Comments by "Bill Petersen" (@billpetersen298) on "Entrepreneurs in Cars" channel.

  1. Thanks Ted, for the fresh application of salt.
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  2. Being married twice, to women, who was, and is, very uncomfortable with sex. A lady that can express herself, is very appealing.
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  3. Hopefully she learned, from your honesty.
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  4. The other problem, is if you didn’t have any affection, for many years. Shared a bed, but felt alone. It’s like a drowning person, finding something to grab onto.
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  5. I hear you on one level. If you’re looking after the home, and kids. You don’t want a baby-man, who is still playing video games. There’s a lot of those out there. It’s a two way street. If both parties put more that their share, into a relationship, it has a chance of working. Fruit roll ups! Are we taking to, 14yr olds here?
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  6. I’ll chime in with the just over 60 guys. That windshield has a lot of guys on it too, not just the ladies. I have friends, who are over weight, have has serious health issues. We aren’t all, pretty either. At any age, if a person is healthy, charming, has a good attitude. They are gorgeous. It’s in the eyes, the smile.
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  7. Too funny. The ladies are chasing the guy, who looks like success. While ignoring the grounded, modest guy, who has it all.
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  8. A really low count, can be a problem too. If your wife experienced trauma, or abuse. It can be, decades of loneliness.
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  9. If your friend, is still healthy, has a clear mind, it's not too late. He could still have a good 20 years, before declining. Encourage him, to get out there, join an interest/activity club.
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  10.  @LA-wv7gf  Sounds like, you’re a keeper. I’ve married twice, 25years, and now for 10. Both times, to women who can’t get over their anger. And are uncomfortable with intimacy, looking you in the eyes, kissing, etc. My mistake, is I can see the potential, in a person. The good things. With love and trust, they may come out of their shell. Three therapists a week, didn’t help my ex.
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  11. Mainland Chinese, Not Taiwanese, typically have a, what's my advantage, mindset. The Mao era, tore up their culture, and families. Then under Communism, they can't talk politics or religion, and are under surveillance. Some have broken free. But many are hyper vigilant, me me me. I married one, looking for the mirage, of traditional values.
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  12. Haha, my ex wife of 25 years. Was seeing three therapists a week. It never helped, because she refused to talk about anything sexual.
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  13.  @3Hose  Wesley, this was over 40 years ago. We were young, she was as pretty as any 19yr old can be. Smart, thrifty, and physically fit. I didn’t know what a red flag was, in my idealistic head. She had many bowel surgeries, starting at 6 weeks old. I could see a tiger in there. But she was scared, and not trusting, of physical contact, intimacy. We were good friends. Surely, being a steady safe partner. She would feel safe enough, to come out of her shell. There were a few glimpses of brilliance, when she forgot to be vigilant. Enough to keep me hanging onto a thread, for 28 years together. My anxiety got so bad, in the end. That she finally let me go. I would have too, I was a sleepless, face picking disaster. Fool that I am, I still love her. But life is better now. Not mirroring, her anxiety.
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  14.  @3Hose  Half a lifetime, to see straight.
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  15. Are there still, ethnicities-nationality types, that still predominantly have the mind set, where you look after each other?
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  16. Strange world. Your'e looking for, contentious, reliable, hard working, fair, honest, sharing, loyal? Ha Ha, it's the other fellas.
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  17. She was sincere, and seemingly open to debate. Respect, goes a long way, in dialogue. Same with politics, these days.
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  18. My long deceased grandmother. Would say “young people these days”etc. Then I would ask her to tell her stories, from the good old days. Things are better now, than being locked in the root cellar, for things your brothers did. Giving your sister a home abortion, because your husband was raping her. Being abused, because she kept having girls. Having a husband who didn’t come home, till all the money was spent. She outlived him, by many years. And, was to the end, a very loving generous person. I believe in loyalty, but grandpa didn’t deserve, any.
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  19. @JustAGuy InBensalem Not really, when you have a heart attack, you’re gone.
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  20. Resistant? Try Chinese. My Chinese born wife. Can’t do subtle in anything. I’m not complaining, it’s cute once you get what’s going on.
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  21. Looking good is a small % of a long term relationship. You can’t beat a mature, loving, generous, warm hearted person. Who isn’t playing the game. Chase a peacock, get a narcissist.
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