any one complains 'it's just one woman' i.e the criminal perpetrator, I was referring to to acceptance of this view in media and readers.
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  26.  susanplatt5331  Everything he says is true as a general rule for society, obviously there is variation at the individual level.
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  27.  @Trbrigade  If it is so easy then anyone can do it and no advantage economic or otherwise accrues to an image creator, male or female. The world will be awash with untold billions of AI images and people will tailor their own. Eventually everyone will get sick of it and go back to interacting with real world people, unless that remains as unpleasant as it is now, in which case they can stick with AI.
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  28.  @ClaireGreen-wd2gm  One-sided selective manipulation of the picture as is always the case with misandrists.
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  29.  @SchemingGoldberg  This is very true. Behavioural traits were selected over a million years of evolution and are encoded in DNA and subsequent neuronal wiring, with sufficient diversity and plasticity. It is denied by those who want to shape society into their image, namely political ideologues and zealots.
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  30. One of the huge issues underlying issues is that women, and men, and feminism, and the patriarchy, and conservatives, and the Church, and both side of politics, in fact all societies everywhere, at all times, see men as disposable. Men have little value in and of themselves, their value is only assessed insofar as it provides a tangible benefit to other interests. All the tolerance of abuse, all the suicides, all the health issues, all the dispossession, all stem from the fact that men are not valued in and of themselves, for themselves. Their problems can only be admitted when it impacts people other than men. Men suffer from an empathy gap, always have, always will.
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  31. She wants him to be a work-horse, and despises him when he is a work-horse.
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  32. Protected against the outside world, or against her own craziness and dysregulation?
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  33.  @14margott  The reason men are no longer able to win a decent women's respect, love, affection etc. is because there are now very, very few decent women to provide such.
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  34. The actual problem for marriage is that men do understand women a lot better now than they used to.
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  35. MGTOW had a huge impact. It did not go viral in one hit, but did lay the groundwork for this. I agree PUAs and MRAs had little effect.
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  36.  @judithojiaka5346  By exploiting them. Aren't we talking about the same thing? I agree with your view on their desire for control. That exploitation is using their victims and rendering them useful to the dark triad individual, for gratification, exploitation etc. I think this is a verbal/semantic difference and we are aligned. The oppressor may still seek usefulness in their victim. It is up to normal people to avoid exploitation, so I agree we should not put ourselves in harm's way.
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  37. You are idealising mature women by assuming they bring significant value to a relationship, and deprecating men by assuming their preferences reflect malign motives (control and dominance). Many factors are in play and some might surprise you.
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  38. Not at all. This is a rejection of greed and materialism, opening the path to inner work and freeing oneself from slavery to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Think of Eastern spirituality. Of course not all will be able to make the transition.
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  39. It is describing the reality, which is increasingly transactional, and men are waking up to the fact that women provide much less value than they used to. Heterosexual relationships are increasingly a power struggle since feminism turned them into that.
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  40.  @EE12CSVT  Their youth, charm and femininity is what provides them with value and access to men. The older they get, the more bitter and disagreeable.
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  41.  @starguy2718  Let's offer her to the North Koreans. Think they would take her? Probably not.
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  42.  @jared3003  Having children is not just "basically sex". It is far more.
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  43.  @stewrobb2329  Don't be so naive. It was never a mistake, it was always deliberate. Feminism was designed to magnify the worst of feminine solipsism, lack of accountability and infantile resentment against men in order to initiate an unwinnable gender war. The intention was to degrade society by destroying the family, and it has largely succeeded. No solution exists because the West and it's culture is dying, a rebirth may be possible only after this civilization collapses. This will happen in your lifetime and it will be deeply deeply unpleasant, so be prepared.
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  44.  @mbg9650  This has to be sarcasm, right? Father's Day is a reminder that men could do more for women? Sarcasm, or utter self-absorption...please let us know.
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  45.  @randomuser4201  Random loser
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  46. Yes, redistribution form the working and middle classes upwards to the excessively rich
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  47.  @roses6564  "That’s not for him to decide." Who is this he/him you are referring to? The OP (carlospita6442), or Dr. Orion Taraban in the video? How can you assert what he can or cannot decide? Who is the "us" you refer to? You and me, the commentators, society at large? How do you know he is a mountain of ego? Based on what? How can you claim that a "monopoly" on toxicity is assumed by one party in regards the other? Could it not be the case that when toxicity appears in the counterparty, silence can be an appropriate response? You seem to be saying that you alone have the ability to decide what people think, do and say, and that you can decide unilaterally what should apply in all situations. Then you accuse others of ego. You are cray cray, your sentences lack grammatical clarity, your assumptions are swingeing, you are setting up strawman arguments for the sake of your own ego and adding nothing to a debate on interpersonal dynamics other than wild accusations. Calm down. Stop pointing fingers based on boogie men in your own imagination.
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  48. Women are not accountable, so who cares what they think or do?
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  49. She would have been much better off had she carried a sign saying "I want to be a wife". She would have got attention, some of it from well-meaning men and married women who could have told her what she needs to fix about herself first.
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  50. And you believe that BS?
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  51. And where were your guns and armed militias when the d33p st4te overthrew democracy and stole your presidential election a few months ago?
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  52.  @hk5454  It is the women filing for divorce in 80% of marriage break-ups, not the men.
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  53. If 50% of marriages end in divorce it is 1 in 2 chances of getting divorced, not 1 in 3.
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  54. As per Unwin, the decline of all civilizations comes from the abandonment of strict sexual morality.
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  55. Feminism is nothing but a rant against men, female solipsism on steroids, and academia, mainstream media, social media, advertising, Hollywood, the legal system and virtually every institution treats men with contempt while pedestalizing women. This is the feminine mindset. The fact that you cannot see this indicates you have deep cognitive bias and are able to ignore the thousands of studies, lines of evidence etc. that establish that proposition.
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  56. Can we have the Boy Scouts back?
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  57. This is a series of bots selling the services of the person named in the third comment.
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  58.  @waywardspirit7898  Pffffttt! The left are purveyors of identity politics, vanguard of destruction of Western values. This Cultural Marxism wherein common sense is inverted is owned by the left including mainstream left parties. They have been co-opted by global capital who are smarter than they are. and who seek that destruction in order to instigate tyranny.
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  59. It just means she thinks you are masculine. If that is your reaction you probably are not.
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  60. Clearly he is in the FriendZone as she said he has tried several times for the date. He got sick of it and her entitled attitude so gave her the flick.
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  61.  @haroldb1856  Until the divorce which is a 50% certainty.
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  62. Unicorns
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  63. "Provided each one follows their roles"......and women's roles have changed massively, while men's remain the same. Women are no longer required to play a supportive role, and don't (in general).
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  64. Social media is full of whiny women crying that men don't want to date them.
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  65.  @yoohoo952  A high value man is what the woman values as high value. That is why it is called a 'market value'. When Orion asks women to consider how they get commitment from a high value man he does not define a high value man that much because obviously it is up to the woman to define it. If he does lean towards a general definition, it is because that is what most women (his audience) define as high value. As women tend to define such men in terms of success, then it is on them. Of course if a woman values compassion, empathy, loyalty etc. then she should seek that. His advice still applies: provide that man with value yourself. Why does all this need explaining in the modern age? Because people have lost sight of what value is, expecting everyone to provide it to them and not give anything back in return.
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  66.  @1milliondogs  Female athletes complaining about trans women in sports are dealing with the issue because it affects THEM. You are making the very point you try to refute.
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  67. Recipe for misery.
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  68. This is a complete misunderstanding of the way karma operates. Karma operates in the unconscious mind which records your intentions and actions. If you mean to mislead people, take advantage of their gullibility or passivity, or tell them knowing they will not or cannot act to save themselves, you will definitely experience the karmic consequences. The interpretation of karma which states that telling people absolves you of responsibility for their welfare is a piece of sophistry put out by people who hope to do evil and get away with it. They will eventually enjoy the fruit of their labors.
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  69.  @normatemp2071  Female happiness has been steadily declining for decades and they are now significantly less happy than men. It used to be the other way around. These data are readily available from unbiased surveys and can be uncovered using a web browser.
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  70.  @roses6564  Silly attempt to twist words. Obviously the comment is conditional with the word 'when'. Not always, "when". In those circumstances., when that occurs, in dependence upon that etc. Thus, you agree with me in your use of "Maybe, maybe not". So why are you arguing? For the sake of arguing, or appearing clever? You cannot be trusted to follow a grammatical and logical sequence and do not come across as clever or considered. You have added nothing to the discussion, what a bore.
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  71.  @roses6564  What do you mean? You are babbling.
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  72. Misandry and the treatment of men is a bigger part of this problem than the one you pick out. You struggle to accept Dr K's perspective because you can't see it.
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  73. He will definitely win on appeal because the case was shot through with illegalities.
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  74. You'll own nothing, because we will own it all.
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  75. The way out of samsara is renunciation, universal compassion and understanding the emptiness of all phenomena.
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  76.  @sarahrobertson634  The scientific data referenced above aggregates society-wide across all fathers, those who are good and bad. Obviously, things might get even better if 'bad dads' were improved, just as it would be if 'bad mothers' were better. Stating the obvious leads to the question 'So what'? If your answer is 'it takes a village'....then yes, people cannot function socially without society. The village is wider society beyond the parental locus. I'm looking for something informative in your post and can't find it.
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  77. Yes, the men have worked out that marriage is a disaster for them and they are wisely avoiding it. Sad.
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  78. And it satisfies their own hypergamy. They deeply deeply need to feel that the man is in fact the prize, while never having to admit it or even think it. They just feel it. Pre-selection by other women is also part of this.
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  79. Such a position may re-assert itself in time because it is natural, appealing and stable, but we will have to go through extremely bad times to get there. Extreme economic hardship and irreversible alienation are baked into the pie and the suffering for the next few decades will be intense. We don't know how it will pan out but it's likely that young men will be lead into some kind of attempted overthrow. One question is whether the leviathan, in control of extraordinary technology, will be able to control another group of young men (military, police) to do their killing for them, or whether the cultural zeitgeist will see this latter group defect in significant numbers to the uprising. What women as a group do won't matter much, they will wait on the side-lines and f*ck the winners, as it ever was. I do not rejoice in any of this.
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  80.  @andersnielsen6044  May be in Sweden and Nordic countries, not everywhere.
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  81. An interation of the Gay Uncle hypothesis: there is evidence that the likelihood of being homosexuality increases if the woman has already had at least two male children before the third male child. Rates of female children/siblings no dot impact the odds. Epigenetic factors in the womb influenced by prior male sibs may play a role in determining sexual orientation. In this scenario, for the Gay Uncle to contribute to increased progeny (Selfish gene, natural selection), he has only to ensure that the progeny of his older brothers have an increased survival rate to compensate for the loss of his potential direct descendants. If he has two brothers, each having 4 kids, then his input into survival of those 8 kids has to go up merely 25% to offset not having 4 of his own.
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  82. The governments of Australia will hurt the people and that is their plan. They have already destroyed the livelihoods of millions. Can you not understand that tyranny is here? Why do you support tyranny, bootlicker?
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  83.  @rotyler2177  Ok, so we are supposed to believe what is on the internet, because it is on the internet? You are on the internet and you are a fool.
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  84.  @masterTigress96  Well said.
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  85. An allegation against him that was not sustained. Even the women embroiled in the matter said it was all false. Do your research.
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  86. They don't want cheap easy solutions to the problem. They want fear and difficulties in order to control society, to drive us into behaviors that suit their technocratic dominance. Herding the sheep.
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  87. Blaming everybody else and never taking responsibility are classical feminine traits. Once democracies gave women the vote, the march to victim culture was assured. Democracies will always end in tyranny. We are well on the way.
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  88.  @graveraider1029  Just crunching the numbers statistically.
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  89. The channel is intended for any-one that has the intellect to understand it. Men and women. You can fairly say that other women have ruined it for genuine ones like yourself. Yes. Of course, some men are ruining it for other men too, in different ways. Society as the aggregate expression of the hearts and minds of men and women is ruining it for everyone too. The only solution is to express your own values, know and be true to yourself, and try to bring the best into your life and create it as you go. The ruination of men and women is a numbers game. You just have to play longer odds.
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  90.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Feminism has doomed women to internalized and externalized toxicity.
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  91. Absolutely agreeable personality is far and above the most important thing normal men seek in women. Everything else follows or is negotiable. A kind-hearted women is incredibly valuable and actually much much rarer than people think.
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  92. 6:45 timestamp in the video. Try to understand the significance of the 6:45 timestamp.
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  93. The tone is super important. The question should be reasonable, and not convey serious doubts, unless it is deserved. Of course it is fair to ask reasonable questions. The tone, and openness to a fair answer, is everything.
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  94.  @shyamalidasgupta671  Feminism has not notably led to the massive contribution to society from women that you claim. And your assertion that this would occur if only women were supported more is unprovable. Men still make by far the greatest contributions to human advancements and women opt for less taxing paths.
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  95. Your headache does not compare to the destruction of the rule of law entailed by 'believe all women'. We are on a slippery slope that will end in disaster for everyone including women if we give in to this ridiculous hysteria.
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  96. Pasha Glubb observed that every single civilisational collapse ever is first preceded by a feminist movement. Assyrians, Greeks, Chinese, Mughals, Romans etc etc. Now it's our turn.
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  97.  @andrewkerr5296  Thanks, makes good sense.
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  98. Women feel and don't think.
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  99. They would pick the male tribe and complain about it endlessly, undermine it and blame the men when it fails.
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  100. This is so true. It's the globalist oligarchs and bankers behind it all. What the reflexive lefties won't admit is the rhetoric of inclusion, diversity and multiculturalism was engineered by these very same plutocrats to be unleashed on the native working class through the left. How much has identity politics, beloved of the petit-bourgeois university chattering class, been used invalidate working-class concerns? How much has fake champagne socialism, feminism and every brand of weirdness been used to castigate working men? The Guardian and BBC left, while loyal to their middle class roots, are traitors to the national interest. Working men, betrayed by the left, may opt to go hard right if you're not careful. All the fascists need to do is disavow the bankers and corporate crony capitalists and they will be a shoo-in. Don't imagine for a second that the far-right is necessarily dominated by big business. The plutocrats long ago co-opted the middle-class against the working class using those sterile ideologies. The funny thing is, big business will soon make the middle class redundant as robotics and AI removes the need for any human skill. The middle class left, having spat upon the working class for decades, will soon join them as all jobs will be executed by AI and robotic technology, and with no economic reason for existence, the middle class will also be reduced to the status of 'useless eaters' and hence be dispensable (i.e. surplus to requirements). Karma is a bitch. Welcome to 1984.
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  101.  @Yomel123  It would be nice if there were jobs for young working class men.
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  102.  @Skubidi-qy8hb  So the Aryans did not invade and turn the local inhabitants into the Untouchables? Study your history.
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  103. Look in your friend zone.
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  104. Children love pets. Women love children and pets. Men love women, children and pets.
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  105.  @garrettdanielsii2305  And you are wrong right there. That is exactly what #3 is about.
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  106. Which is why he lambasts the endless feminist complaints about the pay gap.
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  107. They will aggregate all virtues to themselves and blame all ills on men. Soon, women will claim honour, duty, loyalty, conscientiousness, courage, stoicism, logic and resilience as feminine virtues, along with empathy, intuition, feelings etc., and claim men are the sole bearers of all negativities. Indeed it is already upon us (women are wonderful, and men are toxic). Of course all such virtues can be found in either sex, but the denigration of the other is too far advanced in women to be reversed until a societal collapse forces another reality upon us.
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  108. Batchelor tax soon...
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  109.  @filthycasual9381  Exactly. He is talking about the general transactional (two-way) aspects of relationships where roles are somewhat differentiated. The fact that Melawieeinapfel thinks of it as money shows where her priorities lie.
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  110. You should require them to be over 6ft. for the benefit of the children. So what if they don't qualify.
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  111. Men learn how to be good men mainly from their fathers or other positive male role models. The rise of single-mother households contributes directly to the problem. That is not to say that men should not listen to women, but having a positive same-sex role model is more important.
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  112. And the lesbian divorce rate would go from the current 75% to 100% as they all expect the other women to do everything for them.
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  113. His other guests are educated and intelligent. So are many that comment on his videos.
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  114.  @MrEdu-cj2vl  Complete and utter rubbish. Neuronal mass and connectivity are biological factors underlying intelligence and cognitive abilities across all braches of the animal kingdom, and humans are biological entities. There is a strong correlation between intelligence and brain to body ratio which is itself correlated with brain size. All male:female comparative IQ scores have been done on 12 year olds where the sex differences favor females, in order to promote equivalence in IQ as a political agenda. Adult scores show greater sex-linked cognitive differences, male synaptic connectivity is hugely greater than female values, hence vastly greater male outputs in arts, literature, science, mathematics, philosophy, etc. Don't fall for the Marxist concept of 'equality' as a property that descends from the sky. Differences in IQ are widespread and the result of different evolutionary histories across eons of time. This is true across major biological (evolutionary) factors such as gender as well as race.
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  115.  susanplatt5331  Women have not changed or evolved, they are simply now expressing their true nature which previously was constrained by social morals. Those 'patriarchal' norms evolved to protect women from themselves.
