Comments by "Shalanaya" (@Shalanaya) on "Joe Rogan | "Toxic Masculinity" is a Dumb Phrase" video.
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Oh yea toxic masculinity does exist, but paradox is that you're not supposed to define it, you can only feel it whether it loses its balanced center of the consciousness and emotional body, that's what many spiritual practices are for to eradicate this toxicity of male energy within our body state, and it takes practice. Toxic masculinity or feminity is when one energetic component of masculinity or feminity gets to either extreme, male who has problems with feminine aspects (perfectly reflected when they face transgender MTF for instance) is toxic, just like a female who is uncomfortable with masculine aspects, including on themselves, when they grow more masculine, and the same for men when they get more feminine, whatever we experience, see, smell, touch or hear reflects back to us how and what we feel when we are losing what we were socially, genetically and karmically programmed to be, masculine or feminine, if we lose it and embrace the balance or whatever happens, we are reaching a true spiritual and emotional heath, the toxicity disappears naturally and it is felt when we interact with people. Saying and feeling things like some men are pussies is understandably toxic and unhealthy, one has to keep in mind that no one is pure man or woman, some men are physiologically more female, for example based on science the trans people have a physiological structure of the brain that only women have and not men. This internal balance is what it is all about, that is a stable, powerful, mature and strong masculinity because it welcomes feminity within itself (and it doesn't matter whether one dresses up in women's clothes) as well as outside in the world (when they interact with other people, they have no problems with femin ine men). As within so without. That's the power, secure, self confident, in self control and fully aware of themselves, that is the masculinity that is attractive. Only feminine energy can truly reveal whether the man is still insecure, if it is still there, you still have work to do on yourself.
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Yes it is, it is based on psychological studies, not just spiritual practices, it has nothing to do with a choice not to have a sex with trans people, it is fully just about emotional feeling. Anyone who "feels" uncomfortable or uneasy about any sexual expression reflects back the individual's insecure psychological state of mind, in that case it is always understood that the problem is within you, not somewhere else, there's no other, the emotional response to the "other" reflects only our selves. Masculinity has no rooting, no stability if it can not be in the presence of a different sexuality, it merely reflects back to how deeply insecure and immature the man is in their own sexuality. It is woo woo nothing only to those who don't understand spiritual physics, or don't care, which is perfectly fine in itself. PS: heterosexual man having a sex with trans woman with an inside out penis makes one technically heterosexual, because sexual characteristics are changed for a trans person, chemical body is changed, only not all anatomy, the word heterosexual implies spontaneous sexual response of the body to another based on the chemical design, not the DNA under a microscope. I hope that helped to shed some light on this subject matter. Have a nice day.
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It is toxic to someone else, don't you understand! I just come here again only to monstrate or confirm to all those reading this thread and myself how toxic in its energy it is, when someone asks someone else not to bother them, not to write to them, and they don't respect that and still write to them, they're violating their own personal boundaries. They have problems beyond their own simple comprehension, their kindness to themselves as well as others, lack of self love, conditional love, unhealed trauma, psychic vampirism. It adds one thing to another to create the whole picture of a personality. You're not willing to learn about this, because your energy does not allow you to receive it, you'd have to come to me from a different vibration or state of mind, you don't deserve my attention any further.
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Oh yes of course toxic masculinity does exist, but paradox is that you're not supposed to define it, you can only feel it whether it loses its balanced center of the consciousness and emotional body, that's what many spiritual practices are for to eradicate this toxicity of male energy within our body state, and it takes practice. Toxic masculinity or feminity is when one energetic component of masculinity or feminity gets to either extreme, male who has problems with feminine aspects (perfectly reflected when they face transgender MTF) is toxic, just like a female who is uncomfortable with masculine aspects, including on themselves, when they grow more masculine, and the same for men when they get more feminine, whatever we experience, see, smell, touch or hear reflects back to us how and what we feel when we are losing what we were socially, genetically and karmically programmed to be, masculine or feminine, if we lose it and embrace the balance or whatever happens, we are reaching a true spiritual and emotional heath, the toxicity disappears naturally and it is felt when we interact with people. Saying and feeling things like some men are pussies is understandably toxic and unhealthy, one has to keep in mind that no one is pure man or woman, some men are physiologically more female, for example based on science the trans people have a physiological structure of the brain that only women have and not men. This internal balance is what it is all about, that is a stable, powerful, mature and strong masculinity because it welcomes feminity within itself (and it doesn't matter whether one dresses up in women's clothes) as well as outside in the world (when they interact with other people, they have no problems with femin ine men). As within so without. That's the power, secure, self confident, in self control and fully aware of themselves, that is the masculinity that is attractive. Only feminine energy can truly reveal whether the man is still insecure, if it is still there, you still have work to do on yourself.
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@joeodonnell921 :!: I love Terence, yes true, however I don't know how it pertains to this subject matter, I believe McKenna was aware of the toxicity of masculinty and feminity, I see it as a side effect of the disconnection from our divine that contains male/female energies in equalibrium, in harmony, and that this disconnection has been prevalent for centuries. Feminizing is already happening in nature though, among animals, it is part of mother nature awakening, it is Goddess, a female energy that's been dormant, it is finding the way back in, and somehow violently too (through toxic products and other various elements), but in a greater picture, it is also coming back quite naturally along with learning values of empathy and opening our hearts. I guess good healthy feminine energy comes when we work on it consciously. (I think the reason there's more talk about "toxic masculinty", because it has been usually the more dominant and also the more insecure side of us, it's used against people more easily.)
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