Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "48 Hours"
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In all fairness, to be loved you really need to offer love. Otherwise you're driving a very unfair bargain. She wasn't offering love. She was offering manipulation, gaslighting and selfishness.
If she 'loved' her killer she certainly wouldn't have been manipulating him, lying to him, gaslighting him, goading him etc etc.
As a society we're dishonest about a lot of female behaviour and motives.
At the end of the day, women are just as flawed and as ill behaved as men. We have no trouble accepting the reality of men's poor behaviour, however we're completely deceptive and dishonest about female poor behaviour. We prefer to think of women as innocent and pristine perennial victims (nb it's women who peddle this narrative the most, despite it being women who are most aware of female nature).
This does untold damage to the men's lives it affects.
The young lady in the video was a baby trapper. She was determined to manipulate the killer into a relationship/future he clearly didn't want.
When a man does this we call it coercive control. Women can virtually get off with murdering a man now if they can prove coercive control. When a woman does it however we do not forgive the man, instead we deludedly call her an innocent victim.
The internet is (thankfully) showing us a clearer, more balanced view of the world.
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In all fairness, to be loved you really need to offer love. Otherwise you're driving a very unfair bargain. She wasn't offering love. She was offering manipulation, gaslighting and selfishness.
If she 'loved' her killer she certainly wouldn't have been manipulating him, lying to him, gaslighting him, goading him etc etc.
As a society we're dishonest about a lot of female behaviour and motives.
At the end of the day, women are just as flawed and as ill behaved as men. We have no trouble accepting the reality of men's poor behaviour, however we're completely deceptive and dishonest about female poor behaviour. We prefer to think of women as innocent and pristine perennial victims (nb it's women who peddle this narrative the most, despite it being women who are most aware of female nature).
This does untold damage to the men's lives it affects.
The young lady in the video was a baby trapper. She was determined to manipulate the killer into a relationship/future he clearly didn't want.
When a man does this we call it coercive control. Women can virtually get off with murdering a man now if they can prove coercive control. When a woman does it however we do not forgive the man, instead we deludedly call her an innocent victim.
The internet is (thankfully) showing us a clearer, more balanced view of the world.
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