Comments by "Bill Petersen" (@billpetersen298) on "Divorce lawyer on open marriage | James Sexton and Lex Fridman" video.
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Good old, childhood trauma. My wife is convinced that intimacy, doesn’t need to go beyond the mind. Needing cuddles and sex, are about my unresolved issues, she says. To some extent, she is right.
We did try having another partner. When my energy was directed to the other person. My wife relaxed, and was nicer to be with.
But in the end, my feelings, the other person’s feelings, and attention were stretched.
So we didn’t continue.
Relationships are more complicated, than simple platitudes. Of do this, don’t do this, bad, good.
Life is a journey, to navigate, the best you can.
It’s not supposed to be easy.
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