Comments by "Bill Petersen" (@billpetersen298) on "Soft White Underbelly" channel.

  1.  @jjm4611  The poor social workers. Here they are, with a prostitute mom, and dad just overdosed. No matter what, they don’t have much to work with.
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  2. It would be amazing, to see this girl, just totally drop the facade. To be long enough, in a safe, no judgement environment. Most of us, get stuck in boxes. It takes courage, to break out. I'm trying, and i'm just an ordinary guy.
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  3. Please don’t ever say this. To genuine couples, who can’t have children.
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  4. I so hope she gets over it. I don’t think, a person ever really does. This kind of betrayal, gets to the core of a person. My ex wife, was traumatized as an infant. By bowel surgery’s, and being left in hospital. 28 years together. Intimacy meant, being in the same space. Anything possibly sexual, was threatening. This kind of trauma, can ruin more than one life. I so hope this young lady, can find, and appreciate. Caring, and trustworthy, people in her life. It looks like she will.
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  5. Boy's don't cry. They grow up, wounded. No excuse, to mistreat your loved ones, or anyone else. I sure want to tell Shannon, she is beautiful, and give her a hug.
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  6. The joke here is, god did make us this way.
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  7. Kerry, that’s great to hear. ❤️
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  8.  @Mexicanita1904 I’m sorry for your loss, of a beautiful man.
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  9.  @Mexicanita1904  A real man, he was. My unconditional love, was from my grandmother. Mom was busy, with our tormented dad. It is so important, for grounding a young man. No matter how difficult, or challenging life can be. You rise to it, do the best you can, protect family and friends. While returning the core love, to everyone. To love yourself. I'm in my 60's, twice have married women, 25 yrs, and current. That love me, but are afraid to open themselves. They both are scared to reveal, their feminine passionate desire.  I married, to rescue my mom. Driven by, a foolish naive optimism. That I can heal, someone else's broken trust/heart.  All the best, love you.
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  10. Knowing what you know. You could be a great protector. And maybe a hell of a good dad.
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  11.  @alexmajors7915  I mean that. Those who have suffered the most pain, can go two ways. Broken and bitter, or appreciate how precious every day can be. While quick to spot a bad actor, and not afraid to do something about it.  Look at the survivors of the holocaust, Some were alive, but never lived again. Others became amazing psychologists, doctors, artists, musicians. Peace in your heart.
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  12. I’m in my 60’s. My grandma had the “best” stories. Back in the good old days. Mostly men, could get away with, a lot of very bad behaviour.
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  13. Or even if they failed, but you know they tried their best.
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  14. I wouldn’t encourage anyone, to go as far as she has. But I do admire her ability, to feel free, about her sexuality. I was married to the most beautiful, smart, capable, young woman ever. We had a great connection, and understanding. Except, she had three bowel surgeries, as an infant. Had an anxious mom, and a colostomy for much of that time, after six weeks old. Guess what? Everything was great for us, as long as we didn’t go beyond holding hands. Kissing and sex, was not safe, for her. We had a king size bed, so there was no excuse for touching. After 28 years together, I had extreme anxiety, and her, some kind of guilt. Everyone has a story.
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  15.  @aminaa7909  But not for us, to judge another person. Unless they are causing harm.
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  16. Please don’t say, divine intervention. Around couples, experiencing infertility.
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  17. My neighbour Jill, lived with her now deceased, disabled brother John. He couldn’t walk well, or say many words. I miss his good charm, and ready laugh.
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  18. A scared parent, creates a traumatized child. That then has difficulty being in society, or in relationships.
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  19. You need ID for alcohol, a licence to drive. But any mean broken a-hole, can have kids.
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  20. Forgiveness!!! What a twist. You can never forgive the actions, and thoughts, of the abuser. But you have to, to free yourself. The help professions, need people, like this young man.
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  21. Guys, look up containment. A man who takes responsibility for things. But only in a loving way, that would never harm, or putdown his wife and kids. In most cases, will have a partner, that feels secure. Myself and my best buddy, are relaxed easy going. Would be happy, wandering the world, with a pack on our backs. Kind of guys. Both of our wives, are uptight wound up control freaks. That push people away, including us. Because everything is a threat, nothing is safe. I’ve had to learn to take charge, and to speak up for what I want. Guess what, my wife is more relaxed, and happy to be with me. Going home is a good thing now.
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  22. She is such a good person. Why would god mistreat her, to this extent? It's not how i treat my loved ones, or anyone else.
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  23. To the people saying divine intervention. I get it. But please don’t say anything like that, around people experiencing infertility.
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  24. Even though, they are the classiest couple in the place. (Where do you keep, your wallet) ?
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  25. No woman would… My wife is always trying to get me to be with a younger desirable woman. Because she herself, has rejected her own sexuality. She is very uncomfortable when I look at her, as the most beautiful woman in the world. Trauma reveals itself, in many ways.
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  26. I don’t care what you worship. Or what you do in the bedroom. Rich or poor. Be a good parent, raise your kids with love.
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  27. Wait!! Did she say, prostitutes don't kiss? Guy's in sexless marriages, are mostly craving intimacy, and connection. Just learned something new.
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  28. Do the pro life crowd, know how much they could help? Are they aware of the need??
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  29.  @kimmore1681  All men? You hate the majority, that isn’t using other people, for their pleasure. The good dads, who look after their parents. Are also, in the bad people camp?
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  30.  @DonMyersOfficial Hi Don, I hear what you’re saying. It seems to me, that getting through difficulties and disfunction. “Always” affects our ability to be secure in our sexuality, and often with distraction control.
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  31. As a retiree, where is it safe, to keep stocks, and money. If anywhere?
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  32. I kept thinking. If he found a grounded confidence, in his school years. How he would have turned out. Grade 3-4 reading comprehension, to writing books as an adult.
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  33. ❤ahh the close loving Asian family❤️, myth. My wife grew up in China, with successful academic parents. The twist is, they lived through Mao tearing down the culture, the induced famines, etc. (the four olds). Then with the subsequent government controlling, thought,speech, free expression, religion. The only “safe place” is with family. But anything can happen there. I’m so glad to hear this young lady is working with children. May she find peace in her heart, joy, good boundaries, and accept safe relationships.
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  34. Control!! After watching the anorexic girl, determined to destroy herself. For control.
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