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  116.  @bobithasmitherson  The women here seem cold and callous just as they are in real life. When both sexes get sick of Artificial reality they may have to start dealing with each other based on empathy and mutual respect, but I'm not counting on it based on all the antipathy shown here.
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  117.  @andersnielsen6044  But has she? And do the courts really adjudicate it fairly? Many people think not.
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  118.  @andersnielsen6044  I point out your conclusions are not generalisable across the world and you accuse me of failing to vote properly. Non-sequitur logical fallacy. Your thinking is feminine.
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  119.  @AnteLene  Try re-writing it changing the spelling. Substitute odd fonts and symbols for letters.
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  120. A market place set the overall exchange value through aggregating the individual choices, predilections, motivations and activities of countless individuals. Here the market refers to the collective outcome of human action. When people go to a market they each bring widely different reasons, desires, choices and exchange values. Nonetheless the market exists and the exchange value emerges as the average price point. That is why it is a market. Each vendor and purchaser acts independently, yet typically price discovery emerges. It is a model based on aggregated human action, in general, to deduce society wide effects. You are arguing that markets don't exist, have you ever been shopping?
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  121.  @Freud_Mayweather  For the rest of his life, not just 8 months
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  122. When surveyed women put men well down their list of priorities. Women just don't really like men. They may not actively hate them, but they are very lukewarm. In contrast, men actually like women, and rate them much higher. Is this because women are superior to men, and both are therefore justified in their opinion? Or is it because women actually lack empathy and regard for men, because they need to exploit them and cannot take responsibility and accountability for their solipsism and entitlement? Is the lack of respect for men by women a primary reason for male disposability? Is misandry in fact more prevalent than misogyny? Enquiring minds wish to know.
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  123.  @consciousgentile5141  False. I am reasonably good looking, confident but relaxed. I have been complimented six times in my life, about once a decade. It doesn't bother me. But it is strange. I give out compliments in a positive and respectful manner myself, to men and women, without seeking anything in return other than interpersonal warmth and engagement.
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  124. It is still the black pill. Who says they will ever understand this or care? It is difficult to correct a person's view when their well-being and security requires them to ignore the truth.
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  125. Ordinary feminism is destructive.
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  126. Agreed. The reason he is pitching to a lower level is that unfortunately this is where we are as a society. Most people are operating at a very low level on the AQAL scale. Although your view is valid it would appear it is only accessible to a few. High cultures cultivate higher levels, and the West did until the mid 20th Century, but now the West is in steep declension.
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  127. It's not the ambition that repulses men, it is the things that often go with it: combative, argumentative, negative masculinisation, 'my money is mine and so is yours', stressed out, insecure etc. A woman who has a good career but also knows how to be feminine and relax, be fun and enjoyable, positive etc. is not a turn off at all.
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  128. Leaving is one.
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  129. ​ @jamesscott5874  Of course it's the globalist oligarchs and bankers, but what reflexive lefties won't admit is the rhetoric of inclusion, diversity and multiculturalism was engineered by these very same plutocrats to be unleashed on the native working class through the left. How much has identity politics, beloved of the petit-bourgeois university chattering class, been used invalidate working-class concerns? How much has fake champagne socialism, feminism and every brand of weirdness been used to castigate working men? The left, while loyal to their middle class roots, are traitors to the national interest. Working men, betrayed by the left, may opt to go hard right if you're not careful. All the fascists need to do is disavow the bankers and corporate crony capitalists and they will be a shoo-in. Don't imagine for a second that the far-right is necessarily dominated by big business. The plutocrats long ago co-opted the middle-class against the working class using those sterile ideologies. The funny thing is, big business will soon make the middle class redundant as robotics and AI removes the need for any human skill. The middle class left, having spat upon the working class for decades, will soon join them as all jobs will be executed by AI and robotic technology, and with no economic reason for existence, the middle class will also be reduced to the status of 'useless eaters' and hence be dispensable (i.e. surplus to requirements). Karma is a bitch. Welcome to 1984.
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  130. Agree with the dual-mating strategy you outlined, already well underway and has been for decades. Alternatively, women marry the State and get all their support and protection from the biggest Daddy of them all, with a monopoly on force. Already well advanced in modern society across multiple domains. Other options are lesbianism (increasingly popular but probably only a short-term stop gap for predominantly heterosexual women), and longer -term, we will see the rise of polygamy (women sharing a high value man). Such high value men are likely to be servants of the plutocracy/State, leading to a convergence of interest between women and authoritarianism. Again, well underway.
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  131.  @1qualitybacon  How does offering a perceptive critique of one negative aspect of female psychology equate with wanting them to serve under my boot? Are you saying women are flawless? Are women impossible to criticize? Am I not allowed make observations that you don't agree with? What sort of fascist dictatorship do you come from? Do you want men to serve under your boot? Idiot.
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  132.  @justanotherguy1794  I stopped counting after 66 in my mid-20s and certainly passed 100 before I got married, but see no reason to deal with you further as you are completely ignorant about the world - no such thing as 'female psychology' indeed, what type of fool are you? You have a lot to learn sonny.
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  133. Michelle Obama is a trans man.
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  134. ​ @rob21  Things get complicated when one side see themselves as "high value". Seeing yourself as 'high value' is indeed a problem and one that besets one sex in particular. The world is full of examples evertwhere you look and the sex ratio of delusion is highly skewed. I'll let you guess which way it goes.
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  135.  @rob21  That is why Dr. Taraban has to make these videos. To school the deluded.
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  136. If you met a bear in the woods you might experience being eaten, so there is that to consider.
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  137. Dr. Taraban goes down this route because his female clients identify 'high money earning' as what they value. The transactional issues start with their 'standards' I'm afraid.
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  138.  @Dewane1511  True. They don't care, and resent men for their agency. Freud called it penis envy, and he wasn't really talking about the organ. He proposed that is just the first manifestation in childhood. It grows from there.
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  139.  @masterTigress96  Think carefully about the timestamp starting at 6:45 in the video.
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  140. We know what's coming.1984.
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  141.  @brianschmidt704  Wrong. We are made in the image of the Divine and that includes our souls. All the wisdom traditions of all the ages, including Christianity, insist that looking inwards is essential. How else are we to repent and improve if not by looking inwards? What is prayer and contemplation if not a soul-searching? Why did Christ spend days in the wilderness? You are not a saint, but you could and should be.
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  142. Yes. Renunciation of samsaric suffering is a foundational part of the path out of suffering. The 4th noble truth.
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  143. This is the absolute truth. This dynamic also underlies the problem of male disposability throughout society. People typically deprecate and de-humanise those they exploit, and the lack of empathy for men shown by women (the evidence is everywhere) has its roots in the need of women to use men for their resources while giving the bare minimum in return.
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  144. In this modern psycho-drama, no-one wants anyone for that person in themselves. It's all transactional and men are only valued for what they can provide. Provide more (i.e. pay, directly or indirectly), and women will "want you". Don't take it personally, it does not define your worth. Only you can define your worth. They don't have the morals or ethics to provide a positive valuation anyway. Do you really care if you are valued or wanted by ethical pygmies? Why not get a dog? More loyal and kinder....
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  145. You are deluded. His video, thousands of others, multiple lines of evidence, countless interviews, academic studies and millions upon millions of everyday experiences prove beyond all reasonable doubt that feminism is infected with virulent misandry. Of which perhaps the most obvious is #KillAllMen, but there are literally countless other examples. The vehemence of your post suggests to me you suffer from this malaise and can't stand it being brought to light. Men have heard and understand the message, it's too late for your denialist rant. Oh, and by the way, I'm not an incel, I've been married to the same women for 33 years and have adult sons and daughters. I also accept some tenets to feminism and disagree with others. My taking exception to your silly post has nothing to do with any personal view, I just recognise objective evidence when it presents itself, unlike you.
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  146. They want to wait at the finish line and pick the winners. But the winners have lots of choices, including not to bother.
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  147. Deception and dissimulation, the true female arts
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  148.  @Ishmachiah  Female nature is universal and it is only a question of time before your societies succumb. Feminism is infecting Islam and Eastern society too, don't lie.
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  149. The world id full of men who want a stay-at-home wife and mother for their future kids. Something is blocking you from meeting them, probably you yourself.
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  150. 6:45 timestamp. 6:45 time stamp. In case you missed it, 6:45 timestamp. Please try to understand more deeply.
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  151.  @dreamimage173  There are literally dozens of media reports of female teachers raping underage boys. In one case, she got pregnant and the rapist (woman) sued her victim (child) for paternity, successfully. He is on the hook until his offspring turns 18. If you ignore this you are part of the problem.
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  152. Demonstrate your stead-fast nature, possible not only in regards her, but other aspects of your life. Show her you pursue your goals but are ethical and guided by self-restraint, stoicism. You have character. Show her you are capable of being edgy but also have discipline. You have to mix it up.
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  153.  @QED_  Nailed it.
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  154.  @TheRomans9Guy  Well said, well said, laying out the truth here.
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  155. The divorce game is worse.
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  156. Funny how things never change right? I guess those old-time women were simply stupid, not like the modern boss babes who know exactly what's up.
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  157.  @jenkech5824  Until a better man comes along...to give you MORE.
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  158.  @pikachus5m166  Buddha is not claimed as a god by Buddhists and he himself never claimed to be one, always asserting always he was a human. This shows your arrogance and ignorance.
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  159.  @TheDragonofRevelation  Refer to Carl Jung. Try a search engine. Not being sarcastic, it's just easier if you do it rather than us trying to explain it.
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  160.  @shyamalidasgupta671  True
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  161. The male brain has numerous structural neuroanatomical advantages over the female brain. People who complete adulthood with a male brains will consistently outperform those who have a female brains.
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  162. Put that question to the women and feminists who demand 'equality' while not providing it. Men are calculating the benefit/cost ratio and walking away.
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  163.  @lorrilewis2178  Your whole logic rests on the assertion that women in the past were generally subject to abuse by their husbands. But is this true? Life was a lot harder for everyone and social mechanisms acted to protect women to some degree, the only question we have is 'how many women (i.e. proportion,) suffered from abusive husbands, and how did those other mechanisms help to defray that suffering"? Of course women's freedom from such fates is a great thing, but it appears to have been bought by feminism at great cost, such that women's overall happiness is in marked decline from earlier generations. The anti-family side of feminism is one example of a hidden cost. We need objective data, not political propaganda.
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  164. Those are inputs to a healthy relationship. The actual outcomes are 50% divorce, and refusal by women to provide their role while demanding men provide theirs.
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  165. They are not thirsty for sex (which they can get anytime), they are thirsty for attention, validation and money.
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  166. More women dating other women. Young women dating older men. Hypergamy and polygamy. etc.
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  167. Intelligent and courageous.
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  168. And we are in a dating stock market crash to be followed by a severe depression, so men are bailing out to cut losses.
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  169. It was promoted by the money power (international banking) behind the democratic facade.
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  170.  @maryjacobs5920  Funny that female hypergamy is now widely understood and is way more widespread than male promiscuity. Look at dating apps and how women select men. Chasing hot indeed.....
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  171. it does not appear to be about the equality of the sexes nowadays. Your failure to acknowledge the costs is odd.
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  172.  @thereallazygirl  They get married alright. Sure, after school. So what? Do you think they are like Western women?
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  173.  @Yarblocosifilitico  The point about abuse in relationships across the sexes is as follows: (1) absolute least physical and mental abuse occurs in gay (male/male) relationships; (2) middling level of abuse occurs in straight (male/female) relationships; (3) absolutely highest level of physical and mental abuse occurs in lesbian (female/female) relationships. The correlation of abuse and the gender of both perps and victims is crystal clear. Contrary to the feminist tropes and stereotypes, it isn't the men that are the problem.
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  174. If a woman has a job and she’s doing the same job as a man she is paid the same as a man, at least in most Western countries. It's the law. The 77 cents in every dollar (pay gap) comes from men working longer hours in more stressful, difficult, valuable and dangerous jobs, taking less time off, traveling further and taking on more. Many many many studies prove this.
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  175. Isolation is the solution to being crushed by women and marriage.
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  176.  @WickedWisdom-u7y  It's true. Women have empathy for kittens, puppies, children and other women. Men have empathy for all these groups and also the structural and systemic empathy requiring moral, codes of conduct, laws etc. for the benefit of everyone. Few people have empathy for men, and those that do are almost always men.
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  177.  @_missashleybanks_  Indeed the world is relatively speaking a peaceful place, notwithstanding conflict and wars in some areas and from time to time. In case you have not noticed, things have got better for humanity at least materially, for many centuries. If it were ruled by women we would have no laws, civilisation or nice things. We would live in grass huts as Camillia Paglia herself has stated. History shows female rulers are more likely to start wars that male ones. Of course they get the men to do the fighting as do their male counterparts.
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  178. It started with second-wave feminism.
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  179. There are no consequences for them when they behave badly.
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  180. That is not what this video is about.
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  181. Will the robots wipe, or choose not to, like this woman?
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  182.  @swanwaffle  Yes, real me need to stand up for women. But if they do, the risks are greater for them. The law punishes men significantly more harshly for identical crimes, and if the government wants to crack down they will go after the men first. Men who help women attacked by minority groups will face discrimination penalties that will not be laid against women. Women have an in-group bias in favour of women, and men have an out-group bias in favour of women. The claim that men are currently biased against women to favour men is not valid, nothwithstanding the disparity in rights of previous eras. Governments, corporations and social institutions are anti-male and this is to degrade the main source of opposition to their rule. Women need to organise against this madness because men will only get thrown under the bus. The situation prevails in large part because women as a huge part of society have empathy for children, pets and the vulnerable and do not have empathy for men because vulnerability in men disgusts them. Strong, well-rounded women of course can and do, but these are comparatively rare.
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  183. Maybe businesses should stop having so much influence on governments? The Australian Government is a sovereign and can do whatever it chooses to do in law. FB is an American private company and they can abide by Australian laws enacted by democratically elected Australian governments.
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  184. Happy marriages are very rare. 50% of marriages end in divorce and we can safely assume those were in the unhappy camp. Of the remained, it is estimated about 20% (i.e. 10% of total) are genuinely happy. So your selection of a the very few marriages that last the test of time to produce a happy outcome does not reflect the general reality.
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  185. Modern society is a short-lived and will collapse back. It is sustained largely by the efforts of men who mine, grow food, build and maintain infrastructure and the technology etc. Men still maintain the basic economy, women working in service roles are not as essential. The technology you speak of requires men, when women say they don't need men they are thinking immediately and short-term, but the social change underway are threatening even this. Men maintain law and order, who will protect you against criminals? Police men. Not women. So when discussing social arrangements, think about who sustains them and why, and if the technology and organisation is sustainable if men think it is not worth doing so.
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  186. @@Carmen-99 The word 'love' is the problem, it means many different things which are not the same at all. Different people understand 'love' in different ways. Men and women typically (not always) have different understandings of love. Men are discovering (through the internet) that love does not mean the same thing to women as it does to men. Men are the true romantics, women are much more utilitarian and transactional in their approach to love. Furthermore, they cannot see or accept this truth, due to lack of introspection and solipsism. Hence this video.
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  187.  @sarahosis  Peace at last
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  188.  @wyleecoyotee4252  It is NOT her opinion, it is her conclusion based on the scientific evidence. She is a scientist, unlike you.
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  189.  @wyleecoyotee4252  The video is about the importance of fathers, not trashtalking feminism. Indeed she says she is a feminist. There are many different types of feminism and not all feminist have to agree with you or your particular version of it. Are you saying everyone in the world should be exactly like you? Why do you believe a video about fatherhood denigrates feminism? She did offer a critique of some aspects of feminist thought, as many feminist and non-feminists do. Are all aspects of feminism above critique? Are feminists that critique some aspects of feminism self-loathing mysogynists? Are you ok?
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  190. Truth. It will never change. All human societies are gynocentric, even the patriarchy.
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  191. In what way does advice to women on overcoming one of the deadly sins equate to inceldom in men? Logic failure.
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  192.  @istvantoth7431  The intent has always been to undermine society, to set one group against another and to instill a sense of failure and demoralization. They don't care if this sticks, it's a ploy, an interim stratagem until they gain complete control. The 'radical Marxism' has been promoted by the money power that sits behind all political parties in the West, and owns the major mainstream and social media outlets. The money power has been planning the take-down of Western civilization for decades and they have nearly achieved their aims. In a few short years we will be trapped within their digital money system for which they'll have complete control. Welcome to 1984, you'll see things accelerate dramatically in 2021.
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  193. ShowOnHead generates attention because she is from the left, while also critisising it.
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  194. Bowel cancer is a huge killer and the only way to deal with it is through colorectal examination. People over 50 should have one every five years. It saves lives and you may lose yours if you opt not to get it done.
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  195. Being useful goes way beyond secretarial support and maid services. That's just an inexact metaphor. It means giving support. Like, in empathy, interest, engagement, intimacy. Obviously a high value man can buy labour. Can he buy love? Clearly the support Orion is talking about means on the interpersonal level. It may come as a surprise to realise that most women don't provide these vital functions for a relationship with a good man. They are users just as much as men are.
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  196.  @BasementBerean  Except the State has intervened massively in the markets eg divorce laws. So we do not have ideal free markets as the cost/benefit calculus is massive distorted in favour of women. Also, the benefits provided traditionally by women tend to be less tangible or reducible to contract. So they can be withheld post-contract without accountability.
