Comments by "Bill Petersen" (@billpetersen298) on "Why People Cheat On You" video.

How is your dad doing now? We can be simple creatures. We will do all the necessary basic things, for our loved ones. Then we are shattered, for not being enough. I will work long hard days, for you. Shorten my life, break my body. All I ask in return, is for you all to thrive, your quiet appreciation, and some affection.
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If we can just learn to be open and vulnerable to our partners. Actually understanding ourselves well enough, to know our desires, and triggers. We don’t understand our childhood trauma. Created by our parents, and their parents. When we are young, 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, ect, these feelings are so urgent, desperate, confusing. Yes be married to someone. Fight for them, and yourself, we are all capable of real love. It may take a lifetime, or two, or three, it’s the journey.
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Society is so unforgiving of adultery. Why can’t we ask, why are you acting out? This is against everyone’s best interest, and you know it. But you do it anyway. Let us heal together. Especially the avoidant personality, that wants real connection, but is scared of it. So make’s sure, it doesn’t succeed.
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@roses6564 How long is the list of “important things”? Still sounds like failure. We all are weak, we all fail. As long as both partners, want the best for each other, it’s a win.
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