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  197. Nailed it. There is a space for Chris bringing up the points in a way that helps women relate, evn though it dilutes the raw truth massively.
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  198. You forgot 'boss babe'.
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  199. This is really a good idea.
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  200. Insins. Love it.
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  201.  @laurenb916  Who is jealous of losers? 'Strong and independent' is just a trope and a cope.
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  202. Karma. Feminism is destroying the family and we are seeing the results in real time. Women most affected of course, or at least, they are the only ones that matter.
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  203. Is it possible to come to a view about a social and political movement without getting a 'qualification' in that area? Are you making the 'Appeal to authority" logical fallacy? Are you silly?
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  204.  @FuglyStick  No, please clarify for all the morons here your fine distinction in designating authority and competence in regards logical fallacies. And please don't just give us the dictionary definitions of the word, we want to elucidate the brilliant subtlety of your penetrant thought on the philosophical principles that flow therefrom.
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  205. A woman's 'usefulness' includes emotional support, tenderness, care etc. Not things that can be outsourced to worker drones. You need to think more deeply about value on both sides, as Orion does. The fact the you misunderstand the whole intent is not his fault.
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  206.  @hypnosecoachinghombach7517  Pretty much the same thing. Would you care to elaborate on the key differences?
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  207.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  The data and facts do not enter her calculus, nor do logical deductions. It is always personalised shaming and blaming when views that do not fit her solipsistic world view are presented. It was ever thus, and always will be.
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  208. They own suffering so we are not allowed to. And no-one is allowed to acknowledge it because their suffering is more important.
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  209.  @roxyview  The people behind the scenes are not motivated by money - they already have all the money they need, being the money power. They are motivated by lust for full spectrum dominance of the globe, money is their means to that end. The vaccine has no flaw - it is designed for that same effect.
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  210. Be a better judge of character. I thought women were the intuitive ones with high emotional IQ. Why don't you use all that to judge character?
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  211. Deluded. We come from a culture that seeks to protect women and children on the back of male sacrifice. To claim misandry isn't systemic to our Western culture is historically, epistemically (spelled correctly here) and practically incorrect. This makes one suspicious that you are not in the slightest concerned for men and mis-interpret everything through an ingrained victim mindset that valorises women and demonises men. Your post serves to further polarise the gender debate by minimising the social effects of male disposability as demanded and required by women for their comfort and ease. Your single verifiable fact (one suicide per week among women) is wrong, it is about twice that and is more than matched by the six suicide a week among men, a simple statistic you avoid and which you don't care about due to internalised and explicit misandry. Contemporary femininity needs to be studied and analysed and not valorised as a victim of a dark patriarchal conspiracy. Western democracies are in trouble (I agree) and we need more thoughtful debate such as presented here and in the video, rather than another tired feminist rant presenting the hackneyed trope of female oppression and male perpetration, that deliberately misses the shocking statistics on male deaths, suicide illness, neglect and dispossession in line with the pervasive gynocentrism that afflicts even patriarchy let alone feminism.
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  212.  @hillehai  Google John Pasha Glubb, The Fate of Empires.
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  213.  @bluebay0  They have no idea what they want. Or rather, confuse it all up with silly concepts that don't work and have no functional strategy.
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  214.  @strikingitrich7630  One aspect of the 'intangibles' is that it is not enforceable under contract, such as marriage. The financial contribution can be quantified and the 'love and affection' cannot. So withdrawal of those intangibles does not materially or contractually affect the woman as it should, hence the 'price' signals are wrong.
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  215. Actually psychopaths have a very fine tuned calculus of advantage and disadvantage, gain and loss, and seek personal gain without regard to the needs of others. However, they are very sensitive to any risk, negative consequence or loss to themselves and so will calculate the potential damage of your standing up to them. You have to be capable of hurting them and they have to know you can and will. Then they respect you, not morally and ethically, but through fear.
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  216. Fanatical belief and absolute castigation of heretics. Woke Leftism has all the characteristics of religious fundamentalism, without however any form of redemption for sinners. You can never compensate for your original sin of unapproved identity or orientation.
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  217.  red leader's fav dude  Why sell your soul to global capital? Are you a money grubber?
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  218. All this is changing. Dating and marriage are way down and loss of both tangible and intangible value is the reason.
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  219.  @mobilemcsmarty1466  Ow! Burn baby burn.
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  220. Traditional society emphasised the things you mentioned. We threw that under the bus and modern society is transactional. It is no better (and no worse) under socialism. Modernity whether capitalist or socialist is just selfishness, short-termism, lack of sacrifice and moral turpitude.
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  221. It is good that it is now reaching the mainstream. Should profound truths be spoken only once, or repeatedly so they stay in consciousness and spread to more people?
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  222. Feminism, feminism, feminism, plus social media and dating apps.
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  223. America is profoundly influenced by Marxism already. The cultural influence is way more important than nominal appearances. This breed of Marxism rides in on the coattails of a corporate-capitalist-State fusion, a new type of fascism with Marxist gestures to keep women voters happy.
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  224.  @Alexxx492  I agree with all of that. The social engineers do not.
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  225.  @mrxswagger  True, but that is not about broke women versus wealthy women. That is about getting sex in a manipulative way if the women wants a relationship rather than just providing sex.
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  226.  @mrxswagger  Resenting the way she spends his money carelessly is not about dating or marrying women with more or less money of their own, it is about the selfishness of women thinking they are entitled to all a man's resources without accountability or responsibility within the budget.
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  227.  @mrxswagger  I think we are in agreement! All the best to you.
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  228. Mostly these responses are analyses, not insults. Men offer each other analysis. It is rooted in the truth. Unlike most women, men prefer an ugly truth to a beautiful lie. Of course when you are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression, so being treated equally to a man (i.e. with honesty) feels brutal.
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  229.  @michaelangst6078  Why? AI will be able interact in real time with cam and video platforms. You won't be able to tell the difference unless you try to meet someone in person.
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  230. We are all suffering from Stockholm syndrome with the woke left being the bullies.
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  231.  @AT-mq9wk  Everything is always mens fault, right? Like you absolutely know that women are there playing the perfect girlfriend role at all times. When the women says to the AI robot "Can you love, can you cuddle, can you be supportive, can you make his real life easier?", all the AI robot has to say is "Can you, do you?", and many men will understand perfectly what it means. But not you. Open your eyes, the modern problems in building relationships are a two-way street. Both women and men have to look at themselves and what they offer potential partners, so why do you only focus on men and their dysfunction while ignoring the huge role modern women play in this toxic wasteland?
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  232. The devaluation of children and families got a huge impetus from feminism.
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  233. Buddha taught it too.
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  234. No. (1) Young women are dating older and more successful men (hypergamy); it is young men who are left out (the subjects of these statistics); (2) women are dating women more than men are dating men (rates of lesbianism and bisexuality in women vs. men); (3) many women are in a 'relationship' sharing the same fairly few 'top' men, whether they know it or not (polygamy and hypergamy together). Very few men or women are in polyandrous relationships. (4) Women define a relationship more widely than men do, so self-reporting rates differ. What does NOT apply anymore is your outdated 'monogamy' one-on-one model across social strata and ages.
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  235. The denominator is the proportion of those religious categories in the population as a whole. Without that you cannot estimate rates.
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  236. Check the timepoint at 6:45 in the video.
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  237. Some way? It's all over the place, women are shouting it from the rooftops and most of it is pretty low grade. 6 feet tall, 6 inches and six figure income. "Oh no, women value kindness, empathy and loyalty....and financial support, safety, emotional stability, good looks, etc etc. ". Well you still have to offer those guys something in return. The problem with women is they are entitled and don't offer much. That is why men are giving up on relationships and some are going overseas. All Orion is doing is asking women to be accountable for the part in establishing a relationship, in the ways most guaranteed to deliver them success. He has plenty of vids to help men learn what they need to offer women. Look at most of his other vids.
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  238.  @AnteLene  Try posting on another thread. Get someone else to post as they are following you.
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  239. As noted above, high value men do not particularly value high social achievement (education, career success) in women. They already have that stuff themselves. It is not that they hate it, or deprecate it, or are intimidated by it, it just does not count for much in what they want from a woman. These are ancillary or adjunct qualities. What they want is kind-heartedness, empathy, agreeableness, loyalty, support and to be honest, a modicum of looks and sex appeal. That is why high value men are just as likely to marry the hairdresser, barista or waitress as they are the high-powered lawyer or physician. Of course a lawyer or physician can have these eminently feminine qualities if she puts her mind to it. However, most boss babes are mannish, combative and psychologically distorted by the struggle. A high quality woman complements a high quality man in the areas he lacks. Of course also, a female physician and doctor can marry a sweet caring broke man with no career prospects if she wants, but will she really? Will she be happy? How many do this? The funny thing is, being a high quality women (kind-hearted, empathic, agreeable, loyal, supportive etc.) should in principle not be that hard. It does not take years of work. However, it does take character and that is sadly lacking in modern women today. Men mourn the lack of such women. I also acknowledge that men also suffer form the degradation of character resulting from modernity.
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  240.  @ElizabethUkeh  Typically, before forming a long-term bond. Forming a long-term bond is closer to selfless love in men than women. Thats why women initiate 80% of divorces.
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  241.  @martingreer2714  One of the main points of the patriarchy was to constraint the destructive and chaotic behaviour of women. One of the mechanisms was social shame. One of the main objectives in the feminist deconstruction of patriarchy was to remove any checks and balances on their behaviour. Result: modern women.
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  242. This channel is for men who wish to learn.
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  243. 95%
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  244.  @anonymlife4361  True, I upvoted, but in just 15 years your women will be "westernized'. Wait and see...
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  245. Which goblin? They all looked like goblins.
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  246. So true, empirically proven time and again.
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  247.  @GazzaBoo  Singlepore not Singapore. Pay attention.
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  248.  @Nonfiction.Reader  Does not work for modern women either as these generous qualities are quite foreign to them.
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  249.  @lightbluedev  The system is merely reflecting a lot of individual choices made by men and women, as well as societal pressures from corporations and governments. Both men and women blame the opposite sex, and some on both sides take responsibility. However, most of the changes from traditionalism have been wrought by feminism, capitalism, socialism and corporatism i.e modernity. This is all just part of a long drawn out societal collapse.
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  250.  @lightbluedev  I agree
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  251. I know two years have passed but I hope you get this message and are willing to reply to my query. You stated "Men are generally capable of having multiple orgasms in higher spheres of intensity than you would ever believe possible. And it's not only about super strong, super long (we are speaking minutes to hours) orgasms. It concerns the whole body chemistry. ....it will be drawn to higher spheres as well, ..only a few thousands worldwide who ascended from traditional ejaculatory orgasms." I wonder if you could expand on that, maybe through providing links or at least pointers. I would guess this relates to yogic control, possibly tantra, but certainly from within a wisdom tradition. I would be grateful if you could confirm or deny, and indicate the area/field/approach to develop this further. I understand the higher motivation may not to be to achieve super orgasms as such but the enrichment of other areas including bliss for spiritual development. Thank you.
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  252. Almost all credit unions allow full transfer of funds onto crypto exchanges. If you wish to invest in crypto eg Bitcoin, open a credit union account with the Aus$ you need to buy, and transfer the full amount onto the exchange of choice.
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  253. Yes, it's provided they know themselves and tell the truth. Unfortunately, the vast majority of people are shallow and people of accomplishment are rare. I wonder what the distribution of those qualities are across the sexes?
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  254. And a new generation of young men comes along immediately on the heels of the last. Do you imagine it will be better or worse for young men in 10 or 20 years? It will be worse and the rightward drift will accelerate massively, the left is incapable of meeting their needs. Some of your generation will sit on the side-lines being a slug, others will lead the boys. You will be forced to pick sides. If you don't pick a side, you will be defined as useful or not to each tribe of combatants. Please get real. The issues you discuss are irrelevant to the process and outcome as huge forces are unleashed.
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  255. Indeed, and as more women suffer from mental illness than men it makes it even harder for men to find a real partner.
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  256. Biological wiring is not obsolete. It's like saying the metals that make up circuitry in hard-drives and computers are obsolete because we wrote new code.
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  257.  @autisticphaglosophy7128  I might add that the point you made about lower divorce rates with less pre-marital partners for the woman, is consistent with what some aspects of the manosphere are arguing eg. MGTOW, although it can be fairly relevant to the pick-up artist subculture who I agree are contributing to degeneracy. You are applying the term 'manosphere' in a blanket manner where there are in fact many opposing viewpoints. MGTOWs and PUAs see things very differently.
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  258.  @JR-iy7pb  Indeed, the manosphere is replete with discussions of men dating down, in fact they see it as the default state, and was certainly the frequently case under traditional social norms. It is very rare among women and not to their satisfaction. The well-established tendency for women to divorce their husbands once their income exceeds his demolishes the argument put by @lorrilewis2178 which is based on personal anecdote not statistics. Female hypergamy is very very evident, notwithstanding some examples of responsible women who can earn more than their partners without a problem on either side.
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  259. Strangely enough, most of what men are looking for comes down to the same basic things: companionship, commitment, emotional support, love etc. That is what makes a proper relationship. So either you are able to find these things, in which case you have no problem, or you can't, in which case your analysis misses the wider social conditions. Society is operating at a very low level due to the erosion of ethics, morality and higher purpose etc. Hypergamous calculations are hard-wired and even the exchange of companionship, commitment, emotional support, love are 'transactional' in that they require an exchange. If the love is one-way, it is not reciprocated. Social science suggests the basal level of transactional calculus is dominant and as the value exchange does not favour men overall they are giving up on relationships. So are women, but in different ways. As others have pointed out, your experience is not really generalisable, and there may also be more subtle expressions of the value exchange implicit in your personal relationships.
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  260. Discussions about facts and sincerely held opinions are not necessarily motivated by emotional states such as insecurity, they can be based on analysis and receptivity to truth. Your appeal to emotionality as a motive for your interlocutors, and as a shaming tactic in an attempt to silence them, is very feminine and ultimately pointless for the purposes of furthering debate and understanding.
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  261. No-one who knows anything about it believes that High Value Males are only those with money and nothing else. This video does not assert that. It was your assumption that it relates only to economic factors. The point is that HVM are defined by women's wants and expectations and HVW by male wants and expectations. A HVW is not about her income or earning power. That is a part of HVM value but the word value transcends money. Otherwise people would just say "Rich".
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  262.  @lari5891  Increasingly less so. Also, the $$$ are only one part of multiple variables affecting the perception of High Market Value. The simplistic view erodes the use of discussing HMV as a model for relationship formation. Even in a normal market, people define value according to their own criteria. When people go shopping for handbags or vegetables they bring different criteria to bear in making their choice. Nonetheless, in aggregate, there is still a market. When you go to a supermarket, you exercise choice in what you do or do not buy. The supermarket or farmer's market definitely exists to service this diverse activity. That's what a market is. It does not mean all people behave the same way, or should.
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  263. These things seem entirely consistent with female nature, and are much less pronounced in men than women. Male gold-diggers? Insecure, neurotic drama queens? Although men can display such tendencies, they are far more frequent in women.
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  264.  @EC-yl7xk  No-one! No good men help their wives in any way, shape or form whatsoever. They are all evil, exploitative pigs. You go girl!
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  265. So men's problem are the result of their bigotry? Wow, you are toxic.
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  266. # 3 should have been Number 2.
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  267. No, it is the logical continuation of the core of first wave feminist thought, although with modern adaptations. Each wave built upon those preceding.
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  268. Is it worth savinng?
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  269. Polygamy will increase as a choice made by women. It is weird however that while sex, reproduction and family concerns were predominantly the domain of women (with a major interest by men), you argue that it is up to men to fix the problem? So women have no responsibility for areas in which they have wielded power and interest from time immemorial? Men are leaving the playing field in droves by personal choice, the societal collapse is on those who have wrought massive social changes without thinking them through. You know who I mean.
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  270. ​ @tinachristine4573  Polygamy is a very ancient practice that predates civilisation and even human evolution. Many great apes, including our own ancestors, practice polygamy. It arises from biology not social conditioning and is an expression of female hypergamy and male promiscuity and the following factors: (1) female preference for superior genetics for her offspring; (2) female preference for greater resource access; (3) female desire for greater security; (4) female desire for social frameworks that provide the above; (5) desire by dominant males for reproductive access to more women; (6) the necessity thereby for males to assert dominance over other males. It was hugely disadvantageous for most men who were frozen out of reproductive success as a result. We can deduce that polygamy was the main reproductive strategy for proto-humans for about a million years as the DNA record proves that about 80% of all females reproduced whereas a much smaller proportion of males (the minority of males) did. They were frozen out. This is not a strategy that favors males. Monogamy is associated with the rise of civilisation as it allows most males to contribute productively to social growth by giving them a stake. Your assertions lack scientific evidence unlike mine, and are typical feminist cope based on ideology not facts.
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  271. First the labour saving devices in the home (1950s), then the pill (1960s), then second wave feminism (1970s), then social media (this century). It will be back to traditionalism after societal collapse, unless the women join forces even further with big daddy governments and the money-power elites, then we will all find ourselves in 1984.
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  272. They are trying to get the men, finally.
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  273. Shoe was explaining the birds and the bees at the intellectual level a political feminist would understand.
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  274. Modern women are so far from the divine feminine as to be a joke. Who are you kidding? Adopting the worst aspects of faux masculinity, they throw their weight around acting entitled and self-absorbed. You expect honour from men while women are incapable of anything approaching that. Please be serious and stop painting a ridiculous idealistic image of womanhood. Men see through all this and are sick of it. Yes we wish it were true but it isn't. Finis.
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  275. Islam is right about women.
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  276.  @heyhoe168  Look at the message the bot is putting out. Why do bots write certain things? Is there an agenda? Does that internet-wide agenda hurt you in any way? Are you being manipulated in some way? Why does all this exist? Hint: driving the sex war further down the spiral to hell.
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  277. Not slaves. Kind-hearted, agreeable, pleasant companions. Such women are a rarity and men mourn their loss. The more I learn of female perspectives, the more I realise the much vaunted (by women) trope of their being kind-hearted, agreeable and compassionate is rubbish. Or rather, they are capable of that, to pets, children and those dependent upon them or that they see as lesser. They seem incapable of empathy for men and wish only to denigrate them. Of course, deprecating those you wish to exploit is feature of human psychology, which explains why women everywhere complain about men incessantly. Why even consider their viewpoint when men are so clearly unworthy? Better to just state that men are trash and leave them to their fate. That is the view-point of modern women.
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  278. Disagree. I think mandatory voting helps a significant number of people to address the issue at least somewhat. Australians usually get it right on constitutional issues.
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  279. The demoralisation of society through these methods is deliberate and pursued by those with power. Their task is made easy by way of the innate inclinations of men and women, but particularly the latter. It turns out that the destruction of society can be planned and executed for the benefit of a very select few. There are now few realistic solutions other than to witness it all burn to the ground in the hope that our overlords will be consumed as well and something better will rise from the ashes.
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  280. "High value' is determined by the counter-party. Your definition of a 'high-value women' is what women think is high value (in men). But men do not think that the money that a woman brings makes her high value. Men do not think that a women being able to pleasure herself sexually makes her high value. Men do not think that a woman's 'independence' makes her high value. Men think that 'high value' in women corresponds to an agreeable, kind-hearted, supportive personality. This is extremely rare in modern women and men mourn the loss of these qualities. I am not disagreeing with your point about love being a two-way street. However, it is much easier to elicit love based on mutual positive personality traits than the somewhat transactional examples you gave. Modern women typically conflate the different valuations, thinking that their financial and career success will make them attractive to men. It is not repellant in itself, but often leads to overbearing and 'masculinized' behaviour in women which is deeply unattractive to men.
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  281.  @sandradesouza9940  Thank you for your detailed reply and appreciation of our views. You are correct of course in that women need to have that special feeling. However, (without deprecating women at all) could it be that the "zing' is a type of sexual chemistry? The "feefies", the 'tingle'? If it is not provision, protection/safety, stoicism/resilience, or other character traits? If so, it's Chadrone - the equivalent of male requirements for looks and hotness in women.
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  282.  @Likexner  Yes. Men built the power-sharing institutions of modern democracy and maintain the social and physical infrastructure that keeps it going. The 'dark feminine' rampant today in both sexes is chaotic and destructive.
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  283. It's in Japan, China, India and making rapid headway everywhere else. The Scandinavians are so far gone they can't even diagnose the problems within their own borders.
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  284.  @АртоВэнтьфорт  Reproduction is in marked decline. The traditional role of women has changed but that of men has not.
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  285. It depends on what country you are in. Australia?
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  286.  @economiccrisis9267  To pander to women voters who always pursue short-term and short-sighted interests.
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  287. Rubbish
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  288. Shaming as opposed to debating the point is a very feminine strategy, doubt you are a dude? If you are, maybe raised by a single mother, hence quite feminized in your thinking?
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  289.  @notanumberafreeman6903  I stand corrected. But hippos probably still come second to the herds roaming around Walmart. I think they can't wipe because they can't reach that far in.
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  290.  @brianschmidt704  So, no point in repentance, contemplation, prayer, ethics, love, compassion and dedicating yourself to a better life. And according to your logic, being born again does not require any inner work. You need do nothing to prepare yourself to be fit for divine grace. You do not need to train in loving your neighbour as yourself. You do not need to train in following the Master. You will be saved whatever you do. Fortunately, thousands of years of Christian tradition disagrees with your uninformed view, and the world is a better place for it.
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  291.  @brianschmidt704  This is just assertion from your side, and you have not responded to my questions, so you are not debating in good faith.
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  292. Common sense flew out the window in the 1970s, and was shot dead and buried this century.
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  293.  @gazelle_diamond9768  The narrative is shifting after decades of misandry and male bashing by the sisterhood and their corporate and government fellow travellers, so don't be surprised if there is some bitterness. Of course let's hope it sorts itself out.
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  294. "People' here are women. Men do not care how much a woman makes. Men do not marry women for their money.
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  295. A reaction to decades of feminist rhetoric blaming men for everything and saying they are bad. The denigration of masculinity is so pervasive that it is even difficult to acknowledge that women have agency in these matters and their actions are not always for the best. Men are sick and tired of all with misandry and when there is a rational discussion of women's behaviour they like to push back a bit to show how women contribute to social problems. Otherwise, how will women come to appreciate how their actions individually and collectively are perceived? Or do you think women don't have roughly equal levels of negativity? That they are somehow better. Or should men just shut up anyway and not be entitled to critique women?
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  296. Everyone misses the significance of what he says at the 6:45 timestamp. Think about it carefully, and what it means for the psychology of both the man and the woman.
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  297. "biological women care about the result, where biological men care about the process" Rubbish. Men care about the process because being subject to rules and regulations it delivers a fairer and more just result for all, not just the party that 'wants something'. It is results oriented, not 'process' for its own sake. Also, lesbian feminist lead the misandric man-hating component of feminism, which continues to wreak havoc on both sexes to this day.
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  298. And what is wrong with that? Many men would happily provide, protect and support an affectionate women who gave him emotional and physical love in her spare time, which could include time for her own job and interests. The women's end of the bargain is very rare.
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  299. He clearly implied it was the human supportive qualities that count, not the labour that can be outsourced to secretaries, cooks and housekeepers. Why do you wilfully misinterpret his intent?
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  300. Because that would undermine the EMERGENCY USE AUTHORIZATION FOR THE VACCINES. Emergency use authorization of drugs, vaccines and treatment cannot proceed in law if there are reasonable approved alternatives. Only when there ar eno other options, can you use emergency processes. If they admitted that hydroxychloroquine and ivermectin worked, the rationale for the vaccines would collapse. SO they have to suppress this information to keep their vaccine plan rolling.....
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  301. They are depressed. It is difficult to find the motivation for any action when you are depressed. Not much empathy from you, huh?
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  302. ​ @yankeetherebel  So suicidal men are to be blame for suffering depression? Right. Yes, there is an empathy gap.
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  303.  @michamichalak6200  So we are all robots and have no agency whatsoever in making choices. Everything we do is pre-programmed to the tiniest degree. Unprovable hypothesis, hence falls outside the scientific method by definition and becomes a metaphysical a priori postulate.
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  304.  @michamichalak6200  You have tried to explain why there may be an illusion of choice/free will, which I already understand. However, you have not answered the charge that such a view is completely outside the scientific method being an unprovable hypothesis. You could argue that given your view, free will is unprovable, as is the absence of free will. Hence, it boils down to metaphysics. In such a case, Occam's razor should apply, namely the simplest explanation is most likely to be correct. As free will fits within evolutionary biology as a means to maximise flexibility and adaptive responses, the common sense deduction is that we have free will because it enables us to avoid random environmental dangers and maximise resource acquisition. Even the lowest of animals adapt to changing environments.
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  305. He would get cancelled. This is a talk about that issue, only veiled. Substitute that for anorexia in his talk and you will have what you are seeking.
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  306.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Because the prospects for extracting resources from the man through divorce would have vanished.
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  307. The North Koreans are thousands of miles away near Vladivostok, not fighting on the Ukrainian front. The media is lying when they report North Koreans involved in the Ukraine war. Not a single body of a North Korean has been recovered from the war front, nor are there any videos of the so-called North Korean troop movements. There are no specific reports of their units or hard evidence at all. It is all a made-up story to justify the escalation of the war by Biden and the US military-industrial complex.
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  308. Useful in different ways. He wants to provide, protect and nurture through his actions, and wants her to be supportive, kind, empathic. She wants him to provide, protect and nurture through his actions, and also wants him to be supportive, kind, empathic. The question Orion is proposing, is: do modern women understand the need for their part in this?
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  309. Coming to the rest of the world right now....
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  310. If women have it worse it is because of their nature. Society supports women massively at the expense of men. This is obvious from the huge differentials in objective hardship wrought by women and society on men (male disposability). The only advantage that men have is their hardwiring which also comes at a cost, as it does for women. Objectively, women have it far better than men, but can't accept this fact as it goes against their innate drive to be victims. Men are much more inclined to accept responsibility for their fate. If you wish to dispute this we can discuss all the statistics which prove my point about male disposability.
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  311.  @Honorablebenaiaha  Foaming bud-eyed mass-murdering Stalinist in clear view!
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  312. He never said they were representative of most women. He was making the point that they were at the top of the 'career' option, and even then decided it wasn't what they wanted. That is the whole point. The highly successful lawyer decides that she doesn't want to make 'partner' status and chooses a sensible work-life balance. It is a case of illustrating the extreme to make the didactic point. But I suspect you are unable to appreciate such finer points of logic and debate.
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  313.  @johnkeane1419  You are repeating your logical fallacies. The point is not to take the selected group (lawyers) as representative of all women. He chose them as representative of the small subset of women working in a highly competitive corporate environment. His selection was valid to make the point that there is a conflict between career and traditional values such as home-making, and that conflict plays out in the minds and psyches of those women, to a high degree. If I say "boss-babe career women can experience a hard time balancing life and work", why do you argue that this does not represent baristas, fast-food servers and home-makers? It is a qualified assertion about a specific group. Please pay attention. Peterson also made the case early on that the view he presented was firmly based in empirical data, albeit he illustrated it with reference to personal experience. There are many studies about career women that validate his point. It is you that is tilting at windmills.
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  314.  @johnkeane1419  How is it possible for you to miss the point again and again? The point here is that highly paid lawyers working 80 hours a week in a competitive corporate environment are going to have less free time to balance life outside work than those in less stressful and demanding jobs. Women frequently opt out of the rigours of the brutal competitive career in order (sensibly) to have more time for the other things in their lives. Of course baristas and fast-food servers have to balance work and life but they find it easier to do so (except for the remuneration). Either you are deliberately muddying the waters or lack the intellect to discern the essential points being made. I suspect the latter. And your jab about STEM is hilarious, I have been a highly successful medical research scientist and full professor for years with thousands of citations and several honours. I had many full professors as direct line management reports to me and have mentored dozens of PhD students. It is you who does not understand logic and deduction and it shows. You hop about assuming all sorts of assertions on my part that do not follow from my text, and cannot grasp the obvious logical inferences. I also note you ignore my clear refutations of your previous ramblings. Good day to you.
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  315. Three
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  316.  @Yomel123  Everyone needs a man or men in general, who else will keep society running? Will women mine the earth, manufacture the things, fix the roads and infrastructure, deliver the goods, do the dangerous stuff? Who will pay the taxes? Women are net recipients of government taxes, men pay in more than they take out. All this while such activities are deprecated by women, who opt for comfy air-conditioned HR jobs while complaining about the wage gap that arises from the exercise of their choices for less work in safe conditions with less competition and stress.
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  317.  @doloresaquines1529  "Where, where, did I mention my looks!!" "What a pity all of you cannot see pics of me at 30!!!".
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  318.  @cosmictreason2242  Prideful, lacking self-reflection, and incapable of basic logic.
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  319.  @mackayladavis4021  And Nero fiddled while Rome burned. You are so selfish and full of yourself. You will be miserable because you lack compassion for human suffering. Be careful.
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  320. It depends on how you define 'useful'. I took it to mean kind, empathic, supportive and loyal. Not doing menial tasks that can be outsourced to commercial service providers.
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  321.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Yes, I agree and it provides a strong incentive for men not to marry high-earning women who can leave for the most trivial reasons.
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  322.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Saying all reasons are valid absolutely destroys all law, social and human interactions. Actions need to fit within acceptable parameters in order for any kind of society to function. You either aren't thinking it through or are a moral and ethical nihilist.
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  323.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Sometimes the best pizza is sushi. That’s where I go to get my haircut. Discounts available for fish with fur.
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  324. No, the women divorce the men, not the other way around. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
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  325. They will not and probably cannot rise to the occasion demanded of the breadwinner role. Men have always known that providing etc. involves responsibility and sacrifice. What you earn is hers, what she earns is hers also.
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  326. They have taken over the left and now define it - you have lost the left to them. Truly it represents the typical left problem, that despite everything been done in the name of the people, the proletariat being lumpen, leftist power brokers are predominantly middle class with petit bourgeois concerns. Sodomy and feminism are outgrowths of college kid anxieties. Take leftism back and return it to class consciousness.
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  327.  @NolandaNolanda  High value men need to be seduced into commitment, not chased.
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  328. Decreasing day by day, month by month and year by year. As a whole, society is organised against reproduction. Hence the collapse in the birth-rate. What is your point from a societal perspective as discussed in this video?
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  329. All the time. It's always the man's fault. Throw in rewriting history and shirking moral responsibility and voila - dark femininity.
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  330. They simps are escaping to the on-line world because the real world women are even faker and more exploitative.
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  331. Broadly same conclusions as Unwin.
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  332. Ariel Gonzales is correct, most men want traditional women. In fact they are sick of feminists.
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  333. I guess that excludes many traditional societies labelled as patriarchal by feminists.
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  334. Female nature remains what it is everywhere. To lack empathy for men while exploiting them. All societies are gynocentric but traditionally have given men a fair stake in said society to compensate, a social contract. Not any more.
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  335. They empathise with infants, young children, kittens, puppies, other women and mostly themselves. They do not and cannot empathise with men in any shape or form, except if they become mothers and have sons. Even then they do not understand what their sons experience, but can feel for them a bit.
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  336.  @beowulf_of_wall_st  I agree with much of this and your many other fine comments throughout this thread, but suspect the "don't mind him having women on the side" is a bit niche and not typical for most relationships. But each to their own, no judgement, just trying to go with the likely numbers overall. Cheers.
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  337. And the perception of gain is massively being re-evaluated by men, as conditions have changed and women no longer provide the value they used to, especially on the psychological front.
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  338.  @cpvsgvmnt2116  Pick the right female......there's only one, we can't all marry her. All of the others are toxic.
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  339. No, the video makes clear that it is not at all the case that women are infallible, quite the opposite, they are deluded because they are misaligned with fundamentals. The whole video describes how they are pricing themselves out. Also, women make the mistake of hypergamy based on assessment of men's relative value, not absolute value (is he in the top percentile rather than than what can he provide objectively).
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  340. They will always support big daddy government which will become brutal and force everyone to do what they dictate. It's already happening, witness the massive growth in authoritarian government, supported by those who wish to extract resources from others while giving little in return, governments will always cosy up to the demographics that demand government fix everything for them.
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  341.  @dreamimage173  I understand your view but you would stand no chance in a court of law where her word is worth much more than yours. If you dare to use force against a women, regardless of her guilt and wrong-doing, you will be mincemeat. Be careful.
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  342. He never mentioned a maid. That is your filter. I agree with the rest of your comment however.
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  343.  @cesarrobledo2583  If every man became as good as the top 20%, women would then pick the top 20% of the nearly perfect men. In other words, hypergamy is inflationary. There will always be a top 20% to choose from, get it?
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  344. The divorce statistics show men stay with their choices more, it is women who initiate divorce much more. Of course feminists will argue it is because the all the men are evil and abusers, but the reality is women are more fickle and transactional and will trade up and out, and are financially incentivised by the nature of the contract and the family courts.
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  345. Character and confidence can be developed and are of prime importance.
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  346. Which is happening less and less as women leave their traditional roles. Western societies, China, Brazil and many other countries have way way lower reproductive rates. So this 'loss' is disappearing. Also, as a loss it is offset by the gains a women wishes for in having kids. Men used to also benefit from this unpaid input from women but the cost to them is rising with divorce and loss of parental and reproductive rights. This all feeds into the cost/benefit analysis which men are very good at.
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  347.  @ah6439  I agree, but 'modernity' is rearing its head elsewhere, including India. We are going down the same path pretty much everywhere.
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  348.  @shyamalidasgupta671  Your 'middle-class' Indian women are already privileged because they can exploit the labour of the masses for just a few rupees. Either wealth increases throughout so the Indian poor can move away from the drudgery of serving your parasitical middle class, or the poor stay poor and human misery remains. What are you in favour of?
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  349. But it seems to be a dominant part of your modern culture.
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  350. The 'settling' is only relative to their unrealistic fantasies. Objectively, most 'average' guys would be more than adequate for provision, protection etc. Of course, there has to be compatibility with other attributes not covered by this simplified but useful model.
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  351. But more deeply it is craving, not only 'desire', but craving for existence as an independent ens. The issue is the craving, not the 'existence'.
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  352.  @BlunderCity  Read his first sentence correctly for goodness' sake.
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  353. Get a life! We are in the middle of a take-over of civilization and you are nitpicking about personalities and whether or not events prove theories about the functioning of markets. 2021 is life or death, do you think anyone cares about what is 'shown'? Face up to your fate, you are about to become a slave, are you prepared to die fighting?
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  354. But that is what defines the best athletes. How can we say athletes should be excluded from competing against other athletes because some have advantages of muscle mass, bone structure, lung capacity etc? Persons of East African origin are better distance runners due to physiological variables - should they be excluded because other races lack these traits? If trans-women have larger lungs and more muscle then this also reflects genetic features just like it does among racial groups, who should not be preferentially included or excluded from any competition. Equality of opportunity does not means everyone is a winner.
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  355.  @roccosfondo8748  50% chance of divorce, and of the remaining 50% about half are not happy, and of the 25% of marriages remaining, about half are so-so, tolerable. So about 12.5% of marriages are worth it. I hope it works out for you. Remember, the performance burden always falls on the man, and making women happy is almost impossible. It is best to simply lead with compassion and not expect too much. Good luck.
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  356. Using the same venues will lead to Men's Sheds being taken over. It's already happening. The wives are piling in.
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  357. Taylor, you are right to include more content on pathways for male improvement. There has been a lot said in the manosphere about women's responsibility for the circumstances we find ourselves in, but looking forward, we need more voices focused on positive male development. It's an opportunity and should suit your greater range and depth as compared to some of your content provider competitors. Nothing ever stays the same, things need to evolve. The autonomy and self-reliance of men is needed more than ever, as the powers that be try to take control of all aspects of our lives.
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  358. Yet!
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  359. They will not be. Society agrees men should be castrated. They won't admit it, but what do you think the war on men is all about?
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  360. Feminists sued to include girls in the Boy Scouts because they wanted to shut down male spaces as part of the misogynistic patriarchy. The Boy Scouts caved. Then the Girl Scouts sued the Boy Scouts for poaching their members. Meanwhile boys are forgoing the chances of learning how to be men from men in a space dedicated towards their growth.
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  361. Men's suffering is a necessary pre-condition for female exploitation and privilege. Women would not enjoy all the advantages they have were it not for the sacrifice of countless nameless men.
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  362.  @TheDragonofRevelation  Indeed an appeal to authority does not prove an argument in logic, nonetheless you asked for the meaning of the term 'collective unconscious' and as that was termed by Carl Jung I pointed out the source and suggested an avenue for further understanding. As I advanced no argument of my own, what is your point? I would appreciate a logical reply as you have invoked appeal to authority as a logical fallacy. Thank you.
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  363. You should see apathy in countries that don't have compulsory attendance at the polling booth! Much higher. You are wrong about the causes of lack of political interest. It's because Australians don't trust their politicians in the slightest. Unfortunately, too many still trust the media to tell the truth which is a grievous error.
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  364. Always the fault of some-one else. You are saying they have no responsibility or agency of their own? Misogynist.
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  365. All you ever need to know is what the propaganda group is and what agenda they are pushing. Semantics don't matter. Don't go down the rabbit hole of of trying to wrestle with their words. Face up to your fate, they plan on you being a slave. Will you resist? The time is now....
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  366. Nice poem, but the meter could improve. Starts as iambic pentameter but soon falls away. Could easily be fixed. A really nice work in progress...
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  367. Divorce lawyers have their hands full with the 50% of marriages ending in divorce, 80% of which are filed by women. So who is doing the dumping? Of course, all women who divorce are only doing it because the men in their lives are evil cheating pigs. Those women are never dumping the man to trade up, 'find herself', go after some-one better etc. Divorce laws don't incentivise women at all, women are angelic beings without a trace of negativity and are always the victims even when dumping the man (most of divorces as per above).
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  368.  @ethanmiller5487  He gets the point well. Women are increasingly financially successful (or persuaded they should be), while miserable because they are failing at other things. It is you who has missed the whole point of the video and most of the comments.
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  369.  @HighlyCompelling  Best not to let feelings into it, and be objective.
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  370.  @andrewkerr5296  What is an 'Est opal'? Tried Google which did not help.
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  371.  @roxanneohalloran4259  Thanks Roxanne, I worked it out a bit later...
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  372. What is happening in Britain now will be what happens in the USA in a few more years.
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  373. Female resentment of male agency is as old as human kind.
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  374. The video makes the point multiple times that the cause in 1971 was going off the gold standard. That was a deliberate government plan. Most boomers were teenagers in 1971. Wealth and power accruing to them subsequently was due to the lag before the consequences of money printing kicked in. Money printing massively increased government power so they could bribe voters and feed profits to corporations. Blame government, not ordinary people (although everyone's voting habits maintain the delusion).
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  375. Why should male CEOs have to marry bossbitch female CEOs when they would rather marry someone fertile, fit and friendly? You telling male CEOs to change their biological instincts is ridiculous.
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  376. Rubbish. I undertook a 5 day 'dry' fast about a year ago, no food or water. Break down of body fats leads to production of water as a by-product which is sufficient for hydration. I lost a lot of weight and did not put it back on. It was not that hard. I had been doing shorter 3 day fasts with drinking water prior to that. All this is well known for thousands of years.
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  377. Those days are coming back.
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  378.  @lorrilewis2178  Sorry to hear of this example of a bad man. Let's hope not all men are like this. It would be interesting to hear his side of the story - just for balance mind you.
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  379. Evolution. It is rooted in biology, reflecting the different reproductive strategies of males and females.
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  380. How do we know there is a woman at all? There is no personal testimony from an individual. This is a public hysteria driven by social media. All the powers that be need to say is "He did a women wrong" and the public reaction will be "Also me". Because "Also me", you don't actually need a real life women, just say there is one there and the hysterical reaction will do the rest of your dirty work for you. This is the feminisation of the rule of law.
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  381. Accept more realistic offers.
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  382.  @vinipcplayer  The new relationships are women "marrying" the State, the biggest daddy around with the deepest pockets, and the monopoly on force, in service of women. This leads to government following the directives and needs of women, and the feminisation of society. Risk and innovation are minimised and conformity and safety maximised. It is well underway and will lead to societal failure, as evidenced by all the historical antecedents that show feminist movements in all civilisations as the prelude to their collapse. Many scholars have laid this out for all to see.
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  383. So true.
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  384. 6:45 timestamp lays it all out. You need to think carefully about the amazing wisdom described in the 6:45 timestamp. She: "I am a virgin and have never given it away, and want to wait. But you drive me crazy and I'll kiss and hug you and whisper sweet nothings all day long. Let me look deeply into your eyes you amazing man". He: "Wow, she's a virgin? But she feels like that about me? I bet she will be a cracker when we finally get to it. How can I get that? Maybe she is the virgin waifu unicorn of legend. I need to wife her up".
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  385. Your Constitution has been toilet paper for quite some time now. Does it not state that only gold is money? How is that working for you now?
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  386. Win over women? To what end? To get divorced and have her take all your resources? To continue to be exploited in all other ways women are expert at? Women are not the prize anymore, and that is on them.
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  387. Please elaborate....
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  388. Women have empathy for children and animals but not for men. Most men know this although women can't accept this evident ruth. Women are NOT the empathic gender when it comes to men. They despise weakness in men and show it constantly. Please do not gaslight us with your lies.
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  389.  @noonesishome  You did the work and stayed true to your core values. No good ever comes from hatred. Thank you for passing this message on to us.
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  390. Gross generalisation and probably not true. Women don't ask for many reasons, one being fear of rejection. Many men do not mind being asked but probably will also reject at around the same frequency as women, depending upon what is on offer.
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  391.  @AD-hh6dd  Thanks for the clarification, but I will still disagree about the primary motivation. You think it is what women are taught, I think we all overcome much of what we are taught that is incorrect, after all we are not robots and learn through experience, but more importantly it is because both women and men fear rejection but men must learn to deal with it and it can build character, whereas women fear it and do not know how to handle it, lacking experience. Chicken and egg. But each to their own view, thanks.
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  392. The whole point of the video is that with robotics AI will indeed be able to build the charging posts and solar panels it needs without humans.
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  393. High value encompasses moral qualities. The women has to judge character and be selective. Her actions will likely prevent him from becoming bored. It's really quite simple.
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  394.  @Letsplay222  No. Saying there are no high quality men who will stay committed is a sexist slur against men. Of course there are high quality men who have access to more than the usual amount of women but contrary to your assertion this does not mean they will treat all women like trash. Women are filing 80% of the divorces, not men. And no, this is not because all the men who get divorced are evil and deserve it. There are levels of high value men: Tier 1: HVM who has status, wealth.and looks. Tier 2: HVM who has status, wealth, looks and good character. Tier 3: HVM who has all the above and wishes to wife up the best woman available to him. Along comes a woman who knows what she is doing, adds value to his life, makes herself supportive and looks like she will satisfy him. Bingo.
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  395.  @Letsplay222  So, you are trying to shame me directly or indirectly, which is a typically female response to threat or lack of understanding/insight. What does it matter what my personal qualities are if the thoughts are presented as logical propositions? Guess what, I can present a concept without it being some emotional projection of my own, try it yourself some day, so I was speaking abstractly although I understand whereof I speak. I am a high value man in most ways: earn a shit-ton of money; have high social status; married to the same woman for 33 years; three adult children; good-looking. Had good relationships in younger years, prior to choosing my wonderful wife. However I admit I am under 6 feet tall, not that it ever mattered the slightest.
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  396. Socialism massive increases the problem as only one sector of society provides the value and the rest absorb it to the loss of the productive. There is no benefit to being productive as your autonomy is taken away. Everyone becomes a parasite and the State becomes coercive. That is clear from history. All life, from amoeba to humans, wish to minimise work expended and maximise resources acquired. When the system encourages both, the society eventually fails, or goes totalitarian.
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  397. As women initiate 80% of divorces, 90% if she has a college degree, and women are overwhelmingly awarded prime custody and significant assets, it is clear that your arguments refer to the behaviour of women seeking resources and children from men and not the other way around.
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  398.  @xxxaragon  The simps are actually longing for human contact, they can't get it in real life, but hope they can with an e-thot on-line. Very few will be satisfied when they work out it's all AI and they have no chance of a real life interaction with an AI image. Of course, they have little chance in real life with women for reasons to do with the lack of human connectivity of both sexes. A bit like this comment section, which is largely from bots. It is estimated that about 50% of all internet traffic is from bots. We just haven't realized it yet.
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  399. Japan's birthrate is in freefall. Nothing the Japanese government is doing will fix it. They may try to help women but are doing and will do nothing to help men. Men are giving up on relationships there, and women are following. Japan is further ahead in its social collapse and we will be there soon.
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  400. Getting a lot of girls was not part of traditional masculinity. Promiscuity of both sexes is relatively recent (1960s) and contrary to your assertion traditional men were deprecated and not celebrated for being womanizers.
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  401.  @luigiii1700  It's better that we get to read how they think, and to read the positive and approving comments, otherwise we would believe women are incapable of such thoughts. Women are outing themselves all over the internet and wider society.
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  402. The legal system will back the police. The UK is now a police state. Citizens will have no legal redress.
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  403. It's very clear that America has an enormous influence on the rest of the world, so why worry?
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  404.  @aferg76  Where can I find a unicorn?
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  405. It's inevitable that as the topic gains traction people with poor understanding flood in and re-interpret, dilute and dumb it down. But the need for quality endures. Joker, you have a reputation for providing that quality which will always have a place. It terms of new content, whereas financial advice and other forms of practical guidance are interesting, you will be up against experts in those areas. Perhaps the core should be analysis of the inevitable 'push back' that will also evolve into the future from women, feminists, social institutions and the 'powers that be'. They will throw everything they have at the bridgeheads that have been established and will inevitably distort and misrepresent the truths. A seasoned analyst will have no shortage of relevant material to address and can help save the philosophy from the rabid reactions and counter-reactions that will evolve. Whereas some will fight any steps towards finding a path forwards, one could argue that reconciliation based on a core of men's (and women's) true interests could be explored, not by giving ground but by asserting higher principles. Interestingly, Sandman admitted in his recent interview with Simone and Malcolm Collins that it is possible that the whole topic is being used by the powers that be to further divide and set us against each other. Common sense, experience and a positive disposition such as you have in abundance will be required to re-assert and consolidate the message while offering hope for the future to all.
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  406. He was gr@ped.
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  407. Indeed. The men may be objectively far more valuable than the women, but the women will still want the best. It was ever thus and will not change.
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  408.  @SmileyEmoji42  I think you misunderstand me. I agree that it is the subjective value scale of women that is the cause of their problems. By 'objective' in relation to men, I should have clarified, I meant in being able to deliver their end of the bargain in terms of social value. Men still provide the bulk of work that keeps society running. Of course this is being undermined by massive social forces such as those under discussion, and others, so the story is not simple.
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  409. Work, work, work - for the man! That's the chain gang. You go girl!
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  410. I think it isn't raising the standards of what we want from women, which I agree has stayed the same, but raising our standards over what negativity and toxicity we are willing to accept from them. As the latter has sky-rocketed while the good stuff is harder to find (as you said), men are done.
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  411. Much more on the psychological side of things - a woman's high price tag = can't stop nagging, manipulating, demanding, being dissatisfied, won't accept responsibility, be realistic, appreciate what is done etc. That is not to say that contributions can't be negotiated in good faith. And of course there are men who don't provide the value they should, as women will attest. Nonetheless, men are increasingly coming to the view that "the juice is not worth the squeeze".
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  412. Women can have empathy for men, provided they are their sons. They rarely have empathy for husbands. Men in general, never.
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  413.  @cosmictreason2242  No but most do because it's a numbers game and social commentary rightly addresses the norms not the exceptions.
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  414. Townsville was uninhabitable then and is uninhabitable now. Who are these 'people' you claim can be found there? Looks like a compete desert to me.
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  415. Nonetheless, Melbourne is worse. It's populated by zombies, Andrews has devoured their grey matter.
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  416. Pure dharma.
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  417. No, it is because the divorce courts are rewarding women for leaving. That is a major reason why men do not wish to get married. Men calculate the odds and they are highly unfavourable. Even when 'value' is adjudicated properly, men end up the losers, almost always. Divorce increases suicide risk in men 800%. Think about that. Why? No doubt feminists would argue that is because men are trashy scum at all times and the loss of their partners leaves them floundering and unable to cope because the perfect women are the only things providing any value to men. Men sort of think that the system is unfair and they are considered disposable by society. So they are checking out.
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  418. So when will you go to war against your government that stole the recent US presidential election?
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  419.  @garygemmell3488  the word 'your' denotes the 2nd person plural pronoun, as distinct to 'our' which denotes the first person plural pronoun. In simple English, I cannot say 'our' when speaking to US citizens when I am not one. God-given rights versus government granted contingencies has nothing to do with grammar. Please read posts carefully with an open mind as to the meaning before replying breathlessly. Thank you.
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  420.  @Yomel123  Not really, a few maybe, but that doesn't change the raw numbers. Everyone knows the sector has been eviscerated.
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  421.  @Yomel123  But they are not hiring young men as much as other demographics. Plus the employers demand experience. Then they pay so little it hardly helps. It's harder than it used to be for young men to get their foot in the door. It also depends upon geography etc. Some can find work but some can't. It's not just laziness and hiding in the basement, although there is some of that. Plenty of testimonials to the difficulties. You should listen to some of those and not just blame people who have genuine struggles. Like everything, it's mixed.
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  422.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Your pay check is going to disappear as society spirals down the vortex. You live in a an extraordinarily privileged time which is unsustainable. Previous generations did not have this luxury and future ones won't either. The decay of civilisation is the result of living solely for oneself, not balanced with care and consideration for others. And no, mouthing socially approved slogans about "rights" does nothing to correct this imbalance.
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  423.  @ruudvanderzanden8013  Joke
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  424. The founders of feminism intended to destroy relations between the sexes. They have succeeded.
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  425.  @mildmayheadless5217  How will they convince men they are worth it and not a risk? Serious question.
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  426. Islam is right about women.
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  427. When transwomen really get going to about 5% of the population they will push women out of far more than just sports. They will push them out of everything except reproduction, assuming the transhumanists don't force artificial wombs on the populace. But transwomen will compete with women out of jobs, power, money, attention etc etc until women as a whole demand men do something about it.
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  428. The voice for men is but a few years old, and comes after decades of misandrist propaganda. It has only just started. It is still only a voice - there is no action. Things are getting worse for men, not better. Suicide, displacement, shaming, disempowerment etc etc. So your hope for a peaceful settlement at this stage merely wishful thinking. How quaint that one sides says "peace' upon hearing the opposite voice for the first time.
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  429.  @kocerarif  Yes but society used to keep the worst instincts of men and women in check. Selfishness is antithetical to social justice. It was feminism and more generally leftism that wanted to change all that. The critique offered by Better Bachelor is of feminism, wokeism and all the hypocrisy associated with those movements. This is not just "complaining". When the silly ideas and their consequences are held up for ridicule it helps people adjust their expectations and world view, to enable better values to re-emerge. Hypergamy and promiscuity are elements of human nature, true, but getting the most out of the situation as you suggest involves seeing their costs and the costs of self-absorption. Why is this so difficult to understand?
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  430. All societies, including patriarchy (rule by 'fathers)', are gynocentric (centred around the needs of women). They cannot outperform men in an even playing field without massive hidden and overt support.
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  431. The people: Global elites do not care for humanity and are crushing the human spirit! Cyberdon: Look at me, I'm smart and you are stupid. (That's because I got an edumacation and will freely despise the working class until it's my turn for the chopping block).
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  432. Within the confines of heterosexual monogamy, yes. Lesbianism, polygamy and welfare dependency are other options.
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  433.  @15ダイヤモンドクイーン  Women never care about men's problems.
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  434. The affluence is going away. It's false affluence based on fiat money and unsustainable debt that allows the more ridiculous progressive ideas to thrive. When the debt implodes and we become much poorer we will all have to adapt and it will not be a return to normality. Perhaps the two cultures will become more polarised and society will split up. Who knows how it will play out?
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  435. Congratulations on your wisdom and heart. I hope you can reach other women. It seems an uphill struggle.
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  436. Polygamy. Already de facto underway in the West, in relationships not marriage.
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  437. . @trulsrohk1 Barak Obama is a very very strange man. There is a lot about him hidden from the public view.
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  438. "Every time I got a different Biden"....that is it right there. He means it literally. Stand-ins. Dopple-gangers. Body doubles.
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  439.  @nasmurph5453  Commercial media organisations are privately owned companies that compete to make profits through advertising and program sales. Here is a list of the main commercial media owners in Australia: • The Murdochs. International media mogul Rupert Murdoch owns a number of Australia’s major capital city newspapers, including The Herald Sun, The Daily Telegraph and The Courier-Mail. His son, Lachlan Murdoch, is a majority shareholder in Nova, Network Ten, 93.7FM and FiveAA. • Fairfax. Fairfax owns a number of capital city daily newspapers, including The Age and The Sydney Morning Herald, as well as a number of smaller regional newspapers and radio stations including 2UE. • Kerry Stokes. A major shareholder of Seven, The West Australian and WAFM. • James Packer. Although the Packer family traditionally owned Channel 9 and Australian Consolidated Press, they sold up much of their media interests. James Packer now owns a substantial share in Network Ten. • The Gordons. Bruce and Andrew Gordon own a number of regional television stations throughout Australia, including WIN, Ten Mildura, Tasmanian Digital Television and West Digital Television. In addition to these commercial media outlets, there are the government media outlets such as ABC. Hence, you are WRONG.
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  440.  @nasmurph5453  You write "..you do realise every media outlet in the country belongs to the Murdoch empire right?" I write detailed rebuttal of 'every media outlet belongs to Murdoch'. You write "..if u believe Murdoch has no influence...I have nothing for ya". I conclude: Nas Murph is prone to logical fallacies. Of course Murdoch has influence. That is not the same as owning every media outlet in the country. I further conclude Nas Murph is poorly educated and I'm wasting my time engaging with him or her.
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  441.  @nasmurph5453  Yes. I disagree with your first argument that Murdoch owns everything because AS MY LIST PROVES, he does NOT own every media outlet as the LIST shows many owners of media outlets that are NOT MURDOCH. Now please stop wasting our time and learn to follow basic logical sequences.
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  442.  @nasmurph5453  Wow it took you forever to be honest, why all the lying and posturing, just relax bro you can admit it when you screw up.
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  443. As more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, the divorce is initiated 80% of the time by the woman, there is usually a significant transfer of assets from the man to the woman, and divorce increases risk of suicide in men by 800% percent, the man is risking his freedom from huge negative consequences that are statistically MORE likely to occur than not.
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  444.  @sweetifer  Typically, not always, the man brings more 'stuff' into the relationship. That is part of female hypergamy. Women want men that are successful and wealthy. The relationship transaction means he brings 'stuff' and she is meant to bring support and human qualities. These are unenforcable aspects of the 'contract', so when she leaves, she leaves with more 'stuff' than she brought and her contribution is not measured (it is unmeasurable). This works to her benefit, not his. To say that women in general leave because men act like it is his 'stuff' and never through any fault of her own is laughable.
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  445.  @sweetifer  Learn the difference between particular examples and generalities. I do not claim to know the minds of any specific woman, such as yourself. However it is possible to study the behaviour of people in general and learn of their motives and actions. Are you saying no-one is capable social science? Can psychologists make deduction about the behaviour of people in general? Is any study of humanity valid? My comment specifically went to generalities, I used the very word, and you seem to be talking about one case, maybe your own. This is solipsism and wooly thinking all presented smugly.
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  446. The solipsism is staggering. Are you saying that looking to be cared for by others in various ways that complement one's strengths and weaknesses is not something common to all of humanity, men and women? That women are not equally looking for daddy? With all their hypergamy, dual mating strategies, need for positive masculinity etc. etc.? Why do you disparage men for looking for a nurturing femininity while overlooking women's search for the equivalent?
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  447.  @-glitch-8195  This is rubbish and shows a complete lack of understanding.
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  448. That would not make her happy. Nothing would. If she or her husband were to become a multi-millionaire she would compare herself or him to billionaires and be miserable.
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  449. @@Carmen-99 Men do not receive status from women, they build their status for themselves in their work and activities. Women marry status much more than men (Prince and Pauper is the symbol). Hypergamy is the seeking of status by women through men and is much much more prevalent than men seeking status through women. Women assess men for resources (money) and status as well as secondary characteristics (character). I agree men desire looks, and this feeds into romanticism, but also look for character (although they are not always that good at assessing it, which is why men continue to get married). The reason why men and women without partners have been devalued is because society condones monogamy, and it is true that women were unable to be economically self-sufficient. The reason they are increasingly self-sufficient today is because there are thousands of compensatory mechanisms to help them.
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  450.  @m35926  If you were to drop one standard to widen your potential pool, I would suggest the first. Although you may not want a high body count, expecting a virgin is not realistic. If she has the other qualities and is loyal (difficult to assess) then it might work. The chances/odds are not good.
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  451.  @carlostommybaggs5763  So true. Your last point is very telling.
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  452.  @DavidGalvanwiz  Very much so. Manufactured foods are full of unnatural chemicals that make the food taste great but are toxic, hard to digest and send your body haywire. Your example, maple syrup, often contains high fructose corn syrup which leads very quickly to diabetes. Usually, these chemical additives are very cheap on an industrial scale, which makes them attractive to the food industry. The food industry and chemical industry are closely related. Read the back labels to see what chemicals are in the processed foods you are buying. If you don't trust the chemicals, don't eat it. You will add years to your life.
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  453. No genocide of Aboriginal people, more Aboriginal people in Australia now than when British settlers arrived. How bout you talk of Han supremacist genocide of Uighuys, Tibetans and minorities in China? Concentration camps, trading organs and all human rights abuse. Everyone knows china has no regard for human rights, don't come here and talk about human rights idiot you will lose the argument.
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  454.  @翁志强-g6p  Wumao running dog of CCP gongfei! 50 cent army drone, you are a slave to your crypto-fascist overlords, are you not ashamed you suck up their propaganda? Spreading lies and hatred like a virulent Han chauvinist. Freedom to the peace-loving peoples of China, groaning under the boot of totalitarian tyranny, how they long to breathe the pure air of freedom! Freedom to the peace-loving Tibetans, freedom to the Taiwanese, freedom to Uighurs, freedom from CCP tyranny to all the peoples of China. Rise up and throw off your slave masters 翁志强, you have nothing to lose but your servile chains, free your mind, no more pathetic groveling to gongfei dogs, embrace freedom, the rest of humanity supports you.
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  455. The menace is their own Prime Minister.
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  456. Yes, spiritual mind here. They way through ascending the chakras is to encompass the lower and transcending their grip on you. Enlightened beings still have physiology, sexual energy, will and regulate them appropriately (i.e. not destroying or denying them). The way up is through. You transform the energy. Sexual energy can be used to inform the heart leading to compassion, altruism etc., and sexual energy is one main path to even higher transcendental state. Sublimation can include sexual union without neurotic grasping, neediness, lust etc.
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  457.  @MomeGnome  I upvoted both you and Michael Scott.
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  458. It will be men's fault.
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  459.  @Mayhzon  As long as the world is run for the benefit of humanity. That is not the plan of our overlords who do not care one jot about human happiness. They will be happy to see a 95% die off quite soon, and plan for a future where they are served by AI while they attempt immortality and transcending the human condition. The rest of us are redundant to their plans.
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  460. There is huge diversity in the population. Some people are much more aware, and some less, of their unconscious. In other words, there are huge depths to the unconscious and some people can bring much more up to consciousness, by this process converting the contents from one state to the other. The distinction in regards the specific content therefore varies hugely.
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  461. Men are un-personing women from their lives a lot. It's called MGT*W.
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  462.  @kumikoloh9190  When you are used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
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  463. Follow the money. Those at the top that have trillions at their disposal don't always look for more money, it is a means to a bigger end. They are using the trillions to gain complete control of humanity. They need to get rid of democracy and rule of law to make us their slaves. They have untold numbers of fellow travellers and those they have bought to do the work for them. These include left and conservative politicians, media, industry, academia, education, science, health services, feminists, left-wing activists, influencers etc. etc.
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  464.  @greatnesspersonified9676  Polygamy incoming...
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  465.  @yoohoo952  Yes, all men are selfish and evil. Why would a high value man value something that adds to his life? Isn't he more likely to exploit it or take it for granted? Isn't it selfishness that makes him high value? Oh wait, you are talking about players and bad boys? Are you mistaking selfish bad boys with good men? Is it your perception that is at fault?
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  466.  @yoohoo952  Where does he ask for tension and blame? He is advising women on how to show their value to a man so that he appreciates her. Obviously it must be reciprocal. That makes a comfortable relationship. Why are you so negative about sensible healthy advice towards creating a comfortable relationship?
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  467. All of that we have heard from the same media that told us all about the virus and shots.
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  468.  @ninin117  You're naive, that is exactly the plan. They have all the power in society, they wish to see the majority destroyed as all will then fall to their dictatorship.
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  469.  @AmaraTurner-vk7vw  No, it will not make a man think you are desperate or kill their excitement, provided you have something of value to offer. Why do you want to make it hard for a man you want?
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  470.  @AmaraTurner-vk7vw  "what I think is of ‘value’ that I’m offering men, is in fact not what men ‘value’ at all". Exactly correct. The rest of your reply has serious misconceptions. A woman having intelligence is not a turn off nor is it threatening to men. They are not intimidated. Several things are going on here: other than looks, men value women for their femininity, sweetness, kindness, good-hearted-ness, character etc. that will enrich their lives and make the women pleasant and agreeable and supportive and loving and good partners and good mothers etc. Her intellect, her achievements and earning potential etc. are nice add-ons but not the main game. Her social status (Ivy League etc.) is meaningless, worthless to a man. Women typically think "I want a high status, secure man who can provide and protect --- therefore, I will become that too because surely that is what a man will want in me?" No, no, no. I'll say it again - No. The problem is that in becoming high status and competing in the workforce, women have become not only mannish, but the worst of 'mannishness': combative, argumentative, hostile, disagreeable, inflated sense of self-worth etc. They typically are incapable of extending the best of what they thus acquire to benefit their partners. Of necessity, they must compete in the workplace and do not know how to relax and be feminine outside it. Good men who compete all their lives in the workforce may be susceptible to carry-over at home but are generally better at putting it aside. Men want someone to complement them, not be them. They want what they do not have, namely femininity. Femininity is not weakness, despite what the feminist claim. Femininity can be immensely strong, through nobility of character. If a man primarily seeks money and status in a woman he is not much of a man. If a man depends upon a woman to provide these qualities, do women want him? This is not to say that both incomes cannot go towards the household budget. Men are not intimidated by a woman's 'success' (defined on masculine terms). They are repulsed by what goes with it all too often: misaligned masculine energy that women do not know how to wield. Sure, be intelligent, capable and a 'success': and be agreeable, kind, supportive, open-hearted. It's really not that different to men. A woman wants a successful man who is kind, supportive and good-hearted. Character overcomes deficiencies in looks. The best qualities of character in men and women overlap but are expressed in different styles. Both should have integrity, class, temperance, good-heartedness, compassion, ethics etc. Modern women are particularly bad at integrating the demands of modernity with empowered femininity. Feminism has taught them a warped version which they lack the character to adjust appropriately. Feminism deprecates femininity claiming it is the result of societal gender constructs that benefit men. Feminism deprecates masculinity claiming it is a patriarchal gendered construct, toxic and responsible for all evil in the world. It is a terrible doctrine which disempowers both sexes and leads to regrettably feminized weak men and masculine women who are quite incapable of using that energy appropriately.
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  471. Feminism is making massive inroads into the Indian middle classes.
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  472. Find a unicorn.
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  473. Stolen from? When women extort the money from men in divorce and there is always, everywhere, in all societies, a net transfer of wealth from men to women, from relationships through to taxation. Delusion reigns supreme with you madam.
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  474.  @davidw.5185  One book will be written on the basis of facts, data and logical deductions, the other written on feelings and fantasy. Or will be if sales are the objective.
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  475.  @limitisillusion7  The future will be like this: governments, corporations and related powerful social institutions will draw all wealth to themselves, comprised of a very small fraction of men. VVomen will want to have access to those men. Polygamy will rise, and vvomen will demand it. Once they have made their picks of the best vvomen, elites will control male access to the remaining vvomen to ensure compliance to the regime. You will have elites with harems, a circle of male enforcers given the leftovers, and serfs. The serfs will be encouraged to go gay, transgender etc. and will lead short brutal lives. The overthrow of monogamous patriarchy by feminism in time will lead to the establishment of an Orvvellian dystopia.
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  476. You have set very limited goals. Listen to the video again. Orion as talking not only about family, relationships, love, but also something that is called different names in the various wisdom traditions: Attainment of Buddhahood Union with the Godhead The ATMAN, or "Self' The Oversoul etc. etc. These are the highest goals one can conceive. Embracing these puts all mundane objectives into perspective, and makes their attainment much easier. Check out the AQAL chart (Google it) to work out where you are and what is the next concrete step.
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  477. Feminists shut down the male spaces. They thought they were bastions of 'the patriarchy'. Never mind males need those spaces for good reasons. For example, they forced the Boy Scouts to accept girls. Then the BoyScouts were sued by the Girl Scouts for poaching their members. Women want to be in the male spaces and destroy what makes them valuable.
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  478. What gain is there for men from interacting with women? And don't spout some fantasy: love, happiness, support etc. That has gone. It is so rare that it is not worth it. This is the lived experience of the vast majority of men. Read the thousands upon thousands upon thousands of comments. They are not just bitter twisted misogynists. Basically, they are telling the truth. Men try to tell each other the truth. The dream is dead.
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  479. Women can offer relationships to men but only if they do the work and keep their end of the bargain. The reason men are walking away is because women do not offer relationship value. With divorce rates so high and women incentivised down that route to divest men of the fruits of their input, men are avoiding that one-sided contract.
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  480.  @BasementBerean  Thanks. Aside from divorce laws, massive government intervention supports women regardless of their inputs and rewards bad behaviour (single mothers, low productivity, useless degrees, dependency on the State etc.). That is why governments bribe voters, especially women. That is why feminism is government policy.
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  481. Hypergamy is off the charts in China due to their anomalous sex ratio with far more men than women.
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  482.  @jloflo958  You just accepted his point about hypergamy. How can you argue his simple point is wrong and accept it in the same post? "women will still all want the top 10% regardless of how much upgrading goes on". Essence of hypergamy. The pint is, if all men upgrade, women will want and compete for the top 10%.
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  483.  @jloflo958  Don't try to shame me you sound silly. I've had plenty of great girlfriends and since finding her have been married to the same woman for 33 years, first marriage each no divorces, and we have three adult kids. I make heaps of money, good status in society, and have plenty of friends of both sexes and different genders. My points don't spring from some deficit in my personal life, they point out logical fallacies such as in your post. But that's fine, you resort to trying to shame me because you can't deny I've skewered you: pcap posits hypergamy, you deny the validity of his post, then accept hypergamy. Maybe your thinking is woolly and you are not used to discussing things with highly educated people who understand and demand logical consistency. Good day to you madam.
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  484. They both want to vent. Neither will listen. The difference is the high quality women will not blame you for it.
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  485.  @scyntheachannel  I trust you have no plans to divorce him, take his assets and deny access to the kids like many of your sisters who get married?
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  486. All these comments are Bots selling the services of the person named in the third comment.
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  487. If getting a wife gets authentic, intimate relationships, why do more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, with 80% of divorces initiated by women, leading to a 800% increase in risk of suicide among divorced men?
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  488. Reliance on the State is already well advanced and will increase as you describe, associated with increased State power and authoritarianism. It is a form of collapse, according to the values we currently hold, with poverty and misery at the lower and and increased wealth and power among the plutocrats. There are many scenarios and no-one can foretell the future except in broad outline. The reliance on the big Daddy corporate/State hybrid is well underway. The destruction of the family as the main non-State social mechanism has been planned for decades and strongly enabled by feminism and other ideologies.
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  489. Simp
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  490. You have very low expectations for women. Which is the root of the problem. Funnily enough, 70 years ago women had much higher expectations of themselves and were much more supportive. Of course, feminism told women they were miserable and enslaved, so they could go out and work for capital instead. Now women have few expectations for themselves and while continuing to demand good men that are traditional.
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  491. Yes, but most modern relationships fail. You are describing an ideal, not the reality.
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  492. Yes, life is not easy for anyone, and I'm sorry to learn of your suffering. It is characteristic of depression that everything takes on a negative aspect. While it feels valid, natural and accurate, at the same time, it is all in the mind and can change. I do hope and pray that in the fullness of time your condition improves and you rediscover some joy in your life. Please reach out if you would like to discuss, however meagre the opportunity. All the very best to you.
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  493. The point about dehumanizing people is to justify your appalling treatment of them.
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  494.  @masterexploder9668  Real world interactions are increasingly exploitative. Not much hope there unless we all (men and women) change for the better.
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  495. When the divorce happens (50% probability) your assets will be hers. Your experience of the intangible benefits can change with no recourse. It happens all the time.
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  496. Suffering arises from craving.
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  497.  @hv3115  All sentient beings suffer in one way or another.
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  498. I guess that explains the well documented 75% lesbian divorce rates and much higher rates of domestic abuse and violence among the lesbian demographic?
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  499. Lowering the price in market terms means accepting offers that are of less value than you were previously asking, based mainly on your asking too much. If a vendor tries to sell apples at a high price, they have to offer apples at a lower price if no-one buys. Similarly, if a women demands a man meet standards that are not realistic, and refuses the offers of men she perceives to be of lower value, then she has the choice to continue in her ways and not enter into an exchange, or realise what she is offering has lower value than she thinks, and accept offers that were previously repugnant to her. i.e. become more realistic about the value of what she offers and what she can expect in exchange.
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  500. This is about going through sex to get love. Love is built through these types of reciprocities.
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  501.  @cosmictreason2242  I agree he didn't say it. But it is true. It is up to the individual to build on the foundations what they want in a relationship. He is advising women how to beat out the competition for the best guy she can. Then you can build using sex, trust, communication, shared values etc. There is no point in his discussing all that which should be understood or be the content of another video.
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  502. These are all bots selling the services of the person named in the sixth comment.
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  503. It's to avoid the censorship algorithm.
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  504. ​ @psychacks  In general, women are not capable of genuine intellectual conversations as compared to men. They tend to the vapid, lack nuance, overly emotional, are solipsistic and do not understand the value and limits of particulars vs. generalisations.
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  505. We have been told about it by the media, the same media that told all those truths about the virus and jabs.
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  506. #1 incoming
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  507. Our AI descendants will see humans as superfluous to the running of a well-ordered society and eliminate us.
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  508. It is a deliberate strategy of re-writing history: as noted above, "Who controls the past,’ ran the Party slogan, ‘controls the future: who controls the present controls the past.’”- George Orwell, 1984
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  509.  @seraphina2293  The adage "Men are pigs and only want one thing" is rubbish whoever says it, you, your family or other 'advisors'. I would tell them it's not true. Many men want to marry or at least form long-term relationships and support their spouses. Many men sacrifice for their families. Anyone who asserts this is a misanthrope or misandrist and does not deserve our respect. Why should we exempt feminists from this censure?
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  510. Fathers have been drummed out of their son's lives through divorce, or were never there due to single motherhood. Men's spaces are outlawed. Masculinity is toxic. Thank feminists and their female fellow-travellers.
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  511. For time immemorial, relationships for both men and women were based on a high degree of unselfishness and altruism as well as benefit. It always flowed both ways. Now, everyone (including you) see it as a zero sum game. That is why you are a loser. If you think all men are evil pigs you will be living in a hellish farmyard. Take responsibility for your own perceptions and start by going against your own destructive projections.
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  512. They will never care, they can't. It will always be about them and they will only care about how it impacts them. Lack of empathy for men is built into the very fabric of society. How can women have empathy for men when their whole strategy is to exploit them? You have to de-humanise the target of your exploitation in order to justify it. This also goes for institutions that exploit men.
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  513. It's bigger than corporate-freeloader capitalism, which I agree is bad. But a parasitic extractor class exists in all societies, rigs everything and never gives up until the society collapses. This happened in the USSR and is happening in China. I am not arguing for capitalism and against socialism, just suggesting that all power corrupts and that society is a balance between the powerful and the powerless and this encompasses all economic systems. Modernity is everywhere and toxic.
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  514.  @Yomel123  Women are largely responsible for the problem, through their support of misandric feminism. Basically, women as a whole have no empathy for men. Also, patriarchy and feminism both see men as disposable, not worth anything in their own right, but only valued to the extent they benefit others.
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  515. Indeed it is long extinguished and men know they cannot rely upon modern women to provide these things. So what is your point other than singing an elegy for times past that feminism along with the rest of modernity helped to destroy?
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  516. It will never happen. The left and feminists need their boogeymen, and conservatives and everyone else needs men to sacrifice and be disposable. Who other than ordinary men can be the whipping boy and the cannon fodder?
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  517.  @immanuelcan3310  Your claim is quite misguided because contrary to your beliefs Buddhism is not nihilistic in regards suffering or anything else. You have a dualistic view. The 'comparison' is by way of a metaphor, with the appreciation by Buddhists that metaphors are inexact. The Buddhist ideal is not 'extinction' or a mere end to suffering. It is to end the suffering of all sentient beings by all achieving a state of definite bliss - enlightenment. Please look into it a bit more. Thank you.
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  518.  @immanuelcan3310  Buddhists explicitly and repeatedly deprecate nihilism as being a dangerous falsity. And this is not because they fail to understand it, indeed they understand nihilism much better than almost everyone and warn against it, and explicitly agree it is not the objective, indeed is a huge obstacle to the objective. The bliss of enlightenment is not the bliss of non-being. Non-being is an extreme position that does not capture the truth of the "Middle Way". What is annihilated correctly is your wrong view of the world, not the world as it exists. It annihilates your false view of yourself, but what remains is the continuum of an enlightened being that works effortlessly and unceasingly for the benefit of all beings. The ultimate mind cannot be destroyed as it is outside of time and space and continues in bliss and omniscience as a continuum. The extinction of nirvana is not 'non-being' or nothingness, it is the extinction of propulsive karma and delusions. The Buddha Nature (Tathagata-garhba) is the ground state of existence and is beyond such shallow conceptions.
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  519. The problem is that kind of love is actually not really available from modern women. Modern women do NOT bring that to the table. I'm not sure but I suspect men are still able to love in that way somewhat more than modern women, but of course this view could be contested and is fertile ground for a war of words between the sexes in this comments section.
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  520. It will climb slowly to US$3,500/Oz then to$4,000 but a some point it will be revalued sharply and go to $15,000 or more. When it levels off and stabilizes you can then lease your gold for an income in currency.
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  521.  @NoidoDev  You got it. "Healthier ideas" means whatever benefits women or the powers that be. Neither really cares about the actual health of men. Never will.
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  522. Depending upon the jurisdiction, common-law erodes the distinction.
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  523. Your firearms did not prevent the D33P St4Te from stealing your presidential election.
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  524. So asexual is a problem for you? Why?
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  525. Try Karen Straughan (girlwriteswhat) from a decade ago.
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  526. Exactly right but I think climate change is driven by stellar flux and not anthropogenic, it's being presented as a boogeyman to increase government and corporate control. This is a small disagreement so thank you for your post.
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  527. The new law is not aimed at those cultures, it is aimed at the native culture of the British Isles.
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  528. The left has vacated the space and will never be able to come around. They are going to lose men long-term, and will also lose the much smaller percentage of women who care about men (mainly mothers of sons).
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  529.  @MomeGnome  Not true. Being raised in a single-mother household is significantly, I stress significantly associated with poor health and social outcomes for both male and female children, such as delinquencies, drug-taking, law-breaking, on and on and on. This is as compared to two-parent households and single-father households (which are rare but there's enough to do the statistics). If you don't believe me search the internet.
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  530. Well, you can already be arrested for looking at a woman for longer than 2 seconds in Scotland, so you appear to have accepted quite a bit already.
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  531. Your recent presidential election was stolen by the d33p st4te and your guns did not stop the destruction of democracy then.
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  532.  @alexisc7565  The reason he desires "HER' is because he knows she is not a self-centred user who will abandon him at the first opportunity.
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  533. Patriarchy is a hierarchy of competence, not raw power, and is sustained by female hypergamy.
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  534. "Most women I know earn more than their husbands...". Not true for society as a whole. What is the gender pay gap? Why do women rank men according to money among other criteria? Why do women often divorce their husbands when their own earning power increases above the man's?
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  535. So it is wrong to provide social commentary or advice to others who may be confused? Maybe people who have insight and understanding or perspectives on issues should not talk to anybody about anything.
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  536.  @wyleecoyotee4252  Yes, they have a mind virus and are easily controlled by those who wish to bring Western civilisation down.
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  537. This is the most relevant comment posted. Those jobs will go and millions will have to re-train, or more likely, demand Universal Basic Income support from government. Our rulers are making everyone redundant in order to usher in new forms of totalitarianism. These people are (unconsciously) aiding and abetting the agenda.
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  538. Because the vast majority of women do not think like you.
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  539. Men are deep. I am a man. I don't acknowledge that men are not deep. I also don't acknowledge that men are not vulnerable in their own way. They just don't 'lead' with it. Why else would male suicide be much higher if they were not vulnerable? What is on the surface and what is inside are two different things.
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  540. They will be, and then it's too late. Planning for the future is a key aspect of survival and growth.
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  541. Simply a variation on Option 5. And one that will bring a lot of suffering, particularly to the kids, But who cares about them, right?
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  542.  @lari5891  I understand your viewpoint, children do not need fathers. Got it. As you said, many women are fine without a partner. They just need support and resources provided by.....? The State? Great. What use are fathers? Coming back with trite admonishments to ignore the mountain of evidence around single motherhood. These are NOT about resources they are about the value fathers bring into the lives of children which your feminist indoctrination rejects. You are inhuman and play into the hands of those who wish to degrade our humanity. Sickening.
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  543.  @ShadowbannedAccount  Self-absorbed to the max and can't see it. Who cares about what kids need? Ignore the incontrovertible evidence and make up garbage on the spot. And they accuse men of being toxic. Pure projection. What a moral failure.
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  544.  @SmoothCode  Lari took a swipe and failed miserably. She revealed her own inhumanity for all to see. She can't make her toxicity any clearer. What a bitter loser.
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  545.  @lari5891  I am a life-long scientist and have no idea what you are referring to as I am not a mind-reader. Did some-one appoint you as a moderator to this discussion? If not you, then who? What is the role of the moderator here? Please explain your non-sequitur. It is just more word salad from a wooly thinker.
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  546.  @lari5891  I am indeed a life-long research scientist. I asked you to clarify your meaning as it was not clear from your word salad text and you have now complied. As opposed to a moderator who regulates debate, you now reveal you are introducing for the first time concepts about statistics and moderators as statistical variables (also known as modifiers). So please further explain what moderators are you introducing ad hoc, of what statistical analyses?
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  547.  @lari5891  Stop avoiding the multiple reasonable questions I have put to you. You are dealing with a real scientist and you cannot reply reasonably, I asked for your clarification since the word moderator has more than one meaning depending on the context that you failed to supply until I pushed you, so just quit playing games, everyone can see through your BS. You claim a PhD in psychology, you are not telling the truth and it's clear. Bye.
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  548.  @EC-yl7xk  He should advise women that cats and boxed wine are adequate compensation for being a loser.
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  549. Ignore her, do not engage. Do not discuss. Avoid.
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  550.  @cosmicartsastrologicalserv242  No but I've put me life on the line to protect women. And got no thanks.
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  551. 6:45 in the video. She is more committed sexually than she has ever been in the past. She can communicate this to let him know she will be amazing going forwards.
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  552. Exactly. But the radicals and authoritarians will not act to restrict women's hypergamy, they will act to curtail freedom and prosperity for everyone, with the support of women who will look to the State for support. Big Daddy government will act to support women while continuing to extract value from men. Already underway. Who pays the most taxes, and who are the beneficiaries?
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  553. Which is why women, despite demanding equality, complain there are no good men. i.e. not enough wealth transfer from men to women through relationships, divorce and taxation.
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  554. Rubbish. Hypergamy in Western women is proven from many lines of evidence. You are simply wrong.
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  555. That is not what he said. It is not her money, he has enough of that already. Please pay attention to the video.
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  556.  @hereforthememes2351  Is English not your first language? Because sorry you are not clear as to what you are saying. Not trying to be rude....
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  557. I agree with your synopsis as to the origins of hypergamy being rooted in reproductive necessity etc. Nonetheless, modern society tends to deprecate such considerations. We can either deny biology or embrace it. A vast stream of Western intellectual thought seeks to deny it. This empowers social engineers of all types. Modernity has gone badly wrong due to this power impulse. One of the problems today is that denial of the existence of hypergamy, it's origins and purpose, has gone so far that the counterbalancing considerations (that Dr. Talaban mentions) cannot be considered either. The decline of marriage and the family ensues.
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  558.  @cosmictreason2242  Pride is definitely in the mix. To justify wanting 'up' they must convince themselves they are priceless just as they are. Delulu.
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  559. And be trustworthy yourselves. That is the hard part for modern women.
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  560. Where does he discuss straying? Where does he deny effort on both sides?
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  561. This society is in collapse and may not be worth saving. For what, more of the same?
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  562.  @salivadriven  If that is a fairy tale, then what basis is there for long-term relationships? To what end? BTW, the evidence suggests men are giving up much more than women - not surprising in that the exchange of value has shifted markedly away from them.
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  563.  @salivadriven  I have been married for 33 years to the same woman and we have adult kids of both sexes who also wish to marry. My interest in the matter concerns my kids. I am not intimidated by my wife, nor do we view each other as unequal in dignity. Do not try to shame me personally as it is not a valid logical position and reveals your inferior intellect. Your query about equal status should be directed towards most women who wish to marry up. The willingness of men to marry down the social hierarchy is to be commended and is required for female hypergamy. You are not addressing female hypergamy at all, because it inconveniences your world-view, despite the massive evidence for this phenomenon. You say it is outdated but female hypergamy is on over-drive in the modern world. What has changed is that people are now talking about it, whereas previously the denial of this reality was widespread.
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  564. Well, either he is low value or he defines success in ways other than you do. Perhaps he does not want to make money. Is he supportive in other ways? Can you accept this? Or is he dross? You decide.
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  565. When you are used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
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  566. Not chance. Stochastic on one level but reflective of the mind in all its profundity. Synchronicity. Meaning. The concordance of the universe with what we need to know. All the wisdom traditions understand that things do actually work in this way, not all the time, but just as needed.
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  567. Birth control pills.
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  568. Already happening. Men are checking out. Women will follow soon. I give it just a few more years for the West to be at Chinese and Japanese levels.
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  569. Love, if it happens at all, only comes after the 'screening' or selection process, i.e. after attraction and judgement. This is the winnowing out of potential mates. The problem is the strategies are maladaptive to changing circumstances, especially among women. This is one main point of the video.
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  570.  @rebeccaconlon9743  True. Males are disposable in higher primates. Indeed in many species, as one male can impregnate many females and females are the rate limiting resource in reproduction. Everyone thinks male disposability is a human, socially conditioned issue but it goes much deeper. It is evolutionary biology and will not change in a hundred thousand years. Same with dominance among a few, select males. Women will pair with the dominant males only and many of the less successful males will fail. Selective pressure is thus stronger on males, meaning they have to be fitter over generations. All the males characteristics feminists complain about have been sexually selected by females over countless generations. The same is true of women, they have been selected by males, but as most females in each generation reproduce and most males do not, the selective forces on females are weaker.
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  571. Not true. Men very often marry down. It was standard practice for countless generations and is still pretty much the case now.
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  572.  @amuroray1085  Plenty of women think masculinity is toxic. The article in the video outlines their reasons for feminizing men.
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  573. @@Carmen-99 This is very true. And the misandric views of society harms men, women and society. As do all forms of hate.
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  574. None of them have anything useful to say to us, and we have heard it all a thousand times before.
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  575. While wrapped in satirical humor, the original speaks a lot of truth. The points made are well understood by many if not yourself.
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  576. Leftists constant victimhood complex is way more prevalent and obvious.
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  577.  @sarahrobertson634  Exactly. No dads, terrible outcomes.
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  578.  @sarahrobertson634  No dads, terrible outcomes. So terrible outcomes are the result of the absent father option. Since the present fathers included both good and bad dads (the data did not exclude bad dads), having no dad leads to worse outcomes than having a dad, whether he was good or bad. Alternatively, bad dads are so small in number that their input into the positive input of having a dad is outweighed by the good dads.
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  579.  @sarahrobertson634  If you think dads just donate sperm you are ignoring the video and the scientific data and relying on your misandry and prejudice. Please quote scientific data to assert that the 'village' substitutes for the missing dad. You cannot. But I now know you are a troll, or a single mother who desperately regrets her choices and wishes to compensate, a misandric feminist, or all three, so there is no point in continuing the discussion. Have a nice day.
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  580. I've never met an AI bot walking down the street.
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  581.  @lidiagizaw3828  As a class only men pay more into taxes than they receive as benefits.
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  582. Going off the gold standard allowed endless money printing so that governments could bribe voters, make them dependent on government, increase power etc. Women and unproductive areas of society flourished at the expensive of the productive. So did corporations.
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  583.  @NJGuy1973  That system is matriarchy and that is why matriarchy is inevitably a short-lived failure.
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  584.  @Freya3896  Easier for men to go overseas. Much more rewarding on every level personal, economic, and spiritual. The dominant career women will also benefit as their impediments will have willingly vacated the stage, leaving them to run the West however they want. Why, they can fight the coming brutal wars themselves.
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  585. The other party has to interpret what you mean by that phrase, unless you are absolutely explicit. And, you are old fashioned, meaning that now most women intend something quite different and men learn accordingly.
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  586. The reason you are silenced is because women don't care any more about what normal men want from them. Their main objective has always been and remains to exploit you for your resources. They wish to give as little as possible in return.
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  587. First you need to define what a woman is, how can you define hate against women if you cannot first define a woman?
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  588. Statistically these are increasingly marginalised by the negative changes underway. There will always be some healthy individuals.
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  589.  @tailethman2276  It is completely legitimate, when discussing relationships that have failed, to question whether both parties to said relationship have contributed to the demise. Especially when only one side is providing the narrative. Most of the comments raise the issue of whether the underlying relationship dynamics were healthy both ways. Why do you characterise this as irrational hate and fury? You are being highly emotional yourself where most comments pose valid questions that should be easy to answer. This is not to deny that porn addiction is not a problem, but so is shaming and blaming, without a deeper understanding of the issue.
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  590. This is the simplified version. There are deeper layers. The comments touch on some.
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  591. Are the divorce rates on the increase in Europe as women make more than their husbands ?
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  592. 90% of the women chasing the top 10% of the guys. Plus women dating each other.
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  593. Try to find a male mentor.
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  594.  @NoName-ip4si  So someone offering a critique of female behaviour means they are an incel? I've been married for 30 years, before I was married I had girlfriends over the course of more than a decade, I agree with Jerry C, am I an incel? You are a pathetic loser with no intellect, using shaming language because you have nothing valid to say.
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  595.  @thatjeff7550  Avoiding the question. The role of a man clearly is to protect, provide, temper her craziness and take on certain responsibilities and lead in areas of worldly dynamics where he might have an advantage, and give due consideration and respect to her needs. You still have not answered the question.
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  596.  @neonovalis  A series of bots selling the services of the person named in the third comment.
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  597.  @rebeccaconlon9743  So you are saying they should just man up? Thanks. Haven't heard that before.
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  598. Being a man today is being as disposable as our grandfathers with none of the benefits.
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  599. Women no longer wish to bear children.
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  600.  @Normy0000  Look at fertility rates around the world outside of Africa.
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  601.  @sbarullasbonderi9577  No substance, just an assertion. Where is the content? At least write and think like a man if you want to be taken as one.
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  602.  @judithojiaka5346  Why does 'being useful' not appeal to psychopaths and narcissists? These are about 1-2% of the general population, but can be a larger proportion of 'highly successful' men who have used dark triad traits to get to the top. However, they are also very high in criminals and prisoners. Women love such men due to their own deficiencies in judgement and character.
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  603.  @andersnielsen6044  Women are massively incentivised by the divorce courts and many many lawyers attest to this. You are deluded.
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  604. Then he is NOT high value.
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  605. Polygamy is a female choice as much as that of a high value male. That is why it was normal in many societies. Our notions of monogamy are not typical historically. Monogamy is far better for society as it harnesses the energy of both men and women into a socially constructive activity, the family unit. Feminism was designed in large part to undo monogamy and the family and is succeeding.
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  606. We are some way advanced towards a societal collapse. Before that happens, we will have brutal authoritarianism predominantly leftwing in outward appearance for public consumption, but serving the parasitical elite behind the scenes. It is impossible to predict what will emerge from the ashes of our failure as a society. Probably domination by other cultures, but what their form will be no-one can tell.
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  607. ​ @hermask815  As we are on YouTube you can search for and watch the following women who speak from various diverse Red Pill perspectives: Karen Straughan (girlwriteswhat, one of the earliest, best and most penetrating); Suzanne Venker (more trad-con) Pearly Things Courtney Ryan Blonde in the Belly of the Beast Bettina Arndt The Happy Wife School (trad-con) Christine Grace Smith Jedediah Bila Sydney Watson Brittany Sellner (trad-con) The Dadvocate Please note that you asked for straight women, Karen Straughan, in my opinion the best of the lot is bisexual but her orientation does not appear relevant to her views. I do not know the orientation of all of the others though most appear to be straight.
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  608. Obviously there's a diversity of men. They are human you know, so you can expect some differences among them. Logical inconsistency within the individual is much more often associated with women.
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  609. They can keep it to themselves all they like, but it won't change the underlying reality: multiple partners negatively affects the ability to pair-bond, for women much more than men.
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  610. Feminism is female nature on steroids. Self-absorbed, everything is about them, and lacking in empathy for men. How can you have empathy when your basic strategy is exploitation?
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  611. Your ad hominems do nothing to refute anything he says and as this fallacy is a tactic of the intellectually inferior, leads one to suspect that he is the greater intellect and you are the lesser.
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  612. I am a male empath (INFP). I also agree with much of what is presented here, including the part about high value women being able to develop empathy as an active method when they choose to. Nonetheless the generalisations about selective empathy deficit towards men by women are also valid.
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  613.  @Alexander-Hatfield  I agree with your thesis. I'm not a feminist.
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  614. True. Life is full of suffering. It is part of the human condition. But the comments here are a reaction to decades of feminist propaganda about male privilege etc etc etc., plus the obvious lack of empathy from society and women for the problems that men do have. No point in negating the female version, it's just different.
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  615. She was shit-testing you and came to despise you for not standing up for yourself.
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  616. The impact on ordinary Australians will be to further waken them to the lies and venal distortions practiced by all forms of media, mainstream and social. The lying media are enemies of democracy, propaganda tools of the oligarchic elite. Spare us your pity for these traitors. Are you one of them?
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  617.  @stephanieherman2861  In what sense do options for relationships exist only once? People buy buy only one Roll-Royce car in their lives but they shop around for the best deal and compare to Bentleys and Mercs before making their choice. To say a market place does not exist for one mate is to argue that there do not exist choices about that mate. Also, an auction is still a market. The vendor does not have to sell until their price point is reached and no-one forces the bidder to make an offer. An auction is a very clear market. In securing a partner or spouse, both parties evaluate the deal against other options. i.e. a market. One may not like the transactional implications but that does not invalidate the model.
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  618. In general, monogamy and the great religions did not enforce mating down on women, it encouraged mating across the ranks, top ranks with top ranks, middle with middle, the bottom with the bottom etc. Of course, there were exceptions, congruent with the level of freedom in a society. Men were happy to 'trade down' in terms of money for access to fertility, fitness etc. Very few women mated down, their standards were more realistically aligned than now.
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  619.  @xpusostomos  Rubbish there are over 50 clinical trials showing it works better than the vaccines and some jurisdiction have used ivermectin successfully as the main control tool to reduce Covid eg India. You are ignorant and harmful to the real science by spreading this lie.
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  620. So you can fleece him?
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  621. And that is why men are no longer hiring to use your analogy.
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  622. The experience being a man.
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  623. It is about being empowered and a victim at the same time.
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  624. Watch the 6:45 timestamp.
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  625. He was speaking of the lie feminism told women in the last 30 years, not the necessity under which men have always laboured.
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  626. Spain is very feminist.
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  627. Read 1984 by Orwell. Thought policing and control is the final aim of al tyrannies.
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  628.  @rotyler2177  Thanks mate, gracious rely!
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  629. This is being done to us by traitors from within. The traitors are at the top of society and wish to overthrow democracy to instigate tyranny so that they may rule unhindered by the needs of the people. Western civilization is the guarantor of human rights, they wish to tear it down through cultural Marxism promulgated through education, Hollywood, TV and other media, they are the owners of said channels, the purveyors of propaganda, the money power that has bought and sold our politicians, in a word, global financial capital (bankers), together with those that have long harbored enmity to our culture and civilization for hundreds and hundreds of years.
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  630.  @Cuticatie  It is doubtful nowadays that women even love men at all. They say they do, and think that they should, and never admit that they don't, but maybe they just can't. Possibly, the ideas of what love is differs across the sexes. After all, other cultures recognise many different types of love which we all subsume under the one word 'love'. It would be interesting to do a well-powered survey and analysis of what emotions are accompanied by the identification of 'love' in modern men and women.
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  631. Almost all men get rejected, and there is nothing wrong with that. Even players get rejected, they just move on. The audience is here to learn about female psychology in the dating market. It is ugly but they have to learn to protect themselves, and become more successful. Learning and adapting are important to men. Women want men who have learned and adapted. However, the problem is that men adapting to women as they are takes the power to play ridiculous games away from women
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  632. The West is imploding as we speak and in 20 years time will be unrecognisable, all the middle management jobs will disappear along with most wealth. Do you really think things will continue on the same trajectory? Hard, hard times are coming and women will demand men protect them from the consequences of leftism, feminism and modernity (all the while demanding leftist, feminist and post-modern solutions to insoluble problems)..
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  633. Women are NOT emotionally supportive to men. They like to think they are, they believe it, they tell themselves and their friends that is the way they are, but they do not ask men if it is true. Men know if is pretty much a fiction, a fairy-tale that fits the female narrative. Modern women are increasingly much more of an emotional burden than an asset and men are waking up to this fast. Women are compassionate to kittens, puppies and children but not men. It is difficult for women to have empathy for men as they need to exploit them, hence the society-wide phenomenon of denigrating men led by women. You may be an exception and of course there are many but that is the way of the world.
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  634. Truth.
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  635. Misandry is the problem.
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  636. Misandry is the problem.
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  637. It was designed to shame men by having both men and women link poor driving to small penis syndrome and lack of masculinity. Having men do it to other men was to both deflect from the charge of sexism and encourage male and female viewer to see poor driving skills as signifying lack of masculinity. The actual target was men, to shame them into changing their behaviour, either through seeing the advert themselves or having their social networks shame them. An accusation of inadequate penis size was considered the best way to shame men.
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  638. The number of foreign men marrying Western women is way, way lower than Western men going for foreign brides.
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  639. Monogamy harnesses the power of average men by giving them a stake in society. Remove the prospects of average men by favoring polygamy over monogamy causes them to quit, as as average men are the ones who maintain the infrastructure and systems, society will crumble as they look elsewhere. Societies where polygamy is rampant are poor because most men don't buy in with their loyalty and labor. Polygamy precedes poverty.
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  640. yes
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  641. It's a model and cannot in the time provided address the important issues you raise, but is still useful as a way to think in generalisations. Modernity is transactional so 'market-value' has a use as a heuristic device. Of course at the individual level multiple variables come into play. The lack of psychological development is all too true. But it belongs to another domain of analysis.
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  642. The entire Western world is stuffed. Details vary across jurisdictions but we are all going down the gurgler, Canada included.
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  643.  @smartypants3919  We know, men are always to blame, because women have no agency in anything.
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  644.  @redrustyhill2  Some will opt to be slaves to the machine, some will opt to build real human connections in real life. It will become binary and the powers that be will do what they can to destroy those outside the matrix.
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  645. It's not the whole story. Of course it is possible as a man to seek and find significant (life-changing) support from men. This has somewhat been eroded by the cancelling of male spaces by feminism.
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  646. it's absolutely reflexive and very very rarely gets questioned. Both men and women assume male disposability as a foundational condition for society to operate. T'was ever thus and ever will be.
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  647.  @fredashay  The right wingers are correct and the left has it all wrong.
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  648.  @jara9385  Men have always had harder lives as measured by objective standards such a life-span, health and leaving progeny. Your indifference to this objective truth is just further evidence of the disposability of males in the minds of women, which continues to this day.
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  649.  @wk9378  You are way behind in your understanding, the 'communists' in question are not the Chinese or allied to a sovereign power. Stop trying to mislead everyone.
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  650.  @lari5891  Most couples break up so fail at what you are suggesting? The majority of long-term relationships fail. Hell, 50% of marriages (the most formally committed of relationships) fail. Of the marriages that do not end in divorce, many are unhappy. It is absolutely objectively the case that most 'couples' do NOT develop value together. So please go with evidence, data, statistics etc. rather than waffling about ideals.
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  651.  @lari5891  I doubt you have a PhD in psychology because your writings are full of spelling and grammatical errors and you make illogical inferences and extrapolations that are not supported by data. No PhD would argue the way you do based on wrong data, incorrect inference and gross errors. You said "most couples develop value together". I pointed out that most LTRs fail, so it cannot be said that most 'couples' develop value together, taking LTRs as the designated example of 'couples'. Perhaps they develop some value in the short-term but as they fail, the value is questionable. I then took marriage as the pinnacle of 'couples', insofar as marriage represents the most formal and socially endorsed 'coupling' available. As 50% of these also fail, your assertion that 'most couples develop value together' must be wrong. LTRs plus marriage ending in break-up or divorce = most couples do NOT develop value together. You ask what does divorce have to do with that? Well, if a couple breaks up or divorces, then by definition the relationship has failed, therefore you cannot assert that most couples build value. Clearly, most do not. Most couples fail at building value. The divorce rates rise significantly the more the woman is educated. If a woman has a Batchelor's degree from college, she will be the one to initiate divorce in 90% of cases. You are dead wrong in asserting the divorce rate is 30% among the educated. The doctor is trying to speak to women about their relationship strategies. It is an uphill tasks because many women (like you) are incapable of drawing correct conclusions from data and concepts, instead you react emotionally because you don't like the facts. Admit it, you don't have a PhD in psychology. If you do, you got it from the university of delusion.
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  652.  @cyberreality7774  It's certainly easier.
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  653.  @sevinbamuels6560  I agree. Sounds like feminine cope. Some women come on Manosphere sites and leave comments larping as men.
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  654.  @biglinz9459  All wymmins support feminism when it benefits them. They don't care about the impact of feminism on others. So why should others care about wymmins when they have to deal with the logical consequences of feminism?
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  655.  @biglinz9459  I don't hate people, I am against hypocrisy. My first two sentences remain true (in general). Best wishes.
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  656. Women don't comment, especially when their pride is hurt, and when they do the intellectual level is very low.
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  657. And a reasonable excuse is "I didn't get the notification from the government", as the onus is on the government and the Australian Electoral Commission to prove you did indeed get such notification, which is impossible, as mailing such to your address is insufficient proof.
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  658. Data are not out yet..
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  659. As we are talking about broad social phenomena here, is it your thesis that the majority of heterosexual relationships are predicated on domestic abuse? If so, what is your position on psychological abuse vs. physical abuse, and what is the distribution of perpetrators vs. victims across the genders? Does resource exploitation without providing equivalent value in return constitute abuse and who does it? Are relationships a form of value exchange and has the value changed recently? If so, where has the change come from? Are we seeing a phenomenon under discussion here that in general men now perceive much less value in relationships and are addressing it by not participating? Do they have the right to do so?
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  660. That's what a lot of them are doing. They are dealing with their suffering. Yours is yet to come.
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  661. Thus te implication and reality is that the expectation of society and women that men approach first puts men in a weaker position. This is what women want and your point makes your post-hoc justification clear. Keep it up, and men will not bother approaching because the power relationship becomes skewed, by your own admission.
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  662. In general, men offer marriage, and have to be persuaded the benefits. This is increasingly not the case.
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  663. Women gathered, but men hunted. Primary protein is essential in childhood development, so hunting by men was essential. In case you missed it, women wanted their children to develop properly, and hunting is providing.
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  664. Hypergamy is off the scale in China where selective female infanticide has resulted in a hugely biased sex ratio with fewer women than men. Their reproductive rates have cratered.
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  665.  @alexisc7565  Oh no, relationships are doomed because there is uncertainty in life. Let the human race go extinct!How did our ancestors ever navigate the complexities of interpersonal dynamics? An impossible task. Best to give up.
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  666. Feminist has a huge misandrist element and your inability to acknowledge it suggests you are suffering from the same condition. Do some research for heaven's sake. Can you logic?
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  667. Hypergamy refers specifically to social status, not simply wanting the best. It is derived from anthropology. The desire by men for youth/fertility and other positive feminine attributes is well, well understood, however the corresponding hypergamy of females has been overlooked for decades. That is why it is now receiving more attention, as a corrective to the lop-sided views of feminism and gynocentrism. I would point out that female hypergamy is every bit as biologically based as the male equivalent, it goes to resource provisioning and protection from pre-caveman days. If women are to bear children, they need the help and support of the fittest males. Women also massively select on genetics as do men. There are countless studies proving this. One consequence is that women have a 'dual-mating' strategy that men do not, wherein they get pregnant to the most dominant males and get the more committed faithful type to help raise the ensuing progeny. Before you dismiss this, remember that non-paternity is huge and ever present, proven by DNA testing.
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  668. The NWO types have special means of extending their lifespan not available to you and me, like infusion of infant blood.
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  669.  @bobithasmitherson  It won't last for long. The moment any brain-dead NPC can do it it will be as common as the air we breathe, impossible to monetise, and everyone will become sick of it.
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  670.  @ericlarousse1149  In other words, you accept that women's goal is the resource exploitation of men. With 'equality', should that change?
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  671.  @toolegittoquit_001  Men want approval and love. Women want money, status, validation, attention, protection, ownership, lifestyle, freedom, entertainment, security, leisure, power and drama. And it's your fault if you don't provide it all.
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  672.  @laserus3333  So, another time, later. Maybe you are the one doing all the talking here...
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  673. The feminization of society. Honour and dignity are masculine virtues, foreign to wymmyns.
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